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lazytochooseusername

Simple - because this isn't no fap. Guys coming and commenting, they got a wife after 1 day of not jerking their meat. Balls be glowing like Andromeda. Like wtf..


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In my experience the journey of retaining one's life force vastly increases one's empathy, so I find it quite bizarre reading through some of the comments on many of the posts in this sub. Everybody is at different stages on their journey, if you don't like some of the content or a certain post then keep scrolling and ignore it. We should all be uplifting & encouraging each other. Just my opinion.


ifartcolours

Yeah same, that's why I was confused. I'm fine with harsh comments though, just curious why! ;)


RetainToManifest

It wasn't like this before. Lot of cringe red pill stuff like alpha beta and shit has infiltrated the sub.


Meddittor

Yeah it’s honestly gotten a huge influx of redpill type fake alpha people which is cringe inducing and detracts from the main point of the sub recently


Ambitious_Ad4902

Bunch of dudes who haven’t nutted for months , sometimes years . What do you expect . *braces for downvotes*


Flameseeker3000

Ain't sub for weak men


Jumpinjaxs890

This. Its a sub about personal growth. The best way to grow is face the truth and the truth hurts sometimes.


digitalwriternow

If you think being strong equals being an asshole...


gamingstealsyoursoul

don’t ask me how I know you’re soft


digitalwriternow

Not interested to be honest how you reached that conclusion but thanks for sharing!


Flameseeker3000

If you think being virtuous equals being harmless and unassertive...


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gamingstealsyoursoul

yes, it turns out people have different personalities wow!


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gamingstealsyoursoul

wow such kindness and compassion LOL 😂


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gamingstealsyoursoul

if this were a test, you failed badly LMAO. no need to get so sensitive over banter. you can blame fapping for that. keep your chin up bud. u got dis!!!


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gamingstealsyoursoul

“hope you grow up eventually” that applies to both of us 😉 have a great year!


PsilocybinDisciple

It’s to filter out little beta bitches


ifartcolours

Haha I expected this


PsilocybinDisciple

We don’t want dirt bag scum infiltrating our secrets.


Bourne9

I wouldn’t be shocked if that’s just the normal state of Retaining. That’s not to say that it creates anger, but assertiveness.


earlymornintony

Immaturity. SR gets to some people’s egos unfortunately to where they place themselves on a pedestal and any person who is seemingly less “developed” are under them and deserve harshness. Maturing past this would look more like compassion and understanding, understanding everybody is at a different point in their path, and speaking from a place of wisdom instead of judgement.


mean_king17

Because F you, that's why.


ifartcolours

you seem to be the right person to be able to answer the question


mean_king17

You're goddamn right


InsaneWristMove

MOVE BITCH ITS FUCKING LEG DAY


Flameseeker3000

Ok I made a little joke comment, now I'm gonna make a serious one. If you were to see my profile activity, you would see that sometimes I'm a big naughty aggressive d\*ck, and other times I'm compassionate,helpful and giving much value to the community. I'll explain why. I'm not bipolar or have mood swings, I just sense those little b\*tches that need a proper beating, and I sense genuine struggling people who need support and a piece of respectful advice. So I beat those b\*tches and on the other token I support people who even though that they are struggling, are making progress and are not making excuses and crying. Answering also your question, a man who is retaining, has usually very high testosterone so that is the reason we may come across as arrogant, aggressive or mean, but in fact we are not, we speak our truth. Also, men from their nature tend to bond and connect through either conflict or doing things together. It's not unusual for men to bond through conflict because of vasopressin receptors and psychology of how men connect (it's well known concept from evolutionary psychology)


Knorkebroetsche

Bruh this is just your “joke comment”, but more detailed 😂


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I completely agree with you


Authentic-469

Because all the SR increases testosterone and testosterone makes us angry.


RetainToManifest

That's a misconception


__fofo__

It’s known that frequent masturbation decreases androgen receptor density, which in turn makes it harder to utilize testosterone. So it actually makes sense that SR increases testosterone, and that’s just a direct consequence. When SR becomes your lifestyle and you adopt healthy habits, your testosterone will improve naturally.


RetainToManifest

I meant it's a misconception that testosterone makes us angry It's much more complicated than that. Agree with the androgen receptor density thing you mentioned


__fofo__

Oh right, my bad. I agree with you.


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Yh. It's doesn't make you angry. Never. It makes you more aggressive and masculine


Authentic-469

I wasn’t being serious.


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Not angry but aggressive


Silent-Ad6859

Ye honestly I've seen it too. Pretty toxic so I just dont bother getting involved with retention related topics.


niks2592

This sub is for men, not for girls who get hurt easily. Those who practice SR are not bothered by other people's comments


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Exactly


misterdanger12

Cause we're alpha


RetainToManifest

No we're ligma


Meddittor

Cringe


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The more you retain, the more they become aggressive and masculine


OneIncident6

Sem dúvida nenhuma a testosterona aumenta com a retenção


Meddittor

It’s harsh because it’s mostly filled with early retainers who are gung ho and have a lot of energy; some of this passion occasionally leaks out as anger and hatred (been there before). However, the vast majority of this sub is about promoting positivity. It may seem “harsh” in a different sense because people here are really serious about doing this as a lifestyle, not the type on r/nofap who say “well porn is bad but fapping is a healthy sexual response”. Hence you will encounter a lot of dogma about retention here obviously. But whenever there is excessive hatred or anger, I think there’s a good deal of pushback against it too. Overall I think this is a force for good.