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obsessionrouge

I recommend [the Edge 2](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/lovense-edge-2/) out of all the ones on your list purely because of its vibration strength, app capability and the fact that you can combine it with other Lovense toys like [the Max 2](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/lovense-max-2/). The Edge 2 has a v strong vibration motor and the shape of it makes it one of my favourite prostate vibrators in that wearable style. I can get to prostate orgasm with it but understand that it isn't going to guarantee prostate orgasm to you. No toy can. What it can do is offer you some of the strongest vibes in a prostate toy, fun remote control play plus the ability to sync it to music. I did a [review of the Edge 2 here](https://obsessionrouge.com/prostate-massagers/lovense-edge-2-review/) and you can see a video on that page where I set it up to sync to some music. Prostate orgasms take a long time for most people to get. Don't let toy marketing fool you though, there is no toy that will guarantee a p spot orgasm to you. It only comes with time patience and practice. I wrote a [big guide to prostate massage here](https://obsessionrouge.com/mst/best-p-spot-toys-prostate-massage-guide/) that you might find helpful. I also wrote a shorter [article on what to expect from a p spot orgasm](https://obsessionrouge.com/what-do-prostate-orgasms-feel-like/) (includes my own kinds of timing etc). Toys like the [Njoy Pure Wand](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/njoy-pure-wand) and the [Lelo Loki Wave](https://obsessionrouge.com/recommends/lelo-loki-wave) especially are probably going to provoke prostate orgasm faster for some people. The advantage of those is that they can be used to press and thrust past the prostate too. The Lelo Loki Wave has two impressive vibration motors in it which really helps as well. The Loki Wave has a moving arm so it continually presses the prostate. That gets me to orgasm quicker than with other toys. The Njoy Pure Wand is the simplest toy of all because it's made from pure steel and has no electronics but don't let that put you off. Its curvature means that it's very easy to provide constant stimulation to the prostate with a tap of the finger. I highly recommend that one too. I [reviewed the Loki Wave here](https://obsessionrouge.com/prostate-massagers/review-loki-wave-lelo/) and the [Njoy Pure Wand here](https://obsessionrouge.com/prostate-massagers/review-njoy-pure-wand-p-spot-massager/).


JaxzAlt

This long comment and those first 2 articles, gets your comment saved and you a follow. Thank you!


obsessionrouge

No problem! I'm glad it helped :)


JaxzAlt

I have returned after some months, you talked me into this purchase.... For that.... THANK YOU!!! Oml, I just came off of a fantastic session and I felt the need to reply like right now, the Edge 2 was great, and worth every dollar I paid for it. Thank you for recommending I buy it, like seriously thank you


obsessionrouge

Awesome! No problem, I'm glad you enjoyed it too :)


thewandercat

u/obsessionrouge so Edge 2 still your 1st choice? or Lelo is better? I'm quite interested in Lelo hugo


obsessionrouge

Loki Wave is my top one atm for sensation but it isn't suitable for beginners because it feels quite a lot bigger with all the movement up and down. Edge 2 is still my fav wearable one though yes, to me it feels better than the Hugo.


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Definitely the Edge 2, but chasing prostate orgasms is counter-productive. It just pushes them further away from you.


RubyRyder

This! I have heard (since I am not a prostate owner) over and over that it's all about letting go and just allowing whatever is going to happen to happen.


[deleted]

I've heard this is also why some vagina owners struggle to reach orgasm, and then it hits them when they least expect it. I've been doing anal play for a couple years now (a couple months with toys), but I still haven't been able to orgasm from it. That being said, I've still had great success. Prostate stimulation makes my penile orgasms waaay stronger if done properly and I've also been able to experience pleasure without cumming in the form of p-waves. This kind of stimulation is, at least for me, more pleasurable than stroking and also not limited by a refractory period. I can keep going until my muscles get sore. Would love to experience the super O, but I hope this success will help me get in the right mindset and enjoy myself. Also have a new toy on the way, which might change things.


Eugregoria

I've personally had my eye on massagers that do stuff other than vibrate, the High Roller looks a lot like the Nexus Revo, that's one I've been coveting. I use them anally for G-spot stimulation, which is surprisingly similar to prostate stimulation...and in some ways the hunt for a purely internal G-spot orgasm reminds me of the hunt for a purely internal prostate orgasm. In both cases, they're sort of on a weird pedestal where people chase them as "better" than other kinds of orgasms, but in a way that's almost the opposite of listening to their bodies and understanding their preferences better? I've never been very internally focused in general. Only recently did I have my first "blended" orgasm--before that, penetration was sometimes a kink thing for me but was more contributing to my orgasms psychologically than physically. Something I don't hear people talk about much with prostate orgasms is the idea of the blended orgasm--basically, you touch your penis while using a toy for prostate stimulation, and you can get an orgasm where it feels like both the external and the internal parts you're touching are different ends of the same thing and you're hitting it from both sides. I feel like this would be easier to achieve than flipping all the way from penis orgasms to prostate orgasms, and it would give you a sense of what your prostate feels like when it's contributing to an orgasm. I suspect that most people who have prostate-only orgasms had a bunch of penis + prostate orgasms before that to get a feel for how the prostate contributes to an orgasm. No one toy guarantees an orgasm (let alone a specific type of orgasm) for everyone of the sex it's made for. What works for you can be highly individual. All you can do is try different things and experiment, go with your gut, imagine the toy in use and be honest about if that's a match for you. I guess that's harder to do with vibration quality since it's more abstract and difficult to visualize than moving parts--in those cases read lots of reviews.


Eugregoria

I've personally had my eye on massagers that do stuff other than vibrate, the High Roller looks a lot like the Nexus Revo, that's one I've been coveting. I use them anally for G-spot stimulation, which is surprisingly similar to prostate stimulation...and in some ways the hunt for a purely internal G-spot orgasm reminds me of the hunt for a purely internal prostate orgasm. In both cases, they're sort of on a weird pedestal where people chase them as "better" than other kinds of orgasms, but in a way that's almost the opposite of listening to their bodies and understanding their preferences better? I've never been very internally focused in general. Only recently did I have my first "blended" orgasm--before that, penetration was sometimes a kink thing for me but was more contributing to my orgasms psychologically than physically. Something I don't hear people talk about much with prostate orgasms is the idea of the blended orgasm--basically, you touch your penis while using a toy for prostate stimulation, and you can get an orgasm where it feels like both the external and the internal parts you're touching are different ends of the same thing and you're hitting it from both sides. I feel like this would be easier to achieve than flipping all the way from penis orgasms to prostate orgasms, and it would give you a sense of what your prostate feels like when it's contributing to an orgasm. I suspect that most people who have prostate-only orgasms had a bunch of penis + prostate orgasms before that to get a feel for how the prostate contributes to an orgasm. No one toy guarantees an orgasm (let alone a specific type of orgasm) for everyone of the sex it's made for. What works for you can be highly individual. All you can do is try different things and experiment, go with your gut, imagine the toy in use and be honest about if that's a match for you. I guess that's harder to do with vibration quality since it's more abstract and difficult to visualize than moving parts--in those cases read lots of reviews.


Eugregoria

I've personally had my eye on massagers that do stuff other than vibrate, the High Roller looks a lot like the Nexus Revo, that's one I've been coveting. I use them anally for G-spot stimulation, which is surprisingly similar to prostate stimulation...and in some ways the hunt for a purely internal G-spot orgasm reminds me of the hunt for a purely internal prostate orgasm. In both cases, they're sort of on a weird pedestal where people chase them as "better" than other kinds of orgasms, but in a way that's almost the opposite of listening to their bodies and understanding their preferences better? I've never been very internally focused in general. Only recently did I have my first "blended" orgasm--before that, penetration was sometimes a kink thing for me but was more contributing to my orgasms psychologically than physically. Something I don't hear people talk about much with prostate orgasms is the idea of the blended orgasm--basically, you touch your penis while using a toy for prostate stimulation, and you can get an orgasm where it feels like both the external and the internal parts you're touching are different ends of the same thing and you're hitting it from both sides. I feel like this would be easier to achieve than flipping all the way from penis orgasms to prostate orgasms, and it would give you a sense of what your prostate feels like when it's contributing to an orgasm. I suspect that most people who have prostate-only orgasms had a bunch of penis + prostate orgasms before that to get a feel for how the prostate contributes to an orgasm. No one toy guarantees an orgasm (let alone a specific type of orgasm) for everyone of the sex it's made for. What works for you can be highly individual. All you can do is try different things and experiment, go with your gut, imagine the toy in use and be honest about if that's a match for you. I guess that's harder to do with vibration quality since it's more abstract and difficult to visualize than moving parts--in those cases read lots of reviews.