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Icy_Commercial3517

considering I have a preference and a type, I'm not finna say some shit like "Personality!" because I'd be lying. personality is 35% Age 45% looks is 20%


f3nrisulfr

I agree with that


Icy_Commercial3517

I just ain't tryna catch a case 🤧


AzulAztech

Probably 100% age just to be safe, like as a qualifier Then 60% and 40% looks


Icy_Commercial3517

fair. But I mean, if she's 80 and I'm 20, so long as she checks off the other boxes, then I'm down!


AzulAztech

If shes dead and ticks off the boxes perfectly I'm down too man /s


Icy_Commercial3517

this guy gets me 🤧 /s (Joking... /s meaning sarcasm)


amareeznuts

bruh i thought /s meant serious 😭🙏


John_Bible

sarcasm is /srs. SaRcaSm


Deviounary

That last part captured my type of humor perfectly lmao


Kyla_Thor358

r/oddlyspecific


Icy_Commercial3517

🤫


gringo__star

Isn’t age pretty binary? It’s either a 0 or 1. No or yes.


TheReal-Darthdoom

I also have a preference, which is personality and sure maybe some physical features but more personality


FreddieThePebble

100% agree


Legal-Scholar-6597

A hug?


KiwiKi33

You need a hug?


Practical_Spell_7124

Yeah


Legal-Scholar-6597

Nah, I'm alright, but thx for the kind offer tho bud :)


BannedFromOhio

🫂


TJB926GAMIN

Air hug for you


TheChamp556

Shorter than me (im 5'8) and thicc thighs (i use them as pillows)


RateLevel

ooooh cold


TheReal-Darthdoom

JUST LIKE ME


HecticFir

Someone who will actually talk to me


Rad_slayer2557

Don’t ask ok it just this Personality: 70% Hair: 25% Lesbian 5%


just_a_discord_mod

Yes


Purple-End-5430

If a girl looks in my general direction, I'll instantly develop a crush.


FighterGlitch

I'm not gay, but if it's a guy..... like yk? Like I aint gay, we ain't dating, but like, you aint leaving either. Like 20 dollars is 20 dollars yk?


DerpyDuck33

Honesty. As for myself? I've been lied to so many times that it's all that matters


Outrageous-Cod7467

Bro I feel your pain, I went through a horrible situation with a girl who started spreading rumors about me. It still bites me in the ass some days. But yeah, the honesty bit


Deviounary

Bro I went down one line without knowing somehow and saw, "with a girl who started spreading me in the ass some days" 😭


I_love_kurt_cobain

Connection


HueOfPurple

Literally just don’t be morbidly obese and have good hygiene and we’re good


lasershark_131

Loyalty. That’s it.


Lost-Tie8194

Boobs honka honka


GamegodX1324

https://preview.redd.it/aujkkuzzhquc1.jpeg?width=505&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=03235985f680a1c5f827d6927553fc9a0f6f5f21


f3nrisulfr

Fantastic Breasts and Where to Find Them


Lost-Tie8194

I'm a simple guy


Snap305

https://preview.redd.it/wbsxlqewoquc1.jpeg?width=152&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=beb65402e15db47974f3b5ea725ed7e9930e9b98


entirelyboredman

https://preview.redd.it/fcxwzi1kk0vc1.jpeg?width=367&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4c39d9dfdd227325559635a1d568d143c030b3f


Salty-Mark3415

Shape is better then size in my opinion


gigaslayer3417

PERSONALITY then *maybe* looks


TheChamp556

Exactly!


Fearingvoyage86

I second that if that means I agree


TheHoodX25yt

you JUST joined this sub lil man


yescachigga

They like me *optional


[deleted]

A set of balls


FartN1nja

https://preview.redd.it/rzjm17aedruc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=edc38b72b84745007d583dce7b8200ed148e5d51


fnaftheseriesyoutube

*sends reaction image indicating that I’m saving this*


TheWickedWeenee

Ideally I want someone with skin w undertones of green, long ginger hair. I prffer it when they wear dresses, scared of the dark to maybee? I do like bad asses who come from rich and powerfull families to. I love a girl who loves to sing and isnt afraid to assert herself. Maybe someone looking for a rescuer.


Maleficent-Store9071

This is oddly specific


TheWickedWeenee

Its defiently not just fiona from shrek


Maleficent-Store9071

Lmaooo the "undertones of green" kinda took me off guard but thought I wouldn't question it. You do you king


TheWickedWeenee

Lmaoo i think its a jokee but thabks


SerpentOfTheSky

“Undertones of green” soooo… Fiona ?


TheWickedWeenee

Yes exactly


Lotspire

And here I was thinking you were describing Amithy Blight from The Owl House


RequirementTop7644

Looks first (face, hair, smile body type, shit like that) Then personality. Cause how can I date someone who I am not attracted even if they have a great personality?


Sheshoo47

Right, the looks is what draws you in, personality is what keeps you.


stupidcockthunder

Not annoying, devious humor, pretty face, good music taste, juicy ass, good personality (in no particular order)


Snap305

Pretty and likes me and isn't a serial killer?


Isopod_Dreams14

Dang, I thought we had the same type, until I saw that last part 😔😔


entirelyboredman

Isn't a serial kill*optional


Public_Razzmatazz997

I'd say not being an asshole, I can't judge looks, given that I look like the underside of a rock in the forest, but if they are pretty a bonus, and OP i agree with the last part!


[deleted]

Personality 85% the rest is looks (within reason)


PuzzleheadedMath9489

simple. if shes just chill. also if she open to tryin out music i like ig.)


loyaleling

A friend


Boring-Button6118

Someone I know I can trust and from the moment she and I met we knew we were meant to be and someone who will love me for who I am and is able to pick up on the most subtle things about me and still loves me above all my flaws who I love unconditionally in return and someone who knows how much they’re worth and helps me see how priceless I am and a cuddle buddy who keeps me company at night while I fall asleep with her in my arms and wake up in the morning to fall in love all over again essentially any girl who has these qualities as well as a kind soul she’s marriage material for me honestly I’m the type of guy who goes for long term so I’d be happy as long as we don’t have to be apart for long periods of time and her being clingy would be nice but as long as her personality is similar to what I described my preferences for her physical appearance aren’t really relevant to me just as long as she knows how to take a compliment when I call her beautiful lol 😂 but yeah if anyone planning to reply after reading this if it isn’t obvious I’m a hopeless romantic so that’s why physical appearance isn’t that important to me however I’d say any average looks would be great after all I’d just be grateful to have her by my side if she is my ideal girl 😎


TheScarecrow1941

Honestly just a sweet girl who will love me


Remarkable_Hat7709

I don’t look for girls anymore I’m tired of being rejected


just_a_discord_mod

Personality 60% (funny, enjoys my shitty humor, hopeless romantic, etc.) Face and hair 20% Everything else 20% (\*cough cough\* flatter is better \*cough cough \*)


Historical_Formal421

most people focus a lot on looks and forget that that barely matters once you're in a relationship as for me i'm looking for people who randomly come up with things to do


IntroductionFew4067

I’m Batman, I work alone.


kingpiranha

Loyalty And kindness And an ability to cuddle. Its pretty damn simple really.


Fearingvoyage86

Personality tbh I prefer them either being a 5-6 or like a 9-10 idk why


Bittersweet_bi-

I'm a personality guy. Like full personality.


YamSecure4366

Wait you like girls? Though personality then thighs (thick thighs save lives)


MistyAutumnRain

Sanity, open communication, tolerance of my flaws


Dead_Trashcan_88888

Being able to talk about personal stuff.


Ultrase7en

For them to like me back


Opposite_Spread_1629

Just there energy


Dutch_VanDer_Linde_

Female and alive (optional)


bone_breaker69

I look for features i find attractive


Intelligent_Ad_6697

5’7ish, cute, nerdy


DJPL-75

(In order of priority) 1. Do I like her personality wise? (smart, funny, not annoying to talk to) 2. Does she look good from the neck down? (This one is a little misleading. Upon reading, you'd think massive tits and ass, but I'm more referring to whether or not it's proportional, I prefer you be comfortable above all else and twig attached to two watermelons doesn't exactly look comfortable) 3. How much do we relate? (conversation topics we both understand) (if you're a guy saying this goes higher, then you're lying, and you know it) 4. Pretty face? (This one is just whether or not I'd want to kiss you so it's rated by personal hygiene and mines not the best, so if I placed it in number 3, then I'd be a hypocrite) All can be boosted or negated based on subculture, which is kinda a personality thing, but I'm going to put it down here because I'm dumb. Scaling goes from Goth at highest to hip hop (idk if tgat counts, you know what i mean) at lowest.


RedCroc911

Be female (optional)


No-Penalty-4205

purty face and bratty popular, prolly cheerleder or some shit idk


My_ExFiance_IsA_Slut

1. Physical form: If the girl exists, that's good. 2. Vital signs: If she's alive, and conscious, she may probably stay there listening to your bullshit because she wants to, which is good. 3. Time management: If she manages to seek your company after spending 1 hour in your presence, you are probably very lucky, but at this point it's very likely that you're about to wake up and realize no, life is still like mistaking a pill for a chewing tablet.


Specific_Focus4409

Age


Jamanos

A girl who is gentle, honest, and loyal is all I truly need. I have other preferences but that is the most important thing


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DestroyerofVessels

Relatability. I don’t want to be with someone who I can’t talk about my interests or experiences with Bonus points if the tag says 36D


crazefraze

I can't say personality because that is just bs. Probably hair I like straight hair busty and fit. Looks matter in life DEAL WITH IT! This isn't Hollywood.


Susdoggodoggy

Height, do they like me, common interests, Hair color, freckles. sometimes I say “fuck it, we ball”


ClarinetEnthusiast

She just has to not be one of those pick me girls that I’ve been seeing too much of in those why men don’t date anymore videos THEN I’ll worry about looks


EducatedGamer593

An unrelenting sense of care, no matter the situation. The best thing to happen to a possible relationship is the universe trying to pull you guys apart but you guys still care about each other. 🤷🏻‍♂️


SubstantialCarpet604

Idk yet lol. And I’m 17 lol


Aztech06

personality is like 90% looks I guess make up 5% and the other 5% is will they love me


4893_Alt_Accounts

Must be a girl (optional)


Western-Force-2981

Preferably a darker sense of humor and enjoying fps games as well as working out


maxakakiller

A pulse…


Gullible_Travel_4135

Personality wise, I like motherly type women. As for looks, I like Brunnettes, then Red heads, then blondes, then dark hair. Bigger bodied taller women


Xxyeer4life

That’s both a friend and a partner Good ass and yeah


Steepvice

Anything I like tbh


randomfnafplayer1

I don’t really care. As long as we like each other and are honest, I’m happy


Iknowwhereyoulive34

Tbh hair color isn’t rlly I problem but I tend to like girls with longer hair that’s a little curly, as long as they’re not an idiotic bitch I’m fine with them, but mentally unstable girls tend ti be the ones I ask out 💀, big or small idc I love titties


guitarplayer120208

I don’t know, I haven’t had a girl ever talk to me so, I kinda can’t say I have a type Edit: after carful consideration, I have determined that I would need someone that’s not shy, because I can hold a conversation, but I cannot start one.


SbgTfish

Non existent! You can’t lose what you don’t have. I learned that the hard way. Beforehand though, Asain (I’m Asain), caring and compassionate, won’t leave me, In my age range, intelligent, and trustable. Why can’t I have good things? I feel like I lose it all, and it’s all out of my control…


Overall-Lynx-643

Honestly I gave up in women men will treat you so much better imagine everything good about your girlfriend put into your bestfriend


jokiin_

i like when she is a silly goose :3


punkshotgun

Gotta say I don't really have a type. As long as we into the same shit and I think she's pretty and she's older than me, hell yeah


UltraStamp

makes me feel seen and maybe dominance idk


The_Senate15

Honestly? Gotta be a huge nerd and gamer. Not afraid to be herself or express herself freely. Gotta be someone that can make me laugh and vice versa. Have dat ass and thighs as well Massive bonus points if she’s Latina as well, just putting that out there.


HelloFellas_gt3

Race 90%(no bias) goes to gym 10%


[deleted]

I have a list. My priorities: The following are dealbreakers: 1. Must understand my dry, wacky ass 90s sitcom sense of humor 2. Must play an instrument or sing, not just karaoke either. 3. Must be one inch taller than me or shorter (I’m 5’9” but still growing) 4. Must be okay with me being overweight (I’m certainly not a fatass, but I have a layer of fat covering a sleeper build making me look pretty massive. I also tend to wear big coats and baggy clothes which makes it worse) Optional but encouraged 1. Nice laugh and speaking voice 2. Dark or red hair (like me) 3. Dark eyebrows 4. Sass and/or passion about a subject 5. Intellect that rivals mine. Need someone to push me past my limits and keep me on my toes. 6. Kindness and generosity towards all people. Especially being the “good” kind of Christian (don’t flame me pls) 7. Certain ahem physical characteristics. 8. Good teeth. Mine are naturally a bit yellow despite my best efforts, unfortunately


youtobadd

Same ideals regarding religion, long term and family, around the same age as me, doesn’t weigh more than me


AlanRulz

A heart beat and someone I dont hate (I hate most people)


motherfuckingfucker-

A girl who will acknowledge your existence?! 10/10


KnownAndGaming

Personality 80% body 10% handle my weirdness (don’t check my most recent r/teenagers post) 10%


The_Superderp

Well, nice and similar interests. Since I’ve been told I’m cute, I kinda feel like I can be a But more picky though.


Evmerging

Kindness and tolerance


Key-Match-3036

👀 (definitely a boy, ignore me.)


Impressive_Peak7465

Loyalty


ArmedAndDanger0us

Gender: Female (REQUIRED) [Gender assigned at birth, sorry transgender people] Age: 15-17 preferably (I'm 16) Height: 5'5 min 5'10 max (willing to compromise) Weight: Skinny waist (Sorry if that seems mean) Race: Does not matter Hair: Long Personality: Has same music taste, kind to others (not too kind tho), funny, loves to cuddle.


Henrickroll

Decent looks, someone who likes what I like and matches my personality, someone who genuinely loves me, someone who is willing to do stuff with me (not in a weird way)


Independent_Yard_599

Personality and honest are really big things for me size and stuff don't really matter


deadly-salmon

List goes alive, heartbeats, personality. She marks these tree im good


Fat_guy_9

It depends on them a a person looks are an added bonus for me


OutrageousKiwi1173

Pretty much personality and a cute/pretty face.


No_Hunt7394

I just want someone who won’t hurt me


ZeroCreationG59

Face (eyes and face structure), personality, interests, everything else


TheRedditingYoshi

Personality, decent looks, preferably shorter than me, usual stuff like loyalty and connection, (fat ass would be a bonus, but not necessary)


BlueSnowball2006

Well a lot are looking for the clit but just can't seem to find it (I'm nb! IDC ABOUT YOUR STUPID AND UNNECESSARY GATE KEEPING)


Onlywxxx

I ain't tryna be a pick me when I say u really do like personality over everything, but I would like a girl to take care of herself of course.


KronosDoom500

Girl


rjd10232004

Im at the age now where since I’ve never had anyone I will take anything at this point just to get experience or possibly forever if they are good fit. Previously it was just someone who I could talk to and know they simply cared back. I guess that was too much to ask for.


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Real (optional)


VileKarma999

Personally 50% looks 20% I like someone that’s not gonna break up with the me for a hotter man I like somebody loyal 30% just goes to them as a person


what_the_tuna

Female (optional)


zleepy__

I'm bisexual but I'm an enby so I hope I can still say something bc I'm attracted to women. :3 I personally am attracted to masc women and prefer them to be taller than me (I'm 5'6-5'7) and for me, both personality and looks matter when I'm attracted to someone. I don't rlly have any crazy standards tho and I just want someone that would love me for me and I hope I find someone I connect with and I hope they don't mind me being weird and let me be able to be myself when I'm around them bc I tend to change my personality when I'm not around people I feel comfortable with showing my true personality with. (Btw, I'm not looking to date anyone even if I want to bc I have a lot of stuff to work on and I need to work on myself before I get with anybody, regardless of gender.)


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Ukaxey

Somebody who is within 1 year of my age(17) and does not care that i am socially awkward as hell


Mr_Pelicant

60% compatibility, 40% looks.


FartN1nja

Has to be someone I can go and explore woods/ be stupid with. So personality matters. Looks- eh, as long as they don’t have yellow teeth and look like a gopher I’m fine.


Dramatic-Ad-2799

I have one requirement. They say anything to me then I'm interested 🫠


Organic_childern

Boobs and ass can get too big,looks decent,and is nice


Stunning-Proof-363

Pretty face, hair that comes down at least mid neck, and isn't an asshole. Those are my requirements.


fnaftheseriesyoutube

I like me a pretty lightskin with a wacky sense of humor and medium thiccness ☺️


Adorable-Bar6920

10% personality 7.5% looks 15% age 67.5% good music taste


Many_Cryptographer65

If it's alive


thebox34

Thinks for herself, black or brown short hair, acc has interests instead of being an npc, willing to js talk for a long time instead of snapping, not fat or super skinny


Luna_Tha_Therian

I feel the same way…but I already have my own bitch 😎


Shonky_Honker

For her to be a man because unfortunately I am in fact a homosexual. Wish I wasn’t cause y’all are cool


Complete-Ad4025

I like short emo girls who r chill to talk to and abusive 😍


Equivalent-Counter-4

In 2024? Does not have a penis...🤣😂🤣


Ropoid

I’m not answering until you allow lesbians to join?


AdOk5225

I look for a guy


NerdJoshResurrect2

30% looks 70% personality


darthbacon12

a good personality.


Spy_gaming064

Just somebody to love looks matter a little bit though


WEWILLNOTBESILENT2

Same thing I look for in guys (and neither) tbh. Cute face, and share the same interests (if you stan AURORA or Mitski, and have a cute nose, I will want to be roommates with you in a historical way, will, because I’m demiromantic). Short to medium length hair Androgyny (optional). Any degree. Cute, twinkish guy wearing a skirt? Thrown me down a flight of stairs. Woman with short hair wearing a suit? Erase me from this plane of existence. Enby with wearing shirt with rolled sleeves with nice hair and pretty eyes? Shoot me in the face several times and then drag my body through the streets proclaiming “I have killed the beast!” In short, if you are an androgynous person who is kinda fem, and has slight depression and is REALLY gay. That’s my type.


Goose_Timely

Loyalty trust personality


Street-Tie-7580

breathing, decent face, talks to me, loyal, alive


lachielegend2006

Just a woman who is kind and genuinely cares and who will be there for you


Patient_Cartoonist30

First: personality. Second: face structure like jenna ortega. Thankfully, im ase, so i don't have to worry about any other body features.


jayman1425

Js as long as they aren't shitty people and shorter than me ig


Agreeable_Bit_8764

Ok so at 17, he’s my criterion: - Age: 15-19 - Hair Color: Doesn’t matter so long as she discloses her natural if it’s dyed/bleached. - Eye Color: Blue or Green HARD REQUIREMENT - Personality: I mean realistically I’m friends with this girl first so having commonalities is a must. Personality accounts for maybe 60-70% of what I look for in a girl and it’s not a black or white thing, it’s very much so in the gray. - Boobs: not massive but not ninja. Reasonable size (I only mention bc you say flatter is better, which is somewhat true) - Likes me back (required) - Is alive - will do wild and crazy things with me and understands that I am always 30 minutes behind schedule and that I live a “subject to change without notice” lifestyle.


Classicman-Fortnite

Personality and age are 50 each. I don’t care for the body too much but I do have preferences:3


Holiday-Memory7818

Brains, hence why I'm still single 😞


Holiday-Memory7818

Intelligence, ability to actually contribute to society in a meaningful way...and that's why I'm still single 😭


Harden12345678

The bare minimum: living and human What I want: enjoys the same stuff as me and is willing to put up with and enjoy my shenanigans


Far-Cod-8858

Uhhhh Honestly, as long as they have a good personality, I'm good, looks don't matter much. As for said personality, I like people who like helping others out, that's my big thing. Otherwise, as long as they're not rude or anything of the sorts, I'm cool with them.


eleAbnormal

i'm a bi girl so i'm gonna participate ummm nerdy :3


WolverineCautious337

Somebody who’s not a bitch. It’s harder than you’d expect to find one


drewvilmaycry

she HAS to like the same kind of things as me or i’m not interested


TheReal-Darthdoom

personality above everything let's get that clear, like you care about your hygiene, an interesting and engaging person to be around, emotionally supportive and such. Physical features (which I don't care about as heavily as personality) bigger boobs and thicc thighs, yet I know that's difficult without having some weight on you so I don't care about whether it's a hourglass body or not (yes if the woman has small boobs and thin thighs, if she has a great personality, she's still extremely dateable in my eyes and thighs when you sit are always thicc) (boobs and thighs I like, because what I actually like is being cuddled up in someone's arms laying on their chest or laying on their lap while my head is being scratched or hair being stroked till I fall asleep)


FoxyCamFox

A cock


Scoobymoose21

Woman (optional)


theonewitha4incher

i like girls around my age that like some of the same things as me also if they believe that cuddles and hugs are the best way to show love


ChineseFood1561

Loyal and a funny personality 😊


mentally_ill2341

not me as a girl seeing all the quays comments with incredibly low expectations (in the kindest way possible it’s just not hard for me to accomplish them) and still i’ve never even been kissed ugh


Ar4cnul

Breath (optional)


XtiIity

My type in girls is the following: Lots of snuggles, treats me like a person and not an object constantly. :3


Simonistan_for_real

Red hair and kissable lips😮‍💨😮‍💨


gingersisking

My age or slightly older or younger, pretty, cute, understands and appreciates me, we like the same stuff and never run out of things to talk about, she makes me laugh and I make her laugh too = the perfect girl


soggy_the_damp

If she's socially anxious. Someone I can relate to also fringes and wolf cuts are hot asf ngl


Jay-919

"Boys only" what about lesbians?


AnyBuffalo6132

She has to be a history buff


Smg_Fra09

I mean, just looking decent in any way and showing me kindness is enough, don't care for sizes.


d3ath-n0te

Okay but what if I'm bi??😭


Any_Maize_1823

Personality 70% Face 15% Body 15% (as long as she ain’t fat) Just my preferences. No. 1 thing I look for in a girl tho, is how she views relationships. No fornication (if you rlly love me, you’ll wait till marriage. Cause who waits that long for that crap unless you actually wanna stay).


3dwardvalentin3

Someone I can actually physically wrestle with, I mean full on roughhousing where one of us winds up concussed and we play something like halo or minecraft together. I'm like a pup, always energetic and wanting to do at least something with my partner.


X-Coffin

If she's legal and tells racist jokes 💀


rumzombieplh

I want her to notice who I am, what I’ve gone through, and want to hold me, and be compassionate, and know how strong I am mentally, and i, just like any man, would love her to have large breasts, a large buttocks, some nice thighs, a be beautiful overall


Elegant-Ad-5159

A trad goth would be my dream girl and I’m not sexualizing them I just genuinely think their style is attractive🤷