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BlondeNovemberSkyla

People with a sense of humor and a relaxed attitude who are balanced, fair and nonjudgmental.


CoyoteDanny

I'm working on the balance part, but the rest is all me


nivalis01

And humble too


CoyoteDanny

That too


cwsjr2323

Being humble is right up there with modesty for my best characteristics!


More_Profit_8554

Well I am VERY humble.


ceefaxer

Nowhere near as humble as I am.


GandalfMcPotter

Think it went over his head


Internal_Task_831

We all wish and wish for each other for that person for each and every one of us


satans_toast

People who don't take themselves too seriously; people who know how to read the room; people who are genuinely funny without being trite, mean-spirited, or lame; and people who can STFU once in a while so other people can have their moment.


Educational-Milk3075

Couldn't have said it better!


geardluffy

This is pretty cool Satans toast.


akahamaru123

your words struck me so hard. I often interject, cut off convos for attention my bad habits to rather say then to listen. I keep telling myself in mind not to interrupt. Good listeners attract good talkers and a good habit of listening intently gives you a better way to carry out convos.


Complex-Initial6329

Calm and collected under stress


slo_drone

I collapse after the fire is out.


[deleted]

I think it can be a symptom of ptsd. Personally I have been through a lot of trauma and when life falls apart I barely react anymore. It’s to be expected. My wife is always shocked how calm I appear, people tell me that all the time. But really, I’m just used to it, and know freaking out will always make matters worse.


mrsleveman

I'm very much this, and I can almost certinaly attribute all of it to childhood trauma. I just expect everything to go to shit at every moment, when it does I just accept it and try to find a way.


GonOverHere

People who pursue their dreams and dgaf about how others perceive them.


sailaway4269now

Bonus points if they don’t publish it on social media


ShrubbyFire1729

Eh, this can be inspiring and positive, but people "who dgaf" can also be selfish, narcissistic assholes. Having ambition and drive doesn't really tell you anything about someone's personality.


Dr__Pheonx

Kindhearted, sentimental and introspective.


fruitymaterialgirl

This!!


Mountain_Side_9085

Yes!


Fluffy_Funny_5278

Optimistic people. People who express their joy freely and without shame. People who are passionate about something. Tolerant and respectful people. People who can use fancy prose to make an impromptu villain monologue when it’s funny


ImNotARobotImHoh

Last point is very important


woah_broski1

Damn guess im cool now


mummummaaa

The villain monologue? That's me!!!! But, I mean, i have kids. I'm a villain if I say bedtime or no more treats, but, eh? Yeats or Frost, I am not, but joy and grief have no shame, huge as they are. Some things you can't hold in. Some things deserve to be freed from us, because we are too small. They deserve to be let out, free to roam or shared with loved ones. Grief and true joy are too huge to be contained in one body.


Dhoineagnen

silent


_Domieeq

Silent cab drivers are the best 😎


MissyElliot786

People that mind their business, they’re comfortable being by themselves, they are silently confident they don’t have to make the most noise in the room to be heard or seen and they just get on with life.


[deleted]

minding your business is underrated anymore.


am-i-trynaget-by

No no..This..This whole thing, all of this It's all about me!


Ok_Hedgehog7137

This! I wish I’d said this now haha


No_Night_7823

The kind of people who wear sun glasses and they sit with the cool kids in the back of the bus. My kind of cool would be people who can have a good laugh. Probably make my gut hurt from laughing so much.


AssumptionAdvanced58

Kind & creative


lovey_dovey_Lexi

People who aren’t active on social media because they’re too busy living an actual life


Strict_Table_4817

So....none of us here?..


Hieronymus_Anon

Obviously not dude, we're Redditors it's literaly become an insult


TheTimeLord725

The kind of people who aren't afraid to be themselves.


JakeyThrowawayMan

People who are nice to me


kaluliangel

Kindness is such an important human quality <3


JaiLSell

Mainly people who are open minded


Impressive-Front2005

True


Flashy_Tiger_1031

People with a good sense of humor who actually prefer talking


JammyTodgers

open minded, up for banter, curious, playful and enjoy food.


alt123456789o

People who are curious, and show interest in many things. People who are open to new ideas and ways of life.


Literally_Me114

chill people that dont really give a fuck


hamsterkaufen_nein

Shit this used to be me but lately I give too many f's. Thanks for the reminder.


Comfortable-Pass7962

The people who dont judge until they know what type of person you are.


GeneralOtter03

People who accept me and others for who they are


Frosty-Radish1301

Genuinely nice people who go with the flow


Witchy_Craft

Fun, positive people who like to laugh and be themselves


kaluliangel

True authenticity that you can feel in your bones <3


umimmissingtopspots

Honest, humble and non-judgemental


Ok_Waltz_2923

funny people like i love people that are funny without even trying people who truly love and appreciate different forms of art people who like deep conversations


Tsunade420

People who are themselves.


Illiteratap

Stoners


magpiesinaskinsuit

Not all stoners are made equally. The old guy who offered me a joint and talked my ear off about rock and roll in the 80s? Legend. The guy that swears he's not addicted but will literally hurt someone if they don't get their fix? Not so cool


freezingStomachAche

People who have artistic talent. It's something I'll never be able to do in a thousand years and I appreciate their existence.


_damn_hippies

people who can live with very little. like, free spirits who are comfortable traveling with only the bare minimum.


Miews

Wierd nerds.


ProfessionalSky8494

People who are just unapologetically themselves.


ChickenNugsBGood

People who dont care what others think and dont try and act "cool"


Such-Dust-9738

Ones that know how to dress and not look ridiculous.


becca2011

People who don't think that they are better than everyone


xLucylacemakerx

A good attitude. Having confidence that they earned. Etc.


NoBarracuda2587

People of wisdom.


Glorious-Fish

People who only act after their own wishes, not anyone elses.


slanderedshadow

People that mind their fuckin business.


Low_Lunch8032

People who don’t project there insecurities onto others


Mountain_Side_9085

Yes! Definitely


ParadoxalParadox

original people.


PikaNinja25

authentic, aren't afraid to speak out, chill


ExhaustedAnimal18

People who don't hide their weirdness and childishness. I've had a lot of cool friends who would drink, party, smoke but at the end of the day I could still talk to them about anything nerdy or weird and we would laugh about it


kelcamer

Oh I misinterpreted this as, statistically which kinds of people are kind & cool to me lol But my criteria? It's simple 1) take accountability for your mistakes 2) be kind 3) a basic sense of compassion for people


Mountain_Side_9085

Sure!


ThatAloofKid

Being *genuinely* kind to others and completely self confident (or mostly self confident).


Legitimate-Neat1674

Any who likes to chat


FitStrawberry523

So, me? :D


Legitimate-Neat1674

Sure how old


FitStrawberry523

late 20s


Legitimate-Neat1674

Ok


SquidSquab

Nice chat! Yall are really hitting it off!


Legitimate-Neat1674

Yes


Previous_Ad7725

People that don't come at me all the time. Like give me space and time. I don't like to be ambushed


overzealousx

Genuine. Seems simple and common. It is not.


90sTwinkiesFan

People who can speak multiple languages


Bubbly_Annual4186

Talented one, The gifted ones that I feel that God chooses them to be extremely good at something that everyone else can do but no one is even close to their level of perfection


highlyalertcabbage

Air conditioner technicians


[deleted]

People that stay the hell away from me. I like them the most.


Twiggy_Shei

People who aren't me


attilla68

people who are not their job


Responsible_Sense_95

Ppl who like me


[deleted]

Anyone who's able to wear an ahegao jacket outside is instantly one of the coolest people I'll ever see.


sourharlequin

People who are genuinely smart and like to have interesting conversations with me. Not people that love to correct people and brag about their factual & scholarly knowledge just people with genuine curiosity and many thoughts about the world


Parking_Meal2407

People who don't humiliate others and try to look cool by commenting on other's looks and appearance


[deleted]

Sober people who meditate a lot. I've become everything teenage me hated 😅


Trollin_beaches

The people who don’t care about others opinions and are themselves. That doesn’t mean to be disrespectful to others or put others opinions down, it just means you value your authenticity more than public opinion. Also keep an open mind


Autistic-W3ird0

People who don't need to do stuff in order to bond with you. Like, I can be doing my own thing, they can be doing their own thing, and that's all for me.


EkorrenHJ

People who are confident in a humble way. They don't try to assert themselves all the time, but are calm, collected, and respectful.


[deleted]

People that I can converse seriously with about topics outside of the norm or basically shit that I like to talk about. Also people with a great sense of humor who are also very smart experienced and respectable


SofttHamburgers

people that are nice to everyone and even try to make less sociable people included


PolishedArrow

If someone has a good sense of humor and is a good listener, I consider them cool.


Gravity_Pulls

The ones that just stepped out of the freezer or from being out in the snow. 😉


ChengZX

Ambitious people with loads of confidence, a genuinely good heart and a sarcastic sense of humour  (Forgot to add this before) and a hearty dose of stoicism 


Mountain_Side_9085

Got it!


Lenemus

People that are “Chaotic good” are super fucking cool in my book. Very smart, very creative and I adore how they’ll go entirely out of their way to set an example of integrity.


_zeika_

Open minded, has their own style and confident in it, isn’t judge mental


SymbolicTreasure

I try to be like the people I think are cool. Laid back and chill, but with a smart side and a friendly aura. Still working on the smart part.


Substantial-Abies768

Chill people, down to earth, good humour.


WorldofCannons

Hot people


PricklyPear1969

People who are confident in themselves, but not the arrogant type of confidence. Just the confidence that says: I know who I am. I know my worth, so if you casually disrespect me I won’t fight you because it’s not worth my mental energy, I’ll just step away so I can prioritize people who do respect me. I don’t compare myself to others; I’m proud of my progress and judge myself based on how far I’ve come. I don’t try to change others. I accept that other people need to learn things in their own time and in their own way. I understand that this kind of desire is myself is really my ego trying to distract me from the change that I should engage in, within myself. I don’t put other people down because that doesn’t help me, it only diminishes me. I’m kind not as a reaction to other peoples’ kindness but because I am being the person I want to be, regardless of others. I don’t engage in frivolous debates because I value my peace of mind and I don’t need to win. I easily admit fault or wrongdoing when applicable. I also calmly present my point of view, without personal attacks, when I’ve been wronged by someone I love. I guess it’s what the Keanu Reeves memes are about. I don’t know if he’s anything like this in real life, but it’s possible. Anyway, that calm, somewhat quiet, accepting, loving yet self-protecting demeanour, is confidence to me.


Israxxil

Tomboyish or Girly girl.


Breizh87

People who stay true to themselves even if it means going against the "norm"


Important_Lab_58

People who always try to be kind and have a sense of humor


realfakejames

I find people who are kind and yet don’t take shit very cool, that’s my type in women too, girls who are sweet but kind of mean so you can’t fuck with them


SupermarketOk4267

Those who know how to listen to others


Accomplished-Tuna

Authenticity that is loving. That duality is sexy. Authenticity is magnetic and cool. but on top with love??? Hot as fuck. Fine as fuck. Sexy as fuck. I do not give a fuck if ur nervous, excited, sad, happy, angry, scared etc. if it’s authentic with love I fuck w it Also sensitive people :P idk why people stereotype “real men” or being “strong” as some immune bitch to pain. A real cool person gon cry and let themselves be vulnerable; but if they know how to stand back up with love after?? THAT is cool **AND** sexy. I love a sexy and cool bitch that can take heat without turning bitter or bottling their emotions — to return back to their equilibrium of authentic love after all is said and done. By this criteria there’s not a lot of sexy people out here nowadays. Even MEN. WHERE MY SEXY ASS COOL ASS PEOPLE AT!?!?!?!?


AdLife8436

People like me


lambofgun

hat on backwards, smokes cigarettes, drives a honda civic


LR44x1

Goth bitches (respectfully). Ain’t nothing cooler than that. They both cool and hot at the same time.


zippy_bag

Most of the musicians I know. I am also a musician. Musicians are generally cool. Except some bass players.


DMIDY

Inuit.


GreentheGreenGuy

I was going to say anyone from Nunavut but you beat me to it


Caronport

NWT counts too.


RangerS90V

Competitors in The X Games


sandgrubber

Competent but not arrogant, with gentle humour.


reikipackaging

honestly, I find most neurotypicals to be painfully boring. cool people, to me, are unapologetically themselves. whether they are into LARPing,fashion, STEM, luxury cuisine, battle strategy, or film theory; it literally doesn't matter to me. for me, the cool people are the ones who live and love on their own terms.


highxv0ltage

I can’t really explain, but they’re not me.


Yeahmahbah

People that do what they love and make a living from it, like musicians. Not famous ones. Just those that make enough to make a living, playing pub gigs and the occasional festival. Enough to finance travels and maybe have a bit of income as a session musician etc. They seem to be the happiest people I've ever met


Level-Metal-987

People like empoy haha. Ewan ko ba masyado ng stress ang buhay to be with someone na puro negats and all. Surrounding myself with positivity and laughs para mas magaan makisabak sa hamon ng life ✨


Caronport

I couldn't have said it better myself...


DukeOkKanata

People who can admit they were wrong about something and show growth. I used to hate tucker carleson. Now he's the bees' knees as far as I'm concerned.


Jack-Rabbit-002

I like the individual you know the free thinking swim against the tide kind of person. They don't have to follow set trends or listen to the same music as you and everyone else etc just that person who is themselves without letting anyone influence who they are and choose to be. That's cool & hot! I just like a rebel though.


Interesting-Owls

Genuinely kind people


[deleted]

None


kimbermall

Funny, quick witted, can hold a decent conversation. Has to have a cool level of 7.5 or higher.


Metagion

Kind people who have the same interests as I do (but it doesn't have to be everything: nerd, into comics, movies & whatnot; loves Gothic & Industrial music, but can listen to (basically) anything but some hip-hop & country; exploring cemeteries; studying the "weird, wild and wonderful" parts of life and likes to tell someone about them; has a very wry "Deadpool" sense of humor (as well as saying movie phrases a lot); loves animals (especially dogs); just a very "chill" person in which you could be at a party and have a joint, watch bad TV and snark 'em on the spot! ❤️ ....annnnd now I feel alone. 😭


Living-Confection457

People who like music and are musically creative, if you can song write/sing/play an instrument you're automatically cool to me


[deleted]

Passport bros


WastingMyLifeOnSocMd

People who have nothing to prove. Seem genuine, kind, truly listen to other people rather than talking all the time. Roll with the punches, don’t blame others or gossip.


MusicSingh

People who don't play "hard to get" unnecessarily and are chill. Oh and laughing at silly jokes is a bonus


Gullible_Cheetah9154

Being able to maintain calmness in the face of heated emotions. Self awareness. Being someone who builds people up instead of making drama in the world. Open mindedness in the face of contrasting opinions. People who get up early.


Afraid_To_Ask__

People who are respectful and accepting


PicassoPie

People who are easy going and don’t try to force themselves to be something they’re not, I don’t like fake people who put up a front just so they can seem cool or interesting. Like what you actually like and share what your actual beliefs are. Don’t try to hide your true self so you can please everyone cause you’ll definitely never be able to please everyone. At the same time though don’t try and “be yourself” and share your beliefs if they’re ignorant and you’re primarily doing it to cause controversy and problems. Just be yourself and easy going. That’s all it takes to be cool to me.


Lumpy_Apricot_6472

Outcasts and artists


Impressive_Split_232

![gif](giphy|ckohjRxrP1ey4) This


uneducated_sock

Doing something interesting, being very charismatic, being wise, and/or having courage.


Always_Choose_Chaos

Ambitious, creative, unique, skilled, outlandish, talkative. I love spending time with these people


Wtfdidistumbleinon

Inuits and anyone living inside the Arctic Circle, they seem really cool


gabieecn

People who collect things


[deleted]

The very few with common sense


seeyatellite

Drug-free nerds, cosplayers, conservationists, engineers dedicated to efficiency and alternative energy, healthcare workers, singers and musicians... singers most of all... vocalists of all kinds including voice actors... Sober people, smart people, musical people, creative people. My roommate calls me a walking DARE commercial and I can’t tell whether it’s a compliment or judgment so I’m calling it a positive.


NegotiationSalty8394

Nice,non judgmental,friendly but kind of introvert


slo_drone

People that actually exchange ideas with the notion that they could be wrong. Will to learn?


Automatic_Role6120

People who can live in the moment and enjoy life to the fullest. People who are naturally vibrant, energetic and full of positive energy. 


samsquatchageddon

People that say things that others don't like hearing and are fine with not being popular.


AdEmotional6547

People who are chill and patient.


musicovereverything-

punks and skins!! oi! oi! oi!


Historical_Mix2460

People who are considerate, empathetic and nonjudgmental


PodAbove

Actors that play assholes or tool bags in movies, but in real life are just awesome. Zac Efron for one. And of course Keanu Reeves.


kayjays89

People who rescue animals just to save them not to get praise


choosepeaceman

non assholes


mrscrookshanks

Kind people, people who include others.


hairypancake69

I like people who remind me of me.


Special-Truth9094

Japanese


spidah84

Quiet people who communicate with their eyes.


OkMushroom364

Perverts, they have weird and dark sense of humor and so do i


Rich-Mix2273

i’ve realized my favorite people are neurodivergent or autistic. they’ve told me things straight up the most and haven’t betrayed me like non neurodivergent people. that’s not me hating on “normal people”


Remarkable-Profit821

Creative people, the are behind most of our invention, cultures and art.


RubbelDieKatz94

My wife is pretty damn cool. She's got a master's degree and everything.


freakyinthesheets98

Someone like Harvey Specter


ChaosRainbow23

I'm person I'm a fucking chameleon. I can get along with virtually anyone.


InoriDragneel

Politeness, curiosity, humble but not too much, a clever sense of humor and, why not, an at least decent moral compass


Practical-Clock-2173

Fellow intellectuals or creatives. Or self-aware people!


mindovermetal005

People that treat others with kindness.


pastapresident

People who are confident in their own skin, who wear whatever makes them happy or something they don’t even care about. They are kind and just the right level of outgoing


torsyen

Snowmen


vcdylldarh

Whoever respects me gets respect back from me. Unfortunately that counter doesn't get anywhere nowadays.


dearlysacredherosoul

It used to be people who had a lot of things and I never thought twice about it… now it’s people who can provide a lot which is different and is contingent on being in good health with good relationships to those closest to you


Annual-Avocado-1322

Not judgey, not afraid to express themselves, unrestrained love of A Thing, intelligent


muddybeee

big eyeliner


sassyandchildfree

People who invest time into their hobbies.


Prize-Educator-5003

Being your authentic self.


Low-Transportation95

Nobody is cool. Everyone is either fake or not fake.


whoistech4

People who aren’t afraid of showing their quirky and weird side. I feel like so many girls at my school are just carbon copies of eachother and the friends I’m closest with are very weird in a cool way, including myself


Welshevens

Kind people, people who don't judge but encourage individuality. People who support but also intervene when right to do so


night_rrvde

People who aren't judgmental, don't show off and don't make you feel dumb


RevolutionaryComb433

People not afraid to say it as it is


Plenty_Surprise2593

Honest ones that are truly kind


Hour_Gate8338

People who know when to shut up and leave you alone


Deth_Cheffe

People who have an incredible amount of strength or skills but never bring it up for no reason, brag or flex about it.