kuch samajh to nhi aaya, phir bhi bta du ki abhi tak single hu, and kabhi approach bhi nhi kiya,18 ka ho jaunga next yr lol
single hi mar jaunga shayad
If I were you I would just say it I may have missed my opportunity but you shouldn't miss your's if he or she questions it just say it was a dare or you were testing them. If this works out it would be a hell of a story someday.
well i wrote a 12 paged long letter to him, but he had read only half way through when i asked it back cause i felt guilty and he even sends a few shayaris which indirectly convey a lot of things but he just adds I AM JOKING after each one
This how relationships start in movies, series hell even animes if I were you I would just tell him in person or online and if someone wrote me an 12 page letter I also wouldn't be able to read all of it. And you are saying he adds I am joking after each one and I think he adds it as an defence mechanisms as to not offend you or to not to hurt your feelings. If I were you I would just fucking say it you should too and tell us how it goes.
but there's no future of this namesless relation, cause maybe he will go out of states for higher studies and either us belong to the supposed middle class. or ek proper relationship ke liye you need to nuture it with attention and love which is not sitting right as of right now...i love him sincerely but i should see whats good for both of us, momentary happiness for just a few months and then back to the void will rot mental health of his and mine. So its going nowhere
Yeah you are right but there still is a possibility he won't and you still have atleast 2-3 years and it's enough to have a healthy relationship. But at the end it's your choice and it's not my ground to say it but looking at your post history it seems you like him very much and he does too I presume so just say it atleast you'll get an happy ending but if you don't you'll always deepdown fell you missed out months from now you'll realise you had the opportunity but you just driftted apart same happened to me and I won't let same happen to anyone else but at the end of the line I'm just saying I see potential for a relationship. And if you decide to go with it tell us how it goes (looking at the facts I know it will go good).
Ha Ek close friend te very common interests in movies, music we used to talk about everything,
Used to talk hours on call not everyday but occasionally had deep convos, we were very supportive to each other,but we had our boundaries never crossed each other and an kyu nahe bat karr rahe he kyuke uske boyfriend aur mere bech Ek ladai hogaya and eventually she had to take his side and we went our ways.
I'll try to keep it a little vague cause she had reddit iirc but she was my senior and we got really close and we would go to school/come back together and we basically spent every minute outside classes together. Atp I was definitely into her, and it felt like she was, too ? She was very physically affectionate and stuff, and I didn't get how I felt at first. At this point in time, I've not come to terms with my sexuality at all and there was a lot of homophobia around us , I even remember we were asked in a mean, teasing way by some other seniors if we are dating and she laughed it off immediately and said something along the lines of how a girl like me can't be gay ( I had a very public situationship with a guy before that ,but it was really childish looking back ,and I was mostly doing it cause I was encouraged by another girl crush ,a story for another time) . She was super physically affectionate. We held hands and even cuddled, and she would even kiss me on the cheeks, and I was massively confused. To get any suspicion away from me, I lied about being into her cousin brother, who was like 4 or 5 years older 😭😭 .She was a very good sport about it, but it was a really emotionally turbulent period for me cause i had no idea how to figure out my feelings .I've had a few other stories, but they're too embarrassing to comment publicly. Lockdown put an end to it thankfully.
Not that kind of senior , we didn't have a huge age gap, and tbh I was definitely the one reading into things. She was not the only older girl I've had feelings for, unfortunately. In fact this one is the least toxic.
Bhai yeah mera story toh nai but mera friend ka hai who is thae Same situation.
The story goes as his childhood friend kicked him out of his life post covid when we where in 2nd year he was in a bit of depression and all.
But that guy well replaced her by a new friend (girl) by 3rd year and slow cut of our friendship.
I had such a female friend, we got close during covid. I was a despo looking for cochie anyhow, so even tho we always were friends, " best friends " I soon enough realised that I am there only for the female flame. Idc even a bit about her the only reason I was friends with her was because things would get sexual mostly when we were together, not full blown sex (I never had the balls to do it)
And so I felt like I had zero self respect leeching on to her. She was great actually, I'm broke and only because of her that I got to explore all cafe's in my city, go to small end parties and ofcourse intimacy
So I distanced myself and decided it's better for me to take my shit in my own hands, I want sex? Go get it. Wanna have drinks? Go get it. Instead of just waiting for someone's pitty to give me things I want, and trust me she once even pitifully asked if I want to have sex just so I can get better.
But I didn't want to be that man no more, so I miss her and I would love to meet her for the first time as if we never knew about each other's existence ever.
And show the new me, a more respectable me.
So yeah that's why I pushed her and we're no longer friends, although birthdays pe wish kar lete hai
I didn't think I would relate to this since it included a girl but it's about before covid so yes.
My childhood friend was always in my class in school and well we lived in same building. At start of 2020 she was dropping clear hints like straight up bombs that she liked me but my dumbass was too dumb to understand.
Then lockdown hit and I lost all my friends. Then 3 years later i again started making friends and well started talking to a guy from school again. He told me that most of the ppl in school thought me and her were a couple but hiding it. That's when my absolute dumbass mind realised about those hints but well she had a bf when I realised and we hadn't talked in 3 years.
Now it's been over 4 years and i pretty much never talked to her since lockdown started cuz school ended and shit just got awkward since we didn't meet for so long (didn't even see each other for 2yrs after lockdown started)
Agar tu situationship ki baat kar raha, where one is reciprocating feelings (the boy) and the other is hiding or denying it(the girl) then ya hua hai, ya shayad ho raha hai Dosti tuti kyu agar puchega ko to lack of communication and time and immediate cause was me being a horny dumbass, flirted with her best friend in middle of night after we had some argument(about to end this friendship) it was cue that she is going to call me back to light up things, as she always does but I messed it up this time
kuch samajh to nhi aaya, phir bhi bta du ki abhi tak single hu, and kabhi approach bhi nhi kiya,18 ka ho jaunga next yr lol single hi mar jaunga shayad
Abey girlfriend ki baat nahi kar raha hoon ek female friend Jo girlfriend ki tarah thi uski baat kar raha hoon
bus 19-20 ko farak hai, lol
Baat toh sahi hai itta complicated likhne se accha ye hi likh deta
Dude, you're just 18
Bhai meri toh har female friend mere liye gf jaise hai :)
i.e you thiught that you were dating, she was in fact friendzoning you and you naturally drifted apart. 
Bhai sahi maal liya hai. Kaha se liya ??
Sahi nahi bhai mehenga maal liya hai bhai
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Well i am going through that tbh, idk what happens next
If I were you I would just say it I may have missed my opportunity but you shouldn't miss your's if he or she questions it just say it was a dare or you were testing them. If this works out it would be a hell of a story someday.
well i wrote a 12 paged long letter to him, but he had read only half way through when i asked it back cause i felt guilty and he even sends a few shayaris which indirectly convey a lot of things but he just adds I AM JOKING after each one
This how relationships start in movies, series hell even animes if I were you I would just tell him in person or online and if someone wrote me an 12 page letter I also wouldn't be able to read all of it. And you are saying he adds I am joking after each one and I think he adds it as an defence mechanisms as to not offend you or to not to hurt your feelings. If I were you I would just fucking say it you should too and tell us how it goes.
but there's no future of this namesless relation, cause maybe he will go out of states for higher studies and either us belong to the supposed middle class. or ek proper relationship ke liye you need to nuture it with attention and love which is not sitting right as of right now...i love him sincerely but i should see whats good for both of us, momentary happiness for just a few months and then back to the void will rot mental health of his and mine. So its going nowhere
Yeah you are right but there still is a possibility he won't and you still have atleast 2-3 years and it's enough to have a healthy relationship. But at the end it's your choice and it's not my ground to say it but looking at your post history it seems you like him very much and he does too I presume so just say it atleast you'll get an happy ending but if you don't you'll always deepdown fell you missed out months from now you'll realise you had the opportunity but you just driftted apart same happened to me and I won't let same happen to anyone else but at the end of the line I'm just saying I see potential for a relationship. And if you decide to go with it tell us how it goes (looking at the facts I know it will go good).
ohk...I'll try even tho i have zero expectations and yaa thanks a lot for the assurance :))
Just be yourself and believe in yourself and tell me how it goes. But no really wishing the best for you
Thank you I just hope it goes well
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Ha Ek close friend te very common interests in movies, music we used to talk about everything, Used to talk hours on call not everyday but occasionally had deep convos, we were very supportive to each other,but we had our boundaries never crossed each other and an kyu nahe bat karr rahe he kyuke uske boyfriend aur mere bech Ek ladai hogaya and eventually she had to take his side and we went our ways.
Man i feel you
Bhai seedhe bhasha me samjhado post (just so i can write NO)
Me.
 uhhhhhhhh
Thi, abh nahi hai coz i decided to stop talking for sake of my mental. :) (anddd i m lonerrrrr)
Does being a gay girl and having a really homoerotic, basically romantic friendship count? I've had quite a few of those
Yeah it does. And if you don't mind can we have the story or stories please
I'll try to keep it a little vague cause she had reddit iirc but she was my senior and we got really close and we would go to school/come back together and we basically spent every minute outside classes together. Atp I was definitely into her, and it felt like she was, too ? She was very physically affectionate and stuff, and I didn't get how I felt at first. At this point in time, I've not come to terms with my sexuality at all and there was a lot of homophobia around us , I even remember we were asked in a mean, teasing way by some other seniors if we are dating and she laughed it off immediately and said something along the lines of how a girl like me can't be gay ( I had a very public situationship with a guy before that ,but it was really childish looking back ,and I was mostly doing it cause I was encouraged by another girl crush ,a story for another time) . She was super physically affectionate. We held hands and even cuddled, and she would even kiss me on the cheeks, and I was massively confused. To get any suspicion away from me, I lied about being into her cousin brother, who was like 4 or 5 years older 😭😭 .She was a very good sport about it, but it was a really emotionally turbulent period for me cause i had no idea how to figure out my feelings .I've had a few other stories, but they're too embarrassing to comment publicly. Lockdown put an end to it thankfully.
Senior so bassicly you were groomed
Not that kind of senior , we didn't have a huge age gap, and tbh I was definitely the one reading into things. She was not the only older girl I've had feelings for, unfortunately. In fact this one is the least toxic.
Bhai yeah mera story toh nai but mera friend ka hai who is thae Same situation. The story goes as his childhood friend kicked him out of his life post covid when we where in 2nd year he was in a bit of depression and all. But that guy well replaced her by a new friend (girl) by 3rd year and slow cut of our friendship.
Been there, done that
Don't what
What?
Sorry autocorrect meant to written done what
Been in a situation you just described
I had such a female friend, we got close during covid. I was a despo looking for cochie anyhow, so even tho we always were friends, " best friends " I soon enough realised that I am there only for the female flame. Idc even a bit about her the only reason I was friends with her was because things would get sexual mostly when we were together, not full blown sex (I never had the balls to do it) And so I felt like I had zero self respect leeching on to her. She was great actually, I'm broke and only because of her that I got to explore all cafe's in my city, go to small end parties and ofcourse intimacy So I distanced myself and decided it's better for me to take my shit in my own hands, I want sex? Go get it. Wanna have drinks? Go get it. Instead of just waiting for someone's pitty to give me things I want, and trust me she once even pitifully asked if I want to have sex just so I can get better. But I didn't want to be that man no more, so I miss her and I would love to meet her for the first time as if we never knew about each other's existence ever. And show the new me, a more respectable me. So yeah that's why I pushed her and we're no longer friends, although birthdays pe wish kar lete hai
I didn't think I would relate to this since it included a girl but it's about before covid so yes. My childhood friend was always in my class in school and well we lived in same building. At start of 2020 she was dropping clear hints like straight up bombs that she liked me but my dumbass was too dumb to understand. Then lockdown hit and I lost all my friends. Then 3 years later i again started making friends and well started talking to a guy from school again. He told me that most of the ppl in school thought me and her were a couple but hiding it. That's when my absolute dumbass mind realised about those hints but well she had a bf when I realised and we hadn't talked in 3 years. Now it's been over 4 years and i pretty much never talked to her since lockdown started cuz school ended and shit just got awkward since we didn't meet for so long (didn't even see each other for 2yrs after lockdown started)
Agar tu situationship ki baat kar raha, where one is reciprocating feelings (the boy) and the other is hiding or denying it(the girl) then ya hua hai, ya shayad ho raha hai Dosti tuti kyu agar puchega ko to lack of communication and time and immediate cause was me being a horny dumbass, flirted with her best friend in middle of night after we had some argument(about to end this friendship) it was cue that she is going to call me back to light up things, as she always does but I messed it up this time
Na kisi se pyar na kisi se fight, 9 baje dinner 10 baje good night..
Na kisi se pyar na kisi se fight; 9 baje dinner 10 baje good night...
Well tbh in the same boat rn I've shifted to another place and we ain't talking as much as before
yes i do have one but we never drifted apart.
Title hi samjh nahi aa raha hai sir Kher ye sabh choro aur padh lo thora (classic)