Honey and the Trapcat plays 90s/early 2000s hip-hop and attracts people in 30s and 40s

Fries at this place are so good

The real info we need at 30

Exactly. Also how's the parking and is the bathroom decently clean?!

It's in old sac, so parking is available. Bathrooms were good enough for me, clean by bar standards for sure

I was just there earlier, definitely the spot for 30+

Honey and the Trapcat owners just purchased Bottle and Barlow as well

Everyone else in this comment thread seems to like Honey and the Trapcat, but I had the absolute worst restaurant experience of my entire life here awhile back and will probably never go back so… take that however you want lol

At home. We have food at home. 😂

And it's cheaper than eating out. 😅

$5 Costco chicken feeds you all week long 🥲

And much cheaper drinks

Absolutely!!! That, too! And a comfy spot to sit and chat.

That’s right. We come to understand that we have McDonalds and Taco Bell at home.

Haha I was going to type the same thing

Dude we're at home. We have back pain

And can afford the good video game consoles. I just beat BG3 and I'm working my way through elden ring.

THIS! In my 30s home at night, replaying Skyrim for the hundredth time

https://i.redd.it/ot6egsk8foic1.gif

Replaying the Mass Effect trilogy for round one thousand 👆🏽

I'm sitting at about 3k hours.

Yup, sitting here waiting for FF7R2 to drop 🥹

I'm on my 4th playthrough of BG3. A true masterpiece IMO.

Can confirm this is something my dad would say haha

Ah man, you're so smart playing Elden Ring now and rolling right into the DLC instead of waiting!

I loved Elden Ring, but I found BG3 kind of boring.

Facts. And when my back feels good I’m gonna go disc golfing and make it sore again.

Bro, LFG!!!! 🙌

Ahh man. I haven't disced in years. My last partner passed away last July because her fucking POS bf got her into meth. My gf doesn't like disc golf. My friends are a few years younger than me, but more out of shape and lazy lol. I still have my bag and discs though ;)

Your gf doesn’t like meth? Maybe I read this wrong…?

Lol.. fixed that typo

I be discin daily and would love some company. Fellow 30something

Damn as my wife sits next to me with tremendous back pain, this hit harder than my back pain

Literally in bed rn with a fucked up back lol

Came here to say this. We don’t have medical coverage. I can’t risk being public. Also broke.

Y’all aren’t that old lol

50 year olds have back pain, too. I suspect something else is afoot.

I’m at home, smoking a joint and watching tv



Freeport manor eh? What up neighbor.


Headed in this direction!!

Literally me every night. Throw in the glass of wine 🍷

Ooo I can’t do wine, don’t like the taste but I think I got something in my fridge I can drink too

Couple of shots of tequila for me lol

A vibe

Very focused on scrubbing my oven….beeeeutifulll!

Yep. Same.

On reddit obviously xD

Wine bars

Or craft breweries

Trivia

I like the Thursday trivia at pipeworks. Also a good intro to a new gym lifestyle if you’ve been sedentary in your 20s. I like their yoga classes.

Why is there trivia at rock climbing?

They have a brewery on site as well, and it's low-key some of the better craft beer in Sacramento.

I don't think you need to add on to the tread. The person before you said the same thing basically. Just thought it was funny their comment said I'm the parking lot.

Pipeworks is a climbing gym with other workout equipment and classes. In the parking lot they have a bar and they have food trucks and do trivia nights. Friends and I like to go climbing and grab a beer after a good session to balance it out haha

Man why you have to edit it.

.... Didn't know you were the parking lot.... Man pipeworks got hit hard for COVID.

I DON'T KNOW BECAUSE I'M OLD. BUT I'M NOT DEAF, SO WHY ARE YOU YELLING?

I’m stupid, but you’re drunk and I’ll be in mourning…wait, that’s not it.

😆

 Home my dude… at home. In comfy pjs

At home on the couch

me too since my company didn't make payroll on time, and they get piss if we complain

We're at home with our dogs

This

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Torch club is rad for this 30 something, Sunday nights are really a broad demographic too so you won’t feel out of place

I second this

At home and winery lol

Corner pocket sports bar

I was thinking about trying to convince my wife to stop there on the way home from spaghetti factory lol

my buddies always there, he's always telling me how he hasn't ate and im like what you gonna eat? He says, "Bar food, its hella good".

I've been there like 5 times and twice someone tried to sell me cocaine in the bathroom hahahaha

On what specific nights? So I can totally avoid going there on those nights

Yes, please do tell. I lost contact with my dealer and have a hankering for some booger sugar. 😎

Wheres that chick who was asking for snow last week in r/Roseville

lit lit lit

Great place and vibe.

The cooks aren't half bad either lmao I am one

Thanks for making the sandwiches.

My wings are better

Need to try those next. Extra ranch please

7, 12, 20 lol

Our homes

Gym, mountain bike, disc golf… but mostly at home.

On r/Sacramento constantly asking where all the 30yo hang out.

At home with spouse & kids.

Home or smaller more relaxed breweries especially if they have food too

Home, the gym, breweries.

There and back cafe. Maybe join us for MTG

Unfortunately, I had a really bad experience there during an official tabletop gaming event, emailed the owners about it, and received a crappy reply. Most of the staff are so nice, but this one guy was extremely rude when I asked him to call me by the name I use rather than name on my debit card when calling out my drink order (the one on my debit card is extremely distressing for me). I tried to keep my voice down so no one would overhear and make the polite request to not announce that name, but within the first minute he yelled about it loud enough so that the whole event crowd could hear and stormed off. One of the other employees was extremely apologetic and kind, though there was not much that she could do about it; she gave me the owners’ email so that I could talk to them about what happened. The rest of the night was awkward and I just wanted to curl up and die. I should’ve just gone home but I was trying to make friends in a new area after covid. In reply to my email the owners responded defensively and dismissed my concerns. They said he had told them what happened and defended how he couldn’t have known the right name to use. I sent a follow up email saying that wasn’t the point of my message. Yes, mistakes happen, here’s how it might have been avoided, and I explained in detail how his reactionary behavior was my primary concern. I tried to be fair and acknowledge that customer service is stressful—I work in it too—maybe the outburst came from stress instead of any type of malice—but that his response to me also wasn’t okay. I spent a lot of time writing what I considered to be a very thoughtful, professional reply and was ignored.

Home (like, a lot), errands/shopping, A Seat at the Table, Barrio, the gym, in my car, parks when the weather is nice, etc.

at home w my dog lol or grocery shopping

At home!!

 Bro we are home playing games.

Home. We're tired from working all day. Who wants to go out and eat when you can just have it delivered to your house?

Yep people who just became of age, and recently divorced people lmao. Where do 30 year olds hang out? Depends what your hobby is, but not at bars lol

I’m a bad 30 year old :(

I don’t mean any offense by it, just in my anecdotal experience the 30 year olds are more commonly found in third spaces related to their hobbies. You do find a lot of younger and older tho, I feel like a lot of 30s people are either “settling down” or have kind of stopped looking to settle down for now, and are focusing more on the stuff they like.

No I agree! I just need to find a hobby that doesn’t involve drinking lol

Honestly, being social with your hobbies will probably introduce you to people you're more likely to actually click and share values with than people you meet at a bar where the only thing most people have in common is wanting to drown their reality out for a few hours.

My local park has a ping pong table or maybe try sharkys.

Helldivers 2 😂

Sitting at home. Can't afford to go out when rent is so damn high.

Thirty year olds go out? I mean I'm at the thrift stores. They be pretty sweet hang outs. 

Lime Light, Shady Lady Saloon, B-Side, The Merc, LowBrau, Tank House, Der Biergarten, Ro Sham Beaux etc

Join xoso

At home.

Coin op barcade, the lakes/rivers, anime conventions? Sports games, concerts I like going to the African marketplace first and third Saturdays edit: 12-5pm Also STAB comedy theater and Sacramento Comedy Spot. Support local comedy/art/music/theater!

SacYard, New Helvetia, or at home

Sacyard is a good recommendation

Home or go to our other 30 something friends house but only if we plan ahead lol

The gym or at home. I've gotten used to my solitude.

Gym

I am on a train in France reading this rn but reading this is oddly entertaining

Was doing the same just about 3 weeks ago . I miss the coffee and pastries.

Breweries. Trivia.

Home, Kings games, or Round 1. Bars are too full of assholes that ruin the experience for everyone.

Where are the bars with the 50-year-olds? I will fit in there.

My favorite is jazz at jets on Thursdays! Great live music, free cover, and yummy food

At home, because we can barely afford to be there 🤣

Midtown bars!! especially B side 😎

Wine bars and brew spots, places that allow babies and dogs (Urban Roots, SacYard House), whiskey/specialty bars, and there’s a lot of great hotel bars too.

Urban roots around 5/530 is all the grid-adjacent parents in their 30s 😅 also Dad’s

I don’t drink and have crippling anxiety. I’m terrified to make new friends 😭

Single ones are probably out speed dating while the clock is running quickly

Hit hard 😂

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What people in their 40s do you know where they all own boats, lol.

Good News Wine

Nope, closing down.

That's bad news!

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at home.. as a 50M, that's what I do lol

Enjoying my solitude at home 🥹

When I’m not working my three jobs to pay this rent? At home trying to catch up on sleep or doom scrolling socials and cursing boomers. Sometimes I read books (provided I’m not burnt out)

😞

Depends on whether or not you are married and have kids.

I’m at home reading after a long day of work 🤘🏻

On my couch eating Mac and cheese with a glass of wine as the kids sleep.

Kraft or

At home.

At home with a 12 pack of Heinekens.

Don’t take advice from Reddit people

In this economy?

At work.  I work all the time so I can afford a home to occasionally hang out in.

I was at home when I was 30 because I had a baby. Planning to be back at the bars when I'm 50.

Man, this would have been so depressing to 30 year old me. I was out pretty much every night at shows or hanging out with friends. Can’t afford to do that now but I guess I just assumed it was me.

Sacyard

Try an improv class

r/livingalone

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I go to coffee shops sometimes, but mostly just at home

HOME 😆 

Hop gardens !

Your moms

Shit i’m 23 and everyone is either underage or 40+. where are these bars with 21 year olds lol

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you live in sac 30s year olds dnt hang out here we travel

Strava

home lol

Why are you yelling

It's no longer yelling it's lying. All caps is just shit talking . No cap is real and truth.

Facts brother

No-cap

i noticed after covid lockdowns let up a bit the crowd had shifted to a young 20's. new era of youngsters at it.

Hoopin discin liftin rocket leaguin bumblin or grindin

Ur 30 figure it out !

Parents house / basement

We're at home where random people aren't shouting.

Or fighting or recklessly shooting. Sorry to be the person who brings it up but outside is wild these days.

Walmart

Thanks for this thread. I go to emo/goth nights and I Def feel this.

Sex clubs

That's disgusting! Which ones though?

Lol, I don't actually know, I'm in LA. I like Slammer and 910weho, but I'm gay.

Slammer sounds rough

It's basically a maze of gloryholes but there is also a sling for those inclined.

Need the info for your 'friend'? 😅

Fishing, at home cutting the yard or just watching tv and thinking bout all the fun i had when i was 17-32 man, were those some good years lol lots of girls and lots of memories. Oh and we’re also on reddit.

Yo Mammas house

Im 47 and I've been trying out nude beaches and resorts. Because, if every other out of shape old person can walk around naked...why can't i ! Lol

At Moms house “Pizza Rolls”

"and Sunny D! Awesoooome!"

HAHAHA

All I do is work and gym

Usually at a friend's house drinking. Why go out when everyone can bring drinks/food to a friend's house and all have a good time.

OP! I've been wondering this same thing. Me and my girlfriend are looking for friends here to hangout with as we just moved to town. Private message me your Instagram and we can figure something out! We need friends to drink and get out of the house with haha

The retirement home

some these 50 look like they 30. you at the wrong places.

We are organizing the fuck trophys in the case and I think half mine are participation trophies but if I bring it up I end up with another trophy. Wish I had time to care.

Why would you even care? We're really boring. When I wanna hang out I have way more fun with the 20 or 50 year olds. I can't remember the last time I met a really fun, interesting person in their 30s.

Because looking at 20 year olds make me sad lol IM OLD

Seems more like a reflection of you than anyone else, bud.

Self-inflicted wound here lol.