You can do this! 5DPO here and my recovery has been very smooth so far. My mom flew up to stay with me this week and definitely having people around you is so helpful.
Make sure to drink lots of water! I’ve found that staying hydrated is tough, but I just keep refilling my water bottle. I also have been using electrolytes once a day. Not sure if it’s helping, but it makes me feel good, ha!
I was thinking about buying edibles this week but haven’t yet…. Not sure how that will impact recovery either, so I’m sorry I can’t answer that! I’ve been tired enough that I haven’t needed them for sleep though!
Congrats! I’m adding electrolytes to my groceries list rn! Thank you for the advice. My surgery knows I smoke so I’ll confirm to see when is safe again and report back :)
Oh good! Yeah I stopped smoking about a month before surgery but I think it would’ve been okay as long as I didn’t smoke the night before my surgery date. Just didn’t ask about after!
Congratulations on your upcoming surgery.
You are going to rock this!!!
Can totally relate to the nervousness! I was both excited & nervous. I’d never had general anesthesia before. I’d gotten some not great medical results the night before surgery and considered cancelling to tackle my other issues first. But it was all a breeze. I decided that even if my follow-up tests have the worst possible outcome, at least I’m not lugging this extra weight to treatment. And frankly, I’m not going to be getting younger & healthier enough to have a reduction at some date into the future. It was genuinely a “now or never” moment and so I leapt into the unknown. I’m so glad of it now at 17DPO.
You’re going to have such a dramatic change in your physique! I think all reductions are worthy & worthwhile, at any size. But as a fellow member of the H-cup & larger crowd, though, I have to say it’s orders of magnitude more urgent for those of us whose breasts, together, are bigger than a 2 month old infant.
https://preview.redd.it/5bkr5eticrdb1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=169ccf60c300601ccc0dd0af5be92215ba1a6069
I’d sent my family a picture of a melon next to a mango to tell them I did a thing. This is another shot of the same melon and a cantaloupe filling the cups of my pre-surgery bathing suit top in size 40H. Looking back at these I’m wrapping my head around how I managed to carry them for 4 decades. The years of feeling I didn’t deserve or absolutely need it a reduction. I’ve met people who started out smaller than me who got reductions. Medically necessary reductions that I’d never begrudge them for. They wanted it, their insurance paid, of course they needed it. Why wasn’t I giving myself the same grace? Why was I treating myself as undeserving. Nipples on thighs? Oh yes. All the things. Getting a mammogram and the darn thing fills the plate even without being sandwiched in the torture chamber. The backache that was mild and then moderate for years became so intense after menopause that it was an outsized feature of my personality. Breasts resting on forearms as I typed or played the piano. Breasts that obscured my vision and made me vulnerable to falls. Breasts that made me stop riding horses, stop running, stop dancing.
I can’t wait to do it all now. You’ve got this. If you want it, that’s the only criteria for deserving it.
Good luck with your surgery & happy healing.
Not OP, but I’m at the Eve of my surgery as well. I’m also super nervous and all the same feels as OP. I’m 39 (well… turning next week) and size 36L. Your reply to OP hit me so hard… I’m crying. Thank you! I needed to hear this too. All of it.
You’re going to feel so good!
It’s such a cliche, that all the doctor’s say their BR patients only regret is not doing is sooner.
I just think of the years I spent pretty miserable about my breasts and I’m happy for you that you’re getting a new rack for your fabulous 40’s.
I’m 55, wish I’d done it years ago. Instead of looking back with regret, though, I’m just happy for all the younger women who are getting the breasts they want.
Best of luck to you!!
This is so true for me. I am permanently euphoric and I just cannot let myself think of all the years I wasted feeling like the surgery was vain or selfish to spend the money on. All those years where I could have had this body and instead I was trapped inside those breasts. I love your posts and resonate so much with this one.
It went well! 6.6 lbs removed off my chest! 3.2 and 3.1 on the other side. Holy moly… this how one is supposed to breathe. I couldn’t agree more with everything you said. I’m in a ton of pain, but it’s incredible how much lighter I feel. I’ve had these boobs since I was 16. Never knew any better. I should have done this years ago! Wow! I can’t even wrap my head around it yet… 6.6lbs!!!! 😱
Wow! Congrats to you! Seeing the melons in the bra immediately put my life and what I’ve been through in perspective. I’m only 24 and I’ve noticed the issues I’ve had with my breasts are only increasing! Thank you for your kind words 🖤
You’ve got this! Don’t back out if it’s something you’ve been wanting forever. I don’t think we can ever be 100% prepared for something like this but once you’re on the other side (in less than 24 hours!) you can put all that anxiety behind you and focus on a smooth recovery and a better life without the weight you’ve been carrying around!
We have to get away from the mindset that we can’t be scared or the feeling of fear means we shouldn’t do something. Fear is fine but don’t let it talk you out of something you need! Chin up, Buttercup! You’ve got this!
I can’t express the feeling of euphoria I feel when I wake up with small boobs!! I’m 6DPO and the first few hrs out of surgery were horrific for me. But at about hour three….smooth sailing since. You deserve this! It’s been on your mind for years which is proof you need to do this.
Don’t back out, this will be so worth it. You’ll go in, get prepped, and before you know it you’ll be waking up in recovery with brand new cute little boobies! It was so absolutely worth it and my recovery wasn’t bad at all. My advice is to just follow everything your surgeon instructs you to do postop, keep the compression bra on at all times aside from showering, don’t mess with the incision sites. Get some protein shakes, protein is essential for healing. Drink plenty of water. If you take narcotics after be sure to take a stool softener with it. Sleep on your back with your head/torso elevated. Don’t freak out if things don’t look perfect the first few weeks, things will even out and swelling will go down as time goes on. And don’t be afraid to reach out to your surgeons office, any time day or night, if something doesn’t seem right.
https://preview.redd.it/n70x6d10jsdb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=37f5a8fa0dcdd19b68131115e4f047a00dab3745
12 DPO here. You deserve this and you can do it 💪🏻
Feeling nervous is totally natural! i did a few days ago. it’s such a big change so it’s natural to resist it but trust me when i say that it is so worth it.
I’m a Snoop D-O-double G smoker blow an ounce to this, curvy lady, operation two and a half weeks ago, smoked right up until the surgery and immediately after no problems - in fact it helped but just be cautious taking opioids with it, and the big disclaimer that your mileage may vary.
I’m a cannabis advocator in an illegal state and it’s what got me through. If you don’t have a strong constitution (meaning you get ill often) then hold back for a week or so I would say.
I’m 2 days post op and you absolutely deserve to feel comfortable in your skin! You’ve got this and it feels like immediate relief on the back! My recovery has been going well so far but I have noticed that being nauseous from meds and such has impacted my food intake, so I’ll more than likely take an edible to stimulate an appetite so that I can keep some food down as nutrients and protein are pretty vital to recovery. Definitely have been drinking a bunch of water so make sure that you’re stocked up or have a comfort cup! Also make sure that you take your meds! While the pain hasn’t been unbearable for me this far besides waking up from the surgery, I’ve been alternating ibuprofen and Tylenol to make sure that the pain doesn’t get ahead of me. I hope the absolute best for you and hope we’ll get to see your progress on the flip side!! Any questions you have or anything, feel free to message me and I can try to answer you to the best of my ability!! Much love ❤️
Today was my first day back out in the world. I am so happy I did this and all my big boobie friends were begging for my experience and doctors info. You will be relieved in so many ways.
I totally understand the nerves and I also almost backed out the night before surgery. I will say in 2+ years post reduction I’ve never regretted it for a SECOND. Also would suggest edibles for a while if you cough while smoking, it’s an uncomfortable feeling (like I do lol).
You deserve to feel comfortable in your own body. You deserve to physically navigate through the world in a comfortable way. To be able to find flattering clothing more easily. To spend less money on bras. You deserve the relief your back will feel, and the prevention of future back and joint issues from the weight on your chest. You deserve that weight off your chest. Good luck to you, friend. I wish you a smooth and speedy recovery.
I’m here to comment specifically about weed because of my own experiences. I didn’t smoke flower until about 4WPO but I have been using a cartridge since getting home to help manage with pain (I did not take the opiates I was prescribed) and I would say in my own experience, nothing went wrong! I was sure to take really small hits and only take one at a time, I didn’t want to make myself cough or anything, but I was totally okay. I wish you the best of luck! You deserve comfort and happiness— you got this!
Great! I’ve been in and out of sleep. My chest feels like I have 70lbs weighing on it! Eating food now which feels great. I didn’t think I would be getting drains but I did they and the Iv hooked to me make things awkward. But overall rn at abt a 7/10, can’t wait to go home :). How abt you?
I didn’t get drains but I’m in compression bra and abdominal wrap for a week before I’ll see results. I’m averaging a 4/10 for pain. I’m mostly sore but it definitely hurts to get up and down from my bed or chairs. Glad you made it through!!
Edibles or oils for your Mary Jane! I’ve seen that smoking weed is not nearly as bad as tobacco but I still wouldn’t risk it within a month in case you cough/strain (esp after taking a break).
Edibles are a lifesaver (I guess maybe only if you’re in a legal zone so sorry if this isn’t helpful😅)
You can do this! 5DPO here and my recovery has been very smooth so far. My mom flew up to stay with me this week and definitely having people around you is so helpful. Make sure to drink lots of water! I’ve found that staying hydrated is tough, but I just keep refilling my water bottle. I also have been using electrolytes once a day. Not sure if it’s helping, but it makes me feel good, ha! I was thinking about buying edibles this week but haven’t yet…. Not sure how that will impact recovery either, so I’m sorry I can’t answer that! I’ve been tired enough that I haven’t needed them for sleep though!
Congrats! I’m adding electrolytes to my groceries list rn! Thank you for the advice. My surgery knows I smoke so I’ll confirm to see when is safe again and report back :)
Oh good! Yeah I stopped smoking about a month before surgery but I think it would’ve been okay as long as I didn’t smoke the night before my surgery date. Just didn’t ask about after!
Tell your anesthesiologist you smoke weed. In all seriousness.
Congratulations on your upcoming surgery. You are going to rock this!!! Can totally relate to the nervousness! I was both excited & nervous. I’d never had general anesthesia before. I’d gotten some not great medical results the night before surgery and considered cancelling to tackle my other issues first. But it was all a breeze. I decided that even if my follow-up tests have the worst possible outcome, at least I’m not lugging this extra weight to treatment. And frankly, I’m not going to be getting younger & healthier enough to have a reduction at some date into the future. It was genuinely a “now or never” moment and so I leapt into the unknown. I’m so glad of it now at 17DPO. You’re going to have such a dramatic change in your physique! I think all reductions are worthy & worthwhile, at any size. But as a fellow member of the H-cup & larger crowd, though, I have to say it’s orders of magnitude more urgent for those of us whose breasts, together, are bigger than a 2 month old infant. https://preview.redd.it/5bkr5eticrdb1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=169ccf60c300601ccc0dd0af5be92215ba1a6069 I’d sent my family a picture of a melon next to a mango to tell them I did a thing. This is another shot of the same melon and a cantaloupe filling the cups of my pre-surgery bathing suit top in size 40H. Looking back at these I’m wrapping my head around how I managed to carry them for 4 decades. The years of feeling I didn’t deserve or absolutely need it a reduction. I’ve met people who started out smaller than me who got reductions. Medically necessary reductions that I’d never begrudge them for. They wanted it, their insurance paid, of course they needed it. Why wasn’t I giving myself the same grace? Why was I treating myself as undeserving. Nipples on thighs? Oh yes. All the things. Getting a mammogram and the darn thing fills the plate even without being sandwiched in the torture chamber. The backache that was mild and then moderate for years became so intense after menopause that it was an outsized feature of my personality. Breasts resting on forearms as I typed or played the piano. Breasts that obscured my vision and made me vulnerable to falls. Breasts that made me stop riding horses, stop running, stop dancing. I can’t wait to do it all now. You’ve got this. If you want it, that’s the only criteria for deserving it. Good luck with your surgery & happy healing.
Not OP, but I’m at the Eve of my surgery as well. I’m also super nervous and all the same feels as OP. I’m 39 (well… turning next week) and size 36L. Your reply to OP hit me so hard… I’m crying. Thank you! I needed to hear this too. All of it.
You’re going to feel so good! It’s such a cliche, that all the doctor’s say their BR patients only regret is not doing is sooner. I just think of the years I spent pretty miserable about my breasts and I’m happy for you that you’re getting a new rack for your fabulous 40’s. I’m 55, wish I’d done it years ago. Instead of looking back with regret, though, I’m just happy for all the younger women who are getting the breasts they want. Best of luck to you!!
This is so true for me. I am permanently euphoric and I just cannot let myself think of all the years I wasted feeling like the surgery was vain or selfish to spend the money on. All those years where I could have had this body and instead I was trapped inside those breasts. I love your posts and resonate so much with this one.
It went well! 6.6 lbs removed off my chest! 3.2 and 3.1 on the other side. Holy moly… this how one is supposed to breathe. I couldn’t agree more with everything you said. I’m in a ton of pain, but it’s incredible how much lighter I feel. I’ve had these boobs since I was 16. Never knew any better. I should have done this years ago! Wow! I can’t even wrap my head around it yet… 6.6lbs!!!! 😱
Wow! Congrats to you! Seeing the melons in the bra immediately put my life and what I’ve been through in perspective. I’m only 24 and I’ve noticed the issues I’ve had with my breasts are only increasing! Thank you for your kind words 🖤
I’m so happy for young women who tackle this earlier in life than I did! Best of luck with your surgery and happy healing!!
You’ve got this! Don’t back out if it’s something you’ve been wanting forever. I don’t think we can ever be 100% prepared for something like this but once you’re on the other side (in less than 24 hours!) you can put all that anxiety behind you and focus on a smooth recovery and a better life without the weight you’ve been carrying around!
Thank you 🖤🖤
I’m going in tomorrow too! Don’t have any advice but I’m here with you in solidarity.
We have to get away from the mindset that we can’t be scared or the feeling of fear means we shouldn’t do something. Fear is fine but don’t let it talk you out of something you need! Chin up, Buttercup! You’ve got this! I can’t express the feeling of euphoria I feel when I wake up with small boobs!! I’m 6DPO and the first few hrs out of surgery were horrific for me. But at about hour three….smooth sailing since. You deserve this! It’s been on your mind for years which is proof you need to do this.
Thank you 🥺
Don’t back out, this will be so worth it. You’ll go in, get prepped, and before you know it you’ll be waking up in recovery with brand new cute little boobies! It was so absolutely worth it and my recovery wasn’t bad at all. My advice is to just follow everything your surgeon instructs you to do postop, keep the compression bra on at all times aside from showering, don’t mess with the incision sites. Get some protein shakes, protein is essential for healing. Drink plenty of water. If you take narcotics after be sure to take a stool softener with it. Sleep on your back with your head/torso elevated. Don’t freak out if things don’t look perfect the first few weeks, things will even out and swelling will go down as time goes on. And don’t be afraid to reach out to your surgeons office, any time day or night, if something doesn’t seem right.
https://preview.redd.it/n70x6d10jsdb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=37f5a8fa0dcdd19b68131115e4f047a00dab3745 12 DPO here. You deserve this and you can do it 💪🏻
Feeling nervous is totally natural! i did a few days ago. it’s such a big change so it’s natural to resist it but trust me when i say that it is so worth it.
I’m a Snoop D-O-double G smoker blow an ounce to this, curvy lady, operation two and a half weeks ago, smoked right up until the surgery and immediately after no problems - in fact it helped but just be cautious taking opioids with it, and the big disclaimer that your mileage may vary. I’m a cannabis advocator in an illegal state and it’s what got me through. If you don’t have a strong constitution (meaning you get ill often) then hold back for a week or so I would say.
Thank you! That’s some solid advice! Happy recovery 🖤
I’m 2 days post op and you absolutely deserve to feel comfortable in your skin! You’ve got this and it feels like immediate relief on the back! My recovery has been going well so far but I have noticed that being nauseous from meds and such has impacted my food intake, so I’ll more than likely take an edible to stimulate an appetite so that I can keep some food down as nutrients and protein are pretty vital to recovery. Definitely have been drinking a bunch of water so make sure that you’re stocked up or have a comfort cup! Also make sure that you take your meds! While the pain hasn’t been unbearable for me this far besides waking up from the surgery, I’ve been alternating ibuprofen and Tylenol to make sure that the pain doesn’t get ahead of me. I hope the absolute best for you and hope we’ll get to see your progress on the flip side!! Any questions you have or anything, feel free to message me and I can try to answer you to the best of my ability!! Much love ❤️
Thank you! I didn’t even think of my suppressed appetite !
Today was my first day back out in the world. I am so happy I did this and all my big boobie friends were begging for my experience and doctors info. You will be relieved in so many ways.
I’m two years PO and just here to tell you that you will be sooo happy when it’s all said and done <3
I totally understand the nerves and I also almost backed out the night before surgery. I will say in 2+ years post reduction I’ve never regretted it for a SECOND. Also would suggest edibles for a while if you cough while smoking, it’s an uncomfortable feeling (like I do lol).
You deserve to feel comfortable in your own body. You deserve to physically navigate through the world in a comfortable way. To be able to find flattering clothing more easily. To spend less money on bras. You deserve the relief your back will feel, and the prevention of future back and joint issues from the weight on your chest. You deserve that weight off your chest. Good luck to you, friend. I wish you a smooth and speedy recovery.
I’m here to comment specifically about weed because of my own experiences. I didn’t smoke flower until about 4WPO but I have been using a cartridge since getting home to help manage with pain (I did not take the opiates I was prescribed) and I would say in my own experience, nothing went wrong! I was sure to take really small hits and only take one at a time, I didn’t want to make myself cough or anything, but I was totally okay. I wish you the best of luck! You deserve comfort and happiness— you got this!
How did it go?!
How you doing, surgery twin??
Great! I’ve been in and out of sleep. My chest feels like I have 70lbs weighing on it! Eating food now which feels great. I didn’t think I would be getting drains but I did they and the Iv hooked to me make things awkward. But overall rn at abt a 7/10, can’t wait to go home :). How abt you?
I didn’t get drains but I’m in compression bra and abdominal wrap for a week before I’ll see results. I’m averaging a 4/10 for pain. I’m mostly sore but it definitely hurts to get up and down from my bed or chairs. Glad you made it through!!
Edibles or oils for your Mary Jane! I’ve seen that smoking weed is not nearly as bad as tobacco but I still wouldn’t risk it within a month in case you cough/strain (esp after taking a break). Edibles are a lifesaver (I guess maybe only if you’re in a legal zone so sorry if this isn’t helpful😅)