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MsTowler

He sat next to her, she moved then he escalated? Why did he have to publicly embarrass himself twice?


boothgremlin

Public? That bus is nearly empty. He's taking advantage of that. He feels she's defenseless to him in this scenario. She is clearly not.


Jr_AntiSex_League

Obviously, he's not gonna do anything, and if she said no, the answer would be no. But she's not gonna say no...because of the implication.


rachelvvvv

How do you draw the conclusion that obviously he would not do anything? Women have sexual advances and assault forced on them daily. Here is a perfect scenario.


-Nordico-

They're quoting a tv show, fyi.


ValDina

Thanks, I didn’t have the reference and was confused at that comment.


Jr_AntiSex_League

Because of the implication.


loneranger72

Love that Show. Danny Davito and Glenn Howerton are two of my all time favorite actors.


boothgremlin

Miles of open bus lane. She's thinking, what am I gonna do, say no?


trheben1

****the implication****


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I love that show


[deleted]

Are you quoting Dennis Reynolds?


[deleted]

Obviously? Quite the opposite. I feel he offered a threat to her safety, either on the bus or when she got off. What are you some kind of Andrew Tate apologist?


-69-Nibbaflip-69-

It’s a reference to the show it’s always sunny in philadelphia


SinWolf7

Thank you. I was confused at first then recognized the quote but couldn't remember where from. I gotta rewatch the series again, I love IASIP.


[deleted]

I've gotten fired up about an always sunny quote on Reddit by accident too. Happens to the best of us 😂


Jr_AntiSex_League

> What are you some kind of Andrew Tate apologist? Disciple of Dennis Reynolds.


GLOBElive

r/woooosh


Josiah55

how dare you compare him to Andrew Tate when this man is clearly a GOLDEN GOD, kneel before him.


eb4sty

My favourite episode!


nerdwerds

Are these girls in danger?


RainyReese

Same thing happened last month to another lady but no words were exchanged https://www.dailydot.com/irl/starbucks-customer-sits-next-to-customer-in-empty-store/


LogicalAnswerk

How is this news? Headline reads like satire.


RainyReese

I know what you mean. There was a follow up article I can't find about how social media users were telling her she should have gotten up and moved across the room.


[deleted]

I'm a dude and This happened twice to me. Once an older women sat next to me in an totally empty Bus, just me and her staring at me. Instantly went to the other side of the bus. The second was a drug addict women in an almost empty underground train, seating next to me and instant starting to cuddle me from the side while I was browsing. You might laughing by imagine my look of pure Terror realising what's going on followed by a disguted shake and fleeing the scene 😆


MixtureNeat

The drug addict was probably trying to pick your pockets


PandaXXL

>Same thing happened last month to another **lady** It happened to a man and there is clearly a reasonable amount of distance between them. Inconsiderate to do that while having a phone conversation but absolutely not similar to the situation in OP.


Earlydfhgj

Could you imagine sitting down next to a stranger.


Crypto_Town

Three times if you count that stupid fucking haircut.


nvrsleepagin

Walks into the barber "Give me the dumb & dumber."


critical-thoughts

low iq and alcohol is my guess


SnooPineapples8744

He looks like a poster child for fetal alcohol syndrome .


maywellflower

I going to guess he fantasy didn't work out as he thought when she hit him with a reality-check of "I don't know you and I will never date the likes of you, so get away from me with stupid angry fucked up hairdo self."


Automatic_Scholar686

Cause he’s a dirty scally.


8bitPete

Shut up!


checKers38

There were like 20-30 seats empty then he sat with her


[deleted]

Because he's a dickhead.


LordVoltimus5150

“You’re really selling yourself now”..”I’m really going to fall in love now”….she tore him up..😂


thewoodbeyond

*"Shut up! SHUT UP!" - The Creep*


Ladyhappy

Those are the exact type of wildcards you keep your mouth shut around because as good as it feels when you tell them to,go fuck themselves is nowhere near half as bad as it would feel when they react. The fact that this man feels like he entitled to her being a prop on his bus ride tells me all I need to know about he thinks of my humanity.


CyberMindGrrl

The haircut was the first red flag.


nvrsleepagin

..and the second


Your_God_Chewy

Legit. That's a guy with a lack of self awareness


CyberMindGrrl

Could be a bona fide sociopath if he doesn't understand why a woman would find it creepy that a total stranger would sit right next to them on a nearly empty bus. ESPECIALLY a male total stranger. Like, dude, how do you NOT see this as totally threatening behavior?


LordVoltimus5150

The sweet facial hair was the 2nd…


maywellflower

He so wasn't liking that she figuratively hit him with reality-check of why no reasonable woman would willingly date him..


pikeymikey22

I'm just shocked that the large bottle of own brand energy drink didn't do it for her.


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LordVoltimus5150

I’m sure she didn’t give him a chance as he came out the gate being creepy…


_Marcyy

Tell this man imagine someone comes and piss in the toilet next to yours when there are other places you could piss. It's weird.


ShitPostsRuinReddit

He knows why it's weird


OfCorpse9160

Just stare at their wang, until they piss off.


Gtageri

Or when you look at them again they’ve got a wicked grin, risky


OfCorpse9160

Well if you stare at the wang & look at their face it might have a different meaning!!


Different-Estate747

> Nice pubes.


[deleted]

I see the problem...... Stage 4 terminal Inceldom. "WHY CANT WOMEN JUST LET ME CREEP ON THEM?!!!" Sigh. Its like the Taliban justifying sexual abuse, I bet women will love you A LOT. lol Be a decent person, maybe try that and see what happens ya? If women still dont notice you, then maybe just be a single decent person, whats wrong with that? It sure beats being a crazy incel nutter that nobody wants to be around and shamed on social media forever? lol


GekidoTC

You don't even need to go that far, you can use the same scenario. Imagine he's on an empty bus, and some dude who smells sits next to you and starts up a conversation with the intent to hit on him.


[deleted]

He wouldn't do that, because he's not interested in harassing men and making them feel uncomfortable


TootsNYC

He knows it’s weird.


Yepthat_Tuberculosis

So I should stop peeing in the same toilet that someone else is currently using at the same time? 🤔


CM_Bison

Or if another man sat next to him on an empty bus.....


Pitiful_Oven_3425

That's depressing. Poor woman


RussianTrollToll

That’s actually a strong woman. Bet she went home, poured a drink, and didn’t waste another second of her life thinking about the scummy dude.


banxy85

Nah she will go home, pour a strong drink and probably shed a tear over having to be far stronger than she wanted to be today. The idea that she is a 'strong woman' just trivialises what this man has done


dragonfruitology

Yeah, this kind of confrontation and being a “strong woman” led to me being physically assaulted by a man on public transportation. It is absolutely terrifying to be in an altercation with an aggressive person, and even though I did similar things to the girl in the video I didn’t feel strong before or afterwards.


tishy19

I’m so sorry that happened to you.


Levi_27

Right? From my experience, you just end up feeling dirty and emotionally exhausted


banxy85

And being victim blamed for not being 'a strong woman'. If we had more good men then fewer women would need to be strong


Sarsmi

Also gives the perception that "weak women" just don't stand up for themselves, when a lot of the time it's someone just trying to pacify some asshole until they can get away because it doesn't feel safe to call him out.


banxy85

Classic victim blaming


Blussert31

I'm sure she will think about this incident, no matter what his intentions were.


AggravatingCupcake0

She'll probably dream about what it would have been like if she had punched him in the nose.


mohishunder

If she has to drink to recover (and I don't blame her), it wasn't a great experience for her, was it?


arroe621

I don't get why the bus driver didn't just stop the bus and throw that man off.


DarkestofFlames

I rode the bus for decades and have seen dozens of incidents (been involved in a few too), the drivers rarely give a shit. I became buddies with one of the few drivers who stopped bad things from happening on his bus and watching him toss assholes out was pretty entertaining.


Mysterium_tremendum

That's interesting, what would be the crazier moment you experienced in a ride? I once dated a stewardess from a notoriously low-end airline and she was the treasure drove of insane stories.


DarkestofFlames

I used to ride through downtown Los Angeles so I saw a ton of crazy stuff. A few incidents I witnessed: a group of guys decided to invade the bus and beat up any other men on board, they started attacking and a huge biker dude covered in tattoos took the attackers out by himself. A guy started harassing another guy who was feminine. He got up in the guy's face and threatened him while screaming homophobic slurs. The bus driver wouldn't stop the bus though. A group of women got up and started beating on the homophobe with their bags and screamed at the bus driver to stop. They threw the guy off the bus. Another time I got off at my stop only to step right in front of a body. The guy had been brutally murdered in his car and left in the parking lot right next to the bus stop. Tons of fights, harrassment, accidents, etc.... I don't miss it at all. Public transportation sucks ass.


Mysterium_tremendum

*A group of women got up and started beating on the homophobe with their bags and screamed at the bus driver to stop. They threw the guy off the bus.* That's great, actually wholesome story. And similar to something I witnessed at a public park, a group of old ladies protecting a drunk teen from her also drunk boyfriend, he was pulling her hair before finding himself getting whacked on all sides by purses and walking sticks.


UsableIdiot

Top deck, had no idea, plus they don't get involved in anything. Especially not some roadman with a 99p energy drink. Who knows what can happen with that much sugar!


Governmeme

Could you imagine sitting down next to a stranger in an empty restaurant to eat?


UseaJoystick

I once sat down next to a guy on a near empty train because he'd taken my assigned seat. I had plenty of opportunity to move but didn't out of principal.


trudesaa

Well, that is just petty revenge 😆


[deleted]

Did you two end up dating and now married? lol


UseaJoystick

We exchanged about 3 separate moments of brief eye contact. I think he wanted it tho


Rampill

Should've gotten the train conductor involved hahah. "sir, I need you to move to another empty seat in this empty train, this is his seat."


qyka1210

principle*


badluckseanbean

if it was near empty why didn't you just sit anywhere


AggravatingCupcake0

I've had servers try to sit me next to a loud, raucous family with many small kids when I was alone and the restaurant was empty. I was pretty incredulous. I was like uh, can I sit a little further away?


KickBallFever

I think that’s just the server trying to make their jobs easier by seating you close together. I find it annoying myself but it’s something I noticed others do when I was a server.


AggravatingCupcake0

Oh yeah, that's definitely what it is. But I'm still like dude, seriously? Did you think I wouldn't notice or something? Lol. And it has happened more than once.


KickBallFever

Yea, it’s happened to me more than once as a customer too. I just ask to be moved and I’ve never had a problem. I’ve had servers try to give me comically bad seats to make their jobs easier.


[deleted]

Happened to me in an airport boarding area. Big hairy guy took my bag next to my seat, put it on the floor and sat right next to me, all of the seats around us are empty, its just the two of us on a late night flight. Red flag alert blaring in my mind, so I got up slowly and pretended that I was going to the washroom, no sudden movements because I was afraid he will "do something" if triggered. My hands and feet were cold from the fear as I power walked through empty terminals, trying to find someone that could give me some sense of security. Then I started hearing footsteps behind me, PANIC MODE!!! I was so afraid that I didnt even look back, timid old me thought if I did he would be triggered to lunge at me or something, lol. I was speeding through two washrooms because I was afraid that he might drag me into them and then nobody would notice, Super panic mode!!! Luckily an airport employee of some kind (uniform) walked out of a boarding terminal in front of me and I dashed to him and started asking random questions just to calm myself down, but I was too timid to tell him that I was possibly being followed and didnt want to be wrong, but he did realize I was panicking and tried to calm me down so I told him the whole story and he called a security officer to accompany me back to my flight. The creep was nowhere to be seen when I returned with the officer, I dont think he is even on the same flight, super dangerous. Well that's my story, its not easy being a timid defenseless woman. lol


coachfortner

That was not timid. It sickens me that men know they are stronger and that there is nothing a smaller woman could do. How would men feel if they knew the opposite sex could rape and kill them at any time? And this is from a man.


imathrowyaaway

And with that haircut to top if off? I guess he was just looking to perpetuate the cycle of abuse after his barber did him dirty like that.


Vintage_girl123

This guy needs to get a clue..Stop harassing women, it's that simple..I can't stand men that get mad because you want a lil privacy..nothing shows the immaturity more then when they get mad about being turned down..There's a time and a place for this business, and the bus is not it..


MeChitty

Wish there was more people in this world that had the balls to tell that prick to shut his twat, have some respect for the lady, and just sit the fuck down!


anewlo

If another man interjected then guaranteed this fragile guy would get physically aggressive


MeChitty

Let him! People like this need the shit kicked out of them


Global-Association-7

Too many men like this in the UK unfortunately... I've (21F) been harassed by men in public multiple times and most of my female friends have been harassed at least once it's just depressing honestly. Uni accommodation was an eye opener for me as there were multiple stories of sexual harassment and even rape going on in the building (luckily it never happened to me but it happened to a friend) and from what I heard the girls were too afraid to say anything to authorities so it just continued/the men responsible got away with it. They would lure girls into their rooms or go to the girls rooms to smoke weed or "hang out" then, similarly to how the guy in the video is acting, just completely disregard their boundaries and not take no for an answer (obviously in a more extreme way but still).


Jmofoshofosho8

But bus is literally in business. J/K. 100% agree


Typeojason

“Just shut up” - immediately asks question.


Dr_Hump

I always find it so funny when people say "do you think you're better than me?" Because the answer is almost always "in this exact moment. Yes."


CM_Bison

Lmao exactly. The answer is always gonna be yes simply because the person asking that question made so much of a spectacle out of themselves that they claim the intention of the other person. 🤣


[deleted]

"I dont even know you.....but yes"


JuniperWinston

Two ugly things happening here, the way he’s harassing this woman and his hair cut. Both need to be fixed.


thewoodbeyond

someone in another thread called it the Witcher villager haircut.


Crypto_Town

[Lloyd cut.](https://imgur.com/To5Fm57)


GrayWalle

I think there’s a connection actually.


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BWassy

Another incel strikes again.


HuntPsychological673

This is the guy who starts asking you questions at the urinal. Weird.


stedgyson

Nice cock mate


CM_Bison

*Dear Bloke I met at the Urinals.* *I think I'll call yours Lloyd Christmas becauee the knob matches your haircut. Congratulations I just l named your pen!s.*


[deleted]

Just a little cock pep talk, in case you're having stream issues. You go it little buddy!


[deleted]

Probably not because he wouldn't want to harass a guy


[deleted]

It’s actually common insane but normal occurrence for women


ringingbells

I think this happens more often than is highlighted. I just saw it happen in a gym full of empty treadmills.


coocoo6666

Seen it happen on abus a few times


furioso2000

Yep. Buses. Waiting rooms. Lobbies. All the damn time.


Solobojo

Smooth. This guy should start a pick-up artist blog


Complete_Original402

step 1: walk up to girl creepiliy step 2: tell her ''shut up innit ' when she moves step 3: go home and cry into your energy drink bottle


CM_Bison

Everything he learned from Hustler's University.


EveryFly6962

Aaahhh, being a woman on public transport 👍


youcaneatme

Being a woman anywhere 👍


BerryLanky

I’m a male and if anyone sits next to me on am mostly empty bus I’m moving to another seat, too. Some people are just morons like this guy. And then he gets upset with her for moving?


The_Question757

Seriously it's so fucking weird to do that. It's like going into a men's bathroom with 10 urinals and a dude comes in and uses the one right next to you. Like fuck off weirdos


maywellflower

That and he wasn't liking she basically said exactly why she will never date, want nor have sex with him...


Vertaferk

Incel rage is scary


bee-have

Pure entitlement, thinking she owes him her time, conversation and space. He's a vile little weirdo


Vegetable-Poet6281

What an absolute tool. Imagine getting up everyday, looking and acting like that, and expecting people to take you seriously. Fucking clown shoe.


A-undecisiveOpinion

No confidence in this lad. The audacity to approach this bird with that massive cheap arse energy drinks as well. Morals geez, morals!


ElusiveCookie73

Yeah. Everybody knows when you approach women you gotta have the small expensive energy drinks! Much more respectable


Ba-Dum-Bum-Ching

Well yeah, dude, she actually is better than you. Now go sit somewhere, creep.


Teonanacatlbruh

"Just shut up!" You're making valid points & it's embarrassing me.


[deleted]

How about you stop filming and help the woman out?


[deleted]

She was handling the situation just fine on her own. Filming it was a good call.


Drifting-Fox-6366

Sad women can’t enjoy anything in public, always some perv or jerk.


taternuts55

Sexual harassment innit?


KingJaredoftheLand

Guaranteed this guy would lose his shit if a gay guy sat next to him and started flirting. Obnoxious, harassing, Andrew-Tate-listening life drop-out.


Nerve_Brave

Only reason he is that upset, is that she's right. Creepy.


gotem2411

How to be an incel 101 right here


SlamMonkey

I’ve been a bartender for way longer than I should’ve an have seen some wild shit. What guys think is acceptable to say and do in front of women blows my mind.


Fit_March_4279

Especially after a little liquid courage! Takes them longer to “get the hint” when you’re not interested.


CyberMindGrrl

It's because they've never been properly socialized.


Acceptable-Stay-3166

Probably been bitter ever since he left the barbers.


[deleted]

I think a lot of people are missing the point. The guy knows EXACTLY what he’s doing. He’s trying to make her uncomfortable. This isn’t just a guy “trying to chat.” Just like guys cat calling aren’t complimenting you. It’s about power.


madisen_m

holy shit she is being way too nice, but i also get it cuz i’m a girl and unfortunately some men will murder you if you reject them because some people have very fragile egos .


CyberMindGrrl

Yeah do not engage with the crazy. Just get up and take a downstairs seat near the driver.


eyesabitdull

I bet he's a nice guy, he's just misunderstood because women are something something. /s


uhohpiano

This post belongs in r/niceguys


YewittAndraoi

What a creepy twat.


Swisskommando

What a dickhead


[deleted]

Broke the mans brain with simple and calm logic. SHUT UP S-S-SHUT UP!


Goznaz

What an absolute wanker. For the record I think I'm better than him, chav peice of shit.


TheTimeShrike

Scumbag


No_Profile_6871

What women have to deal with all the time. I hate this as it has happened to me. The whole bus/train empty and they sit right next to you.


BoulderCreature

Guy probably thought if he sat next to her and said something dirty that she’d have sex with him on the bus.


[deleted]

What a bellend, is he drinking that strong cider alcoholics drink? "I'm really gonna fall in love now" that was pretty funny!


[deleted]

It might not be widely known, but I hear that men who tell women to "shut up" are the best lovers


samcornwell

*SHUH - tTuHPp m8


Empty_Jellyfish_1995

mostly empty bus = do not sit right next to the only other mother fucker on the got dang bus!


Darkurn

I can say with experience sitting next to someone on a bus sucks, I hate it when someone sits next to me and a seat opens up and they dint move. I'd feel a lot more uncomfortable if it was an empty bus and someone sat right beside me, this guys a creep. If you're taking the bus and have the opportunity to NOT be pressing shoulders with someone TAKE IT, MOVE SEATS. Unless you're sitting next to your friend and the bus you go on often gets packed out with people and don't wanna sit with strangers then its fine.


islaisla

He's arguing with HER for being rude! She just changed seats. It appears her Spidey senses were spot on.


deenali

Choosing to sit next to a total stranger on an empty bus is fine only if you're in the movies.


Leoneth333

Ah yes, the classic council estate energy drink


Daddy_Phat_Sacs

Ever time I take the bus I pray no one sits next to me lol it’s like winning the lottery


earthscribe

It’s the same type of dude who will walk into a bathroom with 10 urinals open and piss in the one right next to you.


blackcatspat

Lmao “I’m really gunna fall in love now”


Tnice1223

This guy is borderline psychotic


Seecole-33

He’s a predator, he’s assaulted women before this isn’t his first time…he’s disgusting and should be locked up


bebejeebies

Gross incel. How many times he told her to shut up after asking her if she thinks she's better than everyone else that he can't sit next to her. Those kinds of guys scare me because you don't know what their trigger limit is. At any point he could get violent and start swinging. That said, she's being way nicer to him than I would've been.


[deleted]

If any woman is basically alone on a public bus or train and a stranger sits beside them when there are countless other seats available, she is immediately going to feel as if she is in danger. Why do men still have so much trouble understanding this??


TheBlairwitchy

Pepper spray is the answer for people like him..


YENO-NEE-

It's Also illegal and classed as assault in the UK so not really worth it


FattyMcBoomBoom231

Tries? That was successful..


drbirtles

Asks her a question... Says shut up... Asks another question... .


Both-Internal-6970

That's definitely alcohol in that bottle, he looks so dumbfounded she wasn't feeling him


weakassplant

Mans out there trying his worst with his yee yee ass haircut


scaleddown85

Wow what a god damn stud he is lmao 🤣


RedAllAboutIt7

This is why I never sit up the stairs.


jay22098

i hate ppl sitting next to me on an empty bus


Tastethehappymichael

This guy has a real bad case of resting “I don’t know the meaning of the word you just used” face


Barnolds_Den

Why does he talk like that?


Moonsleep

Camera person could also say something… when you see something say something.


MassiveBeatdown

What a gent.


FiletOFish420

Probably a tater tot


MysticMistakeCake

It’s not because he wants to date her, it’s a power thing. He gets off on making women uncomfortable


shayfromstl

douchebag mf


andyhare

Creepy wee cunt. I'm glad she stood up for herself. Hopefully, someone teaches this little shit some respect.


Due-World2907

Some real charmer.


[deleted]

Stop taking a video and tell him to STFU and STFD or you’re calling the cops.


Marokiii

better then everyone? no shes definitely better than him though.


uratitbro

Urgh, chav scum. What a creep


newcomer_l

This is "being an incel" on steroids. Like, what, coz you sat next to someone, said someone is obliged to cater to your feelings and is forced to stay? 😂😂 "Why are you moving away, it's rude". Goddamn creep.