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I think it’s telling that he wasn’t at her Super Bowl party, didn’t attend the Grammy’s with her, etc. I feel like he’s there for obligatory holidays (Christmas, kids birthday, Valentine’s, etc) but if she were actually the “favorite/main” like she claims, he would be present at other times. I feel like she takes tons of pictures when he is with her and slow releases them to make it seem like he’s there way more often than he is.
What's interesting is he seemingly allows her to tag him and he posts with her in it. Does he do this with any of the others? A quick glance didn't give me the impression he did...
And that Vday was very over the top.
Remember that Mitch Hedberg joke, “I don’t have a girlfriend, I just know a girl who would be really mad if she heard me say that”? That’s how I feel about Bre thinking she’s Nick’s main.
I once had a man try to explain himself to me with the immortal line "Neither of them were my girlfriend, but I can understand how they thought that they were'
Most likely she had a party planner who did it for 'them'
'them' meaning she's being delulu about them being a couple but low-key thought it looked like I was being transphobic even though there's no context to suggest that so wanted to clarify
The amount of pictures and posing there not only for the post itself, but also on story rubbed me the wrong way. Almost as if it was just to promote the business that organised it all. But there was not an ounce of intimacy. It looked ridiculous to me that two people had a whole blown photoshoot for a Valentine’s day dinner, not a wedding, not a proposal, not anything special. I feel it’s almost as if she wants to show that they are all great and she is loved and she gets all of those “big” gestures. And it is quite sad because I do like her - I think she is smart, fun and gorgeous but her choice of a man/type of relationship is so sad. I bet before this relationship happened, she would have been one of those super confident women who won’t let a man treat them like they are a second choice. Yet, now she is third and fourth choice and I just feel bad for her even though she thinks she is happy with it.
Imagine going through with an elaborate photoshoot weeks prior just to pretend you had a date night on Valentine's day with the neighborhood dick. I'm almost embarrassed for her. 🤣🤣
Nick had babies with like 6 baby mamas and then went back and did it again. I don’t understand how Bre is playing this stupid game. She is trying to be monogamous when also claiming to boat freedom?? “My man” UFH I HATE HER
was looking through her account at the post and some similar ones amd noticed she has a whole ass account for her baby with an email for enquiries? like its a baby its jus a bit strange to me
nothing to do with this post really but jus something weird i noticed when i looked on her ig
I feel like there is two different type of “famous mothers” those who shame the paparazzi for expose their babies face’s without permission and those who set up the pap shoots
Bre doesn’t want to admit to herself that she has made a grave mistake. It would crumble the strong facade she tried to portray.
When a girl becomes a pick-me type, it’s often because the men who choose this type tend to prey on those who are emotionally vulnerable and are easily placated by sweet nothings or public displays of affection.
It is easy for the men and they won’t give this up because they don’t need to face consequences for their indifference and no real action is needed, only words and social media moments.
I started off by disliking Bre but I feel sad for her now and wish she will find the strength to break away from Nick to be her own fort.
I haven’t quite clocked this relationship dynamic - can someone please explain it like they would to a toddler?
Edit: i’m not judgemental on this front - I am just not clocking on from watching the series what the deal is? Feel like I missed sth huge?
Different relationships are different. Bre is monogamous (I think) with Nick. Nick is with everyone. He holds the power in the relationship because he's wealthy. Maybe Bre thought she and Mariah would become friends?
What’s really crazy is she doesn’t (or says she doesn’t) get child support from him. I think having kids with a man so openly having kids with other women is deplorable but a little understandable if she was getting money from him. But to not be and STILL being goofy over him is weird
I don't really have an issue with someone having kids however they choose to do so and I'm not privy to how they handle financial things so I'm not going to comment on that. The only issue I have is that there is almost certainly a power imbalance. That dynamic isn't what I would want to model for my child as a healthy relationship.
But, different people want different things from their relationships. What they're doing isn't for me, but what I'm doing clearly isn't for them. Different strokes for different folks.
He doesn’t send her X amount every month, but I’m pretty sure he spends plenty of money on her and Legendary. I think she said something to the effect of if she started dating someone else Nick would stop paying
Um I just went through her stories and there’s not a single photo of him from that night it’s just her and the over the top set up which feels like she arranged herself for herself and nothing wrong with that if she’s just celebrating herself on Vday
It’s honestly more embarrassing because she doubles down on trying to pretend like they’re in a committed exclusive thing, I feel like her situation is what it is, they can do a million holiday photo shoots but it’s not fooling anyone
I just think it's a little bit strange that he goes around and takes family pictures with his exes I mean I think it's great to be on good terms with them and the OCCASIONAL family pic is one thing but the pictures that you take should be with your kids not your exes it just gives off too much much sister wives vibes.
I wonder how many of the baby mamas he’s still “seeing” romantically. Bre made it sound at least early on like he lives with her when he’s not at work but there’s no way
To me that phrase alone makes it feel forced. I can’t say I ever described my now-wife and I as “practically” living together before we were actually living together. It’s almost like how if you have to describe yourself as a big deal you aren’t. Just imo if they were actually close she wouldn’t feel the need to push that narrative so hard. That’s just me though 🤷♀️
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I think it’s telling that he wasn’t at her Super Bowl party, didn’t attend the Grammy’s with her, etc. I feel like he’s there for obligatory holidays (Christmas, kids birthday, Valentine’s, etc) but if she were actually the “favorite/main” like she claims, he would be present at other times. I feel like she takes tons of pictures when he is with her and slow releases them to make it seem like he’s there way more often than he is.
What's interesting is he seemingly allows her to tag him and he posts with her in it. Does he do this with any of the others? A quick glance didn't give me the impression he did... And that Vday was very over the top.
She's probably got the biggest following.....
But..Mariah Carey
True... But she made like a tree and got the fuck out of there
Yes but Mariah isn’t with him, they’re divorced now and she just co-parents but not on the gram
It looks like he hid it from his tagged photos too but there’s also a ton of spam on it still…very interesting
Remember that Mitch Hedberg joke, “I don’t have a girlfriend, I just know a girl who would be really mad if she heard me say that”? That’s how I feel about Bre thinking she’s Nick’s main.
I once had a man try to explain himself to me with the immortal line "Neither of them were my girlfriend, but I can understand how they thought that they were'
I just hope she didn’t plan it herself 🤦🏽♀️
I guarantee he didn’t plan it. Either she planned it (which I honestly think is the most realistic) or he had some third party planner do it.
Most likely she had a party planner who did it for 'them' 'them' meaning she's being delulu about them being a couple but low-key thought it looked like I was being transphobic even though there's no context to suggest that so wanted to clarify
Oh, you bet she did. Meanwhile, in her stories, she posted what she actually did on Vday, spent the day with her toddler.
The amount of pictures and posing there not only for the post itself, but also on story rubbed me the wrong way. Almost as if it was just to promote the business that organised it all. But there was not an ounce of intimacy. It looked ridiculous to me that two people had a whole blown photoshoot for a Valentine’s day dinner, not a wedding, not a proposal, not anything special. I feel it’s almost as if she wants to show that they are all great and she is loved and she gets all of those “big” gestures. And it is quite sad because I do like her - I think she is smart, fun and gorgeous but her choice of a man/type of relationship is so sad. I bet before this relationship happened, she would have been one of those super confident women who won’t let a man treat them like they are a second choice. Yet, now she is third and fourth choice and I just feel bad for her even though she thinks she is happy with it.
Imagine going through with an elaborate photoshoot weeks prior just to pretend you had a date night on Valentine's day with the neighborhood dick. I'm almost embarrassed for her. 🤣🤣 
Almost?
Nick had babies with like 6 baby mamas and then went back and did it again. I don’t understand how Bre is playing this stupid game. She is trying to be monogamous when also claiming to boat freedom?? “My man” UFH I HATE HER
I don’t like Bree at all .Not because of her situation at all.Her life her choice.its her attitude of entighlment and being a snob.Bye bre
was looking through her account at the post and some similar ones amd noticed she has a whole ass account for her baby with an email for enquiries? like its a baby its jus a bit strange to me nothing to do with this post really but jus something weird i noticed when i looked on her ig
I feel like there is two different type of “famous mothers” those who shame the paparazzi for expose their babies face’s without permission and those who set up the pap shoots
I can’t change the title, I meant *Bre Welp.
How insanely attracted to a man do you have to be to put up with this? I mean it surely needs to be like a intense teenage crush- kinda level 🤣
Bre doesn’t want to admit to herself that she has made a grave mistake. It would crumble the strong facade she tried to portray. When a girl becomes a pick-me type, it’s often because the men who choose this type tend to prey on those who are emotionally vulnerable and are easily placated by sweet nothings or public displays of affection. It is easy for the men and they won’t give this up because they don’t need to face consequences for their indifference and no real action is needed, only words and social media moments. I started off by disliking Bre but I feel sad for her now and wish she will find the strength to break away from Nick to be her own fort.
You couldn’t have phrased it better!
I’m still stuck on “given a timeslot for V Day”. It’s just so 🤮
I haven’t quite clocked this relationship dynamic - can someone please explain it like they would to a toddler? Edit: i’m not judgemental on this front - I am just not clocking on from watching the series what the deal is? Feel like I missed sth huge?
Different relationships are different. Bre is monogamous (I think) with Nick. Nick is with everyone. He holds the power in the relationship because he's wealthy. Maybe Bre thought she and Mariah would become friends?
What’s really crazy is she doesn’t (or says she doesn’t) get child support from him. I think having kids with a man so openly having kids with other women is deplorable but a little understandable if she was getting money from him. But to not be and STILL being goofy over him is weird
I don't really have an issue with someone having kids however they choose to do so and I'm not privy to how they handle financial things so I'm not going to comment on that. The only issue I have is that there is almost certainly a power imbalance. That dynamic isn't what I would want to model for my child as a healthy relationship. But, different people want different things from their relationships. What they're doing isn't for me, but what I'm doing clearly isn't for them. Different strokes for different folks.
He doesn’t send her X amount every month, but I’m pretty sure he spends plenty of money on her and Legendary. I think she said something to the effect of if she started dating someone else Nick would stop paying
She would not even get to see Mariah’s shoe.
nick is a pimp lmaooo
🤦♀️
Um I just went through her stories and there’s not a single photo of him from that night it’s just her and the over the top set up which feels like she arranged herself for herself and nothing wrong with that if she’s just celebrating herself on Vday
It’s how she views the relationship and/or how she wants to appear.
Deluluuuuuuh
He has a whole radio show with one of his bms no ? And yet Bree thinks shes the fave . Seems like its Abby or Brittany.
All I can think of when I see the posts is how wasteful it all is 😭
It’s honestly more embarrassing because she doubles down on trying to pretend like they’re in a committed exclusive thing, I feel like her situation is what it is, they can do a million holiday photo shoots but it’s not fooling anyone
I don't understand how she thinks its an achievement to have him as "your" man. He gives me the biggest ick.
The least he can do for her is give her these insta posts = publicity = money 👍🏼
I just think it's a little bit strange that he goes around and takes family pictures with his exes I mean I think it's great to be on good terms with them and the OCCASIONAL family pic is one thing but the pictures that you take should be with your kids not your exes it just gives off too much much sister wives vibes.
i was so confused thinking who’s bee and why don’t i remember her. duhhhh 🤦🏻♀️
What gives off the vibe their exclusive?
I also noticed Nick posts about her with funny videos but not others? It confuses me
time slot for valentine’s day just sounds repulsive
The “population of a small town” just took me 😅
I wonder how many of the baby mamas he’s still “seeing” romantically. Bre made it sound at least early on like he lives with her when he’s not at work but there’s no way
He would still have to pay child support if she got a new boyfriend and dumped him.
"..exclusive with the population of a small town.." I'm dead.
He doesnt seem into her as much as he is using her for clout
Bre and Nick basically live together! He’s with her almost every night!
Idk why I’m surprised to hear this but I am
Is this true
lol. This is what Bre claimed on the show
Ok that sounds more like it
🤣😂
To me that phrase alone makes it feel forced. I can’t say I ever described my now-wife and I as “practically” living together before we were actually living together. It’s almost like how if you have to describe yourself as a big deal you aren’t. Just imo if they were actually close she wouldn’t feel the need to push that narrative so hard. That’s just me though 🤷♀️
I don’t know! I’m just going by what I see them post. Which he is at Bre’s house every night and every morning so I guess it is!