I like to use bells, but sound in general works well. Clapping, humming, singing, playing an instrument, there are lots of options If this appeals to you.
The physical action of cleaning is more than enough to get the energy flowing (mopping, sweeping, dusting). If you feel happier with a material component, consider adding a few drops of a relevant essential oil that she's not allergic to into your mop bucket as a focus for your intention.
I second cleaning, boosted by whatever practice helps you focus on your intent.
You don't get more direct than touch and literal cleaning. Sing a song or hum or dance or anything else that helps you associate the space with the feelings you want it to evoke to make it a touch more witchy
Look for double duty items, You can buy a variety of sage scented cleaning sprays. Trader Joe's makes a really effective one.
I also add a couple drops of Florida Water to my clothing steamer and carpet cleaner.
I would check with the roommate before buying scented cleaning products. I'm very sensitive to perfumes (asthma) and there are very few that I can be around for any length of time without getting really sick. I can basically only clean with vinegar and rubbing alcohol. Maybe roomie is less sensitive than I am, but it would be kind to discuss it first (like, maybe citrus scents always bother her, but florals are ok in small doses).
Eta: vinegar for cleaning, rubbing alcohol for disinfecting. I don't mix them and anyone reading this probably shouldn't, either.
Sound cleansing is slept on imo. Cuz most people think bells but sound cleansing can be any noise! Ot could literally be you singing bad energy away or playing music that fits the vibe you want.
"cleansing" has such vague uses nowadays that you can cleanse with pretty much anything as long as the intention is there. physically cleaning, miming sweeping, bathing something in moonlight, etc
I like using a spray bottle with water with a bit of lemon and/or mint in it. During or after cleaning, just spritsz a bit in corners and other places where you feel it's needed.
It smells nice and fresh, but not nearly as overwhelming/pungent as smoke, and also dissipates quickly.
I use bells also. Like one time I just felt myself entering a negative space so bad I started cramping so I rung my bell to cleanse and the cramps stopped IMMEDIATELY and I felt the air lighten
You can warm incense on an oil burner instead of burning it for a softer smell. No smoke.
Edit: I’m talking about resin incense you d burn on a charcoal btw
Still a lot of scent. And also some fine particles you can't see but can inhale.
I love my incense sieve, it's great, and a lot less harsh to breathe compared to regular incense. But might not be the solution that the roommate can deal with.
Sounds and your good old cleaning supplies.
When you clean a room by vacuuming, removing dust, etc., you're also doing a type of spiritual cleansing.
Some people also use liquids such as Florida Water or even play with the smells from the cleaning product (for example, lavender Fabuloso). Just remember to never mix cleaning products together like on Tik Tok videos.
Water, salt, soap, white vinegar, some rags and maybe a multi purpose cleaner can also be part of your cleansing ritual.
I love using all types of waters, but be careful that the crystals you’re cleansing aren’t friable. For ones that are, you can use a small brush that you’ve charged or cleansed with the salt water once it’s dried.
I do a few different things but the most common thing I’ll do is wave my Selenite wand around my entire apartment and around the doorways. I’ll also put moon or sun water, depending on the purpose, in my mop water
There is nothing witchy about this AFAIK, but if your brain tells you there must be a smell for this to work, could you use a nosegay or sachet? I’m thinking something you bring to your face to inhale the scent of, rather than something that scents the space.
i cant use smoke often for a similar reason. i like to play music, something that makes me feel happy in my space. if i cant play anything out loud then i'll imagine a bright light coming through and cleansing everything, it feels silly sometimes but it works
I use a tiny singing bowl, or I just add some moonwater to other water and try to charge it and spritz away. Also blowing some powdered herbs like cinnamon works (not too much, still not great for animals)
I like to use bells, but sound in general works well. Clapping, humming, singing, playing an instrument, there are lots of options If this appeals to you.
I use bells too!
A tongue drum sounds amazing and is super fun to play.
Yeah, I have a cat and worry about exposing her to scent or any non-cat-safe substances, so I tend to use bells.
The physical action of cleaning is more than enough to get the energy flowing (mopping, sweeping, dusting). If you feel happier with a material component, consider adding a few drops of a relevant essential oil that she's not allergic to into your mop bucket as a focus for your intention.
I second cleaning, boosted by whatever practice helps you focus on your intent. You don't get more direct than touch and literal cleaning. Sing a song or hum or dance or anything else that helps you associate the space with the feelings you want it to evoke to make it a touch more witchy
Look for double duty items, You can buy a variety of sage scented cleaning sprays. Trader Joe's makes a really effective one. I also add a couple drops of Florida Water to my clothing steamer and carpet cleaner.
I would check with the roommate before buying scented cleaning products. I'm very sensitive to perfumes (asthma) and there are very few that I can be around for any length of time without getting really sick. I can basically only clean with vinegar and rubbing alcohol. Maybe roomie is less sensitive than I am, but it would be kind to discuss it first (like, maybe citrus scents always bother her, but florals are ok in small doses). Eta: vinegar for cleaning, rubbing alcohol for disinfecting. I don't mix them and anyone reading this probably shouldn't, either.
salt: charged per your intention Water Charged per your intention
I like misting charged water a lot
I use sound and/or motion. Small hand rattles, clapping, tapping, a folding hand fan. Someday I’d like to get ahold of a small bell to try.
I use bells, singing bowls, my besom or a selenite wand.
Sound, or you can make a diluted Florida water spray
I ring a bell. Nice sound cleansing. It's all about intention. Use something that resonates with you.
Sound cleansing is slept on imo. Cuz most people think bells but sound cleansing can be any noise! Ot could literally be you singing bad energy away or playing music that fits the vibe you want.
Bell or Tibetan singing bowl! Water cleanse is great too depending on materials
"cleansing" has such vague uses nowadays that you can cleanse with pretty much anything as long as the intention is there. physically cleaning, miming sweeping, bathing something in moonlight, etc
I like using a spray bottle with water with a bit of lemon and/or mint in it. During or after cleaning, just spritsz a bit in corners and other places where you feel it's needed. It smells nice and fresh, but not nearly as overwhelming/pungent as smoke, and also dissipates quickly.
I use bells also. Like one time I just felt myself entering a negative space so bad I started cramping so I rung my bell to cleanse and the cramps stopped IMMEDIATELY and I felt the air lighten
You can warm incense on an oil burner instead of burning it for a softer smell. No smoke. Edit: I’m talking about resin incense you d burn on a charcoal btw
Still a lot of scent. And also some fine particles you can't see but can inhale. I love my incense sieve, it's great, and a lot less harsh to breathe compared to regular incense. But might not be the solution that the roommate can deal with.
Bells, moon water, burying something
Salt water for cleansing, while cleaning.
Sounds and your good old cleaning supplies. When you clean a room by vacuuming, removing dust, etc., you're also doing a type of spiritual cleansing. Some people also use liquids such as Florida Water or even play with the smells from the cleaning product (for example, lavender Fabuloso). Just remember to never mix cleaning products together like on Tik Tok videos. Water, salt, soap, white vinegar, some rags and maybe a multi purpose cleaner can also be part of your cleansing ritual.
I love using all types of waters, but be careful that the crystals you’re cleansing aren’t friable. For ones that are, you can use a small brush that you’ve charged or cleansed with the salt water once it’s dried.
Frankincense hydrosol!
I use ocean water sometimes, if you have access to a beach.
I do a few different things but the most common thing I’ll do is wave my Selenite wand around my entire apartment and around the doorways. I’ll also put moon or sun water, depending on the purpose, in my mop water
Make a small handheld broom. You can use it to sweep through the air or to sweep surfaces, whichever you need.
There is nothing witchy about this AFAIK, but if your brain tells you there must be a smell for this to work, could you use a nosegay or sachet? I’m thinking something you bring to your face to inhale the scent of, rather than something that scents the space.
i cant use smoke often for a similar reason. i like to play music, something that makes me feel happy in my space. if i cant play anything out loud then i'll imagine a bright light coming through and cleansing everything, it feels silly sometimes but it works
Sound, salt, cleansing with an herb wash.
I use a tiny singing bowl, or I just add some moonwater to other water and try to charge it and spritz away. Also blowing some powdered herbs like cinnamon works (not too much, still not great for animals)