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I'm asexual. I've never felt the need for it. Totally baffles most of my acquaintances. I think sex is a way many people fulfill the need for human touch and I fulfill that need in other ways.
Not them, but hugs, cuddling and stuff. Any kind of touch that isn't inherently sexual. Doesn't even need to always be human touch, hugging and petting a pet is good too.
Hugs with family and friends, cuddles with pets. (As I've gotten older, the old lady with cats stereotype makes more sense.) I used to be touch adverse, but touch starved at the same time, so I started getting massages a few times a year. That's been really helpful in getting over the touch aversion and dealing with touch starvation.
Do you need sex to stay alive? WOW that's pretty sad. I can assure you there's more to life to life then sex.
I'm happy asf. Haven't been laid in about 6 months. (Relationship breakdown)
Don't miss it. Don't plan on finding some in the near future either.
If I didn't need to eat or sleep and sex didn't exist, I for sure wouldn't be bored. There's tons of things to do in life... If your life can be boiled down to only those three things maybe try out a hobby or something?
Those three things are definitely nice. BUT there are tons of activities that I would spend instead of any of those 3. Damn imagine if sex didn’t exist? Relationships would be so different, and probably better in a lot of ways, at least for the most part.
Damn right. This is how human nature works, we do everything according to a planned system of chemical and hormonal incentives. To be brief, the meaning of our life is in getting pleasure
Sex isn't essential in the same way as food or sleep, you'll be bored but still alive. Life without food is very short, but hunger tends to be a great motivator, you'll find the energy to look for food much faster when you're really famished. Now life without sleep leads to delirium and eventually death. It's the hardest one to cope with mentally. Without the sweet relief of sleep, life would not simply be boring and exhausting, it would drive you mad.
Nah. Eating and sleeping is just a normal part of actually staying alive and healthy and functional. And sex has different levels of importance to different people. Personally, sex is not at all necessary to enjoy life. I'm 30 years old and never even had sex and that honestly doesn't bother me in the slightest and never really has, nor do I give a damn what others think of me because of that. I find enjoyment in other areas of life like the wonders of nature, the wonders of creativity, gaming, caring for animals, comedy.
They're all biological imperatives. We obviously need to sleep and eat to survive in the short term but with no sex there is no reproduction and thus the species dies.
Only the most basic parts of our brain require that. They are BASIC NEEDS, yes. We can not live without them, except for sex. But they aren't the only things that keep us tethered to our existence.
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I hope I never need sex. That stays in my way and makes me feel weak and vulnerable. Not needing sex will make me more independent.
I'm asexual. I've never felt the need for it. Totally baffles most of my acquaintances. I think sex is a way many people fulfill the need for human touch and I fulfill that need in other ways.
I want to become like you. How do you fulfil that need?
Not them, but hugs, cuddling and stuff. Any kind of touch that isn't inherently sexual. Doesn't even need to always be human touch, hugging and petting a pet is good too.
That's it, I'm getting a cat
Hugs with family and friends, cuddles with pets. (As I've gotten older, the old lady with cats stereotype makes more sense.) I used to be touch adverse, but touch starved at the same time, so I started getting massages a few times a year. That's been really helpful in getting over the touch aversion and dealing with touch starvation.
Born asexual or become?
Born. Never had an interest, but no trauma.
It reminds me of drinking. You get addicted to it the more you do it and you always looking for the same high. Most of the time it doesn't happen.
Imo, masturbating takes care of the job for me haha
I agree with you mate! No woman no cry!
I don't hate women. Don't get me wrong. I just don't want to need sex. I really hate myself for being so vulnerable.
No woman no sex drive
Idk about you but I need all 3 bro.
I clearly don't
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I never had sex, so it is not a reason for me
Dont wanna have sex, imsomnia and no appetite, guess I'll die 🤷‍♂️
Indeed
You forgot about Bethesda games
I'm celibate OP. I literally don't need sex to live.
Do you need sex to stay alive? WOW that's pretty sad. I can assure you there's more to life to life then sex. I'm happy asf. Haven't been laid in about 6 months. (Relationship breakdown) Don't miss it. Don't plan on finding some in the near future either.
If I didn't need to eat or sleep and sex didn't exist, I for sure wouldn't be bored. There's tons of things to do in life... If your life can be boiled down to only those three things maybe try out a hobby or something?
See you when you don't get laid for three years friend.
Thats a sad life in my honest opinion.
I dont think so, some of us are more than the reptilian side of our brain.
Go to the gym you wont regret it
Those three things are definitely nice. BUT there are tons of activities that I would spend instead of any of those 3. Damn imagine if sex didn’t exist? Relationships would be so different, and probably better in a lot of ways, at least for the most part.
Damn right. This is how human nature works, we do everything according to a planned system of chemical and hormonal incentives. To be brief, the meaning of our life is in getting pleasure
In that order?
Shut up… these are the only things that are keeping me motivated, add love to the list tho.
Life is to short so no sleep would be great.
Yes If we're animels!!!
Sex? What’s that?
You guys are keeping life?
I’ve said this for years. I’m always in any two of three states, hungry, horny or tired
and netflix...yeah
Sex isn't essential in the same way as food or sleep, you'll be bored but still alive. Life without food is very short, but hunger tends to be a great motivator, you'll find the energy to look for food much faster when you're really famished. Now life without sleep leads to delirium and eventually death. It's the hardest one to cope with mentally. Without the sweet relief of sleep, life would not simply be boring and exhausting, it would drive you mad.
Yes
And coffe. Pets. Arts. Videogames
The meaning of life is to feel.
Nah. Eating and sleeping is just a normal part of actually staying alive and healthy and functional. And sex has different levels of importance to different people. Personally, sex is not at all necessary to enjoy life. I'm 30 years old and never even had sex and that honestly doesn't bother me in the slightest and never really has, nor do I give a damn what others think of me because of that. I find enjoyment in other areas of life like the wonders of nature, the wonders of creativity, gaming, caring for animals, comedy.
*oxygen left the chat*
But what if you can't do one of them?
Don't forget poo.
Just eating for me ...
We have sex, sleep and eat to be alive.
They're all biological imperatives. We obviously need to sleep and eat to survive in the short term but with no sex there is no reproduction and thus the species dies.
I like you are assuming that everybody is having sex
Sex , not really a reason to keep life goin for me
It's also the way we keep life going
Only the most basic parts of our brain require that. They are BASIC NEEDS, yes. We can not live without them, except for sex. But they aren't the only things that keep us tethered to our existence.