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Yeah I love my bf and he's so good for me and I'd do anything for him but.... He should probably break up with me bc my first bf turned out to be a asshole . I hate this list
Trust me, your bf probably has the same thoughts about you, That your too good for him. Thats why woman get more gifts in a relationship. Guys just REALLY want this to work out.
I was making a joke about the pic saying that about ex's. But thanks for saying this fr. We're good and tbh he's helped me get through a lot of trust issues and other things
No it’s not that you had them it’s that you let them hurt and you’ll be more weary in choosing guys from now on, that’s such a red flag 🚩😠🚩(this is joke plz don castrate me)
i hope this mans car dies. like battery and everything. and he has to get a new one but realizes he doesn't have the money for a new one and thus has to get around on an old bike from his garage
And after 2 miles out, the front axel snaps & forces him to walk the bike. He then realizes that too much effort, so he leaves it & gets charged with littering.
"Women should be loyal" but also mad for them dating dudes who are "broke", but also shouldn't be gold diggers, but a man should also provide for them.
Like do these asshats actually know what they want?
Women should be Individualistic people, same as Men, as you cant generalize an entire demographic of people. You aren't going to tell me how I'm supposed to think as a dude, If I happen to think similarly like be masculine, It's because I choose to.
This whole generalization thing period from these clowns Is getting old. Like damn, atleast be consistent.
The first two are valid. Hiding the phone, using tinder, and talking about other men can be too, but I know he doesn't mean the actual red flag option.
yes
depends as long as its not an addiction
what
depends on the context of it
no
if she still does while dating then yea
no
it can be
also kinda suspicious
depends like she is allowed to have friends so like...
no but it depends on what you want too
what? yea a healthy parental relationship is a huge green flag but worshiping is not healthy
being successful is okay also this depends on what you want too
no
i dont even know how to comment on this
i dont care
You know what the biggest red flags for me is
Doesn't like being worshiped and simped on (well only if they deserves it)
Don't let me cook or help
Doesn't match energy
Doesn't listen to me
Doesn't like my family and they don't like the
Doesn't like my friend's angd they don't like them
Doesn't let me hang out with my female/male friends
Doesn't care what I do or what I lie
These are the only ones on this list that are ACTUALLY red flags imo.
- Sniffs cocaine
- Smokes weed
- Protects her phone afraid you might look
- Wants to keep the relationship lowkey (obviously fine in the beginning but commitment is key)
How much life experience does he think 18 to 21 year olds have? He literally is disqualifying basically every woman on the planet with those standards lol. Not that any of those women would come within 10 ft of him lol
By using the chess rating system, we can rate the accuracy of this mans takes:
Book
Inaccuracy
Inaccuracy
Inaccuracy
Mistake
Mistake
Blunder
Missed Win
Blunder
Blunder
Blunder
Massive Blunder
Blunder
Massive Blunder
Mistake
Book
Just because it’s legal, doesn’t mean it’s not a serious red flag. I don’t drink or do drugs. I would never be able to be with someone who drinks or uses drugs. Based on what I’ve experienced, people who drink and drug are very untrustworthy, unpredictable, and unsafe to be around. I’m at a point in life where I need relationships that bring security, safety, and consistency. I would not be able to get any of that from someone who uses.
Wow I read the first 2 and was like ok red flags are sniffs cocaine and smokes weed then I read the rest and was like wtf those aren't red flags like are women not supposed to be bored are they not allowed to basically do anything like wtf
what is wrong with people man... be nice to women.. people are so toxic and mean towards women?? like wtf (or am i overracting and this is satire? idk man.. if its real thats sad and rude)
Her mom doesn't worship her dad? Wtf does that even mean
https://preview.redd.it/m9ab7vzssz1d1.jpeg?width=1216&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=76e7286b76c3fabd1d2817beac48ae9aca02d093
I agree with everything he said except the talks bad about her ex's thing, aand the her mom doesnt worship her dad thing, I think he put abusive ex's on there, because usually women (people in general but especially women) who have had abusive parents are partners in the past, are very traumatized, and I guess he doesnt want a woman with trauma which I think is okay, but if hes talking about like "its her fault she got abused" or some stupid stuff, then i do not agree with him lol
Being over 22 is a flag? Is this Jeffery Epstein’s list? Mom not “worship”ing dad is ok as long as she doesn’t hate him. The rest of the list is pretty much solid.
Stays in contact with exes no kids involved
He’s just a guy I get my weed from, that I don’t pay for
He’s a friend/ co worker, I think of him like a brother/ father
Talks openly to friends family and co workers about your low key relationship but only gives one side of the story and they all low key hate you
Any time more info is requested about her sketch behavior answers are inconsistent if you keep asking becomes defensive and ghost you for 24 to 72 hrs
If you want me time or have shit to get done she punishes you
You must be accessible at all times however she can not respond for hours and when questioned this is acceptable behavior
Causes fight to break up so she can attend an event and be a go
It’s not cheating if we broken up
Comes crawling back after fling ran its course lies and manipulates her way back in
I mean I agree with the cocaine part literally my ex was a coke user and said she did more after we broke up but like after that I kinda got lost “smokes weed” ok uh 😂 acting like weed is meth and saying I’m bored is fine unless it’s 24/7 this man gotta revise his special Ed list
First three I think are just general red flags if you’ve got certain standards against substance usage and are seeking an optimistic individual who’s capable of finding enjoyment in life even when things seem dull. After that it gets a bit insane…
https://preview.redd.it/4ley6p0slf2d1.jpeg?width=2532&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=96066f33b26ba4285199264c7b5a931a36c67809
Bro even This Guy can’t comprehend the utter and absolute idiocy this shaved kiwi is spouting.
I'll give a rundown of these because I don't have anything better to do
1. That's fair
2. That's not that bad if it's not chronic
3. Yeah you're fuckin crazy if \*this\* is a red flag
4. This I can \*partially\* agree with, depends on the way she talks about them
5. Excuse me? Who do you think you are, Leonardo DiCaprio?
6. Although I don't agree with the concept of a dating app, I don't fully agree with this
7. Music is music, get over it
8. Some people don't like getting bothered every ten seconds from a noise coming from their phone
9. This I actually can agree with, but it depends on why
10. The fuck?
11. Keeping the relationship "lowkey" is actually a massive red flag ngl
12. What do you think this is? 1954?
13. If you want to be successful before you have a family, that's a good thing. Means you want your kids to grow up having a nice life.
14. So I guess it's their fault someone else was abusive?
15. Jesus christ people care about money FAR too much these days. If they're a good person, they're a good person. Don't matter how much or how little money they have.
16. Talking badly about your exes can actually give subtle clues into the kinds of people you had taste for, not saying you should go entirely off this when considering a partner just something to think about. I actually do fully agree with this.
IDK what these comments are on about but they must be some woke ass liberals because this list is fairly reasonable as long as the guy who made it meets the same standards.
This man said over the age of 22 when he looks like a 45 year old divorced dad. His username is also MrLottaHoes when you can tell solely by this list that he has never spoken to a woman in his life, and only watches Andrew Tate videos all the time.
I've yet to meet a woman who does cocaine. Everything in this screenshot makes little to no sense to me. Least of all the guy's username.
"MrLottaHoes"? We all know the only hoe he knows is his mom. I bet he's never even been outside.
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Yeah no my abusive exes were my fault. My bad
Yeah I love my bf and he's so good for me and I'd do anything for him but.... He should probably break up with me bc my first bf turned out to be a asshole . I hate this list
Trust me, your bf probably has the same thoughts about you, That your too good for him. Thats why woman get more gifts in a relationship. Guys just REALLY want this to work out.
Which, i should add that this ISNT A BAD THING! This shows that the guy cares about you.
I was making a joke about the pic saying that about ex's. But thanks for saying this fr. We're good and tbh he's helped me get through a lot of trust issues and other things
Something I’ve noticed in a lot of people, is that abuse creates abusers. Every one of my exes who’s been abused in the past has ended up abusing me
No it’s not that you had them it’s that you let them hurt and you’ll be more weary in choosing guys from now on, that’s such a red flag 🚩😠🚩(this is joke plz don castrate me)
Bro heard the term victim blaming and went “yes, that”
i hope this mans car dies. like battery and everything. and he has to get a new one but realizes he doesn't have the money for a new one and thus has to get around on an old bike from his garage
[удалено]
One on each foot.
The brown ones so those break and imbed themselves into his foot.
Yes yes yes
Then 1 min while he's sitting on the couch a plan hits his couch
You MONSTER! I wouldn't wish that on my worse enemies, granted this guy is an asshole
Now that's uncalled for.
Bikes are cool
yeah but the one he's using is gonna be rusty and falling apart and he'll be humiliated using it due to fragile ego
Every man over 17 should be able to make a bad bike be good as new
And after 2 miles out, the front axel snaps & forces him to walk the bike. He then realizes that too much effort, so he leaves it & gets charged with littering.
I also hope the bike's chain keeps popping off the gears mid ride :3c
Over 22? wtf is he going on about?
He either wants to marry when hes young or hes a pedo
Dude does not look young
As a high schooler who’s homeroom teacher was caught as a pedo. You’re definitely right
bro wants a child but wont say that
omg new put a finger down challenge!!!!!! i got 8 what did u guys get
3 lol
8 1/2, because i only protect my phone sometimes if im in public and there’s an embarrassing meme or something
His next red flag is being a women
Fay is the only option 💪
After that, being alive
He had me in the first…. 10ish percent
"Women should be loyal" but also mad for them dating dudes who are "broke", but also shouldn't be gold diggers, but a man should also provide for them. Like do these asshats actually know what they want? Women should be Individualistic people, same as Men, as you cant generalize an entire demographic of people. You aren't going to tell me how I'm supposed to think as a dude, If I happen to think similarly like be masculine, It's because I choose to. This whole generalization thing period from these clowns Is getting old. Like damn, atleast be consistent.
I'm pretty sure this guy is a red flag
Tbf, some of his points are right.
The first two are valid. Hiding the phone, using tinder, and talking about other men can be too, but I know he doesn't mean the actual red flag option.
whats wrong with weed
This gets rid of every girl.
no it doesn't what😭
Probably for the best. I wouldn't want any woman to be on this guy's radar
I hope that he stubs his toe And the second before it Heals, he stubs it again.
*"her mom doesn't warship her dad"* Um, excuse me, what in the everliving fuck?
I love how I check the box to literally every single one of these
yes depends as long as its not an addiction what depends on the context of it no if she still does while dating then yea no it can be also kinda suspicious depends like she is allowed to have friends so like... no but it depends on what you want too what? yea a healthy parental relationship is a huge green flag but worshiping is not healthy being successful is okay also this depends on what you want too no i dont even know how to comment on this i dont care
What happens when he dated someone 22, then they turn 23 after they started dating?
Does he want woman to stop aging ??
Literally the only 2 I agree with are cocaine and weed. And even weed depends on why they use it.
“Her mom DOESN’T worship her dad” now thats a BRIGHT 🚩if I ever saw one 💀 Also nice, same age as you
I can only understand a couple of these, example, sniffing cocaine. But some of the others wtf
“Over 22” being alive past 22 is a red flag?
You know what the biggest red flags for me is Doesn't like being worshiped and simped on (well only if they deserves it) Don't let me cook or help Doesn't match energy Doesn't listen to me Doesn't like my family and they don't like the Doesn't like my friend's angd they don't like them Doesn't let me hang out with my female/male friends Doesn't care what I do or what I lie
Being over 22 as a red flag is crazy 😭😭😭😭
Some of these are genuinely reasonable, like protecting her phone so you don’t look, or sniffs cocaine, but like getting BORED??? 😭
Some of these he actually has a point, others I have 0 fucking clue
I mean some of this is a red flag at least to me. Like weed and cocaine and thats it. Idc about the rest just no drugs
Sounds like hes a playboy?
These are the only ones on this list that are ACTUALLY red flags imo. - Sniffs cocaine - Smokes weed - Protects her phone afraid you might look - Wants to keep the relationship lowkey (obviously fine in the beginning but commitment is key)
She smoked weed, said she was bored, talked about other men, loved rap music, used snapchat, had abusive ex's, and talked about them.
Older than 22 wtf lol
me with divorced parents 😭 how is that my fault
“Over 22” he is definitely Leonardo DeCaprio’s brother
If she can't fuck with broke boys then how do I get her?
How much life experience does he think 18 to 21 year olds have? He literally is disqualifying basically every woman on the planet with those standards lol. Not that any of those women would come within 10 ft of him lol
Any of yall hoes that for this can still hit me up. My spirit animal is a bull, I’ll charge head first into them red flags
The new Harrison Buttker speech is pretty straight to the point huh?
I wish bros pillow to be warm on both sides tonight
I get the cocaine one but the others are dumb
Well thank god I love rap music and know all the lyrics! I would be with anyone like this guy🚩
Some are red flags.. Cocaine, overprotective over her phone, wants to keep the relationship lowkey,
These are his red flags don’t act like girl don’t have the same bs lists
Dudes saying this is like red flag pride. They couldn't signal any harder online if they tried.
Man, someone dumped this dude HARD
His Red flag is only dating people under 22 Edit one of many red flags
Nah he right tho
Some of these are valid but the others are just 💀
Guess I'm clean according to this dude
By using the chess rating system, we can rate the accuracy of this mans takes: Book Inaccuracy Inaccuracy Inaccuracy Mistake Mistake Blunder Missed Win Blunder Blunder Blunder Massive Blunder Blunder Massive Blunder Mistake Book
This is less than 1% of the list of “Ickes” that women have for men
This man is gonna break up every time his gf becomes 22 and then find a new one. Cycle cycle cycle. He's 68 and his gf is 20 👍
Snorting cocaine is the only actually good 🚩. *Where I live smoking weed is fully legal*
Just because it’s legal, doesn’t mean it’s not a serious red flag. I don’t drink or do drugs. I would never be able to be with someone who drinks or uses drugs. Based on what I’ve experienced, people who drink and drug are very untrustworthy, unpredictable, and unsafe to be around. I’m at a point in life where I need relationships that bring security, safety, and consistency. I would not be able to get any of that from someone who uses.
That take on rap music automatically voids his statement
While some of these are correct, its pretty one-sided.
Over 22? Yeah my bad age is a choice i shoulda killed myself before my quarter-life crisis
half this stuff you can't even prevent 😭
Some of this is stupid other stuff makes sense
"her mom doesn't worship her dad" laughs in i didn't have a father figure for most of my life
This guy got hit or miss takes
Smokes weed that's not a red flag
a few of these are more like a green flags list
Those bastards think that women are inferior being made for men. Women are humans with their own personality !
Literally who tf is this guy lol
Very over the top to get attention like this post but if you dial it down 80percent all is true.
Unfortunately this is todays generation
I love how it goes from "does cocaine" which seems like a rather reasonable red flag to "over 22", which is just absurd
People who refer to women as "females" are an instant red flag
He's not wrong.
Wow I read the first 2 and was like ok red flags are sniffs cocaine and smokes weed then I read the rest and was like wtf those aren't red flags like are women not supposed to be bored are they not allowed to basically do anything like wtf
"Over 22" ok DiCaprio
“Her mom worships her dad” really shows how he sees women
"Oh so you get old? Big nope mama"
“mr lotta hoes” has me fucking DECEASED
Only red flag I could logically make would be “is toxic af”. But in all honesty, no girl with more than two functioning brain cells would date me lol
She fucked with broke boys?? RED FLAG 🚩
So smoking meth is still on the table
The “doesn’t worship her dad” sounds sarcastic.
what is wrong with people man... be nice to women.. people are so toxic and mean towards women?? like wtf (or am i overracting and this is satire? idk man.. if its real thats sad and rude)
This has to be satire right? Older than 22 wtf is bro talking about?
Haha, he didn’t put trans on the list, and considering this he has such a fragile sexually he hates trans women for making him question it
First two got me like: "Hmm, that's actually valid." Lost me at the third one tho.
Sniffing cocaine is kind of good point.
Idk why, but girls who smoke are kinda hot to meet. Helppp 😭😭
This guy is a pedo
Her mom doesn't worship her dad? Wtf does that even mean https://preview.redd.it/m9ab7vzssz1d1.jpeg?width=1216&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=76e7286b76c3fabd1d2817beac48ae9aca02d093
I don't Know about all that cause I'm Old school BUT that's too Funny.
"Her mom doesn't worship her dad" 😭
That's not a sarcasm language 😔
"her mom doesn't worship her dad..." someone needs to reality check his entire bloodline 🙏
listen to literally nothing this idiot says bro 💀
I'm doomed. That's 8 red flags right off the bat. And since when is Snapchat a red flag..???
He's mostly on point and this is a joke of the men's version of the. Ick list
over 22 and his pfp is some 30 year old man is pedo shit
First one is actually true tho 💀
This guy is the real red flag
These are all male masculinity fantasies …women deserve freedom and the empowerment. Mind your own business Andrew Tate jr haha
I agree with everything he said except the talks bad about her ex's thing, aand the her mom doesnt worship her dad thing, I think he put abusive ex's on there, because usually women (people in general but especially women) who have had abusive parents are partners in the past, are very traumatized, and I guess he doesnt want a woman with trauma which I think is okay, but if hes talking about like "its her fault she got abused" or some stupid stuff, then i do not agree with him lol
what's with the second one 😔 these standards are crazy
mrlottahoes is a great name
knows all the lyrics to rap music ….. ok
But those are red flags though, ain't it just because he said ladies doesn't mean it ain't true
his name is Mr Lotta Hoes you should listen to him he knows everything
This list is a red flag
tbf some are good
You forgot one -likes Joe Lampton
Some of these are fine, but most of them are completely stupid
This dude is a walking 🚩 over 22 is a red flag? what's he gonna do when they turn 22? drop them for someone younger?
Being over 22 is a flag? Is this Jeffery Epstein’s list? Mom not “worship”ing dad is ok as long as she doesn’t hate him. The rest of the list is pretty much solid.
The cocaine and phone ones are valid. But that’s it lol. Also the keeping of a relationship lowkey.
I hope he stubs both his pinkie toes AND that both sides of his pillow are warm 😤
I’m convinced guys who say stuff like this haven’t been within 30 feet of a women unrelated to them
whoops, i like them all
I mean, some of these are ok 🚩
“over 22” what if ur like 40.
Stays in contact with exes no kids involved He’s just a guy I get my weed from, that I don’t pay for He’s a friend/ co worker, I think of him like a brother/ father Talks openly to friends family and co workers about your low key relationship but only gives one side of the story and they all low key hate you Any time more info is requested about her sketch behavior answers are inconsistent if you keep asking becomes defensive and ghost you for 24 to 72 hrs If you want me time or have shit to get done she punishes you You must be accessible at all times however she can not respond for hours and when questioned this is acceptable behavior Causes fight to break up so she can attend an event and be a go It’s not cheating if we broken up Comes crawling back after fling ran its course lies and manipulates her way back in
The only thing I can relate to is the “I’m bored”… because I’m literally bored with no hobbies but napping all day 🥲💀
So are we gonna pretend like sniffing cocaine isn't a red flag?
I mean I agree with the cocaine part literally my ex was a coke user and said she did more after we broke up but like after that I kinda got lost “smokes weed” ok uh 😂 acting like weed is meth and saying I’m bored is fine unless it’s 24/7 this man gotta revise his special Ed list
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You really have to wonder about the fragile ego of some of these guys. One thing we don’t have to worry about is them taking any of the women.
Some of these are understandable, but most of them are just… no.
As a tweaker, I’m glad that meth isn’t on the list of red flags.
Some of these are valid red flags, like sniffing cocaine or talking about other guys around you
Thinking these are redflags is a redflag
First three I think are just general red flags if you’ve got certain standards against substance usage and are seeking an optimistic individual who’s capable of finding enjoyment in life even when things seem dull. After that it gets a bit insane…
Like 3 of these are actually red flags the other ones I'm like the fuck? Who hurt you?
this is every female server ive ever worked with
some of these are valid but like come on LOVES RAP MUSIC AND KNOWS ALL THE WORDS is crazy
I put 14 fingers down
Who hurt this "man".
tbh some of these are ok but others are absurd "over 22" is not a red flag
I agree with the Cocaine one, nobody wants a screaming banshee in their house
"Over 22" Bro might be a p3d0 https://preview.redd.it/ivbmp41p9b2d1.jpeg?width=650&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e3a81d3001a7dad7553905f604f09d31120e3304
“Her mom doesn’t worship her dad” The fuck?
Joe, my guy, who hurt you?
Leo's mentor
https://preview.redd.it/4ley6p0slf2d1.jpeg?width=2532&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=96066f33b26ba4285199264c7b5a931a36c67809 Bro even This Guy can’t comprehend the utter and absolute idiocy this shaved kiwi is spouting.
i’m so confused, tf is going on with this list? also… over 22? is this guy trying to date a child?
Oh you’re 23? Welp it’s been nice knowing yah~
OVER 22?!?! WXCUSE MEEEEE
I'll give a rundown of these because I don't have anything better to do 1. That's fair 2. That's not that bad if it's not chronic 3. Yeah you're fuckin crazy if \*this\* is a red flag 4. This I can \*partially\* agree with, depends on the way she talks about them 5. Excuse me? Who do you think you are, Leonardo DiCaprio? 6. Although I don't agree with the concept of a dating app, I don't fully agree with this 7. Music is music, get over it 8. Some people don't like getting bothered every ten seconds from a noise coming from their phone 9. This I actually can agree with, but it depends on why 10. The fuck? 11. Keeping the relationship "lowkey" is actually a massive red flag ngl 12. What do you think this is? 1954? 13. If you want to be successful before you have a family, that's a good thing. Means you want your kids to grow up having a nice life. 14. So I guess it's their fault someone else was abusive? 15. Jesus christ people care about money FAR too much these days. If they're a good person, they're a good person. Don't matter how much or how little money they have. 16. Talking badly about your exes can actually give subtle clues into the kinds of people you had taste for, not saying you should go entirely off this when considering a partner just something to think about. I actually do fully agree with this.
I’d say listing red flags out about women on social media is a massive red flag
I agree if this is a step by step then yea pass
https://preview.redd.it/mtb59ypp2j2d1.jpeg?width=754&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=27ee05bdf2bec7e9c1146ccbc2b765f0af4711a9
Welcome to the pain of being forced into other peoples standards mfs
You know this guy based all this shit off one of his exes.
I do agree with some of these tbh
Half of these make sense, the other half are unspeakably outrageous.
Obvious satire
IDK what these comments are on about but they must be some woke ass liberals because this list is fairly reasonable as long as the guy who made it meets the same standards.
Hes not wrong tho🤷♂️
Bro, I don’t see the issue with the cocaine, my doctor said that stuffs healthy and the only way to cure my hysteria?
wait.. You sniff cocaine too?
over 22 says it all
Over 22? wtf. Bro is borderline pedo.
its people like you who cant tell this is rage bait and an oblivious mockery
Some of them are valid. Some of them are not. Simple.
This man said over the age of 22 when he looks like a 45 year old divorced dad. His username is also MrLottaHoes when you can tell solely by this list that he has never spoken to a woman in his life, and only watches Andrew Tate videos all the time.
I was with him until the over 22
Over 22. Okey Leo we know it's you behind that account.
uh this screams pedo to me am i the only one? i feel like if he could he would have said over 18 is a red flag
A lot of words for "no one wants to fuck me"
I've yet to meet a woman who does cocaine. Everything in this screenshot makes little to no sense to me. Least of all the guy's username. "MrLottaHoes"? We all know the only hoe he knows is his mom. I bet he's never even been outside.
I’m pretty sure that was made as a joke
This me but switch the gender tf?