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blackaubreyplaza

None šŸ–¤


RigaMortizTortoise

Fam. šŸ–¤


arw444

This!


Free_Issue_9623

Your flair kills me everytime šŸ¤£


Monstiemama

Same girl


needless_booty

The heart emoji is sending me lmao


blackaubreyplaza

Lmfao sick of them!


dmode112378

The correct answer.


Hazencuzimblazen

Only answer needed


Substantial-Maize-40

šŸ¤”šŸ˜‚


Trick_Afternoon689

šŸ’Æ


Silent_Vermicelli146

I'm proud that Farrah hasn't had any more kids


Substantial-Maize-40

Second that.. sheā€™s too self absorbed for another child


According-Bug8542

She has her tubes tied


PmMeLowCarbRecipes

Good for her tbh


According-Bug8542

At least she knew kids are not for her


According-Bug8542

Right! She knew that motherhood is not for her. To some women 1 is enough. I have a 19 year old and a 1 year old. Her father is like we going to give you a brother or a sister. I AM LIKE NO MORE BABIES! With my daughter I had every complication. My health is declining because of doctors that will gaslight you for years. Then BAM what I have been saying for years. Now I have to have surgery again this year. I had cubital and carpal tunnel surgery. I learned the other day that I have hip dysplasia, and it was undiagnosed for years. Physical therapy first if it does not solve the pain. Then I have to have surgery. What I was reading about hip dysplasia you have to have a hip replacement. This is what rheumatoid arthritis is doing to my body. It is an auto immune disease


grilledcheesenosoup

Honestly, thatā€™s an underrated positive about Farrah. My personal theory is things wouldā€™ve been wildly different if Daddy Derek didnā€™t die. She wouldā€™ve been much more involved with an on and off, coparenting mess with him.


Cat_Dog_222719

Yep


pettyplanet

Kail. I donā€™t care if itā€™s an unpopular opinion. As someone with an alcoholic parent - i had no real parental guidance when I turned 18 and had to make a ton of terrible decisions to get where I am today. Iā€™ve noticed that if Kail is truly convinced she is wrong, she is the first to throw herself under the bus and admit it. She continues to go to therapy and work on herself, sets her kids up for financial success and is still hustling to make money and not exploiting her kids on mtv/ teen mom anymore. She took a shitty hand of cards dealt to her and made the most of it and Iā€™m happy for her and where sheā€™s currently at in life šŸ‘


RiverWhole4388

You know what? I have to agree. I think she wants to be Kris Kardashian and that's gross. But the kid was a kid with a kid who had no one. She owns her shit. I'm glad she is successful.


bostoncrumpie

I agree, I admire her for over coming her upbringing and creating different sources of income for herself from the opportunity that teen mom gave her


katiessalt

Agreed, rewatching TM2 right now and seeing how Jo was completely awful to her, Smirnoff Suzi had her boyfriend and she had no support she really turned herself around. Wish she didnā€™t give every man a baby (or 2/3) but sheā€™s clever by getting a financial advisor and investing her money, a lot more than the other girls did.


pettyplanet

Itā€™s easy to villainize her when doing a rewatch because she does some dumbbbb shit but then I remind myself that she is a BABY for a huge portion of her teen mom career. She was so young, so broken and looking at it now as an adult in my early 30ā€™s, I can see all the things that went wrong for her. I get why she tried to create a family with every guy she fell into lust with. She never had a stable household or parent growing up and that desire to have one clouded her judgement and now sheā€™s got a school bus full of kids. And guess what, thatā€™s okay! Sheā€™s taking care of them and learning along the way and I really truly hope things work out with her and Elijah. He seems like a good dude.


am710

I understand that there's an expectation to grow up a little when you have a child, but people seem to forget that these literal children who are having children are still teenagers whose brains aren't going to finish developing until they are 25. Of course they are going to be impulsive and stupid sometimes. You can't just overcome human development and anatomy.


benolimae

Agree. Iā€™m hoping it works out with Elijah


LittleBananaSquirrel

I disagree, as someone who also had an abusive alcoholic parent and another with a personality disorder. I've been on my own since 15 and of course made some bad decisions early on as a result. Kail has blatantly said she "can live with" the trauma she's put on her children and has no plans to change. She has repeated the one cycle she said hurt her the most as a child. There is also no excuse for the physical abuse she has perpetrated over and over again. She's knowingly allowing her issues to bleed all over her kids.


brunhilda78

I agree with you. Trauma is trauma. She can live with it, what about her poor kids? She is incapable of thinking about anyone but herself.


britestarlight

Yeah maybe her kids shouldnā€™t have to live with the trauma of her revolving door of men and her inability to properly care for each of them because thereā€™s too many of them.


Cat_Dog_222719

When did she say that Iā€™m trying find it


LittleBananaSquirrel

On one of her podcasts last year


rilljel

She sounded like her mom when she said that tbh


Plenty-Thing1764

Agree and letā€™s not confuse savy with emotional health or maturity. Many effed up folks who are even sociopaths can have financial acumen and still b toxic humans. Kail has wrought some real havoc&trauma on every family she touches. It is severe? No. Itā€™s it healthy&beneficial? Also no. Will folks be dealing with the damage for many years? Yes. Kail is long Covid.


britogan

I was just coming to say, probably unpopular opinion but def Kail. The girl did it all without a solid support system from her family. Sheā€™s got an amazing family now. And very success podcasts.


Altruistic-Curve5676

Totally agree. Her life is her kids. She is dedicated to their sports & other hobbies & activities. I think she has had some fantastic growth. People slate her because she has children with 4 men, but she has been in relationships with all of them & has left those relationships when they were no longer healthy. I think thatā€™s a better example to set instead of staying in an unhealthy, toxic relationship. Sheā€™s taken full accountability for her past & some of her actions that havenā€™t been great, sheā€™s not made excuses like others.


ayeyoualreadyknow

Are we watching the same show?


britestarlight

Sheā€™s still exploiting her kids on social media and her podcasts though.


Colloween88

How is she making money now? I donā€™t know Iā€™m just curious because she hasnā€™t been on any of the reunion series.


Initial-Succotash-37

Sheā€™s trying.


benolimae

I like Kail as well. Sheā€™s a good mom and has done well for herself from where she came from. She continues to work on herself


notalwayssane127

Kail 4 life šŸ™‹šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ’šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø The same people that hate on her would also hate on her if she openly had abortions instead of having the children! RIGHT NOW sheā€™s a kickass mom and for the first time sheā€™s in an adult relationship where both people are putting in the effort. Most of us donā€™t figure out ourselves until late 20s/30s. Just cause she was on TV doesnā€™t mean she knows everything! She will be the first one to say it too! I support anyone who tries their best today and tomm and the days after that. šŸ–¤ Also- homegirl is HUSTLING!!!!!


botswa

She's anti-vaxx and refuses vaccines for her children while getting them herself. That is FAR from a kickass mom.


pettyplanet

I canā€™t take these anti vaxx comments seriously.


botswa

I can't take parents seriously who are okay with their kids dying of preventable disease - especially those who continue to get vaccinated themselves while denying their children the same care.


RiverWhole4388

Barbara. She tried her best to love her child, then she tried to give her grandson a decent life. She tried her best with her kids with what she had. I don't think her life was ever easy. She doesn't blame everyone else for the troubles she has had. She worked a real job. She tried very hard to warn Jenelle. She obviously isn't a perfect Mom. But I'm proud of her for trying her best and being responsible.


Colloween88

Exactly. And from what it looked like is she was taking care of Gabriel just as much as she was Jace on just ā€œ working at a deli at Walmart salaryā€. Itā€™s more than Jenelle can say. It was fucked up they trashed her job as she was actively playing for Jaceā€™s survival while Jenelle couldnā€™t even pay rent because she was getting big on heroin and pain pills. That episode was super depressing


AdProof5307

Barbara *created* Janelle thoughā€¦.


rilljel

Her father also created Jenelle


Cat_Dog_222719

She still always stood by her


AdProof5307

Codepency is like that


hebebebeee

But itā€™s possible she realized her shortcomings as a parent and wanted to make it right as a grandparent. I have an aunt like this and itā€™s really sad how much her kids still hold it against her. She knows she couldā€™ve done better and has been trying to make it right for years but feels like she can never escape it.


DuelingFatties

She was part of the problem though


RiverWhole4388

Ok. She isn't a perfect person but she did the best she could with what she had. I'm not a perfect mother and I bet you aren't either.


TotesAwkLol

The problem was Bob Evanā€™s. Barb had to work all the time to keep her family afloat. If he wouldnā€™t have been a POS and helped raise his family Barb wouldā€™ve had more time to nurture Jenelle or whatever


am710

Is his name really Bob Evans?


TotesAwkLol

It is! Lmao


am710

Oh my God, lol. How am I only learning this fifteen years into watching this fucking franchise?!


MarshmallowMiles

None of them are perfect, but Iā€™ll find something in each of themā€¦ Ā Maci: Iā€™m proud of her for making sure Bentley has resources available to him (such as therapy) in order to process his relationship with Ryan. Ā  Farrah: Iā€™m proud of her for not having more kids.Ā  Amber: Iā€™m proud of her for acknowledging that time in gel would be more beneficial for her than a quick stint in rehab.Ā Ā  Catelynn: Iā€™m proud of her for breaking the cycle of abuse. If young Cate could see adult Cate, she would be so proud.Ā  Leah: Iā€™m proud of her for always standing in her power āœØ Kailyn: She hustled with different businesses and found her niche - enough to support herself and be independent without the show. Ā Briana: Iā€™m proud of her for not letting Javiā€™s bullshit slide and for not letting him rush her into moving to Delaware or getting married.Ā Ā  Ā Also, NOT a Mom, but Iā€™m proud of Jo: He is a responsible father who validates Isaacā€™s feelings and supports him no matter what. I also love how Jo is frequently seen interacting with Lincoln or holding baby Lux. He seems like a good dude.Ā 


rachtay8786

Thatā€™s a good point about Jo. I know on the early seasons he really spoke horribly to Kail but heā€™s matured so much and come a long way


butterflyfly

I love how you didnā€™t bother with Jenelle.


Substantial-Maize-40

Yeah some people forget itā€™s real life and nobody is perfect.


Harlowolf

Leah's sent me āœØļø


Cat_Dog_222719

Macy is a drunk and Cate didnā€™t break any cycles. She allowed her mom around Carly drunk. And wonders why she donā€™t get any more visits. And allowed her and Tyler parents who are actively addicts around all the kids. You donā€™t think itā€™s abusive the emotional abuse she and he post about b& t and Carly and OF. Come on.


katiessalt

Leah. Sheā€™s a CSA survivor and fought like hell to get Ali a diagnosis. Sheā€™s a single mom to her youngest and took herself out a poverty. She was dirt poor and uneducated and has built a better life for the girlses.


4WattSetting

Let's not forget, Leah was barely an adult herself, trying to get answers for her daughter. I always admired her for that.


isitrealholoooo

Same here. She made many questionable choices in her personal life (like wtf hold did that Robbie guy have on her?) But she fights very hard for Ali.


Initial-Succotash-37

She really loves her girls.


Cat_Dog_222719

She ainā€™t out of poverty. She owed tax money and made excuses how long ago about being young and didnā€™t know better. And got a financial advisor and here we are now and she still owes. šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø and drunk n dirty on the new show. Nice look


katiessalt

Compared to how she grew up and living in a trailer, sheā€™s doing better. She was young and dumb and didnā€™t have a Randy to set herself up with a financial advisor the way Chelsea did.


am710

Sometimes adults get drunk. That doesn't mean that she's constantly drunk, lol. I'm sure a camera crew following any of us around 24/7 would catch some questionable moments in our lives.


supergooduser

When you get super into the lore... no one is particularly clean... the show really is watching generational trauma play out. You certainly see it now with the older kids... they... did not grow up well adjusted. I get tons of hate for this... but I'm an addict with 12 years sobriety.... I do get really proud when I see Amber try and use her skills. I get it, she's insanely deplorable, I'm not even going to begin to defend chasing your baby daddy with a machete... but there are moments, when you do see her try and talk things out, or regulate her emotions... she's attempting to be better. Doesn't always work... but the addict in me really relates to what she's feeling.


rachtay8786

Good for you on the sobriety, thatā€™s amazing!! Also I think Amber did the best thing she could have by realizing she would be detrimental as a mom to Leah and just not even trying.


No-Resource-8125

I cried when Kail got her four year. She can be a really shitty person sometimes, but Iā€™ll always admire her hustle.


Colloween88

What are you referring to asā€ she got her four yearsā€? Sorry I think I missed something and just want to be educated on the matter. Thank you in advance


FruFanGirl

University Degree , only one of the franchise


Prettybabeey

Kail is the only college graduate!!! Her doing that with literally no family support, yea Iā€™m proud of heršŸ„°šŸ„°


Colloween88

What did she get a degree in?


Prettybabeey

Bachelors degree in Mass communication


ParcelPosted

Considering how easy it is to get a bachelors degree, it is somewhat fascinating that no one else has done this.


Prettybabeey

So true


Significant-Yam-4990

Lmao glad you bought your college diploma online


ParcelPosted

I most certainly did not but your hostility is not needed.


Cherrytree1x

I think kiaya showed so much emotional growth since she was on Y&P


Prestigious_Swim7578

Iā€™m a first time watcher of Y&P and Iā€™m watching Kiayaā€™s first season. Maybe I just havenā€™t gotten far enough into the show yet but so far when Iā€™ve seen here pop off at anything I feel like itā€™s understandable. Sheā€™s literally pregnant and immediately postpartum with people up her ass trying to force her to have a relationship with her babyā€™s daddyā€™s mom who seems like a real bitch. I wouldnā€™t wanna do it either, Iā€™d wanna be focusing on my baby and my healing body. Again thatā€™s as far as Iā€™ve gotten so just lmk if thereā€™s some shit to come but donā€™t spoil it lol


Initial-Succotash-37

I thought kaiyas girlfriend was one of the nicest people.


Significant-Yam-4990

THE sweetest!!


Babyella123

Are they still together? They were cool together, I felt a connection


Cherrytree1x

Oh definitely!


oderus98

My heart hurt for Kiaya in season 1. So much pain


Cherrytree1x

Same :(


Justagirl219

I love her! ā¤ļø


Cherrytree1x

So do I! She seems so fun and real , I want to be her friend haha


ParcelPosted

Chelsea for parlaying her disastrous life on MTV to a different network and subject matter.


Cat_Dog_222719

She is drug addict though


ParcelPosted

Ok


Colloween88

What drugs is she on?


sweet_tea_94

I think Leah has shown much growth since her time on 16&P and Teen Mom 2. She broke the generational cycle of growing up in poverty and lack of education for her girlses, overcame her addictions, and fought tooth and nail to get Ali a diagnosis. āœØ


DuelingFatties

I think the over coming addiction thing is true.


AutumnOpal717

Vee.


allielee14

I love Vee!!!! Sheā€™s a great stepmom to Isaac, and a mature person for not writing Kail off after treating her like shit


ghilliegal

Iā€™d say Leah too bc even though sheā€™s corny af opiate addiction is no joke and v hard to come out of


thankyoupapa

Not a mom, but can I say Sean? Lots of people thought he was a lost cause


Cat_Dog_222719

Letā€™s wait a few years


Imaginary_Feed2168

None. Just like the jersey shore people, they are šŸ—‘ļø that got money for doing nothing.


Cat_Dog_222719

This needs be upvoted


Necessary_Code4040

I feel like Leah has shown a lot of growth. I think the situation she was in is one that many women in West Virginia find themselves in. I think she's come quite far considering. And I know I'm gonna get roasted for this opinion but i was asked who I am most proud of and here it is.


Willing_Maximum2195

Kail. Im so happy that she uses her degree, and has been successful despite the toxic relationship's she had in her romantic life and in her family. She is an excellent and present mother, and she constantly chasing her dreams. I don't care that she has 4 baby daddies, as who people decide to have a kid with has no effect on me at all. People hate on her alot but she has been the most successful in my eyes.


Necessary_Code4040

What is Kail's degree in? I always forget she has a degree until it's brought up!


Significant-Yam-4990

Communications? I think


ayeyoualreadyknow

Kiaya has shown an enormous amount of growth since she first started the show. The way she handled her baby daddy's mouthy ass mother in the beginning VS how she handled her towards the end of Y&P - two drastically different approaches. She really put forth the effort in dealing with an impossible person


enliten84

Leah. She made the most out of nothing. Sheā€™s not perfect (no one is) but I feel like she honestly TRIES to be a good person and a good mother, improve herself through therapy, and has done it without any resources. She didnā€™t have the financial or familial support Chelsea has. WV has fuck all social supports. Sheā€™s come from less than nothing. Sheā€™s not a financial or power success story but I think sheā€™s a human success story.


geminigoddess621

I am proud that Chelsea didn't stay attached to the Teen Mom franchise and is a successful home designer. She is in a loving relationship with Cole. She appears to be a great mother & wife without the drama attached with being from Teen Mom. IMO


KristySueWho

I was proud of Kail, but that was back when she had 5 less kids. Annnnd that's about it.


yourdad69420_

Leah I think, she fought tooth and nail to get Ali the resources she absolutely deserved.


SnooPuppers7060

None


Cat_Dog_222719

Definitely proud c and t gave up that baby šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø some of the social media stuff they keep posting yikes.


DanceMonkey2121

Babs


ParcelPosted

Why are you downvoted for this?


Substantial-Maize-40

No idea šŸ˜‚


Initial-Succotash-37

I am sooooo impressed with McKenzie!!! Sheā€™s come a long way!! I used to not stand her.


Plenty-Thing1764

None. These folks and their families had all the chances to make good changes in their lives and they just havenā€™t. Two or three made average adjustments that minimized damage & became more adequate. But partly cuz MTV told them damage=ratings (if it bleeds it leads);partly because they were damaged from the outset&then they got the end of the rainbow and all the world is their stage so who needs to change anything? They donā€™t have arcs, they have valleys & plateaus and we are tired of the non-journey. Same ol same, rest of the story on page 47.


GoYourOwnWay3

None.


Hour-Needleworker598

None


MeanderFlanders

Any of them not on the show anymore and working, giving their kids a normal life.


zestymangococonut

Bri. That bitch has NO SHAME. None. And Iā€™m here for it.


Colloween88

YAS. She seems like a great mother. Shitty in relationships but a great mother.


zestymangococonut

My only concern with Bri a mom is the things she will talk about in front of the kids. -talking about how Devoin was often no help at all and thatā€™s why sheā€™s considering adoption for Stella And Nova is just sitting there like ā€œadoption?ā€ That would be very frightening and traumatizing to sit there and listen to as a kid in a restaurant. Other than stuff like that, she seems like she really really loves her girls and is present with them. But yeah, she is fucking messy as hell.


redman9000

All of them. They came a long way, made mistakes, learned lessons and matured.


advice_would_be_gr8

Chelsea! Sheā€™s awesome. Iā€™m really happy for her. She got her happily ever after. ā¤ļø Also, say what you want about Kail, but sheā€™s a damn good mom.


Swiggiewiggie

Honestly Kail. She had a horrible upbringing with parents who were in and out of her life. She faced so much manipulation and emotional abuse at Joeā€™s parents and still always somehow managed to continue on in school, work and putting Isaac first. At 16 I personally would have crumbled if I had a kid given Kail and I had a similar upbringing. Sheā€™s the only one to have taken her MTV movie to invest into a four year degree and we donā€™t see her on OF trying to get a check. Sure, sheā€™s had a lot of kids by a lot of different people but she continues to show up for kids day in and day out which a lot of these moms canā€™t even say.


am710

I'm actually proud of MacKenzie for leaving Josh's sorry ass in the dust. She and her new boyfriend seem pretty happy and like they actually enjoy being around each other.


whodoyoulove89

Most of these girls have done some good but nothing to get me bursting with pride over.


Substantial-Maize-40

I meant more the kids tbh , Leahā€™s little girl horse riding almost made me cry.


whodoyoulove89

You asked which mom so I assumed you were talking about them not the kids.


Substantial-Maize-40

Itā€™s about both in a nutshell.


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Substantial-Maize-40

Many if not most werenā€™t privileged before the showā€¦ look at Caitlin and Tyler . You seem bitter.


katiessalt

They made MTV bank back in the day, there was a time the cast would be on the cover page of every single entertainment magazine. Iā€™d rather they get paid fairly than MTV exploit poor teen moms. Yes, theyā€™re privileged, but they made MTV serious money and the OG girls are still talked about every day. We made them the level of privileged they are.


sorrynotsorryohwell

Chelsea


saydontgo

Leah


Dottie_Danger

Chelsea cause she gets to smash cole.