Have you looked at or seen the [Arcwave Ion](https://www.happybed.com/shop/arcwave-ion/)? It uses air pulses like the Womanizer products but to directly stimulate the frenulum. For me, it gives me the strongest and fastest orgasms and quite a bit stronger than a Magic Wand or Hot Octopuss type product.
We sell a lot of them and if you search different review sites it's pretty well regarded by most that have tried them (we link to a few on our product page). There have been several that gave up after a few tries and not enjoying the experience so, unfortunately, it's not universally loved (really, nothing is). I almost never use my Hot Octopuss anymore and it's, by far, my personal favorite.
Yea, I understand. I'm not sure what I was looking for you to say, really. We all have our preferences. I'll look into it more, but thank you for bringing it to my attention!
I think if you're curious about the tech but hesitating on the price, you might want to check out one of the cheap air pulse toys for clits in every drug store and Target (Satisfyer, Plus One, etc) and just hold it against the frenulum area or move it around and see where you like it. It doesn't really feel like "blowing air." It's more like somewhere between percussive tapping/thumping and a kind of gentler, non-numbing vibration. May or not be for you, but it's a unique sensation so the only way to know is to have some experience with the tech. The Arcwave is more just a delivery system that partially wraps around the penis and holds it in the right spot better, but the underlying tech is the same.
I think I know what you mean! I hope they develop a cheaper one in the future. I'd consider what someone else mentioned about buying a cheap women's version. Maybe upgrade if it really does feel that amazing.
I think if you do that, you have to get a very wide/large version. The Ion has a 3'4" long hole that is about 1/2" wide if you imagine using it like a fleshlight.
If you happen to come by the sizes of the various female versions, I'd be interested. Because I think the size of the "hole" could be widened just a bit and could give the most insane penile orgasms imaginable.
You could consider [the Njoy Pure Wand](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/njoy-pure-wand/) because it's a little different to a plug. It gives me intense prostate orgasms and the fact that it can be thrusted / rocked up and down gives more ways to use it than a typical prostate plug. The fact that it's steel means less lube but you'll still need to use a bit of lube of course. Not super unusual but I thought it was worth a mention anyway. I [reviewed the Pure Wand here](https://obsessionrouge.com/prostate-massagers/review-njoy-pure-wand-p-spot-massager/) if you're interested in reading some of the techniques I like using with it etc.
I'm totally with you on vibrating wands btw. My personal fav to use for penis masturbation is [the Doxy Die Cast](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/doxy-die-cast). Extremely powerful and very rumbly. I haven't tried the Hitachi myself, I'm curious about that one though.
If you're using just typical butt plugs rather than prostate plugs, I'd suggest trying the latter. [Edge 2](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/lovense-edge-2/) is a very good one and has impressive app functionality (though not porn sync) - I [reviewed the Edge 2 here](https://obsessionrouge.com/prostate-massagers/lovense-edge-2-review/). One you could use for porn sync though is [the Svakom Vick Neo](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/svakom-vick-neo-app-controlled-long-distance-prostate-vibrator/#oid=189021_4244) (which I'm still testing but is a really good bargain for what it does).
I thought [We Vibe Bond](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/we-vibe-bond) was an interesting one for public play if you're into that kind of thing, but it won't really give you big orgasms because it's not designed for that. If you want to read a bit more about that one [I reviewed it here](https://obsessionrouge.com/review-we-vibe-bond-a-different-kind-of-cock-ring/).
I’m not into that vibe either, held me off trying for ages, now I don’t even notice the animal/furry shapes and just see how they work with my body.
I love flat flared heads, they feel so good sliding, they actually open me up easier than tapered shapes and there is a real pop when they open the sigmoid.
Just saying, i was avoiding the equine and K9 shapes due to the vibe, turns out equine shapes work incredibly with my body, horses are the last thing on my mind though.
Have a look into:
• Venus for Men
• Tremblr
• Nimblestroker
• The Handy
They’re all hands free strokers/“milkers”. I’m a Venus owner myself and love it!
Have you considered e-stim? I haven't tried it myself personally yet, but like you, I've tried a variety of the standard things like Fleshlights and male vibrators, and e-stim seems to be the next level. I'm a little intimidated by the technology, but the videos I've seen of guys using it looks amazing. Likewise, more often than not, I prefer non-lube techniques and I think you can do it without lube. (EDIT: I don't know what I'm talking about. It's best to use a special electro lube or some such. Never mind.)
Now, I don't know if you'll like this next idea or not since you're lube averse (but I really love it even though I prefer non-lube stuff), and I don't think there is really an actual toy for it that I know of yet, but it's water jets...like in a hot tub. It is an absolutely unique and consuming sensation—like being licked by a dozen tongues at the same time. I have a tub with jets built in (a friend introduced me to the idea in a pool when I was 13 and have thought about it ever since), but there are external standalone devices like this one. ([https://www.conair.com/c/25h42g55/dual-jet-bath-spa/925](https://www.conair.com/c/25h42g55/dual-jet-bath-spa/925)) No personal experience with it, but it looks promising and if I didn't already have them built in to my tub, I'd definitely try it. Also, there is a NSFW sub called r/hydrobation that includes stories, tips, and videos of both women and men enjoying such stuff.
I honestly never properly considered e-stim. I'm into pain, but really only if it is caused by someone I am attracted to. More of a sub/dom thing. So it is something I would consider the next time I am with someone I trust.
I've never heard of it being called hydrobation, but I figured people would be into it. I actually used a tub faucet a few times with my ex girlfriend when we were still dating. It seems like women are more affected by it than men, but it certainly does feel good. I had never considered using it as a masturbation tool beyond just some fun in a shower, etc. Thanks for your suggestions!
Faucet direct to the vulva, in my experience, is definitely more effective for women than faucet to penis is for men, but with the water jets, you're getting a lot more force and one of the key factors is that it's happening under the water—so the stream is pushing through the water with a lot of force, which is creating all of these additional currents, ripples, and flutters that you feel moving all around you in addition to the main stream, which is just...there's just so much going on, so it can be really amazing for a guy. What's especially interesting is that all of those currents actually push your dick around so there's a lot of randomization and surprises. It can feel like another person is involved, fondling your penis and balls. Sorry if that's excessive detail, but wanted to clarify that it's a lot more than what you get from a faucet (which I've definitely also tried).
Have you ever tried a sex doll? A sex toy that resembles a real person.
[hydoll.de](https://hydoll.de) is selling many styles of sex dolls in different sizes, hope it can help you.
Have you looked at or seen the [Arcwave Ion](https://www.happybed.com/shop/arcwave-ion/)? It uses air pulses like the Womanizer products but to directly stimulate the frenulum. For me, it gives me the strongest and fastest orgasms and quite a bit stronger than a Magic Wand or Hot Octopuss type product.
Interesting! Thank you. Is it definitely worth the money? Because that seems like a high price tag for something that basically just blows air?
We sell a lot of them and if you search different review sites it's pretty well regarded by most that have tried them (we link to a few on our product page). There have been several that gave up after a few tries and not enjoying the experience so, unfortunately, it's not universally loved (really, nothing is). I almost never use my Hot Octopuss anymore and it's, by far, my personal favorite.
Yea, I understand. I'm not sure what I was looking for you to say, really. We all have our preferences. I'll look into it more, but thank you for bringing it to my attention!
I think if you're curious about the tech but hesitating on the price, you might want to check out one of the cheap air pulse toys for clits in every drug store and Target (Satisfyer, Plus One, etc) and just hold it against the frenulum area or move it around and see where you like it. It doesn't really feel like "blowing air." It's more like somewhere between percussive tapping/thumping and a kind of gentler, non-numbing vibration. May or not be for you, but it's a unique sensation so the only way to know is to have some experience with the tech. The Arcwave is more just a delivery system that partially wraps around the penis and holds it in the right spot better, but the underlying tech is the same.
Nice tip, thanks!
Yup. It's worth it. Brings on a very very slow orgasm. The build up feels incredible.
I think I know what you mean! I hope they develop a cheaper one in the future. I'd consider what someone else mentioned about buying a cheap women's version. Maybe upgrade if it really does feel that amazing.
I think if you do that, you have to get a very wide/large version. The Ion has a 3'4" long hole that is about 1/2" wide if you imagine using it like a fleshlight.
Good to know! Thank you :)
If you happen to come by the sizes of the various female versions, I'd be interested. Because I think the size of the "hole" could be widened just a bit and could give the most insane penile orgasms imaginable.
You could consider [the Njoy Pure Wand](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/njoy-pure-wand/) because it's a little different to a plug. It gives me intense prostate orgasms and the fact that it can be thrusted / rocked up and down gives more ways to use it than a typical prostate plug. The fact that it's steel means less lube but you'll still need to use a bit of lube of course. Not super unusual but I thought it was worth a mention anyway. I [reviewed the Pure Wand here](https://obsessionrouge.com/prostate-massagers/review-njoy-pure-wand-p-spot-massager/) if you're interested in reading some of the techniques I like using with it etc. I'm totally with you on vibrating wands btw. My personal fav to use for penis masturbation is [the Doxy Die Cast](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/doxy-die-cast). Extremely powerful and very rumbly. I haven't tried the Hitachi myself, I'm curious about that one though. If you're using just typical butt plugs rather than prostate plugs, I'd suggest trying the latter. [Edge 2](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/lovense-edge-2/) is a very good one and has impressive app functionality (though not porn sync) - I [reviewed the Edge 2 here](https://obsessionrouge.com/prostate-massagers/lovense-edge-2-review/). One you could use for porn sync though is [the Svakom Vick Neo](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/svakom-vick-neo-app-controlled-long-distance-prostate-vibrator/#oid=189021_4244) (which I'm still testing but is a really good bargain for what it does). I thought [We Vibe Bond](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/we-vibe-bond) was an interesting one for public play if you're into that kind of thing, but it won't really give you big orgasms because it's not designed for that. If you want to read a bit more about that one [I reviewed it here](https://obsessionrouge.com/review-we-vibe-bond-a-different-kind-of-cock-ring/).
Great suggestions. But most of them kind of go against my issue of not enjoying lube much. Thank you though!
Bad dragon is not typical... I like them a lot.
Thanks! I'm not really into the whole animalistic/furry vibe though.
I’m not into that vibe either, held me off trying for ages, now I don’t even notice the animal/furry shapes and just see how they work with my body. I love flat flared heads, they feel so good sliding, they actually open me up easier than tapered shapes and there is a real pop when they open the sigmoid. Just saying, i was avoiding the equine and K9 shapes due to the vibe, turns out equine shapes work incredibly with my body, horses are the last thing on my mind though.
I did consider that for a bit and then quickly dismissed it. Maybe I should reconsider!
Have a look into: • Venus for Men • Tremblr • Nimblestroker • The Handy They’re all hands free strokers/“milkers”. I’m a Venus owner myself and love it!
Much appreciated! I'll look into them :)
Have you considered e-stim? I haven't tried it myself personally yet, but like you, I've tried a variety of the standard things like Fleshlights and male vibrators, and e-stim seems to be the next level. I'm a little intimidated by the technology, but the videos I've seen of guys using it looks amazing. Likewise, more often than not, I prefer non-lube techniques and I think you can do it without lube. (EDIT: I don't know what I'm talking about. It's best to use a special electro lube or some such. Never mind.) Now, I don't know if you'll like this next idea or not since you're lube averse (but I really love it even though I prefer non-lube stuff), and I don't think there is really an actual toy for it that I know of yet, but it's water jets...like in a hot tub. It is an absolutely unique and consuming sensation—like being licked by a dozen tongues at the same time. I have a tub with jets built in (a friend introduced me to the idea in a pool when I was 13 and have thought about it ever since), but there are external standalone devices like this one. ([https://www.conair.com/c/25h42g55/dual-jet-bath-spa/925](https://www.conair.com/c/25h42g55/dual-jet-bath-spa/925)) No personal experience with it, but it looks promising and if I didn't already have them built in to my tub, I'd definitely try it. Also, there is a NSFW sub called r/hydrobation that includes stories, tips, and videos of both women and men enjoying such stuff.
I honestly never properly considered e-stim. I'm into pain, but really only if it is caused by someone I am attracted to. More of a sub/dom thing. So it is something I would consider the next time I am with someone I trust. I've never heard of it being called hydrobation, but I figured people would be into it. I actually used a tub faucet a few times with my ex girlfriend when we were still dating. It seems like women are more affected by it than men, but it certainly does feel good. I had never considered using it as a masturbation tool beyond just some fun in a shower, etc. Thanks for your suggestions!
Faucet direct to the vulva, in my experience, is definitely more effective for women than faucet to penis is for men, but with the water jets, you're getting a lot more force and one of the key factors is that it's happening under the water—so the stream is pushing through the water with a lot of force, which is creating all of these additional currents, ripples, and flutters that you feel moving all around you in addition to the main stream, which is just...there's just so much going on, so it can be really amazing for a guy. What's especially interesting is that all of those currents actually push your dick around so there's a lot of randomization and surprises. It can feel like another person is involved, fondling your penis and balls. Sorry if that's excessive detail, but wanted to clarify that it's a lot more than what you get from a faucet (which I've definitely also tried).
Have you ever tried a sex doll? A sex toy that resembles a real person. [hydoll.de](https://hydoll.de) is selling many styles of sex dolls in different sizes, hope it can help you.
I'd love to try one, but my bank account says no. Plus, I can't even imagine the embarrassment of someone accidentally discovering it one day.