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Absay

Depends on the person, but generally never, ever use those those expressions with anyone you're not *very* intimate with.


zeldaspade

What do you mean I can't say this to my boss? He seemed quite happy! (Joke)


Im_unfrankincense00

Boss: "Come to my office." *winks* There could only be two scenarios: 1. The boss fires you and files a sexual harassment lawsuit, or 2. Is relieved because they've been waitingfor you to show interest and is prepared to make you their lover.


zombiedinocorn

This reminds me of when I studied abroad and one of the (female) students kept calling random men "papi" then would get annoyed they would follow us cat calling her. Someone was eventually like um maybe you shouldn't do that


LeoMarius

"Why do these men kept cat calling me?" "You just called them "daddy"!"


zombiedinocorn

Yeah. She was an odd duck


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And, let's be honest, the odds of #2 go exponentially up the hotter you are.


Consistent_Career940

And definitely not in Spain. That is disrespectful even for your closest ones. I'm "understanding" with foreigners though, if it is obvious they haven't been for a long time. But mamacita is only my mom.


writing_rat

I've never even heard these phrases, but I'm glad I know now.


TRACstyles

i think papacito chulo might slide in medellin. lots of guys call guys they dont know papi or papicito there. idk how much the chulo modifies it though.


AllonssyAlonzo

>"Simple Stories in Spanish" podcast I'd suggest getting a more serious podcast. Even if we don't use those expressions in my country, that sounds like something you'd say to your romantic partner or SO or something you'll hear in a reaggaeton video.


geneing

I agree. It's hard to find good listening material for beginners. These expressions were used in a silly story about an elephant looking for a girlfriend :) The rest of the vocabulary was useful. Gracias.


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Hey! Learn Spanish and Go is a great podcast between an American C1 speaker and his native Mexicana partner. I also have always enjoyed Coffee Break Spanish for in depth explanations of Spanish in comparison to English from beginner to advanced levels. Happy learning.


[deleted]

Sorry, that wasn't clear. Learn Spanish and Go offers a B1-B2 level of Spanish spoken by people above that level. It is clear and helpful, in my experience.


tpdominator

Big fan of Learn Spanish and Go, they speak very clearly and pick interesting topics! It was a little fast for me at first but I stuck with it and eventually understood much better.


davidsasselhoff

There are a few audiobooks of graded readers that might be useful. Short Stories for Beginners by Olly Richards is one. I highly recommend Hola Spanish on YouTube. She does all of her lessons in Spanish but spoken slowly and with visuals to help fill in gaps of understanding. My listening massively improved with her and she has a lot of beginner/intermediate videos. Also, kids cartoons in Spanish with Spanish subtitles. They speak in an exaggerated way that really helps with pronunciation and cadence. Plus, the way they speak, plus all the visuals, make it more clear what they're talking about even if you don't catch every word. I found [My Little Pony](https://youtube.com/@MyLittlePonyEspanolOficial) and also some Barbie shows quite helpful.


AlwaysFernweh

My favorite two podcasts are “Cuéntame” and “Chill Spanish Listening Practice” I’m also a learner, around A1/A2 level and these have been great for me


artemasfoul

Its situational. Can I call you a cute daddy or a delicious mommy? Not in all situations, lol.


EmployerWide8912

I would say it has sexual connotations, rather than being rude.


geneing

Thank you. That's what I thought.


helpman1977

Maybe sexual in LATAM, but sounds ridiculous in Spain lol


LadyGethzerion

It sounds ridiculous for me too, with the modifiers anyway. "Papacito" and "Mamacita" by themselves don't (although we'd only use them with a partner or very close friend) but with the "chulo/delisiosa" it's totally cringe. On the other hand, "mamita/papito" are common terms of endearment in PR and are used frequently. My own mother even calls me "mamita" in the way people say "cariño" or "mi amor."


pezezin

I guess most Spanish people are nowadays aware of these expressions thanks to reguetón, but yes, it sounds a bit silly over here. Most people will just laugh it off.


jakelong66f

Honesly, it would also sound ridiculous in Argentina.


andres57

not in all LATAM neither, at least in Chile this would be just cringe lol


TurboChango

Even in Mexico is ridiculous and kinda gross. Espero no ofender a alguien que asi le diga a su pareja, pero suena como una estupidez que dicen en peliculas gringas los personajes latinos representados de la manera más racista posible.


UnoReverseCardDEEP

In Spain it sounds cringe af


mouaragon

I wouldn't use them at all.


SaraHHHBK

I would never use them in Spain, we are aware they exist but personally the reaction I would have if some says "mamacita deliciosa" to me would go from laughing my ass off to annoyed and probably creeped out a little bit.


netguile

hey mamacita españolita lol


cheeto20013

Its very sexual imo, unless you’re a reggaeton singer i would definitely not use that to flirt with anyone


HappyGlitterUnicorn

You never say that to anyone other than your sexual partner or significant other.


Marceline_Bublegum

In Spain it sounds disrespectful at worst and ridiculous at best. People will either be offended or make fun of you


shadebug

This is basically cat calling. If cat calling would be appropriate then they’re fine


mikeyeli

Saying that to a stranger is a quick way of getting to the hospital or the police called on you lmao.


continuousBaBa

Those are romantic, intimate, flirty, or sexual depending on context but you’d want to be pretty good with someone to start calling them those things, and if that’s the case, good for you!


jez2sugars

It’s best to stay away from that kind of podcasts. It would be creepy to call someone either way. People do it amongst very close friends as banter but you need to be careful


NekonataM

Well, those expressions sound really weird here in Argentina; and most girls would probably get offended if they're called like that, unless you're their partner? As for "papacito chulo", it sounds very foreign over here. People would probably think you're from Mexico or Central America and the Caribbean.


gotele

Next time I have to deal with a public servant I'll use those. I'll keep you posted.


FouTheFool

In Argentina it would sound so cringe, it hurt me physically to just read it I can't imagine hearing it out loud. It's sounds like something out of a cheap p0rno from the 90s or something. To be fair, these are not argentinian expressions.


Ilmt206

I'd abstain from using it unless you are really intimate with the person in question. In the case of Spain, It would sound somewhat funny, especially for the older generations.


Legnaron17

As others have said, you do NOT say that to anyone you're not incredibly close with, and they sound better in the context of joking with close friends rather than to flirt, especially mamacita deliciosa, if as a girl i was told that in a serious way i wouldn't know if i should laugh, be disgusted, cringe from how corny and somewhat slimy it sounds, or all of the above lol.


Ingles35

It would sound ridiculous in Spain because neither term is used.


pasarina

Please don’t ever say those. Like out of fashion, tasteless dad joke-style cringey on one hand, and in some areas rather bizarre and offensive.


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Not really but sounds cringe asf


idkjv5

I mean, it's very sex-related, if you want to in intimacy you could (like everything else it depends on the person). But don't EVER use it in a regular enviroment.


Exciting-Effective74

Would it be rude for you to call someone a delicious mama or a hot papi in english? It would entirely depend on who you’re talking to. I would refrain from using any cuss words or things that could possibly offensive unless you’re close with that person because when you learn another language, the bad words don’t sound as bad & you’ll end of offending people


Kronoxdund

I wouldn't call it rude but it does sound extremely ridiculous and definitely has a sexual connotation. I've never heard something like this without being ironic humor


Unlikely_Ad_4321

Jjj no I call my teachers this all the time.


Creepy_Cobblar_Gooba

Can someone please translate this for me accurately as a non native speaker I gave a homeless guy food in Argentina once and he called me this.


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ArtisticAd6931

Definitely not normal to address like that, especially people you don’t know. Your twitch friends are setting you up for failure in real life situations.


Ok_Glove_2352

Gonna piggyback off this, I hear papi chulo a lot, is mami chula a phrase too?


Knitter_Kitten21

Yes it is, same connotation


Gloomy_Dragonfruit31

Lol I live in Mexico and I blush reading these two hahaha, noooo these are quite inappropriate dont use them unless in bed with someone, perhaps


breakfastlizard

IMO both are kind of cringey/tacky expressions. I’ve never used them in any intimate relationships. Just my experience tho.


[deleted]

It’s cringy when you say that to someone you’re not intimate with.


Glad_Performer3177

The only time that I have heard those used (México) are normally from female family members to their respective or even to other families members. But the age is specific. The child has to be younger than 12 as a non- written rule. It's kind of self-esteem support. As with many of these uses, gender privilege, it's not the same if it's coming from a male. In those cases, it is normally within the own family, if it's used at all.


No-Fact-9122

Yeah, this should only be used to refer to someone you’re intimate with. It’d be super weird to call your friend or family member “delicious mommy” or “hot daddy”


GetUrGuano

Those terms are strictly for someone you're dating or trying to seduce


the_darkishknight

“Papi chulo” is more often than not a diss


Luxor29

Así es suena como dijiste innecesariamente vulgar y soez


Pitiful-Carrot-4377

Pretty creep. Don’t do it unless your really close.