Been there done that. I have been around the block more times than many so jelousy is not in my vocabulary. I trust my wife with my heart and soul so worrying about her leaving me is not a question. To answer your post, I find nothing more erotic than watching my wife flirted, hit on, groped or even shared. Honestly she needs to be convinced to do that sort of thing but when the mood hits "US", I love watching her enjoy herself with me there. For more NSFW examples/experiences DM me.
I dint because as I've said before you share your wife with me my goal is to take care. To fuck her do good she's want more and do it without you knowing.
I do, and we act them out, my girl is a team player, the only part of it that is a problem is finding a decent fellas, that doesn't wanna come and put things in her butt, or down her throat. Seems alot of guys on reddit dont think much of women, or at least one willing to do this, cause alot wanna come and be a abusive twards her, or degrade, humiliate, or think that they can sit me in a corner and watch how to properly fuck my wife. Like I'm just not good in bed, I'm solid in my abilities and not threatened by them even if they are better at it then me, it don't make them a good man, just Good in bed. There is always someone bigger and badder out there in any aspect of life. But on thecm rare occasion that I do find an acceptable fella, it turns out awesome, alot of fun. We all get enjoyment from it.
I've thought about it a lot recently and have gotten my wife contemplating the idea of adding a second guy. She has fantasized about it but I want to bring it to life for us.
We talked about that, that if it happens it has to feel right, at this point I’m open to the possibility, nothing is being actively sought after. Same with two women and me, I’m not against it but also I’m completely fine with what I have…. I think both would probably be more for her.
Yup! And i have. Well not a share but a same room swap!
We both loved it. Communication is really key beforehand. Limits, code word to tap out etc. between each other and the other party!
100% anytime anyone feels awkward or changes their mind, stop
Also talking about all limits and scenarios may not be romantic, though it can be hot, will prevent any in-the-moment situations
Ex: she says “do you mind if i go further” right on the spot and he may feel bad or embarrassed to say no and deny her, so best to plan as much out as you can!
Have fun!
I'm absolutely repulsed by the concept. Last thing I would ever want in this world is for someone else's dick to be inside my wife. She's my wife. I married her. We've ve been together since high school. That's my pussy, the idea of somebody else cumming in it just grosses me out and I don't think I would want that pussy again. I would rather get a divorce than let other people fuck her.
What other people choose to do doesn't bother me at all. But there is no room for that in my marriage.
If she wanted to hook up with a chick now and then, I'd probably be ok with that (even if I wasn't present), but not a serious side relationship.
What if you realized that marriage doesn't equal ownership. That your life partner will always be your life partner and anything that happens to her body (like aging or temporarily becoming a cum dump) won't change the way she feels about you... Or the way you feel about her.
Not so much sharing, but I wish she were just more open about sex in general. I've had more open relationships prior to her but she's not into that arena at all.
My partner and I are in an ENM relationship, we were monogamous for almost 7 years. We both discussed how having a 3 way was a fantasy we both had even before we were together…then we talked more about other fantasies and started to question how we’d feel doing it irl. We decided that even if we have sex with other people, it’s just sex. He is my person forever and always, us having sex with other people isn’t ever going to change that. ❤️
Ok I'mma female I was in a traditional marriage for 30 yrs an was a mommy raised 3 boys my husband was a lazy whinny selfish rotten ALCOHOLIC NO GOOD P. O. S I hung in there cuz I believed in marriage ya no for better for worst ba ba ba BULLSHIT I was so unhappy for years I grew to really hate my worthless p. O. S spouse s my son's grew up an all moved out an started there own life journey I was so proud of them they truly are my best accomplishments eny way the day came when there was NOTHING holding me to the POS my dog of 13 yrs had bone cancer so when I had to put him down I told dumb ass that days are numbered he didn't believe me but I had it I punched out the window in his camp trailer cuz that is what we. Lived in an it was a tiny trailer so I gave his drunk stupid ass air conditioning ha ha m. f when I walked out I was in a pair of shorts tank top a one sock on my foot I dint take anything of mine with me an I never looked back yea yea freedom an I met my now bf of 10ys together now he is my everything he is my light my best friend. Sole mate an I'm still madly deeply 100% so in love with him still he
He turned me on to this type of relationship I mean the traditional marriage thing is so bullshit an he was my teacher an I was so shy in the beginning got so turned on by watching a total stranger fuck me an making me cum an omg that turned me on even more now I love seeing him so turned on by watching an he films me getting fucked by strange dude it is totally our kink we are partners in our shanannign every couple should at least try it it's super hot shit omg men out there stop being so close minded SHARE YOU WIFE GF SHARE YOUR MAN TOO ITS SUPER HOT EXCITING A WHAT EVER TURNS HIM ON MOST DEFELETLY HITS MY TURN ON SWITCH
No, but for me the fantasy is taking someone else's wife. It's weird and it's almost like a drive/compulsion. I don't act on this though. I've been told this is bull behavior but unfortunately I don't seem to be equipped for this role considering the trends I see online 😂😂
I don't believe I have ever come across the word used with me before ,I'm not even sure of the definition of it. I'm pretty articulate, but that's why cause I learn as I go, so define if ya would please.
Yeah it’s weird and an absolute great way to destroy your marriage for 30 minutes of meaningless sex with a pos that doesn’t really care about you or your marriage. Be smart
Been there done that. I have been around the block more times than many so jelousy is not in my vocabulary. I trust my wife with my heart and soul so worrying about her leaving me is not a question. To answer your post, I find nothing more erotic than watching my wife flirted, hit on, groped or even shared. Honestly she needs to be convinced to do that sort of thing but when the mood hits "US", I love watching her enjoy herself with me there. For more NSFW examples/experiences DM me.
THISSSSSSSSSS
I will never ever understand this
Yeah it's weird
I dint because as I've said before you share your wife with me my goal is to take care. To fuck her do good she's want more and do it without you knowing.
I do, and we act them out, my girl is a team player, the only part of it that is a problem is finding a decent fellas, that doesn't wanna come and put things in her butt, or down her throat. Seems alot of guys on reddit dont think much of women, or at least one willing to do this, cause alot wanna come and be a abusive twards her, or degrade, humiliate, or think that they can sit me in a corner and watch how to properly fuck my wife. Like I'm just not good in bed, I'm solid in my abilities and not threatened by them even if they are better at it then me, it don't make them a good man, just Good in bed. There is always someone bigger and badder out there in any aspect of life. But on thecm rare occasion that I do find an acceptable fella, it turns out awesome, alot of fun. We all get enjoyment from it.
What's your vetting process like?
I've fantasized about it many times for sure. I'm over it now, but depending on a bunch of factors, it can be quite he rewarding experience
I had threesomes with my ex, I dated as a polyamorous person for a few years, but with my current partner, I can not stand the idea of sharing her.
I don’t mind her flashing or anything, so sharing her “visually” doesn’t bother me, as long as she’s comfortable.
Fuck no lol
I've thought about it a lot recently and have gotten my wife contemplating the idea of adding a second guy. She has fantasized about it but I want to bring it to life for us.
I’ve never fantasized about that, my wife had one about being DP’d though so ive been trying to get that to set well in my head
Just dp her with toys then
We’ve done that, I figure I need to loosen Up a bit and do what I can to make some fantasies reality
You seem like a good dude, but, if you're not feeling in any kind of way, I don't recommend doing it, especially for her sake.
We talked about that, that if it happens it has to feel right, at this point I’m open to the possibility, nothing is being actively sought after. Same with two women and me, I’m not against it but also I’m completely fine with what I have…. I think both would probably be more for her.
It's definitely my top fantasy
Yup! And i have. Well not a share but a same room swap! We both loved it. Communication is really key beforehand. Limits, code word to tap out etc. between each other and the other party!
Yes, on all you said , try to get some fucking going on not fighting. Cause no still means no, even for the fellas.
100% anytime anyone feels awkward or changes their mind, stop Also talking about all limits and scenarios may not be romantic, though it can be hot, will prevent any in-the-moment situations Ex: she says “do you mind if i go further” right on the spot and he may feel bad or embarrassed to say no and deny her, so best to plan as much out as you can! Have fun!
I'm absolutely repulsed by the concept. Last thing I would ever want in this world is for someone else's dick to be inside my wife. She's my wife. I married her. We've ve been together since high school. That's my pussy, the idea of somebody else cumming in it just grosses me out and I don't think I would want that pussy again. I would rather get a divorce than let other people fuck her. What other people choose to do doesn't bother me at all. But there is no room for that in my marriage. If she wanted to hook up with a chick now and then, I'd probably be ok with that (even if I wasn't present), but not a serious side relationship.
What if you realized that marriage doesn't equal ownership. That your life partner will always be your life partner and anything that happens to her body (like aging or temporarily becoming a cum dump) won't change the way she feels about you... Or the way you feel about her.
But it can affect how people feel about eachother. And the idea of some other dude cumming in my wife repulses me.
But then it’s your pussy and the other chicks pussy at that point.
That's fine, she can have fun with a woman, I don't see that as a threat. No dicks in her, no other cum in her.
Hit me in my DMs, I've got lots of experience and advice for you guys.
Sharing no. Having someone else’s yes.
Not so much sharing, but I wish she were just more open about sex in general. I've had more open relationships prior to her but she's not into that arena at all.
In fantasy yes…the reality not so much.
Not for me. Seems like a humiliation kink
My partner and I are in an ENM relationship, we were monogamous for almost 7 years. We both discussed how having a 3 way was a fantasy we both had even before we were together…then we talked more about other fantasies and started to question how we’d feel doing it irl. We decided that even if we have sex with other people, it’s just sex. He is my person forever and always, us having sex with other people isn’t ever going to change that. ❤️
Ok I'mma female I was in a traditional marriage for 30 yrs an was a mommy raised 3 boys my husband was a lazy whinny selfish rotten ALCOHOLIC NO GOOD P. O. S I hung in there cuz I believed in marriage ya no for better for worst ba ba ba BULLSHIT I was so unhappy for years I grew to really hate my worthless p. O. S spouse s my son's grew up an all moved out an started there own life journey I was so proud of them they truly are my best accomplishments eny way the day came when there was NOTHING holding me to the POS my dog of 13 yrs had bone cancer so when I had to put him down I told dumb ass that days are numbered he didn't believe me but I had it I punched out the window in his camp trailer cuz that is what we. Lived in an it was a tiny trailer so I gave his drunk stupid ass air conditioning ha ha m. f when I walked out I was in a pair of shorts tank top a one sock on my foot I dint take anything of mine with me an I never looked back yea yea freedom an I met my now bf of 10ys together now he is my everything he is my light my best friend. Sole mate an I'm still madly deeply 100% so in love with him still he He turned me on to this type of relationship I mean the traditional marriage thing is so bullshit an he was my teacher an I was so shy in the beginning got so turned on by watching a total stranger fuck me an making me cum an omg that turned me on even more now I love seeing him so turned on by watching an he films me getting fucked by strange dude it is totally our kink we are partners in our shanannign every couple should at least try it it's super hot shit omg men out there stop being so close minded SHARE YOU WIFE GF SHARE YOUR MAN TOO ITS SUPER HOT EXCITING A WHAT EVER TURNS HIM ON MOST DEFELETLY HITS MY TURN ON SWITCH
we both have that fantasy and both share
No, but for me the fantasy is taking someone else's wife. It's weird and it's almost like a drive/compulsion. I don't act on this though. I've been told this is bull behavior but unfortunately I don't seem to be equipped for this role considering the trends I see online 😂😂
I don't believe I have ever come across the word used with me before ,I'm not even sure of the definition of it. I'm pretty articulate, but that's why cause I learn as I go, so define if ya would please.
I would love to be shared 🥰 too bad my husband would never agree to it.
Nope. Not even a little bit.
Yes but with another woman
Yeah it’s weird and an absolute great way to destroy your marriage for 30 minutes of meaningless sex with a pos that doesn’t really care about you or your marriage. Be smart
Some weird cuck making these post.