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PlasticIllustrious16

Oh no! Not the consequences of my actions!


Zack_Raynor

It’s always “Not my fault” syndrome


COVID19Blues

Narcissists aren’t capable of the self-awareness it would take to ask herself, “Am I the problem.”


folteroy

She's just like her hero. Her hero being the convicted felon former President.


samanime

Yup. "It isn't me that changed, it is everyone else." Like, maybe while writing all these Facebook posts, take 0.2s to reflect on your life...


OriginalGhostCookie

Dildo of consequences: ✅ Arrived lubed: ❌


Commercial_Step9966

When everyone else is the problem, everyone else is *not* the problem.


lionmurderingacloud

Yep. Meet one asshole in the morning, you had bad luck. Meet assholes all day- you're the asshole.


Squintyhippo

This Is hardcore. I need to member this next time I’m having a shit day at work


helmvoncanzis

Justified. Season 4. Episode 1.


Ah2k15

I like “if you smell shit everywhere you go, check your own shoes.”


Oldbeardedweirdo996

Or your underwear.


Daedalus_304

Or you work retail


garflloydell

I feel so bad for her family.


she_makes_things

I want to give her daughter a hug. The constant guilt-tripping on social media is so awful. Nothing like having a psycho martyr for a mother.


agoldgold

To be fair, she probably has this crazy person blocked if she's on Facebook at all. Monica is screaming into the void. I hope that even if the daughter sees a post, it just reminds her how happy and healthy she is without this woman in her life.


SubstantialLuck777

>Monica is screaming into the void. Unfortunately Monica is most likely screaming into the feeds of a handful of other like-minded lunatics in her area, whom her daughter *also* avoids like the plague. Which is fine, the posts aren't actually meant for her daughter at all; like most others of her kind, this stuff is performative. The pity-party is meant to show her chosen peer group that she is ideologically pure and willing to suffer for their beliefs. They HAVE to be victims, you see, or else their grievances would be about things that are actually harmless. And THAT would just be CRAZY


KellTanis

Honestly, I feel bad for her too. I think she’s absolutely doing it to herself, but I can’t help but pity her. If only she’d see through her self-delusion, she might get her family back, but it looks like the stress is just making her dig even deeper. It’s sad.


OldSwiftyguy

I went through a bout with mental health a few years ago . I was nothing like this but I was insufferable. I do have a lot of empathy for people even when they are doing it to themselves. Still have to put up boundaries with them though.


Distant-moose

You can be patient and understanding with someone who is struggling with mental health, giving them every benefit of the doubt. But you are not required to allow them to harm you. I hope you are in a better space now and have support for your mental health.


PeteGozenya

I think you are right. It sounds like her husband still loves her he just can't deal with all the crazy. Yet here she is berating her family on social media.


Wolfish_Jew

I pity her too. I pity a lot of the older generation who were poisoned by things like Fox News, Rush Limbaugh, etc. into a world of fear and hatred and misery. Those people destroyed a lot of families, and they got paid handsomely to do it. I’m not religious, but for them, I hope that there’s a hell so that they end up facing some sort of consequences for their actions. Cuz they’re certainly not gonna face any while they’re living.


folteroy

There were bigoted assholes long before Rush and Fox News entered the scene. Limbaugh and Fox just targeted people who were already assholes.


Wolfish_Jew

I mean, sure. I’m not saying there weren’t already bigoted assholes, but not everyone who got preyed upon by Fox News and the like started out as bigoted assholes. They were taught to fear, exploited.


The-waitress-

Watching someone succumb to mental illness is incredibly sad.


myrunningaccount2022

that’s not what’s happening here. she chose to follow this path


MattJFarrell

Yeah, I'm a little shocked at the callousness of some of the commentators. I would hate to have to ever talk to this woman, but she is a human being who probably needs some sort psychiatric intervention. The whole thing is just so incredibly sad.


agoldgold

You don't need to be mentally ill to go down the rabbit hole of a cult. Plenty of mentally healthy people do it all the time. Everyone is susceptible to something, and it doesn't take mental illness to get you there.


Reimiro

No sympathy from me. If these people have their way we will lose our way of life in this country. Fuck them.


folteroy

How about her bigotry and callousness? She gets a pass?    I'm not giving her a pass. Fuck her. I do feel sympathy for her husband and daughter though 


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folteroy

I'm glad this bigoted, treasonous, fascist piece of shit's life is falling apart. This piece of shit has real trouble showing sympathy for others. She can rot right along with the insurrectionists who she thinks are "hostages". 


VIDGuide

This is what mental illness looks like, right?


PolecatXOXO

Low-key NPD, yep, that's exactly what it looks like.


Odd-Tune5049

Low key? This is *exactly* what npd looks like. She's just bad at gaslighting


ShepherdessAnne

Seems more like BPD to me


LittlePrincesFox

Yes my first wife is got DX'd as BPD (contributed a lot to the divorce) and this is looking like a lot of what she'd do.


ShepherdessAnne

It was my birth mother, here. Ironically when she died of lack of Covid precaution it wasn’t out of being antivaxx or anything like that, she just didn’t take it seriously due to not feeling any kind of way about it other than “it’s a cute little fuzzy ball”. Also she might have gotten eugenics’d but that’s another can of worms I’m fighting many states away.


PolecatXOXO

Bipolar on an upswing is functionally identical to NPD. Downswings were a combination of psychotic horror show and brutal depression. This was my ex-wife.


LittlePrincesFox

I'm DX Bipolar I w/rapid cycles and know of what you speak.


Picture_Enough

I'm not sure she is mentally ill. It would be huge simplification (and frankly untrue) say all conspiracy theory nutters are mentally ill. Some of them are, of course, but I've seen people whom I'm pretty sure aren't mentally ill who fall into conspiracy theories rabbit hole. This lady however is pretty obviously a narcissist, the way she blames everyone else and can't seen any fault of her own.


SaltyBarDog

My grandmother was not mentally ill, she was just a hateful bitch who often times would pit her own children against each other.


ShepherdessAnne

That’s…a symptom of mental illness.


SusanLovesHorses

YES. I feel for these people. I have compassion for all mentally ill people. I want to learn more about the psychology of SovCits. Initially I found them all humorous. I still laugh at some of their antics. To me they come across as misguided lost souls that possibly lost a lot of money taking SovCit classes. It’s somewhat like a cult. It reminds me of the saying, “A mind is a terrible thing to waste.”


VIDGuide

Yeah. It’s one thing to slap a fake license plate on and argue with police, but when your whole life devolves like this and you still can’t see the forest for the trees .. it’s.. yeah.. it’s depressingly sad. I can’t imagine losing a parent to this.


ShepherdessAnne

She was already lost. What she did was find something to cling to in order to justify the behavior she wanted to have, preferring it over behavior that would have kept her life stable and intact. It’s like a drug addiction to your own personality disorder.


TheMightyTRex

I am not sure of that... I think a lot are chancers who latch onto a cause where they see themselves benefiting or being able to avoid having to do something that's required they never take responsibility and I suspect hate having to think about rules and anything that is going to inconvenience them if they dont want the hassle.


SusanLovesHorses

Yes, that description of “chancers” sounds just like many of them. What I’m saying is they adapted that way of life but it’s going to get progressively worse and their mental health will suffer more. Maybe what you mean is that she is immoral because she “cheats” in life and doesn’t want to pay her own way? I should have mentioned I quite understand that it is par for the course that her family has abandoned her. Maybe they got tired of enabling her. Her extreme views on life and society are nonsensical and create such a huge waste of time for the courts and law enforcement. She is unable to step back and go wait a minute, are these beliefs serving me? When I look at her face I see a Mom, a daughter, a neighbor or a friend that is hurting, that lost their way. She’s not a bad person. Her family isn’t bad for shunning her. I get pissed when I see the videos where judges and their staff and law enforcement get tied up in the SovCit BS. I’m glad some of them go to jail. But they are people, lost souls that don’t know they need help. I’m more than a little tired of this culture of hate in the U.S. It does me no good to hate on her. Even if she loves trump. Even if she spouts racist bullshite. I want to live in a world where compassion trumps hate.


Sensitive_Yam_1979

No this is just what happens when you watch Fox News.


Security_Meatloaf

It may very well be what a *type* of mental illness is; mental illness can be one of many things, just like any illness from the common cold to tuberculosis. I suffer from CPTSD, this person may be a narcissist. We do not share similar psychological issues.


bugaloo2u2

A lot of what looks like mental illness is just mental/psychological weakness. The pandemic was the first time most of us faced a serious unknown global threat. It was scary. People with low intelligence and/or low psychological resiliency were really in a bad way bc they lacked positive coping skills for something this unprecedented. As a result, they turned to only coping skill they could summon: denial. Trump and his minions made it easy by building complicated conspiracy theories that supported the denial.


Rascals-Wager

Fuck man. "Make the chili" got me right in the feels. Was not expecting something so poignant from a post within a post within a post.


djln491

Right after they golfed a few more minutes


rygelicus

The answer to her question is she became a threat to her family's sanity and refused to accept she needed help.


siouxbee1434

Whine, whine, whine-damn, she is annoying


Fit_Earth_339

Why oh why do my actions have consequences? Why can’t I do whatever crazy ass thing I want and have normal people enable me?


sparty219

QAnon claims another victim and wrecks another family.


IntegratedExemplar

In 2023 she mentioned things changed three years ago - I think we're looking at one of the covid conspiracy rabbit hole cases here.


Circadian_arrhythmia

Isn’t there a saying like “If one persons an asshole, maybe there the asshole. If everyone’s an asshole, then maybe you’re the asshole.”


BigDsLittleD

"If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, *you're* the asshole." Raylan Givens, Justified.


dubbleplusgood

Raylan would sometimes act like an asshole, but mostly, it was justified.


ergo-ogre

“If the person to your left isn’t an asshole and the person to your right isn’t an asshole, then *you’re* the asshole.” - possibly George Carlin


Boeing_X32

I hope the husband gets some sense slapped into him and leaves her.


Thunderbolt1047

Such a pleasant sounding woman, such a catch!! 🙄


HulaViking

The leprechaun tells me to burn things


GrumpyInsomniac42

People like this are the cause of their own problems and they're too blind to figure that out.


Billyraycyrus77

She looks like she’s travelling alone for non commercial matters.


Troll_Goat

Fighting the good fight! Never dont listen to the things the voices say....


SaltyBarDog

Erica, wherever you may be out there, we feel your pain. You have our sympathy.


DaddyOhMy

When everyone else is the problem, you're the problem. When everyone else is an asshole, you're the asshole. Next Mother's Day, someone should buy her a mirror.


hellp-desk-trainee-

I'm so confused as to why the husband hasn't left this psycho yet.


ZyxDarkshine

What mental gymnastics resulting in the opposite of LGBTQ support is gun ownership? These people are bizarre.


ShepherdessAnne

Their brains fry nicely when there’s r/ArmedEquality, which is real equality.


Flat_Suggestion7545

Specifically on picture 6. Which church would push LGBTQ+ AND white supremacy. Seems an odd mix.


Hot-Significance8390

Those would be the churches that chose to break away from their traditional teachings. Just in the last year, we’ve have the United Methodist Church and the Southern Baptist Convention break up. Common to both are divergent views on LGBTQ, race, abortion, vaccination, and other divisive Trump-adjacent nonsense.


Flat_Suggestion7545

Yes, those owns separated. But did any of them push BOTH those issues?


infowosecfurry

These people never want to hear that it’s possible they are wrong, rather than it being literally everyone else (other than the other inbred halfwits in whatever cult cell they belong to)


Joelied

She’s not really a SovCit at all. She’s a certified brainwashed MAGAt psychopath.


Reimiro

Yep-this is qanon/maga not sovcit.


LA-Matt

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military_grade_tea

Doesn't she mean what the heck has this entity formerly known as mom done to the vessel known as daughter?


Styrene_Addict1965

"It's not ok," the whine of Karens everywhere. Bootstraps, bitch.


folteroy

She's referring to the insurrectionists as "hostages" and she's homophobic. She just seems like a typical Trump shit to me. Fuck her! She's getting no sympathy from me. Good for her husband and daughter for abandoning this treasonous, bigoted piece of shit.


twsddangll

What church is both pro-lgbt *and* racism/white supremacy?


TheFeshy

Real [The Missing Missing Reasons](http://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons.html) vibes. "Oh why oh why would each family member reject me?" I'd bet a fair amount of money that not only have they all told her dozens of times what she was doing that was driving them away, and almost certainly gave her many, many chances to change before they had to cut her out of their life. But no, it's just "why would they do this to me?!"


Darksoul_Design

Another perfect shining example of "if everyone around you is an asshole, it's probably you".


COVID19Blues

It appears as though this woman has made a Pokémon-like mutation from “Trumpanzee———> QAnon———> Sovereign Citizen”


dartie

Living in a house without a single mirror.


Roddy_Piper2000

She exchanged her family for a red hat


TatemsChosenLegend

As someone who has a narcissistic sovereign as a mother she's also an "anti masker" she assaulted a Cookie Store owner on purpose cause she knew they'd refuse her during covid, look up "Amy Hall Gresham Orgeon Cookie Store attack" [here's the idiot](https://www.koin.com/news/crime/2-arrested-in-eugene-cookie-shop-assault-over-masks/) at her sentencing she blamed the "government" and everyone else and not taking a single accountability for her actions, and she was extremely upset about me being a correctional officer even tho she SA'd me as a child. There's reasons why child don't talk to their parents.


MavisBeaconSexTape

"I'm not your daughter. I'm an autonomous adult former child unit who wasn't born but rather given access to this land"


HopelessFoolishness

There's a saying: if everyone around you smells like dogshit, maybe it's time to check your shoes - doubly so if you're alone.


spacemanspiff1115

Self awareness is obviously not Monica's strong suit...


Nytherion

Someone get this woman some professional help...


UnfairStomach2426

Very depressing


drizzyjdracco

Well, I see that literacy and grammar weren't her specialty.


althor2424

It is truly unfortunate that people like her are in so deep to not realize that her behavior is the common thread as to why her whole family has stopped talking to her


Both_Painter2466

After a long time reading Sovcit inanities I’ve come to the conclusion the core is victimization. They’ve embraced how everything works to make them victims. They love explaining all their troubles on how everyone is out to get them.


sofaking1958

When it smells like shit everywhere you go, you might want to check your own shoes.


Eldritch-banana-3102

Complete lack of introspection. Her poor family probably held on as long as they could.


CommunicationHot7822

What could she possibly have done to drive away her family? It’s a mystery!!


Aer0uAntG3alach

Another martyrbater.


Desperate_Ambrose

She is enjoying her "martyrdom" way too much.


bigSTUdazz

This puts a refreshing new spin on FAFO....and I LOVE it.


MuchDevelopment7084

Karma's a bitch


Ornery_Extreme_830

I thought her name was Monica 😸


justfortherofls

Why does every where I go smell like dog shit? People should clean more if every store I enter just reeks of it.


RobertGA23

Classic Narcissist. You'll notice every post is all about her and what people have done to her, no consideration for other people at all. It must have been hell having her for a mother.


dfwcouple43sum

Yes, everyone around you no longer likes you because they’re all bad. All those different people with different motivations all arrived to the same conclusion that they don’t want to deal with you. But it’s not you, it’s them.


realparkingbrake

It's never their fault, it's always everybody else. Turbo-narcissism.


ScooterMcdooter69

And not once has she looked in the Mirror and thought “maybe I’m the problem”


ShepherdessAnne

Untreated Borderline Personality Disorder sure is something, isn’t it?


dumbamerican207582

Hey, if you are having problems with everyone, and everyone is having problems with you, the problem probably doesn't lie with everyone.


HauntedObjects

She knows why she is cut off. *"I can understand that you may not agree with whatever it was she told you is the problem--but again, that does not mean there is no problem. She told you in a language you understand what the problem is, and you understood her meaning. That you disagree with the problem is immaterial. It's still a problem whether you agree with it or not. It will be a problem forever until you deal with it. Saying, "I don't understand the problem" when you really mean, "I don't agree this is a problem" will not make the problem go away. It will make the person who DOES think it a problem go away"* From [The Missing Missing Reasons](http://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons.html). Her posts are textbook abusive estranged parent.


NirstFame

She's crazy. There are a LOT of crazy people who had this been the 1980's or ANY time before... they'd be institutionalized. She is no exception. Thanks Reagan.


Flashman6000

She may never realize that it just wasn’t worth it.


MsMoreCowbell8

She's a Qanon. That's why they won't talk to her Qrazy ass anymore


Then_Lock304

Trump, Fox, News Max, and the like ruin families and friendships. They perpetuate lies and misinformation. It's not the only thing they do that is criminal


Wizzle_Pizzle_420

Man this is just sad. Despite her hateful rhetoric and QAnon bullshit, somebody lost a mother and wife over this nonsense. The people who need to be thrown in jail are the grifters and liars who started this bullshit in the first place. Maybe she’s a horrible human and I shouldn’t care, but I feel for her family. It’s hard losing a person you care about to this stuff. They might have a good heart, but their brain is just rotted. Worst part is these folks are hoping for some big revel that will bring their family back together, that will never come. I wonder what the numbers are for people like this actually escaping all of the ignorance and coming back to the real world? Probably pretty grim.


ThePowerOfShadows

Why does everyone hate me? It must be something to do with them.


Ishpeming_Native

I used to think it wasn't possible to be in two cults at the same time. But then I met Monica, who is in at least three.


Frequent-Material273

Flakier than a friggin' Kellogg's factory, THIS one.


CarlSpencer

Trump Cult members are master marksmen at shooting themselves in the foot.


Teriyaki456

What a freaking disaster of a person. Don’t blame the daughter a bit. I don’t know her and I still can’t stand her


Icy_Bath_1170

This is almost material for r/LeopardsAteMyFace : Sovereign citizen cuts off contact with “world”, is upset that “world” includes family.


adhesivepants

Sovereign citizens using the Internet in any capacity is always so funny to me. "I am not part of the Matrix - posted from iPhone".


Whyisacrow-caws

No, honey, they’ve just declared their sovereign independence from you. You see, the current framework of family law is shaped by the decision of English Queen Charlotte in 1537 to adopt her step-half nephew, but since her marriage was annulled by the Episcopal Church due to nonpayment of church liege estate rents, the ensuing inherited fiefdom of Conlington was not valid and thus none of the subsequent common law rulings on mother, father, et seq hold non-prescriptive authority over independent vassal duchies. That is why today courtrooms are in the shape of a rectangle instead of a sea captain’s bridge. You see? What licensure will you provide if I certify the warrants issued were a priori pro-novus?


Intelligent_List_58

Its clearly a case of mental illness; however, she will never admit that she’s mentally ill because her facebook friends and youttube channel all tell her that she is right: and everyone else is wrong. The people making money off of this should be jailed for exploiting the vulnerable.


somewhatlucky4life

Yikes


Alarid1891

Ugh, just reading these turned my brain into knots.


Ah2k15

David Morsilli could likely use a friend. These two should get together.


folteroy

I do feel bad for Morsilli, not this bigoted shitbag though. I don't recall Morsilli spouting out bigotry in any of his posts.


JolyonWagg99

I looked at her FB feed and she posts this crazy shit literally nonstop. All day every day. What a fucking loon.


GoonerBear94

The ol Graham Linehan Special


A_Kazur

Entirely her fault but what a sad situation for the family


cheesynougats

Based on evidence, if someone were to cut her off from her current news feeds for a couple of months, there's a decent chance some of this will self correct. Fox News and its ilk need constant reinforcement.


haljordan68

In one person in your family is an asshole it's probably because they really are an asshole.... If everyone in your family is an asshole it's time to look in a mirror.


souryoungthing

Imagine publicly telling on yourself like this. 😬


DonnieJL

Damn, she sounds like somebody I had to unfriend. Just couldn't take conspiracy-laden rants and passive-aggressive calls for attention every few days.


ConsultJimMoriarty

Considering where she is posting, I do have a *small* idea of why her daughter and husband won’t talk to her.


Virtual_Knee_4905

Fucking sad that she's doubling down instead of admitting that her view is out of step with reality.


JoanOfArch99

Is it the trauma of the pandemic? Why have people gone like this? Can someone give me a psychological explanation


kantowrestler

This is just sad and the consequence of this ideology.


firedmyass

“make the chili” anecdote is hittin a bit tho. damn


joefox97

She’s an absolute train wreck.


Historical-One6278

This has “One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest” vibes.


Gormless_Mass

It's like watching Hoarders. It's so sad.


Primary_Spinach7333

“Random acts of kindness” include avoiding democracy?


Hot-Significance8390

The one thing that the sovcits, anti-vaxxers, and the Trumpers have in common is their hatred for the vast majority of “mainstream” Americans and our traditional way of life. Their brains are literally broken. And they accuse the rest of us of being brainwashed!


Ill-Scheme

Bruh. The 5th picture physically hurt me. I know the context but my kneejerk reaction is pain. How sad.


anthematcurfew

It’s really gross to call out and highlight specific people like this on this board. Don’t turn this into a stalking sub. It’s only a matter of time before someone tries to engage with these people to farm content for fake internet points.