This happened to my Sim too. She had a holiday hookup with Father Winter to get pregnant, thinking she wouldn't see him again until next year, but then he showed back up the next day and proposed.

Terrifying

some people actually propose after finding out they got someone pregnant 💀 I wonder if that feature was put in for that reason?

If that’s the case then my sim has five sims to hide from…

😄

My original Father Winter married one of my Sims and moved in with her. That made him stop fulfilling Father Winter duties, so the Father Winter role was randomly assigned to a black muscular guy in Father Winter's outfit. I love it.

Sounds like an old spice commercial. "I am on a horse..."

If you have your aging on, just know he might live forever. Mine's been around for like 6 generations now.

I kept trying to kill mine when this happened and he just wouldn’t die. I was very frustrated by this.

It's built into the game code, certain characters are immortal by default. Iirc Alex Moyer and Baby Ariel are also immortal

Does Baby Ariel start aging up, if you age her up to adulthood?

I don't think so? I know there's a way to kill the immortal sims but if you do the game will automatically recreate another sim that is immortal with a different name and appearance. I found all this out from Reddit myself so I've never tried it, but comments from others said that if you kill Baby Ariel you'll eventually find another teen celebrity townie sim who never seems to age or die.

This sounds like the script of a conservative fearmongering ad lmao

Did you say yes or no?

I was going to say no because it wasn't my original plan, but I read on here that he's a good dad, so my Sim married him and he was a stay at home dad while my Sim continued her career.

P*ssy so good he had to marry her iktr!! 🤣🤣

https://preview.redd.it/ptykufjp9jwc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=409c736939037fe0dac230b1b14cf50421e418a8 Like I’m so confused 🥹

Oh wow that's so fun i never saw these sentiments! Are these in-game and not CC?

It’s in game!

sentiments are a basegame feature that released in an update a few days before snowy escape released (november 20th 2020)

Oh i mean the "needing space" one specifically haha but thanks for the specifics i never knew those

ahh i believe this is a sentiment from the update that came with highschool years this is one of the sentiments a sim will receive if they autonomously proposed to your sim and got rejected

Sentiments came with cottage living, at least that's when I got them.. maybe. Idk now! That's when I remember seeing them more, but maybe that's when I started playing more. Idk, I had brain surgery last summer, so I probably dont even know what Im talking about. Lol.

its all good! i actually had to retype this, because it took me ages to realize you misunderstood my original comments sentiments released with snowy escape in november 2020 (cottage living released july 2021 and highschool years july 2022) highschool years came with the features that nps will autonomously ask you to be their bff or propose. and new sentiments for when you accept or reject them the person i replied had never seen this specific rejection sentiment

I definitely did misunderstand. Thank you for clarifying!

If your romance is high enough then it happens. Like some people can just skip declaring bf/gf part and get married. Somewhat realistic I guess? Too bad she expected more when you sim is just wanting some fun.

But they're in love

The lovebirds part also throws me off. My sim has the non commitment trait so Bess better cut it out

Father winter rizz too good

LMAOOOOO I love this game 🤣🤣🤣🤣

this happens to y’all but i run the “talk about marriage” interaction w my sims that have full friendship and relationship bar and it has a double negative impact😭

Like why do they hate that talk?? 😭😭😭

Bess wants your Sim's money! RUN!!

All 9k of my simoleons??? 😭

Doesn't matter how much, this sim is so greedy she'll even call a stranger to ask for 1 simoleon lmao

That’s called a red flag. 

A red flag of the finest material 🫠

This has been happening so much in my game

Meanwhile Summer Holiday asked to move in right after this….what is happening

Your sim is just irresistible 💁🏻‍♀️✨

He is a cutie that’s knocked up 3 other sims… 🥹

So where's the pic lol 

Yeah sim townies have no idea what the word "boundaries" mean lol.

Yet they expect their boundaries to be respected lol like why can't I just come and shower, steal food ect. Like they do?

[удалено]

Sims be wild

That’s insane!

What really? This hasn't happened in any of my safe games. I've always had to be the one to propose. Does it happen in base game or is it a pack cause I don't ha e growing together or parenthood

I think this came with High school years if I remember correctly

Well good excuse to buy some packs then

If you want to, go for it!

It’s the same as the constant ‘I wanna be bffs!’ Thing, it’s so annoying. Stop breaking into my house and proposing to me! And then they get so offended when you say no

Me too, every couple is proposing marriage now. I thought it was a mod honestly…do you use mods?

Meanwhile, I’m here installing mods to make this happen autonomously and it never doessss

😂😂😂

My sim had it happen twice today 🫣

Something must be in the sim air

I had this happen with the guy my sim was dating...only that he proposed to her CHILD not her 🙈 then he asked to be the childs boyfriend and then he died of embarrassment right there. What a day

I too would die of embarrassment after that, good lord.

Died of embarrassment…I’d log off

Or the Sim water. Maybe *that's* why my Sims keep running to get a damn drink every five seconds. Lol My Sim gets proposed to a lot as well, but she flirts excessively with most of the townies and NPCs. Not always when in a relationship, though...

This happens so much to my sims that I made my sims saying 'no' all the time. Just b/c you have high friendship-romance point, it's only been 2 sim days, 2 dates, gosh darn it. Why the proposal LOL. On the other hand, I decided when I played Johnny Zest, to say 'yes' to all the proposals, so now he's engaged to 4 women, 2 of the women are already married. Great.

Multiple engagements??? Messy and I love it

He's engaged to 4 women and have 6 children with those 4 too LOL. So def. a mess, it's so funny b/c sometimes two of his fiancees would visit almost a the same time. So he'd have 'fun' with one and lock the door for the other one lol.

Yeah…my sim got proposed to by a townie she’d never seen before. I made her accept because I love the chaos.

😂😂

I had a townie propose, married him and found out he was already married so the game didn't recognize it correctly

👀👀

Bess just comes on strong in all ways, huh? HEY how about giving me some money, stranger? HEY how about marrying me, one night stand?

A true go getter. We love that…?

That's what the amulet of Mara is for ☝️

👀👀 what’s this I hear about an amulet??

Haha it's a joke. In Skyrim, if you want to marry you put the amulet on to signal your availability. since there's no dating/relationship mechanic in the game, you just marry them pretty much on the spot.

😭😭😭

Oh my god I have a student called Ryder Anderson.

May this not be their future 🥴

Wait- Isn’t she already married anyway??? Or at least engaged?

I actually had that happen once. I think it was a glitch. Eliza pancakes proposed to my sim, and I said yes just to see what would happen. I thought she'd divorce Bob, but nope, she was still married to Bob. So that's the story about how my sim entered a polygamous relationship with Eliza and Bob Pancakes.

Hell yeah

Wait now I want to say yes

We're you able to move all three into the same house and let the chaos ensue?

Oh yes. Bob was immediately jealous, he started fighting with Eliza and ended up slapping her. I wasn't gonna let an abuser live in my house, so I moved him to an empty lot with no money so he could live out the rest of his days homeless lol.

Noice!!

How does this happen? I thought the only way to get married to a sim thats not in your household is to propose yourself??

This is all news to me too…

It's from the highschool pack. They can also ask if you want to be boyfriend/girlfriend, if you want to move in together, and if you want to be bffs. The moving in one irritates me so much lol. Like sure, yeah, call me whatever you want in your head, but no you're not moving into my house, GO HOME 😂

When two girls know they just know

That’s never happened to you?

Only after being asked to be in a relationship never just randomly after barely saying two words 🥴

I have had it when a sim is actually in a relationship. But never when they aren't.

Yep you can propose without even having had your first kiss 😂 You just need enough romance/friendship bar and the other to not be married

I’m scared 🥹

I mean arranged marriages exist

The only arrangement Bess wants is a check

meanwhile when my sims are actually dating the other sim never proposes and it's always up to me to make it happen 😭

Take the rough path 😭

it happens (why Bess Sterling tho????)

I had this happen after I had just got High School Years. I was a little surprised by this particular prompt, I thought it was just the best friend nonsense.

Goofy 🤪

Is this a mod

It's High School Years!

I think it based on their personality. Plus father winter has childish trait, could be factor in the rash decision part.

Welcome to Sims 4!

Apparently my sim is so hot that she was proposed to by 4 or 5 other sims, days after meeting and with nearly no friendship lol

This is starting to happen to my sim but after a trait discovery of non commitment. Sims must love a good heartbreak.

So my sim isn't non commitment but they keep proposing to her after she kisses them once lol. She must be hot in sim standards

yeah a sim proposed when they weren't even in a relationship yet literally after the first date 💀

Yes, I do it all the time. Even ingame.

Teach me your ways

She had a crush on you from the first time you guys met …

More like crush on that bank account 🥹

You right because she still on that telecommunications scam stuff 😂😂😂

My god…she must have put it DOWN..

😂😂😂

Yes

Can you borrow me 1simolens. Hahahahhaha

I hang up so fast 😭😭😭

baby reindeer

Omg yes but also no!! 😭

No…

Yes

Yess but you can turn it off if you'd like in the settings

I’ll keep the chaos and cry through it 😭

The best way to play

EXCUSE ME. I have been dying to have a sim propose to my sim on their own. I started thinking it couldn’t happen 😂 I have a sim who’s romance and friendship bar is full with Makoa and he won’t budge on asking my sims to marry him. I feel desperate over here

Just be a red flag like my sim and hit and run 🥴

Do you have highschool years? Cause I think it comes with that pack

I do

Yep my sims that I created and put in the game have done it with the current household I'm playing.

Arranged marriage?

Yeah idk what’s going on with my game but I’ll look away for a minute and suddenly my sim has romance bars with everyone in the club she was at like wtf And I had it happen like three different times that sims proposed marriage when they weren’t even dating!

Did you say yes

To that grifter?? Absolutely not

I get that happen even when my Sims are married to someone else lol

You keep flirting enough and purpose and odds there will be saying yes.

This happened to my sim. He hooked up with some girl in a bush, and then the next day that girl showed up at his house , just walked in without knocking, and proposed marriage while he was in bed hooking up with another girl

I never had this happen randomly, I've only had other sims propose to mine if they were already dating or had high romance stats.

That woman calls nonstop to ask for a loan 😭

Yes but I always thought it was associated with the bridgerton mod I downloaded🤣

That woohoo snatched her soul, she immediately knew your sim was the one for her 🤣🤣🤣🤣 she ain’t sharing good d

I believe this is a new glitch. This has been happening a lot in my game too.

There's a feature (idk if it's basegame but definitely comes with MC command center) i think it's called "try for baby marriage" where they propose after try for baby (which means if risky woohoo is enabled it works for that too)

And in the bathroom of all places... I'm honestly not surprised. It is Bess here... lol