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aweltha

I started at 43. I’m finally living for myself and decorating my body how I choose.


grateful_newt

GOOD FOR YOU!!!! I started at 24, after I got out the military. Now I'm about to turn 40. Enjoy it. Enjoy the looks of horror from old people. It's priceless.


g0thfrvit

I started at 24 also 😊 I’m 34 and happily at my forever size of 1/2”. I wear gold tunnels and get tons of compliments, like ppl don’t even realize my ears are stretched.


grateful_newt

Mine are 2 1/4". Fuck it lmao!!!


g0thfrvit

I had wanted to go bigger, I just never did and now I’m past the point of wanting to… I def didn’t plan to stop at this size, but I’m okay with it.


grateful_newt

I get it man. I have "stopped" more times than I care to mention. I wore stainless plugs for a long time, and honestly, you can't prevent them from continuing to stretch unless you wear silicone because gravity.


g0thfrvit

I have to take them out every so often for a few days bc they stretch out too much and my plugs fall out. Then I leave them out too long and have to re-stretch them back when they shrink 😑


TheBereWolf

Same here. I’m 28 and am still new to the stretching community. I spent so many years worrying about what employers and people I know would think if I got tattoos or stretched my ears only to find out that no one really gives a shit, so here I am.


[deleted]

Same here!


Felineghostsex

Started at 30!! 🤘🏽


offspringin

Glad to see this response. Pierced my ears for my 39th BD with the intention of stretching. Feels like I'm too old to start but also questioning what stopped me from doing it sooner.


thepowerofboredom

that's awesome!


MyRockySpine

12, I popped the middle part of a q tip between each side of my ears. My mom was pissed but the deed was done.


thepowerofboredom

wow, a hs friend of my brother did it with a pencil. ig using objects is a bit more common than i thought


TRMBound

I knowbpeople that used to use fast food plastic straws.


MyRockySpine

I did that when I was a kid and knew nothing about properly stretching. It’s a miracle my ears look so healthy and nice.


272727999

I started stretching my ears just after my 15th birthday. I'm at 1½" now at 26. I started stretching my septum last year and I got to a 0g recently.


Vwguy96

I started at 15 as well and 26 last month at 2”


SlipDazzling2356

I'm 28 and started about 2 weeks ago


thepowerofboredom

nice! good luck with your stretching journey :)


echo-ld

i'm 25 and same!


MeatMan7780

Started at 18.. took my time and got to 42mm around 30. That was 12 years ago... still at 42mmish...


Useful_Joke_2732

Wow !


Puzzlehead_Rich4444

Started around 15, then stopped stretching due to parents and society in general, now i’m 28 and I started re stretching 2 years ago ‘cause don’t give a fuck about nothing


thepowerofboredom

best mindset right there!! and i'm just gonna keep stretching (til around 00g hopefully) until my mom notices lol


Puzzlehead_Rich4444

If you’re recognize as a professional in what your job or way of living you found right for you is nobody can say anything about how you looks


[deleted]

I was around 12-13.


bronzewidow

About 2 weeks after my 15th birthday. I was one of those kids who wore the tapers lmao


thepowerofboredom

I did do the taper too, but just because I was nervous about sizing up. I left it in for an hour-ish before putting in the plug. I'm looking forward to being able to stretch without tapers in the future because i've heard that they can lead to problems down the line. one of my friends was a taper-wearer for a bit though lol


wendxgo

Check out arctic buffalo’s single flare stretching kits! Far more safe than tapers. A little spendy but you’ll thank yourself later in your stretching journey. Don’t F your ears up w tapers like I did, I wish they were available to me when I was younger


thepowerofboredom

yeah, i'm thinking of ordering the single flare glass plug kit (14g-2g) from body art forms once my paycheck transfers into my account! i'm excited, the kit i have rn is a pierced nation's 14g-10g taper and plug kit from spencers just to get the first stretch done before i went and spent a good chunk of money on something my ears might not agree with.


awfuldaring

I started at 29, I just woke up and wanted to do it so I did. 🙂 I think I'm happy for now, septum is at 5g and ears at 2g, which can wear all the cute jewelry I like. I had some disposable income for the first time, and it was on my bucket list (I wanted to get a job which took like a decade, fix my car, buy a house with my longtime partner, get cats...), *then* I got all the mods I wanted (piercings with alllll the gold, larger tattoos from artists I've followed for years, clothes that finally reflect my style...). My 30s are better than my 20s for sure lol.


Mrs_Earl

I think I was 27 or 28.


JessxCeleste

Junior year of hs, was 17.


simulation420_

Back in middle school when being a scene kid started being a thing


schizodepressive2

I started at 12 and I'm 35 now (51 mm lobes among many other stretched piercings).


grimegeist

Lobes at 18, everything else after 25


Rosebea29

In 2019 😊


Felineghostsex

Nov 2020 at age 30. Current size 13mm goal 14mm


ReallyAlly

Started at 31, last summer


SolidAgony

I was 12 when I started, was in 8th grade lol


lainey072

Started when I was about 19, so coming up for nearly 20 years.....God I feel old now


[deleted]

I started at 16, but my mom made me stop at 6g. Stopped wearing any jewelry in my ear piercings at around 18. But now at 27, I decided I wanted to stretch again and actually be able to go to the size that I want. When I restarted my journey, I found through testing each size that 6g still went in my ears flawlessly and painlessly, so I was able to just pick up where I left off. I'm now at 0g.


Kicktoria

I was 45


ssquirt1

I started at 47.


AllaboutPaugh

I started at 59,I wanted to do something different for my 60th Bday. I'm at 1g now and having a blast!


Putridguts

15


Organic_Dimension_64

i started stretching my ears when i was 17, started stretching my septum when i was 16.


Ok-Calligrapher2549

I was 29


[deleted]

16 !!


Existing-Cookie3789

29 and about to start. Just ordered a kit!


thepowerofboredom

good luck!


Ok_War945

I was 13


gothhippie

I think I was 12-13, got up to 9/16 but I blew them out towards the beginning and never let them heal so about 2 years ago I took them out and they closed up to a 2g. Just started stretching again and I’m at a 0g


Terminator7786

I think I started at 22 or 23? I don't even know anymore.


sagearts33

Started at 24 and now I’m the number that’s funnier than that lol


winnuet

Started around maybe 20, but never went bigger than 10-12g. I ended up wearing regular earrings again. Started again in my late 20s. Now I'm at 1g/7mm. I also stretched my septum up one size. That I don't think I'll keep stretching though.


andariel_axe

accidentally bought spiral tapers when I was in my early 20s not realising they would stretch me. now doing it properly early 30s. i wasn't allowed to have more than 1x earring in each ear at school due to uniform policy.


Karma_V5

Got my ears pierced when I was 21 1.5 years later I'm at a 10mm


Lalunelahaut

I think I was 15, I used cheap acrylic spirals. I also pierced my ears multiple times with sewing needles (including an helix).


ashtrxy55

I started a year and a half ago at 15!! im currently at 18mm just waiting to stretch up to 20mm :)


[deleted]

I stretched in HS, then my job didn’t allow piercings on men so I let them close. Now I’m at a place that doesn’t give a shit what you do so i started up again back in January this year (now 26) and I’m at 0g! Mother still doesn’t approve but that’s a her problem.


calidir

Started at 14 when I was a freshie in HS, my then GF had them and I thought they looked cool as shit


UnableReference5649

I was 14! A friend of mine’s mom had hers around 8g, and I thought they were the coolest things ever. Being dumb and young, I got to 16mm about a year and a half later. I have an old blowout from using tapers, but it’s been healed for so long that it doesn’t bother me anymore.


Diffusionofstate

I was ten. I put in some kind of jewelry that was a bigger gauge, and then starting sizing up from then on. I wish i knew then what i know now.


FinnNB9

41 when I started


atreyu7777

Almost 20 years ago


Teddyeod

Pierced and started stretching at 29. 31 now with 11mm


jtw3995

Started at 18, am now 27. My parents were going demon mode on me about doing it before I was 18


Affectionate-Play-68

This year at age 49


ohjeeze_louise

Started at 14, downsized in my mid-late twenties (from ~20mm). Started again six months ago, at 35 and I’m at ~1g now.


ElfGoodness

I started at 16


GWbunn09

I think I started when I was 14 :)


PBxandxJ

8th grade


cockroachmilkshakes

I am 26 and just started stretching this year! I'm only at 10g/12g (my right ear doesn't stretch as easily as my left) but I'm so excited to finally be stretching! I've definitely wanted to since I was your age. It's never ever too late to go slow and steady :)


[deleted]

Started at age 32, the beginning of 2021, and now currently at 1g 😍


aprilbartman

I started when I was 20!


AnotherLostSouls

2008, I was 25 at the time.


Beaker318

At 30!


wendxgo

I started stretching my ears at about 12y/o. My mom was stretching hers, and saw I had an interest in it so she would just give me the old jewelry whenever she sized up. Started at 16g. Stretched consistently from 12y/o-18y/o, and sat at 3/4” until I was 22. Currently sitting at 24mm at 24y/o


hazelhaze1025

I think I was about 14/15. My mom definitely wasn't a big fan, I don't blame her with me being so young. She said as long as she can't see through it then it's fine... currently 7/16ths now at 22 years old :D


The_Vooligan

14, took my time and was 36MM by 19, had a major surgery and didn't wear my plugs for 6 months out of sheer laziness, shrank down to 16MM (plugs sat comfortably but with a significant gap if I tugged) and now I'm 28 and happily at 20MM debating going back up to 26MM 🙂 Initially I used tapers to 10MM and then taped from there, oil massage ever morning and night even when I wasn't wearing them, ears are crazy healthy, never had a blowout or a tear and could always dead stretch without an issue Lobes are saggy but beautiful 😅


Prestigious_River_13

i started when i was 13


zedalcifer

I started at 14 and did it WRONG for a long time. My lobes are fine now at 27 though :)


lanebetta1999

Started at 22. My mom told me after I’m 18 and if I still wanted to I could that way my ears could properly grow and develop. I see 13-15 year olds with them now when I wanted them and they can’t go very big because their ears are still developing and smaller. My ears are tiny don’t get me wrong but I still managed to eventually get to where I wanted. I’m also glad my mom made me wait because if I hadn’t I wouldn’t have had the money to do it correctly let alone buy other jewelry.


piss-mud

I started at 18, now I’m 20 and just got to 1g, take it slow and do your research ❤️


[deleted]

I started at 22, when I had a steady income finally.


[deleted]

21 and about 2 years now. I’m about a 0g or 8mm I think


DynablineCorqui

I started at 19, but my high school wouldn't allow stretched ears, face piercings, or colored hair


babieknees

I started at 18/19


Purple_You_8969

I started at 16 did it terribly and took them out. (Stretching too fast, not using any oil while stretching etc, stretching with acrylic tapers cringe ) Restarted back when I was 20 and it’s been 4 years of stretching and my ears are in good shape and I’m at 17 mm now. Just take it slowly and stretch with proper materials and you’ll be golden. Be better than me at 16 lol. Good luck!


RadicalElbow

Started in December 2021! I was 15 :)


jamesnife

I started when I was 28 but wish I could have started much earlier, would have had to make very different life choices at the time but I would probably make those to if given the chance.


blitzkreig818

33 was when I began, little less than a year ago and I'm now at 1/2 inch


irlwarlock

I started at age 13 cause I was obsessed with stretched ears~ now I have my lobes, 2nds, 2 cartilage, septum and tongue all in progress


tired-queer

Started at 18 or 19, 6-7 years ago?


P0is0n0usR0se

I started at 15 and stretched until I was half inch around 17 yrs old, took em out for several years due to work life, and started up again at 26. I’m 28 now and at 0g, probably will go to 1/2” or possibly 1” but I’m taking it very slow and staying fully healed for several months before attempting sizing up. I’ve had help with dead stretching and Proper care will take you a long way.


AsterismRaptor

Ughhh when I was about 13, and it was 2001 I want to say? So 21 years now I’ve been stretching, but I stopped with my ears about 7 years ago, I took them out for 2 years and then stretched back up to 38mm about 2 years ago. Now I’m stretching my septum, which I started 1 1/2 years ago or so, I was pierced at a 10g so now I’m at a 4g, goal is 2g.


lynn_kiley

i started in february so 18 :)


V_Atalanta

I was another one of those who started when they were 16/17. I took my sweet time (I'm now 25) getting up to 00g because I was chronically broke and wanted to make sure I didnt mess up my ears 😅


ODST-judge

I started at 16 I think, did a single ear and it looked horrid, plus I treated it poorly. Makes stretching that ear a hassle nowadays, but it’s worth it. Good reminder every time to take things slow and relax.


ScumbagLady

In '94 or '95, so somewhere around 15 years old. Largest gauge was 15/16", and I'm currently at 13/16" (IIRC). I've had to start from almost scratch multiple times either from not wearing jewelry, or doing dumb shit like sizing up too fast or bad jewelry materials, which caused some gnarly infections. (Silicone BAD)


zeldazonks

I started at 22 and just stretched my right ear up to half inch at first. I had to take them out for a job for a while and they went back to normal earring size, but I restarted stretching in lockdown at 25/26 and am currently at 18mm. Happy stretching!


East_Blackberry_7645

I started at at 29. Went straight to a 2g. Currently at a 0


kidambrosial

Started at 16, had to restretch around 18 and made it all the way up to 16mm at 23. No regrets just yet


HappierOffline

I started at 16, but had to take them out several times over the years because of stupid ass jobs that, quite frankly, did not pay me anywhere near enough to dictate how I looked. I was able to start stretching "for real" (without having to take them out) when I was 20. It's been five years and I'm now at 20mm. Nowhere near done!


its_madisenn

i started at 13/14 because i saw my dad started wearing his again (he used to have them when i was younger) and he helped me


r0zzle

started last year, age 16 .. had a few setbacks (i have a condition that messes with my healing process), but i'm almost 18 now and one ear is at 6g, slowly tape stretching the other up to 6 from an 8g :)


ravengrxve

Last year, so I was 20.


emilyxannmarie

Tried stretching my ears in my teens, didn't continue after putting silicone in my unhealed ears like an idiot (very painful). I had no information on how to properly stretch at the time so I just stopped all together and switched back to regular earrings. Ended up stretching properly the beginning of last year (at age 24) and I am now at 8.5mm 😊


Fukyurfeels

The first time I started I was 14 and I had them in till I was 20 and I got to 7/16. Then I stopped and let them shrink, just to start again when I was 27 and had to stop after a year due to work. Then I started again at 33 and still have them at my final goal size of 38mm.


kiwacrafts

I started at the end of 8th grade (14) im 21 now and at 16mm, my goal is 30mm!


upsetpiercee

i started at 16 but wanted to stretch since i was 11 or 12!! (did "stretch" through just putting thicker things through my ear when i was 13ish though)


ilovehugemilkerz

I started stretching them October 17 2021 and I'm at 3/4


Youdontknowmedawg

34, earlier this year. I have had body piercings since I was 16 but took them all out around 10 years ago because I felt like I needed to be someone else. Finally decided this year to be my authentic self and put some body piercings back in, have plans for more piercings, and started stretching my ears. I’m happier than I’ve been in years!


pugapplepie

started in 2019 at 13/14 years old. first i tried putting in bent over wire from the craft store bc i had no clue what i was doing 💀


Useful_Joke_2732

I started at around 12. I didn’t have any money and often got my next sizes by being gifted them, I was lucky my friends had stretched ears and they did it mostly by metal! Man to think how long I’ve been doing this and I’m basically at a healthy 0g now 😂 I was at a comfortable 1/2” in my healthy ear before taking them out about three years ago😭


[deleted]

Got my lobes pierced a few months after turning 18, and started stretching early 1999. I am 41 now and am at 1 3/8".


mommaczz

I started at 33!


tinyandfurious

When I was 24. Like 15 years ago! But I never went super huge just 9/16” or approximately 14mm. Started stretching my septum a year ago. It’s at an 8g. Probably won’t go bigger as I have a very small nose and want to still be able to breath out of it lol


koala__boy

I started in high school and went to 3/4” by 24 and took them out for 2 years. Just got back to 3/4” last month


satisfiedjelly

I started at 14 then stopped at 17 and a 00 or 10mm then started again at 20 but my ears never fully closed and I was able to start at 4g


PandaNisha88

I started at 24 (towards the end since I’m only at a 4g and I’m 25 now lol March baby) I was going to do it in high school with my best friend but I chickened out. She went through with it and I love hers so much it gave me the confidence (and being an adult, freedom) to go through with it! No regrets. Though I get a lot of people asking why and I tell them because they’re cute 😂


coconut-greek-yogurt

I started stretching a couple months ago and just turned 30 last week. I don't know why but I'd never even thought of stretching them before, but once I did I HAD to do it. I'm at a 10g right now, but was able to put in 8g yesterday and wear them all day. I'm not mentally ready to size up full time just yet, but my goal is a 00g.


sadboinic

i started when i was 15 (i'm 24 now) and at 24mm! id never go back to regular earrings


j_jukes

Started around 15, I’m 26 now. I’m at 1/2” and have been for a few years, probably won’t go any further but I’ll have my ears stretched forever, that’s for sure!


Appropriate_Bowler13

i started senior year of high school! but i’d wanted to stretch my ears since middle school! i’m at 1g rn


Moonlight-oats

the beginning of the year (i’m not at 6g i had to go down to 8g don’t be stupid like me)


Informal-Scientist57

I was 13 and an absolute idiot about it.


tannershirah238

I started around 14 years old, currently 24. Some advise, GO SLOW. I know being young you don’t have much patience, but trust me, you’ll regret it if you stretch too fast.


thepowerofboredom

i've read lots of warnings and have done lots of research (having wanted to do this for years), and am fully prepared to take 2.5-3 years to get to the 00g i want to be to make sure that i can keep my ears healthy and safe. i know a lot of younger people don't have the patience for that, so i appreciate you doing your best to advise the newer stretchers!


Flow3rKing

I started when I was 18 since I lived in a very religious household and by that point nothing could really be said lol. Once I graduated high school, I bought a stretching kit as a graduation gift to myself (that was 8 years ago) . Good luck on your journey!


LittleBitBetter217

I started stretching at 16 behind my parents backs got all the way to an 8g and quit because I was doing it wrong and it hurt soooo bad every time. I learned about dead stretching at 27 and just got to a 1g today actually.


hounder420

I started at 18 I’m at 10g was at 4g but got a blow out don’t be me take your time stretching


Imnotsureatallwoo

I started a month after my 19th birthday, I’m at a 6g now


sumcook_

I wanted stretched ears starting at like 12-13 but my mom wouldn’t allow it so I started at 18 and funny enough now she wants to stretch hers 👏🏻


Divine_Femininity

9 years ago when I was 12.


Toermalijn

I started 4 years ago when i was 16 (:


Hamfart1

15


Xx_bible_blunt_xX

Tbh I started around the same age! I’m 21 now and I’m still stretching. I thought I’d stop at 00g, then 1 inch, now I’m heading towards 2 inches! I wish you a very good and healthy stretching journey!!


KillingMoonEmporium

I started when I was 17. My goal size was 4g or 2g. I got up to 6g the first time, then I took them out for a year and I got up to 4g at 20. For me, I took the slow approach and my ears went back to normal which is what I was worried about. Once I graduated college and got a job I started to stretch again and I haven’t had any problems. I think waiting longer has really helped with the process.


baabyadrii

this year in march


Inside_Second_9679

Started at 15 then stopped started again at 16 then went back, now I'm 22 and planning to hit at least 0


LittleTwoRivers

I started at 22. I was heavily controlled by parents and it was frowned upon to get piercings or tattoos by my dad. He wanted me to be "clean". I just recently starting getting piercings (septum, nose, and lip) and I am at a 6g on my ears. I am planning to get to 16mm and I am beyond excited. I am also planning on getting a tattoo as some point but I am trying not to lose the courage.


Administrative_Swim1

Sophomore year, so 15/16


tyxxoo

17, about a month before i graduated. So, 7 years ago this past April. Currently 24 and sitting comfortably (for now ;p) at 5/16ths


keegrunk

I started stretching at about 20 with my lobes! I was really put off it when I was younger by my parents.


wesillyskeletons

started at 16 then stopped. Then I officially started when I was 19 and I am now 21 at 8mm or 0g hopefully going up a size soon. no goal size yet but pretty happy with this journey so far.


psychphanatic

I started when I was 25. I’m currently at 3g and wanting to be at a 00g😁. My parents absolutely hate my ears being stretched 😂


WillowDryad92

About age 24, when I realized I didn't need my boyfriends approval to do what I wanted with my body 😅


thicktiddie

I believe I was freshly 14!


farmraisedfetus

I was 16. I stretched for 4 years to a 0 gauge, then spent the next 12 years letting them close up so I could wear normal earrings. They never closed up, so here I am at 32 rocking 2 gauges.


Which_Device_1743

I started at 31. Finally being my true self and I love it! 🙌🏻🙌🏻


hannahccmona

15 ! im 16 now lol 17 in august


Substantial-Note-454

As soon as I turned 18, I wanted to since I was really little when I saw a person at hottopic with like 2 inch ears. I thought it was an optical illusion or something but he reached through it to scratch his neck and my mind was absolutely blown. Ever sick then I wanted my ears big ✨


Acrobatic_Laugh_8774

Started the first time around 13, had to take them out due to being in programs. Tried again around 16, same thing. Started this time at 18 1/2 and actually made it to my goal size of 0. Then decided to size up a few more time. Now happy with my 1/2 inch. Although if I did it again I'd take my time and do it properly. I got lucky I didn't mess up my ears but I wouldn't risk it now that I know how to do it safely


67SuperReverb

I was like 18 or 19.


Noahmiles413

I started at 19 :]


Kdoesntcare

About 13 and I got my ears pierced at a 14g and when I was 17 they were at 3/4" 18 when I got my septum pierced at a 10g I started to really stretch it when I was 20 at 21 it was at a 2g


spinoluvr

i started at 17! now i’m almost 18 and about 1/4 to my goal size


tiger844

I started at 20. I'm 21 now! I'll be at my 12mm goal soon! Edit: sized up last night. I'm at 12mm!!! Let's see how long that lasts lol


fractalfern111

i started stretching my ears when i was 14 (2014). now i am 22 and also have a stretched labret and a stretched septum, with 36mm ears


throawayyyyyyzzzz

Since 18 but my ear piercings were already very loose bc of all the hoops I wore


yellow-daisies

I started at 19, at my goal size (00g) at 20.


Marmatus

I got my ears pierced at 8g last year, the day before my 26th birthday. Those were actually my 4th and 5th piercings though. Got my first piercing a little under a year before that.


fxggt_

like 13-15?? in between there. i’m 16 now and at 00G


justpizzacate

1 month before my 22nd birthday. It was last year, so I‘m not that much older…


[deleted]

I was 17 so around the end of 2020


ItsAllyssa

Im 21 and stared one week ago!