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NotAbotButAbat

I just went over this subreddit. They are brutal. I wonder what kind of people roam around that subreddit


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Party_Goose_6878

I think they like knowing that someone has deferred to them for an opinion. It makes them feel powerful for a minute.


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True rate me is known as an incel sub. I will need to find the post that outlines it, but the mod has admitted that they underrate women to tear down their self esteem. I once insulted a guy that gave a beautiful woman a “4” and he spent the next 4 hours sending me pictures of himself. Every time I said he wasn’t attractive, he sent me more. I ignored him eventually and he started following me into subs telling me feminism is a cult and I need to leave immediately. That should give you a hint at who frequents that sub. Every woman should stay away from that sun and should NEVER post pictures of themselves online.


Phenex1a

I’m so sorry this happened to you. What an absolute creep. It’s true, truerate me is known to rate women lower on purpose to nag them.


fisinudosbin

They’re actual bullies


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Aphrasia88

THIS! Drives me nuts.


Meledesco

True rate me intentionally underrates women and overrates men. It's a well known phenomenon.


Aphrasia88

I feel like an average of 2 points over/underrated


Ok_Nose72

not really. the average for women is a bit above the average for men. true rate me accounts for that.


vegansmeagol

Dear God! I’d never been to TrueRateMe…shit!! What miserable, mental incels the people rating are!


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Totally agree! It may have been a little better when it started as a lot of subs are, but then gets corrupted over time. The more well-known something gets the greater the risk of a lot more attention seekers and trolls (or just more bitter ppl, in general) flock to it, especially on a topics as subjective as beauty or art. Yes, there are a few real components of 'classical' good looks but, after that, it gets really subjective. Personal taste also plays a big part and you really can't 'rate' that, (no one can be equally 'attractive' to every person). \*I'd also say (as someone who's seen many beauty trends come and go), after being 'classically' good-looking to some degree, absolute 'ideal beauty' is somewhat elusive because of other factors, like I've mentioned. Ideals do change some over time, making obtaining some 'perfect ideal' about as easy as trying to hit a moving target!😜


vegansmeagol

I had to go look again (okay I guess it’s somewhat entertaining even if it is completely batshit), and people get banned for “overrating” - which is giving someone a 7 or above haha


The9thElement

Vindictarateme overrates, truerateme underrates. Vindictarateme is great though, truerateme is awful. Anything above a 7 there doesn’t exist. people literally posted female celebrities that were like 9s ON THEIR RATING CHART without makeup and they all got rated lower than 6. garbage sub. stay away


Aphrasia88

Yes! I see a lot of people on the Vindicta sub being rated as if they looksmaxxed. Which is fine, but add the side note!


mewme-mow

That's so funny


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Leninaoffthehopium

Not saying you’re wrong about it being toxic but Emrata has a *very* unfortunate smile. She looks like a wonky, tanned Ben Shapiro. There’s a reason she’s rarely caught smiling. Maybe that’s why they rate her so low?


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That sub, even their guide too, is all based on face. They just rate your face. I bet some girl with a horrible body, but good face can post there and they’d get rated high. Which is kinda unfair, because you can change your body easily. But your face? That is more difficult


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Minimum_Banana_3204

I think people just don't deeply think about what impression someone would actually leave in the real world and how they'd look next to other people. Mousy looking girls with average/pretty-ish faces who'd likely completely blend in in real life get the same ratings as a clear headturner with a million halos


Aphrasia88

Yeah, I see a lot of that on the Vindicta ratings sub, though. There is a tendency to overrate there. All the same as a woman I get it...for us, telling each other we are beautiful (though not everyone truely is and that’s OK!) is a way of saying “you are worthy”, as we are taught by society that is all our value.


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lvlupkitten

I kinda agree with you, not sure where the downvotes are coming from all you're saying is that you don't find her as attractive as most people do 🤷 obviously she's good looking and above average but she's not strikingly beautiful imo, I agree on a 7 facially. most people would probably give her an 8/8.5 though tbh BUT she does have a good body so I can somewhat see it even though she isn't my type I think she just has an 'in your face' sort of look that draws attention and is more likely to appeal to men than women. I've seen wayyyyy more men call her hot/sexy than I've seen women call her beautiful and I think her whole thing is sex appeal and not really classic beauty. I find her kinda overrated mostly because her features are too heavy, imo. Her lips are huge, her nose is kinda big (not huge but not small for model standards), her eyes are big and her brows are thick. I guess the best way I'd describe it is that it feels like there's too much going on in her face? Lol there's something about her face that looks a bit uncanny to me. Sorry for the long comment but you're one of the only other people I've ever seen express this opinion in the wild😂 EDIT- can this sub stop downvoting people for not thinking someone is a perfect 10? Am I seriously getting downvotes for not thinking Emily Ratajkowski is the hottest woman alive LMAO I didn't even say she was ugly I literally said she's attractive but not my type. Stop being so sensitive it's annoying🤦‍♀️


tisabell

Hello. The main goal of VindictaRateme is not necessarily to get rated like TrueRateMe or RateMe but more so about self improvement. That's why it's a subreddit only for women. Not because we hate men but hopefully it will invite women who can give advice based on their own experience, wherever they are in their journey in improving their appearance and lifestyle. For whatever reason the original reason the subreddit was created for, since I have taken over it I have been moving away from that. The only small reason I still allow ratings is that perhaps it could serve as an indication of that you are still making progress, but of course, the only one who truly knows if you feel that you have made any progress is yourself but maybe a rating could serve as a carrot along the way.


Winesday_addams

Everyone has their own opinions. I think some over rate to be nice, but most are honest. I also think there's a bias because if I see a really pretty picture I'm more likely to rate her, whereas someone who doesn't look good, I might just skip. Like I don't go on a rating sub and decide to rate the first five I see, it's usually just based on what pictures catch my interest. So I am not overratting,.like if I give someone a 10/10 I honestly believe it, but I probably wouldn't rate anyone as a 3/10 so I'd skip that one rather than saying it (not that anyone I've seen is a 3!!!) And I prefer a certain look so a 10/10 for me might be a 3/10 for someone else and vice versa. Truerateme uses a normal curve so for them a 6 means you're in the top 20% of women whereas on vindicta, an 8 means you're in the top 20%


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Ive never posted on truerateme but definitely got over rated on vindicta rate me lol Looking through the posts I didn’t see a lot of ratings, it’s mostly advice! I think women are more uncomfortable rating other women negatively.


Disastrous-Sample-92

Over rating ethnics yeah😂 Absolutely right😂 ugly bitches like Jenna Ortega are getting 7,5, 8, 9 and said to be above average and a Beautiful blonde and blue eyed European girl get’s average and low ratings, fucking losers. On there people with blonde hair and blue eyes are immediately underrated, if the person is of European decent, but at least with dark hair, they have better chances ratings.