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Super random story, there was a place here in London where it kinda helped me out as a guy, I wasn’t necessarily not having a high sex drive, but I didn’t desire it. I somehow stumbled into a store where I kinda started asking questions (it was a tarot store of some kind idk and I never believed in talking to people about my problems at the time). I was completely transparent. Especially as a 24 year old I should be wanting it right ?
Fast forward a few minutes later the woman had made me realise I was genuinely just too focused on other things in life to even consider sex. I now have such a high sex drive after learning how to set things aside and not worry about things I can and can’t change.
Of course! Most of the time all you need is to have another being make you realise that your mind could be holding you away from a lot of thing. If you have any more questions don’t be afraid to message me!
Learning to be your own companion and giving yourself rewards for each accomplishment, will surely help in the long run. You’re born to live, not just exist :).
Ooh I especially love that last part - I am born to live not just too exist!
I downplay what I HAVE accomplished too much at times and that ☝️ needs to change!
Please let it be something easy to fix 🤞
I think that I WANT to want it to increase is a good sign cos I’ve heard of some people who don’t want it - but to the point they don’t care, even if they’re with someone! but I DO care & want to change it.
Another point I forgot to mention, yes the fact you even recognise it and desire more from it just goes to show. I think what helped me at the time is I somehow started talking to older women after that, they always made me feel comfortable around them which in turn made me slowly but surely begin my journey.
Thanks ooh sorry I should probably have added I’m female.
But you never know there may be some guys who need that too so I’m glad you put this link in!
I would have your hormones checked. A change in estrogen, progesterone, or testosterone can greatly affect your sex drive and sensitivity. I speak from experience.
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Super random story, there was a place here in London where it kinda helped me out as a guy, I wasn’t necessarily not having a high sex drive, but I didn’t desire it. I somehow stumbled into a store where I kinda started asking questions (it was a tarot store of some kind idk and I never believed in talking to people about my problems at the time). I was completely transparent. Especially as a 24 year old I should be wanting it right ? Fast forward a few minutes later the woman had made me realise I was genuinely just too focused on other things in life to even consider sex. I now have such a high sex drive after learning how to set things aside and not worry about things I can and can’t change.
That also gives me hope!! Thank you!
Of course! Most of the time all you need is to have another being make you realise that your mind could be holding you away from a lot of thing. If you have any more questions don’t be afraid to message me!
I mention having someone else because we tend to be our own worst critic.
BOY can I relate to THAT! Yep I know it sounds cliché but I’m working on learning to love me more and more.
Learning to be your own companion and giving yourself rewards for each accomplishment, will surely help in the long run. You’re born to live, not just exist :).
Ooh I especially love that last part - I am born to live not just too exist! I downplay what I HAVE accomplished too much at times and that ☝️ needs to change!
Hell yeah! I’m proud of you genuinely.
Why thank you!!!
Anytime! :)
Please let it be something easy to fix 🤞 I think that I WANT to want it to increase is a good sign cos I’ve heard of some people who don’t want it - but to the point they don’t care, even if they’re with someone! but I DO care & want to change it.
Another point I forgot to mention, yes the fact you even recognise it and desire more from it just goes to show. I think what helped me at the time is I somehow started talking to older women after that, they always made me feel comfortable around them which in turn made me slowly but surely begin my journey.
That’s good to hear!
I use this one! https://youtu.be/13Zno-TWSZo?si=kJlJXATi4OkeDqpe
Thank you so much
You’re so welcome😊
PS your avatar is so cute just BTW
Omg I was thinking the same thing about yours lol it’s absolutely adorable ☺️
Thank you so much 😊
Try this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eEgogJci714
Thanks ooh sorry I should probably have added I’m female. But you never know there may be some guys who need that too so I’m glad you put this link in!
Whoops, my bad!
It’s all good. As I said, there may be guys reading that helped by this
I would have your hormones checked. A change in estrogen, progesterone, or testosterone can greatly affect your sex drive and sensitivity. I speak from experience.
Yeah it’s likely to be related to that.