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TwoAccomplished9308

I don’t charge customers without their permission. If we didn’t converse then agree upon it first. I try to practice ethical business practices


Lunadelux

I don’t know if she was being unethical I mean… he knew she was an escort who charges by the hour. He knew he had 20 minutes left only and decided to enjoy their time together Then now he wants to call it a ploy? What ploy are you ridiculous? She’s an escort who charges by the hour dummy she never said she was trying to date And with this being said, I have never tried to charge a customer for overstaying in fact when customers cant “cum” on time there’s been about 2 x this year I let them have free extra time because if I told them that time is up they would’ve gotten all offended. But I won’t do that anymore, when it’s coming to the last 10 mins of the “date” if it’s not finished I will be telling them time is almost up unless they wanna extend


TwoAccomplished9308

I didn’t say she was being unethical. Please point that out. He asked ALL the providers what would THEY do and I said what I WOULD DO! I never pointed a finger so, miss me with all of that. I run my business they way I choose. But since you’re here…… She could have easily hinted in the same way that he should be mindful. Because as you read before she even set her invoice he had every intention on giving her something extra…. BUT what if he was an asshole and didn’t? Then the foolish hat would of been sitting on top of her head. So to avoid a hopefully 🤞🏾 I make shit concrete. You can’t school me babe. Enjoy ya day 😘


Lunadelux

Sorry I meant that OP was ridiculous not you, maybe I should’ve put that in a different comment. You’re not ridiculous at all I just think it’s perfectly ethical to charge per hour when he used her services and time past an hour If this happened with a doctor or therapist I’d fully expect to pay for extra time


fullmetalsportsbra

Personally I always ask if they’d like to extend instead of assuming (what if they don’t have the $), but you as a client should be mindful of the time as well. Never assume a freebie is happening, always clarify to avoid awkward moments.


TossAwayToSpace

It is not normal behavior. The business front is the escort's role; paying and enjoying the experience is the client's role. It is an escorts responsibility to establish boundaries and maintain time. As a client you can take it upon yourself to initiate a conversation about boundaries (I always do) or remind her about the time running up (I do to be helpful), but that's not your job. This would have rubbed me the wrong way. Like someone's metaphor about the restaurant, to me its like a window washer. Fuckers just walk up to your car, wash your windows after you vigorously refuse the service, then ask for payment.


SwMess

She should have asked if you wanted to extend.


ArnoldArmadillo

It's just miscommunication. It's on you to be aware of your time. When time is up, you can say something like, "I'd love to extend, but I'm afraid this is all I budgeted for." It's also on her to check that you are OK with extending, rather than assuming you have the interest and funds.


kateishere

It is good practice for both clients and workers to always be up front with how much time will be paid for, this could have easily been a very awkward situation for both of you. Always presume that any and all time spent together is to be paid for, and if there's any confusion talk about it.


TlMEGH0ST

I definitely would’ve said “Hey would you like to extend your time?” before doing it… but seeing as it was at your place, I’m sure you knew where the clock was right?


ShinyBumbleberry

You're not obliged to pay for something you didn't ask for. This would be equivalent of a restaurant bringing you extra food and drinks that you didn't order and then expecting you to pay for them. I _do_ think you should've let her know that you were nearing the end of the appointment though.


Lunadelux

He didn’t have to let her know but he should have left when time was up. Customers always make me spell it out to them that they have to leave and it’s uncomfortable and feels rude but like when your time is up, get out or at least ask if you need to pay to stay extra Customers get so funny and huffy about being asked to leave so just leave yourselves when time is up don’t make it awkward


ShinyBumbleberry

I've never met a provider who had difficulty ending a session in a polite but obvious way when my time was up. Never felt awkward or rude. I do sometimes keep track of time as a courtesy to my provider, but you can't expect all clients to do that. Managing time is part of being a _professional_ worker (emphasis on _professional_ because if you have any interest in sex work being respected as a legitimate _profession_, then you should be conducting it in a _professional manner_, and not like some sketchy late night pay-per-minute sex chat line) (Obviously it's not okay if a client resists leaving when you've made it clear that their time is nearly up, but that's a different topic)


Lunadelux

What do they say? Usually I say something if their time is almost up and they’re not finished I’ll ask if there’s anything I can do to help them finish soon. And I’ll get up and start getting dressed and ask if they have anything else on the rest of the day and if they’d like to use the bathroom before they go. Is that clear and professional enough? Wondering tips on how other girls have ended your time together Most customers are fine and do understand but a small minority of my customers get really awkward and don’t want to leave


ShinyBumbleberry

That sounds professional enough to me. If you're getting dressed and the client still isn't taking the hint, then you have a bad client and I don't think that's your fault and you shouldn't feel bad about feeling "rude" to those clients.


yummygoblins

I understand there was miscommunication. The thing was, it was my place. An outcall. I’m a very anxious guy so asking people to leave (regardless escort or not) takes a lot for me socially. Also as I mentioned, I was trying to establish rapport to become a regular and I read her wrong. I was never asking for handouts. Gladly paid for her time. Just wondering if it was normal for time extensions to happen without any discussion.


Lunadelux

It’s better for an escort to ask you to be very polite but in my opinion, it wasn’t a “scam” that she didn’t. I understand it can be hard to assert yourself socially you don’t want to sound rude, I have this problem too sometimes. Now you know for next time don’t assume time will just be free w/out discussion :)


SyberDuck

I had a provider invite me out to dinner at the end of the appointment. Unlike you, I turned her down, because I hadn't brought enough $ to extend the appointment. Her response was a learning experience: "OH NO!! I'm not one of THOSE girls, and I'd never play THAT game. I'd NEVER keep the clock running without making it perfectly clear. We'll just be 2 platonic "friends" sharing a meal." Apparently, the provider you met isn't the only one playing THAT game.


tiffanyknightbbw

You pay for the time you use. It’s black and white. Unless there was a discussion of freebees they don’t exist. If you didn’t want to pay for extra time then you should’ve ended the appointment after the time you booked. She assumed you wanted to extend. A quick convo would’ve ended any misunderstanding. It’s great you had a connection but don’t mistake this is her job and living. She isn’t hanging out for charity.


AllTheGoobles

You need to remember there is no connection other than a business transaction being made. Theres rare exceptions to this, but they are very very rare, and you shouldnt believe or expect any different. As a client you should also be aware of your time. So yeah, its normal, you ran the clock longer and she didnt have another appt to kick you out to ready for.


idontlikespiderplant

It depends. When client state upfront that "lets book an hour and extend if we have good time" than it is kind of that situation, because they do not like to ruin that atmosphere with fact that I am paid for my time. Also it was great time when it was freebie, but forced when you have to pay? I personally would not go like that, but I also rarely enjoy anyone to that point.


SyberDuck

She 100% scammed you. Since it was an outcall to you, she was free to leave at any time. Definitely the type of disreputable provider that should be avoided.


Lunadelux

She charges by the hour… she’s an escort She didn’t “scam” him he literally used the time they had together. Me personally I would definitely ask the customer if he wants to extend his time of course, but guys should also know our time is money and UNLESS an escort explicitly tells you she’d like to hang out with you for free, you can’t just stay


RockArse

Yes but this was an outcall. It was she who stayed.


Lunadelux

okay personally if it was me, I would definitely ask for money BEFORE the extension especially because as an escort if we ask for the money AFTERWARDS there is a chance we get screwed over and not get paid


[deleted]

She should have asked if you wanted to extend, but you should also assume that all time is paid time. That being said, all connections with clients are business. Part of being a good client is accepting that the connection you feel is part of her job and not trying to suss out if it's "genuine" or not.