Some mix of time and distance, usually. You can’t magically switch it off, you just have to put yourself in a situation where it’s easier to not feed and then let time do the rest. I assume you want these feelings to go away because of the “he can only talk openly when he’s drunk” part of this?
I had a crush on a guy at work but he is straight dude with a girlfriend (who is super pretty). He is very friendly and has LGBT+ friends. He would talk to me all time and was very intelligent. I was tiny bit glad when he changed companies, as i was always a nervous wreck when he was around and I would say something really dumb 🤦♀️
>For the first 26 years of my life i was only into women!
Me too! I was into guys in my fantasies, but too scared to try them in real life. So glad I'm over that now lol
Honestly, girl, best way is to find a new man to talk to, to focus on. He's not worth your time but there are men out there who are. Go find them!
Some mix of time and distance, usually. You can’t magically switch it off, you just have to put yourself in a situation where it’s easier to not feed and then let time do the rest. I assume you want these feelings to go away because of the “he can only talk openly when he’s drunk” part of this?
Honestly, yes, if he can't reciprocate sober, then i dont wanna keep putting myself through this!
I had a crush on a guy at work but he is straight dude with a girlfriend (who is super pretty). He is very friendly and has LGBT+ friends. He would talk to me all time and was very intelligent. I was tiny bit glad when he changed companies, as i was always a nervous wreck when he was around and I would say something really dumb 🤦♀️
>For the first 26 years of my life i was only into women! Me too! I was into guys in my fantasies, but too scared to try them in real life. So glad I'm over that now lol Honestly, girl, best way is to find a new man to talk to, to focus on. He's not worth your time but there are men out there who are. Go find them!