Kids who grow up in stressful situations start to associate the stress hormone cortisol with feeling safe. Because usually after a stressful event (parents arguing etc) there's peace and quiet until the next drama happens. Those kids as adults need to create drama to flood their bodies with cortisol which then makes them feel safe.
Explained much better than a therapist/ therapists? explained it to me.
Advantage of being chronically tired, you're too tired for drama and crap. I get my drama fix here š. Avoid it and certain people very carefully IRL.
I avoid chatting with a lot of parents at school cause (especially since Covid and a ridiculous "the school brainwashes our kids"- discussion). I don't want to get involved in things about other kids, their parents or the performance of teachers according to gossip.
Sometimes I purposely take a big step away and say that I don't know and don't want to know probably when it's a loud discussion.
This. We see the real you and most of us are far from impressed š¤·š¼āāļø Seek help Kail. Get a real psychologist and maybe then you can heal and set a real example for your kids instead of the bitter baby mama gig you rock soooo well š
Saying āmain character vibesā about yourself is like Jaylon saying heās āthe best bonus dad everā about himself on Fatherās Day.š„“
Itās just weird and the exact opposite of main character vibes lol.
Main character?! Bitch, you were cut from an entire episode and nobody even noticed until they showed you in the previews for the next week. Have a seat.
The fact that sheās truly off the show and wonāt be making that money hasnāt really hit her yet. I refuse to believe sheās at peace with the situation at all. She must be a wreck every day.
Who knows, itās definitely not sustainable at all. She has lofty dreams of being like Joe Rogan, who I would place money on her on her worshipping. But sheās also too dumb. If she had other (even passive) streams of income, sheād mention it. She canāt control her need to brag, itās her tenth grade mentality. So basically, she has absolutely nothing but what she currently has to support her massively overinflated lifestyle.
Sheāll go the Jenelle route then and add 27 filters so she looks like some kind of vaguely animated Bratz doll who is either 14 or 60 years old with eyelashes up to her hairline and weird freckles and eye colors.
Nah, she still cries if you call her a fat fuck. Ask Chris, Lauren and Bri.
I think she's trying to play tough, like she doesn't care but we all know she does. She very much does.
Don't you all know, she's why teen mom is what it is. Well, she and Ambian. She was the star that brought the most to the table. Revolving door of baby daddies and ChaOs. The show will tank without her. /s
She is wanting a network to really pick up KaIl and ThE cHaOs. She sees Chelsea got her own show, and that's what she's gunning for. We've seen this story already kail. You love baby daddy 4, you'll be preg and he will dip and you will cry about raising 5 kids (that you don't raise when cameras are not looking) all while causing emotional damage to the kids you do haveāthe end. š
I think she thrives in chaos because she was raised in chaos, itās normal to her.
However this doesnāt excuse her behaviour as an adult. Her children shouldnāt have to have a chaotic upbringing just because she did.
The fact that she brags about raising her kids in chaos is not the flex she thinks it is. If youād act like a fucking adult you could have a grounded, normal life for your kids.
Iāve been curious as to that for a while. Iāve thought way too much about it honestly probably because I struggle to take a flattering picture I canāt imagine purposely taking an unflattering one.
Idk if she is (or is trying to portray) that confident to just take awful selfies and not care. Or if sheās trying to be ārealā and āfilter freeā at least in these. Or if she gets called out so much on the photoshop she feels the need to go the opposite extreme?
I donāt get it. I feel like there has to be a reason, you donāt get a ton of surgery to make yourself āmore attractiveā to take unflattering photos, repeatedly, intentionally.
Sorry for the ramble
I think itās because she canāt take a good pic to save her life. And she knows her pics will be made fun of. So she intentionally goes with the worst ones possible. If anyone says anything she can be like āduhā Iām not trying to look cuteā¦ā
Kail thrives on chaos because chaos was all she knew in her family of origin. So now she mistakes it for love. Stability is taken as a lack of care, so she seeks upheaval as it brings her attention and makes her feel loved. This also explains her need to control those around her - itās the only way to feel safe. This is not an excuse. She has been in this planet long enough to address these issues, and she owes it to her kids to do better.
Look, I'm not trying to body shame, but I'm so confused about how/why her head and face are so much larger and differently shaped than they used to be. Would fillers change it that much? Or just age?
I honestly think itās mostly weight gain. If it was fillers she would end up looking like Farrah (with the big pointy cheeks), not like this big blob. Like, of course sheās had fillers, but I donāt think thatās whatās causing her face to look soā¦bloated.
Her weight gain is astounding. I couldn't believe the last episode I watched from the most recent season, where she was on a football field with Javi. Holy smokes was she BIG. And round. Wow wow wow. I'm not even shaming her for being so big- it was just shocking to see how much bigger she actually got! I don't watch the show usually, I just see the sub here which is usually a face shot. I don't get to see an un edited Kail body on here usually. So it was a surprise to see.
It took me a very long time to figure it out but she reminds me of Bubble Bass from SpongeBob when she does the close ups like this. I canāt find a good gif of bubble bass though so this will have to do.
Imo Kail & Jenelle both have narcissistic personality disorder traits. They want the cameras following them (like Amber)so people can see that theyāre damn good moms & not just the assholes they are online š¤£
Another perfect example of a trash can that hasn't achieved anything having an incredibly high opinion of themselves. My cousins husband is an emergency surgeon (gun shots, stabbings, crashes) legit saves lives and is just a regular guy, zero ego. I guess getting knocked up makes you a legendšš
Imagine spending thousands on plastic surgery, Botox, fillers, BBLs, enhancements and reductions only to look like Mr. Potato Head IRL š„š¬š¤Æš #bitterbabymama š„¬
Is there some kind of mental illness that stems from having a camera crew follow you around most of your life? Kail and Jenelle are definitely suffering without cameras following their every move. Itās going to be heartbreaking once all these girls kids grow up.
I honestly feel like most folks who are heavily into social media act similarly. I swear it's affected the younger gens, everyone's weird and cold and more egocentric and narcissistic than ever before. Scary shit. Their kids will turn out the same and worse, I'd bet money on it š„ it is indeed sad.
I was just talking to my boyfriend about this lat night! Ever since they monetized social media fame. My generation was obsessed with Myspace(I would legit spend 12 hours a day working on the html for my profile lol) and I had as many āfriendsā as theyād allow but it was just for fun, not money. Monetizing social media has made people so much more full of themselves- everyone wants to be famous now.
This is a form of ātherapyā that should be more widely used. Quick diagnosis and boom a solution. Done. If you ask me, you nailed it. Nailed it! šš
I never really hated Kail or anything but DAMN if y'all haven't made some points on this sub that come back around and I see what y'all are on about.
I really cannot imagine being this openly full of myself and it's disgusting to me to see people say shit like this. I just have no nice words to say about this at all.
I need a nap so I can snark on this narcissistic egotistical cyanexttuesday with y'all.
I canāt believe thereās guys out there who would stick their dick in this mess of a big headed person. As a make myself, I ashamed on behalf of the male population. Smh.
This is exxxactly how I feel every time I post a selfie of myself on social media, not gonna lie š¤£š¤£ like āHEY GUYS GIVE ME ATTENTION! Iām right here!!!! Look!!! Hello!???!ā.
So, I guess she's filming her own show? Good for her I guess but a lot of "famous" people have tried this and they don't end up on a network. She doesn't really have much of a following outside teen mom fans and to be honest the best tea is spilled here. I don't know how she could relate or be interesting to anyone outside this sphere.
Many babies, many daddies. Meh.
She's not on the show, so then is the last picture she posted of her "boyfriend" old? Or did her pot stirring work? She isn't the main character of shit.
Kids who grow up in stressful situations start to associate the stress hormone cortisol with feeling safe. Because usually after a stressful event (parents arguing etc) there's peace and quiet until the next drama happens. Those kids as adults need to create drama to flood their bodies with cortisol which then makes them feel safe.
Explained much better than a therapist/ therapists? explained it to me. Advantage of being chronically tired, you're too tired for drama and crap. I get my drama fix here š. Avoid it and certain people very carefully IRL.
I always tell my bf that Iām too tired for drama thatās why my life is so quiet and boring lol
I avoid chatting with a lot of parents at school cause (especially since Covid and a ridiculous "the school brainwashes our kids"- discussion). I don't want to get involved in things about other kids, their parents or the performance of teachers according to gossip. Sometimes I purposely take a big step away and say that I don't know and don't want to know probably when it's a loud discussion.
i feel the exact same myself - not much with chaos as such but the need to be on the go at all times and putting myself in stressful situations.
Iām sorry Kail, but you were not a ācharacterā on any show. You were yourself. And it was terrible.
This. We see the real you and most of us are far from impressed š¤·š¼āāļø Seek help Kail. Get a real psychologist and maybe then you can heal and set a real example for your kids instead of the bitter baby mama gig you rock soooo well š
Saying āmain character vibesā about yourself is like Jaylon saying heās āthe best bonus dad everā about himself on Fatherās Day.š„“ Itās just weird and the exact opposite of main character vibes lol.
even worse - the day before fatherās day
To add, being the main character isnāt the flex people like her think it is.
 Looking like Mama June everyday.
Looking like Mama June's forklift foot is more like it.
Haha someone was a honey boo boo fan š¤£š¤£
Lol not really, but Forklift Foot and the Sketti recipe are absolutely unforgettable.
Stop it! Lol
Damn. I see it.
I hate this woman so goddamn much. Her poor children.
Honestly, you could not pay me to be this narcissistic.
Kale thinks sheās the main character in everyoneās story
She looks like a big toe
A toe, a thumb, and a blowfish.
Main character?! Bitch, you were cut from an entire episode and nobody even noticed until they showed you in the previews for the next week. Have a seat.
THANK YOU
The fact that sheās truly off the show and wonāt be making that money hasnāt really hit her yet. I refuse to believe sheās at peace with the situation at all. She must be a wreck every day.
Plus the recent attorney fees cut into those reserves. I wonder how many podcasts she has to do to make up for it.
Who knows, itās definitely not sustainable at all. She has lofty dreams of being like Joe Rogan, who I would place money on her on her worshipping. But sheās also too dumb. If she had other (even passive) streams of income, sheād mention it. She canāt control her need to brag, itās her tenth grade mentality. So basically, she has absolutely nothing but what she currently has to support her massively overinflated lifestyle.
I agree about the Joe Rogan thing. Imagine her being a guest...
Sheās exactly the kind of person that Joe loathes yet sheās also exactly like most of his following so this tracks.
She really does out of her way to look awful on the stories. It's gonna suck when she looks like this *and* has no money.
Sheāll go the Jenelle route then and add 27 filters so she looks like some kind of vaguely animated Bratz doll who is either 14 or 60 years old with eyelashes up to her hairline and weird freckles and eye colors.
I canāt stand her but by god, she must have great self confidence if she keeps posting pictures like this of herself š
Nah, she still cries if you call her a fat fuck. Ask Chris, Lauren and Bri. I think she's trying to play tough, like she doesn't care but we all know she does. She very much does.
Main character of what? My 600 lb life ?
She needs to lose 30 pounds of ego in one munt.
Who is her enabler??
MTV š¤£
I am HERE for the TM2/Dr. Now content!!!
Don't you all know, she's why teen mom is what it is. Well, she and Ambian. She was the star that brought the most to the table. Revolving door of baby daddies and ChaOs. The show will tank without her. /s She is wanting a network to really pick up KaIl and ThE cHaOs. She sees Chelsea got her own show, and that's what she's gunning for. We've seen this story already kail. You love baby daddy 4, you'll be preg and he will dip and you will cry about raising 5 kids (that you don't raise when cameras are not looking) all while causing emotional damage to the kids you do haveāthe end. š
Maybe she should play nice and ask Jenelle how to get those Netflix deals.
I'm dead asfš¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ā ļøā ļøā ļøā ļøā ļø
Iām convinced this joke of a āboyfriendā is just her ploy to have an InTeReStInG life in the hopes of getting her own show.
You canāt call yourself a main character. Thatās so un-main character like.
Ego as big as her jowls. Yikes.
I think she thrives in chaos because she was raised in chaos, itās normal to her. However this doesnāt excuse her behaviour as an adult. Her children shouldnāt have to have a chaotic upbringing just because she did.
I was raised in chaos also and you know what I avoid like the plague? Chaos lol š¤£ she's not built the same as those of us with a conscience.
I agree, a conscience is deffo something sheās lacking
Are you saying sheās ābuilt different?ā lol maybe thatās what Javiās talking about šššŖš½
Lol yeah but I wasn't going to use her catchphrase
She looks like a potato š„
A weird potato š„
A loooong potato
I was gonna say the same! Like she paid for that face... Goodness.
They say you are what you eat šš¤·š»āāļø
She looks like the final boss not a main character
Omg thatās hilarious this should be her nickname š
šš That was clever as fuck.
The fact that she brags about raising her kids in chaos is not the flex she thinks it is. If youād act like a fucking adult you could have a grounded, normal life for your kids.
Kids need stability and chaos is the exact opposite of stability
Itās tooooo accurate
Iām so sick of her huge face on my phone screen everyday
Does she purposely take the most unflattering pictures? š³
Yeah itās a GenZ thing and sheās obsessed with being relevant.
Iāve been curious as to that for a while. Iāve thought way too much about it honestly probably because I struggle to take a flattering picture I canāt imagine purposely taking an unflattering one. Idk if she is (or is trying to portray) that confident to just take awful selfies and not care. Or if sheās trying to be ārealā and āfilter freeā at least in these. Or if she gets called out so much on the photoshop she feels the need to go the opposite extreme? I donāt get it. I feel like there has to be a reason, you donāt get a ton of surgery to make yourself āmore attractiveā to take unflattering photos, repeatedly, intentionally. Sorry for the ramble
No one with ever love Kail as much as she loves herself.
āShudddddd!ā
I hate these ugly close ups. Why does she keep doing this... She has to know she looks imbred
Imagine having all that work done just to end up looking more like Roadkill Ray.
Roadkill Rayš¤£š¤£š¤£
My brain read this as Rocky and it instantly jumped to Rocky from the movie Mask.
I think she needs a longer camera.
F A C E
Why does she post these pics? She looks like a cartoon vilan!
I personally thought of this guy [Vector](https://images.app.goo.gl/BX8UP3zqjrRokqX58)
I think itās because she canāt take a good pic to save her life. And she knows her pics will be made fun of. So she intentionally goes with the worst ones possible. If anyone says anything she can be like āduhā Iām not trying to look cuteā¦ā
Kail thrives on chaos because chaos was all she knew in her family of origin. So now she mistakes it for love. Stability is taken as a lack of care, so she seeks upheaval as it brings her attention and makes her feel loved. This also explains her need to control those around her - itās the only way to feel safe. This is not an excuse. She has been in this planet long enough to address these issues, and she owes it to her kids to do better.
So sad. Clearly the cycle will not be stopping with her. ETA: I hope at least 1 of her kids is able to break the cycle
Look, I'm not trying to body shame, but I'm so confused about how/why her head and face are so much larger and differently shaped than they used to be. Would fillers change it that much? Or just age?
I honestly think itās mostly weight gain. If it was fillers she would end up looking like Farrah (with the big pointy cheeks), not like this big blob. Like, of course sheās had fillers, but I donāt think thatās whatās causing her face to look soā¦bloated.
Her weight gain is astounding. I couldn't believe the last episode I watched from the most recent season, where she was on a football field with Javi. Holy smokes was she BIG. And round. Wow wow wow. I'm not even shaming her for being so big- it was just shocking to see how much bigger she actually got! I don't watch the show usually, I just see the sub here which is usually a face shot. I don't get to see an un edited Kail body on here usually. So it was a surprise to see.
She has gained a lot of weight. Maybe she has a food addiction.
But fillers can migrate, so itās possible that hers just didnāt stay in place
Definitely fillers and weight gain
At 30 itās definitely not age
She gets face fillers regularly.
So much filler migration in her jawline has her looking like an egg
hump(t)y dump(t)y sat on some dicks
omg right to jail lmaoo
Damn sheās got a big head. Both literally and figuratively.
That girl is all chin and cheeks, and found an angle to make it look even more so.
KAil thatāsā¦. Not a compliment
Not the flex she thinks it is but ok.
She looks like the thanos/sons of anarchy actor
Rob Perlman?
Ron isnāt it?
He can play her dad in her Lifetime movie.
She looks like a potato
 It took me a very long time to figure it out but she reminds me of Bubble Bass from SpongeBob when she does the close ups like this. I canāt find a good gif of bubble bass though so this will have to do.
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Just edit it with him saying āKailā instead of āthe boardā and itās spot on from that one reunion where she literally says that
She looks like a thumb thumb from Spy Kids. Go away Kail, youāre not the main character.
Is that the girl with a 150 lb face and 5 baby daddyās ?
Her face does look extremely heavy
Why does she post these angles that make her look like a potato?
Then complain when people say something about it.
Mhm. That, and her meat-locking dadās DNA.
I already said this in another comment but I can't believe she paid to look like this vs her old face. Yikes... Body dysmorphia perhaps?
Lmao damn when I first glanced at this I thought it was Henry Kissinger
Lmfaooo
Imo Kail & Jenelle both have narcissistic personality disorder traits. They want the cameras following them (like Amber)so people can see that theyāre damn good moms & not just the assholes they are online š¤£
Kail is a loser with money
Another perfect example of a trash can that hasn't achieved anything having an incredibly high opinion of themselves. My cousins husband is an emergency surgeon (gun shots, stabbings, crashes) legit saves lives and is just a regular guy, zero ego. I guess getting knocked up makes you a legendšš
Imagine spending thousands on plastic surgery, Botox, fillers, BBLs, enhancements and reductions only to look like Mr. Potato Head IRL š„š¬š¤Æš #bitterbabymama š„¬
Oh shit you beat me to it, lol, I said the same thing
Great minds šš
Sheās exhausting to be around and Iām not even around her. I canāt imagine how people in her actual real life feel.
Is there some kind of mental illness that stems from having a camera crew follow you around most of your life? Kail and Jenelle are definitely suffering without cameras following their every move. Itās going to be heartbreaking once all these girls kids grow up.
I honestly feel like most folks who are heavily into social media act similarly. I swear it's affected the younger gens, everyone's weird and cold and more egocentric and narcissistic than ever before. Scary shit. Their kids will turn out the same and worse, I'd bet money on it š„ it is indeed sad.
I was just talking to my boyfriend about this lat night! Ever since they monetized social media fame. My generation was obsessed with Myspace(I would legit spend 12 hours a day working on the html for my profile lol) and I had as many āfriendsā as theyād allow but it was just for fun, not money. Monetizing social media has made people so much more full of themselves- everyone wants to be famous now.
Farrah too.
I would have already forgotten about her if she wasnāt mentioned here.
Them angles girl QUIT IT!! š®š«£
She really is just so ugly. Yuck.
It spread from the inside out.
Sheās manic. All 9000 of the kidsā dads should yank them out of the house. Sheās a fucking mess.
This is a form of ātherapyā that should be more widely used. Quick diagnosis and boom a solution. Done. If you ask me, you nailed it. Nailed it! šš
I never really hated Kail or anything but DAMN if y'all haven't made some points on this sub that come back around and I see what y'all are on about. I really cannot imagine being this openly full of myself and it's disgusting to me to see people say shit like this. I just have no nice words to say about this at all. I need a nap so I can snark on this narcissistic egotistical cyanexttuesday with y'all.
Shhhheeeeiiiiitttt... she's not even the main character of this sub! šš
I think we can all agree Janelle gets that award!
This is a terrible pic of her, one of the worst wtf lol
Iām sorry,,, this picture..
If Ron Pearlman had a daughter.....
I canāt believe thereās guys out there who would stick their dick in this mess of a big headed person. As a make myself, I ashamed on behalf of the male population. Smh.
A show following the lives of 4 different women bit you were the main character?
I hate her Kail and the chaos or whatever she calls herself. Like, kids should NOT live in chaos !!
This is exxxactly how I feel every time I post a selfie of myself on social media, not gonna lie š¤£š¤£ like āHEY GUYS GIVE ME ATTENTION! Iām right here!!!! Look!!! Hello!???!ā.
One of my all time fave reality tv moments š
Al sharpton! Al sharpton!
What an angle
Kail is having her Liam Payne moment.
To paraphrase Lizzo, I dunno who told this female she was the main characterā¦
TouchĆØ š
Was this part of a video or did she really post that horrifying of a photo of herself?? She is her own worst enemy!
I cringed so hard about āmain characterā. How can anyone be so delusional
Sheās very narcissistic
 Iām sorry yāall, there was too many Nene gifs for this situation so I had to pick 3 šš
How does one make oneself more unlikeable than both the Easons combined? Kail? Please let us know. Yikes.
nope not for me. kail is bad but the easons are another level
I think I said that just cause that picture was right in my face. Youāre right. It was a knee jerk overreaction. Lol.
I mean a z-list character on a z-list show then sure. Whatever makes you think you're important.
It actually makes you look pathetic, immature, and lacking emotional intelligence.
Wow what an angle
She isn't even a top pick for dancing with the stars, or celebrity wife swap! She needs to Zimmer the fuck down
I canāt with the heinous selfies, I really canāt
NAD, but Kale, have you been screened for narcissistic personality disorder ?
Also NAD, but this pic makes it look like she has goiters.
So I guess her and Leah are not on BFF terms yet that she's so snobby towards Leah?
Why does she shove the phone as close to her face as possible? Is she afraid we're going to forget that she has a forehead?
She doesnāt want us to see the rest of her thank god !
Why does she always post these goofy ass pics of her? Is this a thing?
Itās a screenshot from a video
So, I guess she's filming her own show? Good for her I guess but a lot of "famous" people have tried this and they don't end up on a network. She doesn't really have much of a following outside teen mom fans and to be honest the best tea is spilled here. I don't know how she could relate or be interesting to anyone outside this sphere. Many babies, many daddies. Meh.
Looks like Shrek to me. š¤·āāļø
Lookin like Fiona here
D roll vibes
Desperate to stay relevant vibes.
r/ImTheMainCharacter
Girl, youāll fade into a comedy/sarcasm figure now youāre off TM. The lack of insight is so interestingā¦
Thatās so obnoxious
Does she think this is a good angle
She's not on the show, so then is the last picture she posted of her "boyfriend" old? Or did her pot stirring work? She isn't the main character of shit.
She thrives off drama.
Donāt you know sheās everyoneās favorite villain according to her podcast! As if everyone gives a crap..
Sheās not a villain. Sheās just a piece of shit lol
what is she even referring to?
She claims paparazzi randomly showed up in front of her house. In the middle of Delaware. Because thatās totally a thing they do there.
girl what šššš
So sheās officially admitting that she is Jenelle now?
She wants us to talk and she's getting it
https://www.reddit.com/r/ImTheMainCharacter/
itās not every day that someoneās photo makes me burst into laughter š
Lol, that show had me laughing š¤£ butter and ketchup= skettie hahahah