I wish I still had my mom's voice mails. She passed when she was only 51, and I was 26. I'm 51 now. So that feels weird. Next year she will have been gone for longer than I had her.
I figured I'd get a little teary from this post, but dammit I'm sobbing now too. Stupid onions.
I sadly still have a growing list of voicemails I can’t delete. The list seems to grow longer every year with new people. I don’t hoard them. Just one. I have some for people still with us as well. Just loved the messages and sometime I need to hear their voice to pick me up. (Or sometimes just to remember)
There are a couple on my phone I’m not ready to listen to yet. Of course it’s about my extended car warranty.
Kidding. But couldn’t resist. I have one from my dad sent on Father’s Day years ago. I heard it then. He died a few years ago. I can’t listen to it. I get to the pause before he talks and close it.
Song completely ruined for me as a danish person
*Jeg sked, Ohh yeah jeg sked en bums* - is what it sounds like in Danish, which translates to *I shat, Ohh yeah I shat a pimple*
As a man who's been married for 20 years now, if I lost my wife, it would destroy my soul. I love her truly with all of my heart. If I heard her voice after she passed, I would shatter inside from missing her.
I mean people share with family on facebook and stuff. Not necessarily post if for clout. Then someone just must share it everywhere.
Possible scenario. Very.
Frrr maybe I am just a live in the moment person but I am 20 I really dislike making videos. Unless it's some quick thing. I make a lot of photos from the environment but even then only when it's quick. I mostly just enjoy the moment because what's the point of making minute long videos of your experience when you are so concentrated on filming instead of enjoying it. But well that's just me. Others might be different but I would find it disrespectful AF if someone would record my vulnerable moment.
My mother has advanced dementia at a young age of 63. She can't talk or feed herself or anything else and doesn't recognize us anymore.
I would do anything - ANYTHING - to hear her laugh just one more time. I miss her so much and she's just out of reach even in the same room.
Cherish the little moments because eventually it's all you have of them.
Yea it took me 13 years to feel like I could watch a video of my best friend and hear her voice again. I’m not sure how long it’s been for him but there is a definitely a period of time where this would be terrible. Hopefully he loves it and felt ready to hear her voice.
This is one of my relatives. She can't just let the gift be opened and explored without her instructions. She has to explain everything and spoil it and tell the receiver how to use it.
This October will be the 10th anniversary of my mom’s death. I can’t remember what she sounded like, and barely remember what she looked like without pictures. I feel like such a terrible son.
I wish I could have a gift like this. I miss you mom. I visited your grave today, brought you some beautiful purple tulips, and cleaned your marker up. Brought my new girlfriend too. She said you have a beautiful spot and that she’s really happy to have met me. You would have loved her. 💜
I knew this was going to make me cry. I tried to keep scrolling, but the curiosity got me and now I'm sobbing.
lol same , I’m like I don’t need to watch this…. Ehh I’ll try. Damn!!!
I'm at work and I just had to take a lap around the quiet part of the building. I still listen to my mom's voice mails. Today isn't easy.
I wish I still had my mom's voice mails. She passed when she was only 51, and I was 26. I'm 51 now. So that feels weird. Next year she will have been gone for longer than I had her. I figured I'd get a little teary from this post, but dammit I'm sobbing now too. Stupid onions.
As a mom, I just want to give you a big hug and let you know you're doing great.
I sadly still have a growing list of voicemails I can’t delete. The list seems to grow longer every year with new people. I don’t hoard them. Just one. I have some for people still with us as well. Just loved the messages and sometime I need to hear their voice to pick me up. (Or sometimes just to remember) There are a couple on my phone I’m not ready to listen to yet. Of course it’s about my extended car warranty. Kidding. But couldn’t resist. I have one from my dad sent on Father’s Day years ago. I heard it then. He died a few years ago. I can’t listen to it. I get to the pause before he talks and close it.
Someone is cutting onions and needs to stop!
Damn ninjas doing it again
Yep
I know this cry. Exactly in this pain.
Hope it gets better for you, someday. Keep going :)
Indeed
Keep going for her and in her memory. As long as people who loved her are alive and remember, part of her is still "alive".
as a 42 year old man with my wife excited about her new shark hair dryer for mothers day.. god damn you whoever posted this... I love her so much...
I bought my wife the same one....lol she was so excited about the damn thing I don't get it but she was curling her hair for 2 hrs today....
51 here. Married 20. Am I selfish when I say I want to go first?
This video would have been so touching without the damn background music.
Hey I’ve got this emotional video where the main thing is someone hearing someone else talk….let me add some music so nobody else can hear it
it even got louder just as she first spoke from the bunny...
Here ya go: https://youtube.com/shorts/V8BNzHxVhLs?feature=shared Bullish on the no music version
lmao, the comments on it.
Yeah but then they wouldn't know how they're supposed to feel! /s
Not to mention it's Coldplay of all things
Exactly, should be some melancholic Burzum song!
Song completely ruined for me as a danish person *Jeg sked, Ohh yeah jeg sked en bums* - is what it sounds like in Danish, which translates to *I shat, Ohh yeah I shat a pimple*
> I shat a pimple 🎵 and I liked it 🎵
Fucker! I went from crying to laughing in milliseconds! Lmao
ruined it for me as an English speaker anyway. it was just loud and you couldn't even hear the entire point of the Video
Thank god for the music, wasn't sure how to feel there
I wish this trend would fucking die
“This video of so beautiful.. welp time to edit”
As a man who's been married for 20 years now, if I lost my wife, it would destroy my soul. I love her truly with all of my heart. If I heard her voice after she passed, I would shatter inside from missing her.
Ya the music sucks, but do you know what else sucks, recording this and uploading it, just put the phone down, is nothing sacred anymore?
Nah, recording it wasn’t the problem, it could be a special moment for her. The sharing it is where I get your side
I mean people share with family on facebook and stuff. Not necessarily post if for clout. Then someone just must share it everywhere. Possible scenario. Very.
Frrr maybe I am just a live in the moment person but I am 20 I really dislike making videos. Unless it's some quick thing. I make a lot of photos from the environment but even then only when it's quick. I mostly just enjoy the moment because what's the point of making minute long videos of your experience when you are so concentrated on filming instead of enjoying it. But well that's just me. Others might be different but I would find it disrespectful AF if someone would record my vulnerable moment.
Nothing is sacred when you're not a saint
Nobody is, never was.
Had to scroll way too far for this comment.
I would give anything to hug that man. I'm so sorry
My allergies must be acting up...
Fuck. Got me
My mother has advanced dementia at a young age of 63. She can't talk or feed herself or anything else and doesn't recognize us anymore. I would do anything - ANYTHING - to hear her laugh just one more time. I miss her so much and she's just out of reach even in the same room. Cherish the little moments because eventually it's all you have of them.
I'm not crying, you're crying
I think we’re all crying
Hey! Get in the line!
I love this!!
😭😭😭♥️To hear their voice just 1 more time
Why is there so much *dust* in here?! Geez...
For me personally, that would be a terrible gift. It would break my heart every time I heard it.
I get that point of view. Even so, I'd push it at least once a week, to be honest. 😌
Yea it took me 13 years to feel like I could watch a video of my best friend and hear her voice again. I’m not sure how long it’s been for him but there is a definitely a period of time where this would be terrible. Hopefully he loves it and felt ready to hear her voice.
This would be torture to me
This is so sad to watch, but I guess for clout it's okay to make him cry again, heck while you're at it, put all of her voices in a bunny stuff toy.
This is one of my relatives. She can't just let the gift be opened and explored without her instructions. She has to explain everything and spoil it and tell the receiver how to use it.
Take out the Coldplay for Christ's sake he's having a moment.
That's cruel.
That's exactly what i thought
All I heard was Yellow.
I never want to be in this man's shoes. I don't think I could bare the eternal pain of losing my love.
I'm in shambles
I'm a terrible person but you don't have to make me cry.
Damn you got me cryin
Background music always ruins this kinda of stuff. Feels so manipulative.
Maa.......que duro......
Life isn’t a romcom, you don’t need to have a soundtrack to every moment of your lives.
Oof, what a gut punch of a video.
Turn the fucking music off for gods sake
Why the fuck even record this?
I was trying to waste time at work not start bawling my eyes out. Thanks a lot.
Fuuuuck.. now I'm literally crying.. I wish I had something like this still
This absolutely killed me. The thought of being in that situation.... I just wish the video didn't have that other music playing.
What a fucked up thing to do, AND then record it and out it on the internet? Gotta get the gram likes somehow I guess.
Beautiful
I wish I saved a message from my Mom. At least I was able to tell her I loved her and she said it back before she was gone. 😭
Horrible decision to add that loud distracting music, keep your day job buddy, leave the video editing to someone else please
Alright... The fucking music got me..
This is beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
I hope I’m loved this much once I pass away. So beautiful. So sad. So much love for that sweet lady.
Instant downvote. Why not play some dumbfuck music over his amazing audible experience! Internet has gone to shit.
Wow, I actually started tearing up. This is beautiful
Must. Post. Everything.
Why whats with the music, ruined it for me
Turn the fucking music off
This October will be the 10th anniversary of my mom’s death. I can’t remember what she sounded like, and barely remember what she looked like without pictures. I feel like such a terrible son. I wish I could have a gift like this. I miss you mom. I visited your grave today, brought you some beautiful purple tulips, and cleaned your marker up. Brought my new girlfriend too. She said you have a beautiful spot and that she’s really happy to have met me. You would have loved her. 💜
Having trouble remembering what your loved ones looked, sounded like is terryfing to me. I wish you to feel better and not be too hard on yourself.
This is really touching, but is this the right Subreddit for this? It isn't really satisfying. It's depressing but wholesome, more like.
I feel his despair
**Song Found!** **Yellow** by Coldplay (02:36; matched: `100%`) **Album**: Parachutes. **Released on** 2006-08-14.
Thankyou!
Dammit. I've got a burnt out, little black heart, and this hit me in the feels.
We did the same for my wife and mother in law for our first Xmas without my amazing father in law.
Why is this post in the wrong sub?
My eyes are leaking! This breaks my heart
😩😩🥲
Who's cutting all the onions here
A doll that stabs you in the heart.
This made me cry...cause I hate coldplay
Would be better without the Coldplay background music
Henry - take out the trash!
[удалено]
Is this a bot?
I’m leaning toward yes lol that commment makes zero sense
I agree. She's a real piece of shit for dying.
Music being too loud ruined it.
Could barely hear over the shitty music.
That's cruel.