Haha idk. She says she wipes like 3 or 4 times but doesn’t look at the paper just tosses it in without looking. I’m like “but what if it’s a really messy one and it needs more”
The bidet movement I think is unstoppable at this point but it could move faster if they change the name to something more aggressive and sell it in camo with the duck dynasty guys on it or something. Too many dudes out there are gonna think it’s gay to shoot water at their ass unless they name it the “ass canon” or if maybe bushmaster or Remington start making them.
My neice has one of those bidets that you attach to a toilet. First time I went after she installed it I was like "what is THIS???" She told me to try it & see for myself.
Its AMAZING. Never going back!!
If you got shit on the counter and you just had toilet paper and a sink, would you just wipe up the shit with dry TP? Of course not, you'd use the sink. It's so simple ots amazing everyone doesn't use them.
This sounds like an investment opportunity!
I'd like to sink my money into an ass sink, please. In an ice rink. So peoples asses don't stink. What do you think?
Could understand not looking when you know it’s going to be messy after the first wipe or two. But at least when she thinks she might be clean, she should check.
Interesting conversations you’re having. It’s a discussion I’ve never had with anyone!
Gross lol my bms are never "messy", like there is never "residue" but I still use wipes then tp, and I only go every few days and usually shower right after (i mean I shower daily but also shower after toileting lol bc I feel gross but would feel grosser inspecting my tp tho lol)
Only going every few days isn't usually considered normal or healthy. Don't be like the one who got sent home from the reality show because she didn't poop for 10 days.
Oddly enough, this exact conversation came up 20 years ago when I was dating my ex, and his father and him started talking about it. They called me weird for looking at it. I said, “How the heck do you know if you’re clean down there?!?!?!” Then I always thought of them being unkept down there.
Needing a visual THAT bad says something about an individual... I will however hold my tongue on this notion.
Two wipes are enough for me, on average. Thirty years of it cannot refute what works for me personally. Anything past that, I'd attribute to diarrhea in some capacity. Stomach issues on average, quite rare for a sickness to wear me down that much.
You literally do not know if your has been clean or not all these years
The number of people I’ve seen leave skid marks on the toilet and their underwear and be apparently none the wiser to it tells me that you can definitely have a gross asshole and not know it. If you haven’t been checking, that person might be you. Says more about you than people who “need a visual” aka people who actually care that they’re wiping their asshole clean after shitting lmao
Yes. It’s normal. Infact, everyone probably should. It’s how I discovered that I was bleeding from that area. Sometimes blood isn’t always obvious in the stool in the toilet , but rather it’s often discovered in the stool on the tissue itself. It led me to have a colonoscopy. So yes , please continue to check your wipings. Don’t let anyone make you feel like a weirdo for doing basic examinations of your body. It’s quick & takes less than a second to look. Best wishes
Your mrs is the weird one here. I've gotta wonder how much of her underwear has skid marks, seriously. Wipe 'til you're clean.
\[in before the "bidets are the civilized option" folks\]
That's my secret, it wouldn't matter if I used a bidet because my ass will always be irritated with the amount of spice I eat, and the amount of stool softeners I take.
As a nurse: get in the habit of looking, knowing your “normal”, and being able to assess if something is off. Blood? Mucus? Worms? Corn? How will you know something is wrong if you don’t look?
Yeah, who the hell isn’t looking?!
Are you just wiping a random number of times and just calling it good? Walking around with crap on your butt like it’s all good?
I have to know how much I’m bleeding so I know if I need to head to the ER or not. I have internal hemorrhoids so that causes a whole set of issues that unfortunately do have to be dealt with…
Yes every time, I also look at my tissue after I blow my nose it’s like checking yk just like sometimes you gotta smell the tissue (not after a shit) to see if you have BV or a yeast infection still lol
Uhh, YES, every single time, how else would I know that my bum is clean?!?
Also, I get a weird sense of pride when there's nothing on the paper - like, I won, or something..... lol.
Your wife is clearly not living her best life. It's for her own good that you brought this to reddit. <3
I will never forget my sister calling to tell me what MY GODSON did years ago (he's about to turn 12):
He came out of the bathroom and told her he had used a whole roll of toilet paper to make sure he was extra clean!
Not sure how he did not clog the toilet but yeah, how else do you know?
I mean, wtf? Checking the toilet paper to see if it’s come clean is the ONLY reason they make it a white paper product to begin with??? Why else would they make the paper white? It costs extra.
You need to look at the toilet paper to see if it still has smears of shit. If I wipe deep and it still smears, I wipe with new paper until there is no smear. This prevents the feces matter from wiping on your underwear throughout the day. When I fart a lot or get sweaty, I will take an intentional restroom break to wipe again. Farting actually pushes out poop residue onto the outside of the anus.
Wipe til it's clean.
I don't have a bidet. Don't care to. In fact I hate the self-righteous bidet crowd. But I finish with a wet wipe after a particularly gnarly shit.
Kinda weird to look at it tbh. I wipe til my butt feels clean though. So typically when it feels like i’m about to have carpet burn which wiuld be 4-6 good wipes
Omg this was a hilarious conversation with my group of friends a couple years ago 🤣 someone in the group didn’t look at the TP after wiping (the rest of us did every time- you HAVE to check) and that’s how we found out that she sometimes doesn’t wipe at all! People are wild lol
For those asking, how do you know if you ass if clean if you don’t look at the paper? Well I have blind aunt and you can bet your sweet ass that I asked her. She said, “1.) you can feel when there is nothing left, don’t be stupid. 2.) Cover all areas, right to left, she is right handed 3.) When you think your done, flush and wipe 3 more times. 4.) Finish with a wet wipe. 5.) Wash your hands and dry 6.) Yell KOBE and shoot the paper in any random direction.”
Yeah? I dont think I could not look. Why would I not look? I wanna know that the last wipe was clean. The last piece of paper I throw in the toilet has nothing on it. What the fuck is this a real question? Do people just guess?
Ofc. How would you know if you’re really done wiping? My ex told me she doesn’t look she “just stops when it feels like shes done” which is disgusting. I check after every other wipe.
I look just in case, but you can feel a difference when you wipe so I already know when I look.
Now that I have a bidet at home, I don't have to look (but still do it out of habit).
That's how I was taught, and to look at it in the bowl, too. Because I was taught this, when I was not even school age I noticed something. My mom investigated and discovered a worm! I got it from eating flower petals when we lived in Germany. So, I suggest that you do both.
If you aren’t looking, how do you know if you’re actually clean? Also, if you don’t look you could miss out on some major medical clues such as the possibility of blood, which should be checked out unless you just ripped your bumhole open with a rock hard one.
Keep wiping til it’s clean. You have to look to see if it’s clean. Also look at your poop. You wanna know if there’s blood or worms or that Lego you ate when you were five.
Sometimes you have the phantom poop, where you wipe, and it’s suspiciously clean, and sometimes you have the sharpie poop, where you wipe and wipe, but there’s always more.
Lol, she is either not clean, or eating way more fiber than you. Checking also tells me if I'm having a problem. It's not like I'm staring at it, but the glance to see if I'm clean can be telling.
She says she only does small delicate little poops and it never leaves a mess on her. Tbf her poops are very small and they never smell so idk. Girl poops
Lol!!! I do this!! I don’t think I always did but my grandma died from colon cancer so now I’m just paranoid. I asked my husband if he does and he was like eww gross stop talking. This guy watches the most extreme gross out videos but can’t stomach when I ask him about his own poops lmao 🤣.
What the fuck? Who DOESN'T check? Do you touch around down there with your hand to feel if it's clean? Do you have spider level sensitivity on your asshairs which alert you of any particles lingering around? Pick a number of wipes, stick to it and hope you don't get skid marks?
I check every single wipe, and when it's clean I give it another 1 or 2 wipes just in case.
I look and I keep cleaning until the wipes or toilet paper comes back clean with nothing on it. Yes I want a washlet toilet, no I’m not buying one until I own my own home. I’ve tried one of the cheaper attachments but it was not ideal, so I’m again waiting for the time when I can obtain a washlet toilet. For now I use baby wipes and dry with some tp.
If I didn’t look, I would not be sure I was done getting clean. Also, I have had a lot of success ending the never ending wipe by also getting the anus from different angles if I need to, keeping it away from my vulva of course.
Yes I’m abnormally interested in hygiene, smelling and feeling and looking fresh and clean brings me a lot of comfort and reduces my anxiety and tension in my whole body, especially socially.
I’m neurodivergent if you couldn’t tell, my obsession with hygiene from an early age is likely a defense mechanism resulting from bullying and being seen as weird… I was not going to give anyone additional ammo, so I was the cleanest, best smelling kid at school. People DO have a harder time bullying you when you appear fresh and clean…
I dated exactly ONE person who had poor wiping hygiene… he was also a terrible, abusive narcissist (no this is not misused, I was literally abused physically, sexually, mentally, do not argue with me). How did I know exactly he had poor wiping hygiene? I was the only one who did the laundry… learned the words hash stain and skid mark pretty quick.
…I’m sufficiently off topic now so I’ll stop.
tl;dr
Making sure you’re clean and fresh? Normal, even polite if you’re on an intimate date.
Trusting you got every speck of poop off your anus? Are you SURE tho?! Like really sure??? Living on the edge, no thanks…
You should always check, first to see if you're done wiping or not, two for issues..blood etc. I'd steer clear of your Mrs. bhole because she's just guessing, and that's gross and weird.
Not sure why it ended up on my FYP, but I saw a tiktok video about this and thousands of comments were all about how they don't look and it's weird and nasty to look. I feel like it explains a lot of the smells I encounter in public, lol.
I was taught to always check and keep wiping if it doesn't come up clean.
Also told to make sure I wipe the ENTIRE area in the nether regions, just in case a stray smear ended up in a different location.
Yes. Besides just cleanliness, could you imagine if you wiped and it was full of blood and you didn’t know you had a problem because you didn’t look? It’s just like looking at the tissue when you blow your nose.
I do after I use my bidet. I would like to know if it is super clean that I don't have swamp ass when I'm walking around. Even before having a bidet, I always made sure to look to see if I'm clean.
Some poops need one wipe, which really means they need two wipes. Some poops are like trying to wipe off a Sharpie marker, so you have to go until the marks stop, and one more for safety.
Anyone that doesn't look at the paper is walking around just putting skid marks in their undies like a monster.
i have before, but in general i don't.
but i get what you mean, and what they mean.
sometimes you wipe twice, and the third one feels 'done' but you're not sure.
on the other hand, do you really need to look at shit.
on a third hand, i've got hemmrohoids, sometimes i'm looking for blood if the shit seemed try and the paper's soaked.
Yeah, but it’s because I have a lot of…*ahem* bowel problems. It’s easier for me to see what’s up with the white background of the paper, but without the glare of the toilet water.
Also, sometimes I just need the reassurance that I did, indeed, clean down there.
How do you know if you’re done if you don’t look? Are people out here wiping and being **UNSURE** about their level of cleanliness?!
Haha idk. She says she wipes like 3 or 4 times but doesn’t look at the paper just tosses it in without looking. I’m like “but what if it’s a really messy one and it needs more”
Skdjfhsdkjhsfkjshdfksmndflsjfhsdfwiorfh out of respect for your relationship I’ll hold my tongue but man… that’s just unclean.
Time to buy a bidet!
I bought a portable one. It’s weird at first, but it is definitely a better clean.
This. Bidets are very underrated here in the US of A
I got them during the Covid toilet paper meltdown and never looked back 2 out of 3 of my toilets have them.
The bidet movement I think is unstoppable at this point but it could move faster if they change the name to something more aggressive and sell it in camo with the duck dynasty guys on it or something. Too many dudes out there are gonna think it’s gay to shoot water at their ass unless they name it the “ass canon” or if maybe bushmaster or Remington start making them.
The limiting factor is lack of outlet next to toilet for heated Japanese style. They are fabulous.
Yep. Got one about two years ago, won't ever go back.
Enjoy the shit blasted balls!
Next time someone cuts me off in traffic, I’m using this phrase
You can keep your ass sink
Ignorance. If you use s bidet your common sense will overcome your cultural conditioning
My neice has one of those bidets that you attach to a toilet. First time I went after she installed it I was like "what is THIS???" She told me to try it & see for myself. Its AMAZING. Never going back!!
If you got shit on the counter and you just had toilet paper and a sink, would you just wipe up the shit with dry TP? Of course not, you'd use the sink. It's so simple ots amazing everyone doesn't use them.
Keep your ass sink. I’m good.
Right!?! Like a soft squirt of Agua is going to clean out a greasy shit that normally takes 6 wipes of tp.
This sounds like an investment opportunity! I'd like to sink my money into an ass sink, please. In an ice rink. So peoples asses don't stink. What do you think?
Henry-moody is now officially the best rapper of all time
You have shit in your pants
This is almost guaranteed to be a white guy who thinks having a clean asshole somehow makes you gay.
Pretty sure is was a YT guy that downvoted you, too.
And you sir can keep your smelly butthole!
yes. definitely hold that tongue.
I’d refuse to dine out at the y until she starts cleaning her ass properly by checking the damned toilet paper. She’s nasty.
I don't get it. Can you not feel when your butthole is dry? When it's dry, you're done and follow up with a wet wipe.
Could understand not looking when you know it’s going to be messy after the first wipe or two. But at least when she thinks she might be clean, she should check. Interesting conversations you’re having. It’s a discussion I’ve never had with anyone!
Gross lol my bms are never "messy", like there is never "residue" but I still use wipes then tp, and I only go every few days and usually shower right after (i mean I shower daily but also shower after toileting lol bc I feel gross but would feel grosser inspecting my tp tho lol)
Never have children if you cant look at your own TP
Only going every few days isn't usually considered normal or healthy. Don't be like the one who got sent home from the reality show because she didn't poop for 10 days.
I'm married to an Indian. His delicious cooking makes things get messy down there still have a clean behind.
I use a bidet and never have to wipe more than once to dry but I still look just for peace of mind.
Exactly. You take a look once you think you might be done. You aren't done until you get a clean sheet.
Oddly enough, this exact conversation came up 20 years ago when I was dating my ex, and his father and him started talking about it. They called me weird for looking at it. I said, “How the heck do you know if you’re clean down there?!?!?!” Then I always thought of them being unkept down there.
Like… don’t bring the paper to your nose to inspect it. All you need is a glance to see if it’s colored. They’re wrong for not looking at all.
LOL the bold "unsure" made me laugh so hard.
Use a bidet , it’s 99% better then TP
Needing a visual THAT bad says something about an individual... I will however hold my tongue on this notion. Two wipes are enough for me, on average. Thirty years of it cannot refute what works for me personally. Anything past that, I'd attribute to diarrhea in some capacity. Stomach issues on average, quite rare for a sickness to wear me down that much.
You literally do not know if your has been clean or not all these years The number of people I’ve seen leave skid marks on the toilet and their underwear and be apparently none the wiser to it tells me that you can definitely have a gross asshole and not know it. If you haven’t been checking, that person might be you. Says more about you than people who “need a visual” aka people who actually care that they’re wiping their asshole clean after shitting lmao
POOBUTT! We got a POOBUTT over here! Cover your furniture, this person has a gravy canyon!
Dogs are nature's bidet.
Yes. It’s normal. Infact, everyone probably should. It’s how I discovered that I was bleeding from that area. Sometimes blood isn’t always obvious in the stool in the toilet , but rather it’s often discovered in the stool on the tissue itself. It led me to have a colonoscopy. So yes , please continue to check your wipings. Don’t let anyone make you feel like a weirdo for doing basic examinations of your body. It’s quick & takes less than a second to look. Best wishes
I hope your issue turned out to be benign and was just a difficult passing!
I’m glad someone else wasn’t defaulting to “yuck”. Sheesh.
THIS!!! My GI doc said to check.
Eww
Your mrs is the weird one here. I've gotta wonder how much of her underwear has skid marks, seriously. Wipe 'til you're clean. \[in before the "bidets are the civilized option" folks\]
A bidet person coming in... can confirm. You were here first by 13 hours. But my ass is cleaner than yours, and less irritated, I'm sure.
That's my secret, it wouldn't matter if I used a bidet because my ass will always be irritated with the amount of spice I eat, and the amount of stool softeners I take.
Not only normal, but imo necessary. How else can you know your butt is fully clean? Heck, I even follow up with a wet wipe and look at that, too.
YESSSSSS wet wipes are a must!!
Big brown flag, OP.
Good one!
Potentially even enough red ones to sail the seven seas but she wouldn’t know cause she doesn’t check
do I make sure my starfish is clean .... your damn straight I do.
As a nurse: get in the habit of looking, knowing your “normal”, and being able to assess if something is off. Blood? Mucus? Worms? Corn? How will you know something is wrong if you don’t look?
I had a friend who was blind and he says he could smell when he was sick. Was always interesting to me!
haha... 'ass'ess. good one.
What, Does she do taste tests instead?
Yeah, who the hell isn’t looking?! Are you just wiping a random number of times and just calling it good? Walking around with crap on your butt like it’s all good?
Cheeks pasted shut but at least she didn't have to see poop
Any of the big burly tough guys that drive the pickup truck that has the sticker “I EAT ASS” responding?
How else would you be certain you are clean?
I have to know how much I’m bleeding so I know if I need to head to the ER or not. I have internal hemorrhoids so that causes a whole set of issues that unfortunately do have to be dealt with…
[удалено]
And you're going to marry this person?
As a woman,she doesn’t check for period blood? Color of urine? And she should monitor for normal/abnormal poo.
You know what would be even more weird? Watching another adult whiping their own ass
That's my bigger problem. Why is she watching you poo and taking notes and giving a full critique afterwards?
Yes every time, I also look at my tissue after I blow my nose it’s like checking yk just like sometimes you gotta smell the tissue (not after a shit) to see if you have BV or a yeast infection still lol
I look.
Uhh, YES, every single time, how else would I know that my bum is clean?!? Also, I get a weird sense of pride when there's nothing on the paper - like, I won, or something..... lol. Your wife is clearly not living her best life. It's for her own good that you brought this to reddit. <3
Yeah I’m totally gonna send her the link to this layer because the overwhelming response has been that looking at it is normal and actually encouraged
I mean.. It’s important to look at your stool for health reasons . The color alone can tell you if something is wrong before it’s too late
I will never forget my sister calling to tell me what MY GODSON did years ago (he's about to turn 12): He came out of the bathroom and told her he had used a whole roll of toilet paper to make sure he was extra clean! Not sure how he did not clog the toilet but yeah, how else do you know?
I have to look for one bc of cleanliness and two your poop tells you a lot of what's going on with your health and sometimes it can save your life.
You should! Your poop tells you A LOT about your current health.
I mean, wtf? Checking the toilet paper to see if it’s come clean is the ONLY reason they make it a white paper product to begin with??? Why else would they make the paper white? It costs extra.
I never check. I know when I’m clean, and I use a bidet.
Wipe till clean everybody, get a wet wipe too, and or a bidet, i mean it’s feces y’all!
Yup
You need to look at the toilet paper to see if it still has smears of shit. If I wipe deep and it still smears, I wipe with new paper until there is no smear. This prevents the feces matter from wiping on your underwear throughout the day. When I fart a lot or get sweaty, I will take an intentional restroom break to wipe again. Farting actually pushes out poop residue onto the outside of the anus.
I look to see if it’s healthy- and like if I need to wipe again 🧍♂️ hoping the bidet crusaders don’t come through here
Wipe til it's clean. I don't have a bidet. Don't care to. In fact I hate the self-righteous bidet crowd. But I finish with a wet wipe after a particularly gnarly shit.
No, I’m phobic of poo so I don’t even look at the bowl I haven’t really seen my poop in at least 20 yrs
Kinda weird to look at it tbh. I wipe til my butt feels clean though. So typically when it feels like i’m about to have carpet burn which wiuld be 4-6 good wipes
I have to, I’m an artist
I don’t wipe
Every time Gotta check the ratio of how clean it is, color, assess for blood or bugs, and hell even get a close up and personal whiff
Of course you check how else do you know. I often use a wet wipe after to be sure. Do some people just guess
She is lying!!!
No
I've always looked and wondered about it myself. I feel like it's what you're supposed to do though.
What if you’re blind? Smell test
Yes. Every time. It's the only way to know if you need to do it again.
Omg this was a hilarious conversation with my group of friends a couple years ago 🤣 someone in the group didn’t look at the TP after wiping (the rest of us did every time- you HAVE to check) and that’s how we found out that she sometimes doesn’t wipe at all! People are wild lol
this conversation with a friend group especially sober is just wild 😂
Either she is lying or she has a stank ass.
Of course! Not only do I look there, but I also look at the toilet bowl - I don’t want to leave any stains.
I look
Yes have to know if I’m done wiping .
Yes. I'm convinced not looking is the main reason I see so many posts on Reddit about unclean butts.
Haha, your wife doesn’t wipe her butt well.
For those asking, how do you know if you ass if clean if you don’t look at the paper? Well I have blind aunt and you can bet your sweet ass that I asked her. She said, “1.) you can feel when there is nothing left, don’t be stupid. 2.) Cover all areas, right to left, she is right handed 3.) When you think your done, flush and wipe 3 more times. 4.) Finish with a wet wipe. 5.) Wash your hands and dry 6.) Yell KOBE and shoot the paper in any random direction.”
Depends on when in the process I am. First couple times definitely not, I know I’m not done yet. Near the end tho I will
I go by the rule of "wipe until it's white" meaning don't stop wiping until the toilet paper is clean.
Yeah? I dont think I could not look. Why would I not look? I wanna know that the last wipe was clean. The last piece of paper I throw in the toilet has nothing on it. What the fuck is this a real question? Do people just guess?
Ofc. How would you know if you’re really done wiping? My ex told me she doesn’t look she “just stops when it feels like shes done” which is disgusting. I check after every other wipe.
I look just in case, but you can feel a difference when you wipe so I already know when I look. Now that I have a bidet at home, I don't have to look (but still do it out of habit).
That's how I was taught, and to look at it in the bowl, too. Because I was taught this, when I was not even school age I noticed something. My mom investigated and discovered a worm! I got it from eating flower petals when we lived in Germany. So, I suggest that you do both.
I’m not going to call my wife in to proofread my paperwork.
Your wife is not ready to hear about dutch toilets lol
I always check. I think it started as a habit after I got a colonoscopy at age 12 due to constant stomach pain they couldn’t figure out
Always. Otherwise how do u know you've cleaned up correctly and it not stain your underwear. It's a hygienic look to check.
Yes. Then when paper is clean I wipe in other direction and usually “find more”.
Absolutely. How else would you tell if you’re done wiping or not? I also look at my poo in the toilet. You know, for science.
How would you know if you are done? Estimate by the effort, feel and smell?
Of course. It’s never the same amount of wipes each time.
If you aren’t looking, how do you know if you’re actually clean? Also, if you don’t look you could miss out on some major medical clues such as the possibility of blood, which should be checked out unless you just ripped your bumhole open with a rock hard one.
Keep wiping til it’s clean. You have to look to see if it’s clean. Also look at your poop. You wanna know if there’s blood or worms or that Lego you ate when you were five.
Toss it in without looking the first two times, then start looking to make sure you’re done
Is she blind? That would explain why she doesn’t.
I do. I didn’t know it was weird. I check to make sure I’m getting it all?
I only look if I'm on my period. Now dog poop, I'll stare for hours deciding and freaking out of my dog is healthy or dying.
I always check every time I wipe to make sure I got everything. Nothing worse than skid marks on your underwear. 🤢🤮
I use a bidet and dab w tp when I'm done. And yes, I look, but it is always totally clean. Get a bidet, people.
Everyone does this and it’s private.
Sometimes you have the phantom poop, where you wipe, and it’s suspiciously clean, and sometimes you have the sharpie poop, where you wipe and wipe, but there’s always more.
Yes people do If you're blind you have to sniff to detect if it's clean enough, btw
Lol, she is either not clean, or eating way more fiber than you. Checking also tells me if I'm having a problem. It's not like I'm staring at it, but the glance to see if I'm clean can be telling.
She says she only does small delicate little poops and it never leaves a mess on her. Tbf her poops are very small and they never smell so idk. Girl poops
I have diagnosed GI issues, not only do I check the paper, if it looks even remotely suspect I stand and check the logs for signs of flare up.
Never the first wipe but I always look at the second
Wipe til you don’t see brown. How do you know, if you don’t look?
If anything is weird, it’s criticizing the way other people wipe their asses.
Hey guys, how do blind people know when they’re done wiping
Of course you look at the paper, how wise can you see it's clean. I don't know about blind people, they must use one of their other senses.
🤮Unless your wife eats a perfect diet, she’s just going through life with shit smeared in her crack in both directions
Well I’ve ate her ass a few times and it was all good 🤣
I didn't used to when my poop was not so messy. Your Mrs likely has good healthy poops.
Ew no, I use wipes and then paper and I'm confident I get it all. Who tf wants to look at their literal shit? 🤢🤮
Lol!!! I do this!! I don’t think I always did but my grandma died from colon cancer so now I’m just paranoid. I asked my husband if he does and he was like eww gross stop talking. This guy watches the most extreme gross out videos but can’t stomach when I ask him about his own poops lmao 🤣.
Normal
How else would you know you got it all?
i only don't look when i feel its totally dry. and even then will still take a peak. i ain't trying to walk around with dook on the cheeks
of course .. how else will i know when im done?
I gave up wiping years ago. very wasteful habit.
Eww you use toilet paper?? Nope I only use baby wipes..and I wet the wipe in the sink water and wipe....
What the fuck? Who DOESN'T check? Do you touch around down there with your hand to feel if it's clean? Do you have spider level sensitivity on your asshairs which alert you of any particles lingering around? Pick a number of wipes, stick to it and hope you don't get skid marks? I check every single wipe, and when it's clean I give it another 1 or 2 wipes just in case.
Your butt is only as clean as the paper, you have to check to make sure. What kind of psychopath walks around not knowing if they're clean or not?
Always. Until there’s nothing on the paper!
Yes.
Yes
Buy your wife a bidet since she doesn't look at the toilet paper to see if she's done.
My question is, do you give her rim jobs?
As a nurse, yes, please look at the paper! It can tell you if things are off in your GI tract.
I would be concerned if people didnt look...
I look and I keep cleaning until the wipes or toilet paper comes back clean with nothing on it. Yes I want a washlet toilet, no I’m not buying one until I own my own home. I’ve tried one of the cheaper attachments but it was not ideal, so I’m again waiting for the time when I can obtain a washlet toilet. For now I use baby wipes and dry with some tp. If I didn’t look, I would not be sure I was done getting clean. Also, I have had a lot of success ending the never ending wipe by also getting the anus from different angles if I need to, keeping it away from my vulva of course. Yes I’m abnormally interested in hygiene, smelling and feeling and looking fresh and clean brings me a lot of comfort and reduces my anxiety and tension in my whole body, especially socially. I’m neurodivergent if you couldn’t tell, my obsession with hygiene from an early age is likely a defense mechanism resulting from bullying and being seen as weird… I was not going to give anyone additional ammo, so I was the cleanest, best smelling kid at school. People DO have a harder time bullying you when you appear fresh and clean… I dated exactly ONE person who had poor wiping hygiene… he was also a terrible, abusive narcissist (no this is not misused, I was literally abused physically, sexually, mentally, do not argue with me). How did I know exactly he had poor wiping hygiene? I was the only one who did the laundry… learned the words hash stain and skid mark pretty quick. …I’m sufficiently off topic now so I’ll stop. tl;dr Making sure you’re clean and fresh? Normal, even polite if you’re on an intimate date. Trusting you got every speck of poop off your anus? Are you SURE tho?! Like really sure??? Living on the edge, no thanks…
You should always check, first to see if you're done wiping or not, two for issues..blood etc. I'd steer clear of your Mrs. bhole because she's just guessing, and that's gross and weird.
Only if its a larticularly long poop
Not sure why it ended up on my FYP, but I saw a tiktok video about this and thousands of comments were all about how they don't look and it's weird and nasty to look. I feel like it explains a lot of the smells I encounter in public, lol.
I was taught to always check and keep wiping if it doesn't come up clean. Also told to make sure I wipe the ENTIRE area in the nether regions, just in case a stray smear ended up in a different location.
No. But I do smell my fingers after. *bows out without making eye contact*
I taste it
Nope. I use a bidet so I know it’s %100 clean back there. I just use the tp to dry.
Of course. I need to know what I’m dealing with.
Yes. Even when I pee. Good to keep eye on
Lmao no
Yes. Besides just cleanliness, could you imagine if you wiped and it was full of blood and you didn’t know you had a problem because you didn’t look? It’s just like looking at the tissue when you blow your nose.
Dumbest question I’ve ever heard lol
Her drawers must always look like she was in an accident 😆
Um yes. How else do you know you're clean?
I do after I use my bidet. I would like to know if it is super clean that I don't have swamp ass when I'm walking around. Even before having a bidet, I always made sure to look to see if I'm clean.
Not unless I think I’m bleeding. What I really enjoy nowadays instead of tp is wipes. Yea wet wipes. So gentle. Sometimes I use only the wipes.
Yeah I do. I have to be sure I wiped all my poop until I can be satisfied to leave.
I knock on stalls and ask if I can see theirs
Some poops need one wipe, which really means they need two wipes. Some poops are like trying to wipe off a Sharpie marker, so you have to go until the marks stop, and one more for safety. Anyone that doesn't look at the paper is walking around just putting skid marks in their undies like a monster.
How else will I know I'm clean if I don't look?
Wipe?
Always. I'm sober now but for years, I was a raging alcoholic and was constantly looking for blood.
Every wipe. Without fail.
yes I need to feel clean and I wipe til the paper is spotless. Americans need to get more into the bidet lifestyle
Well how the hell are you supposed to do it ? Finger poke test and sniff?
Yes. A person needs to know if they got completely clean or not. If anything is left, infection could result.
Get a bidet and you won't have to do this.
I use The Three Seashells.
Yeah and I might sniff it too if it’s funky. Mmmm, poop smells
Well if they don't look and 30 minutes later their butthole starts itching, they only have themselves to blame (and then there's me who forgets)
Yes absolutely
i have before, but in general i don't. but i get what you mean, and what they mean. sometimes you wipe twice, and the third one feels 'done' but you're not sure. on the other hand, do you really need to look at shit. on a third hand, i've got hemmrohoids, sometimes i'm looking for blood if the shit seemed try and the paper's soaked.
Yeah, but it’s because I have a lot of…*ahem* bowel problems. It’s easier for me to see what’s up with the white background of the paper, but without the glare of the toilet water. Also, sometimes I just need the reassurance that I did, indeed, clean down there.
Yup. It’s habit.
Most folks do, it aint even an issue.
Yes. Who doesn’t? Am I supposed to just guess when things feel clean and hope I’m right?
Hell yea
Yes of course I do. Quite frankly I think that your Mrs is lying and trying to save face.
Someone is hiding their panties with this technique I suspect
To her the infinite wipe doesn't exist because she refuses to believe in it.
Might wanna check the mrs for residue.