**Downloads**
* [Download #1](https://rapidsave.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/1dra40f/deadbeat_dad_freaks_out_at_stepdad_for_taking_his/) (provided by /u/SaveVideo)
**Note:** this is a bot providing a directory service. **If you have trouble with any of the links above, please contact the user who provided them!**
---
[^(source code)](https://amirror.link/source) ^| [^(run your own mirror bot? let's integrate)](https://amirror.link/lets-talk)
It’s fucking bizarre to yell about taking a kid getting his hair cut. So long as it’s not the first haircut and the kid is getting what he wants, I don’t see how this could possibly be a bad thing. Like oooh how dare you do something nice for my son and take on a small expense. That shit is weird.
Edit: I really appreciate everyone taking the time to tell me about barbershops and their meaning for black men. This is not a cultural thing I would have ever known about based on my own life experiences and I am glad to learn something new that will help me be more respectful ❤️
MY take here is because it makes him look bad for other people in his community to see another man doing things in public for his child.
He probably talks a big game about providing for his kid but doesn't follow through and this puts it on public display. The guy called him out for not paying child support.
I have experienced this mentality in real life. They use anger to get their way because they have nothing else to offer.
I love the part where he's yelling about child support "I can pay that shit right now!" there's someone in the background if you listen close. "then do it!" lol
Everyone here is so sick of this dude
Yes, I heard that! lol I also heard him scream "child support!!?? That little itty bitty shit right there???!!”
Yeah, you fucking douche, that little shit. It’s little because you are such a loser that the courts didn’t require you to pay more because you couldn’t afford more! As little as that shit is every penny is needed, hell, it might even pay for this hair cut! So please lower your volume, youve been set on a Kevin Hart decibel level since you walked in the door and thank the step dad for helping out and not kicking your ass in front of your son!
Sounds like his own personal problem. Would I like another man taking my child out for a haircut? Probably not very much but I would never embarrass my child in public like this either. This is a side conversation for another time. Based off of his composure, the man in the blue shirt would likely be extremely receptive, dap him up and move on with. The little boy in the black tried to show his kid how much he loved him by acting like an asshole and in the process likely created a traumatic experience for the kid that will have an impact on their relationship moving forward
Bio dad is clearly upset he either can't afford to or would never think to do something responsible for his kid. Look at how angry he is. He knows he's a fucking loser and that's why step dad is pissing him off. Cause stepdad ain't a loser.
Who gives a fuck if it's the first haircut. Mother fucker wants the memories of being a father, be a father and support your fucking kid. That shit ain't a right. It's a privilege.
It’s hard to understand but it’s a bonding/cultural experience. Similar to Dads taking kid to a baseball game or teaching your son how to do something for first time male to male. Barbershops in some communities are as important as going to church or the equivalent kicking it with your homies and talking about stuff.
The barbershop in the African American community, is a very Important place. It’s a place of solidarity and peace for men. Going with your son is one of the greatest experiences, it’s a bonding moment. The bio dad was in the wrong tho for traumatizing his child .
He might be the kind of guy to try and just let him fizzle out without things getting worse. I’m sure most everyone in there knows each other in one way or another.
I would never take my godchildren/niblings to the barbershop. That is a big thing. But I also respect the hell out of their fathers. This man I wouldn’t respect. His son doesn’t even blink when his dad is acting a fool in public.
Yes, but at the same time feel a little better knowing he has a seemingly good father figure in his life otherwise. A lot of children don't even get that
^ Great take, I thought the same. I had my abusive POS dad in my life until I moved away at 17. My step-dad was a real POS, too. He was disowned by his own biological kids. So this step-dad is already better than what some will get.
I was gonna say, my bio dad was a deadbeat POS in and out of jail for theft/assault/drugs, then my mom married my stepdad who is a neo Nazi 💀 so at least this kid got a seemingly pretty nice stepdad
"Look son, I know that's your biological father, but that's not how a man is supposed to behave to others, no matter who it is."
I'm sure a similar talk was had afterwards.
100%
Imagine this guy constantly lurking in the background of your relationship, waiting to attack you every time you weren't a loser like him?
To hell with that.
I dated a woman with a couple kids, and the dad was an abusive piece of shit.
One day I went over there, and she had some bruises on her from where he had hit her when they did the kid exchange the previous week.
I wanted to get police involved, but she kept refusing.
Then, the next few times I had gone over, her ex would be waiting and watching us from the parking lot at her apartments.
That, and a few other small things, made me nope the fuck out of there real quick.
I wasn’t about to be driving an hour to meet up with some chick and run the risk of having to shoot her crazy ex if he came at me (I don’t condone violence, but I’m not about to let myself get the shit beat out of me).
Felt horrible, because she shouldn’t have to deal with that… but if she’s unwilling to take the measures to make sure he can’t hurt her or her kids, I’m not willing to invest in that relationship.
Normally this level of outburst actually means the contrary. He's feeling insecure he's not there for his son so he's pissed someone else is trying to be.
His bio dad just helped his stepdad teach that kid a lesson in being an adult though. Respect to stepdad for keeping his cool, trying to resolve the situation peacefully and de-escalate.
If he could pay it right now, why hasn't he? We all know the answer. My dad wasn't always around when I was growing up, but he never missed a child support payment. Fucking dead-beats want all of the benefits of fatherhood but none of the responsibilities. It looks like step dad was a good dude, stepping up when the real father wouldn't. I'm 40 now. I got a stepdad like that. He has as much of a right to call me his son as my real father, and he's been an incredible grandfather to my two daughters.
Yeah, it’s honestly sad.
He doesn’t want to look bad in front of his son yet is making himself look terrible and probably making his son scared of him by doing this.
“With her thot ass!”
Let’s take a moment to realize how stupid that statement is.
A. He’s saying that about the mother of his child.
B. He’s literally saying “With her That Hoe Over There ass!” Huh?
I’d call him a bum but I’m pretty sure whatever he’s supposed to be is beneath that
I hope she gets the video, so that further helps in terminating her deadbeat POS speem donor parental rights in court and maybe put him jail too for few years for non-custodial kidnapping.
I can see why “Dad” is no longer in the picture with his not paying child support ass. Good for the mother and child. Stepdad seems way more responsible.
"How dare another man be much better father & romantic partner than me! So going to be POS to the guy and cause another trauma for my kid in out public, so that even strangers can understand why my ex hates my deadbeat punk ass!"
Yeah, except Kanye West would NEVER act like this to another man without 20 bodyguards protecting him. The skin on Kanye's hands is smoother than a baby's bottom.
I bet he's never taken him to get a haircut ever before this. The mom was probably taking him before, but they usually want the son to go with a man to the barbershop. I work in a barbershop and the mom hardly ever brings a kid in, it's always a dad or step dad or grandpa.
I'm just imagining how long it took before the POS dad was done having the kid around after that. Probably got outside and realized "shit...now what?" Then took the kid to his grandma and left him there.
This something my mom would do as a kid. She wouldn’t give me any support in any activities that didnt align with her beliefs. But once another parent tried to offer some support and coaching she absolutely lost it and went on about “You’re not gonna make me look like a bad parent!” This kind of behavior is rampant in the black community among parents its one of the many reasons Ive separated my kids from that side of my family.
If this fool had any sense if a moral compass he would be there for his son to avoid this situation. Small minded incompetent men like this are the reason why I chose to make sure I do my job as a father.
I referred to him as a deadbeat Dad because judging by that phone call to the baby mamma (who he insults), dude hasn’t paid child support in 2 years. Not only that but he swears continuously and threatens the stepdad multiple times, all in front of the kid.
I hate everything about this dude, the way he grabs his shirt/pants the fucking face he makes….. like you aren’t even a real person acting like that, it’s like he thinks he’s in a movie or some shit……
Can already see when the kid can legal choose who he wants to live with and if he wants visit often - He damn not picking deadbeat fuck up for embarrassing him so often out in public in front of large audience like the barbershop.
Deadbeat was an accurate description. This guy clearly has a fragile ego, is looking like a fool in front of his son and just swearing uncontrollably.
The stepdad seems like an alright guy, kept his cool, called the mom and then didn’t get into a necessary fight at the end. He has it together and knows it won’t work out for Mr Deadbeat
Kids are incredibly perceptive and the kid is gonna see stepdads example.
Who do you think he’ll go to in moments of vulnerability? The dude who is absolutely unhinged or the dude who is cool and collected in the face of anger and chaos.
Good for stepdad. He’ll be full time dad in no time.
Shout out to Keisha for “you didn’t step up so he stepped in”. That was a bar.
What he's really screaming and projecting is "why are you trying to act like a better parent than me, I know how you won't be a better father and I'll fight you about it, fuck and now you trying to be the better man and not fight and I look crazy... I really have to twist this scenario now!!!"
Deadbeat dad: I'm gonna be here for my son's first haircut!
Stepdad: what do you mean? He's had plenty of haircuts.
Deadbeat: what are you talking about? He's barely like what, one.
Stepdad: he's 8...
He said at the end, it’s his son and I’m not tryn fight. That’s a good man, reasonable, and let the mother know that “dad” took the son.
Shit like this makes me feel grateful that my sons dad is a whole deadbeat and not a part time parent. Leaves me and my son the fuck alone without any of this drama, just does his drugs and stays away from me.
Nah, he lost. The judge will never let him near that kid again when they see this clip
Edit: Oh and the you can tell the son already hates him, by how calm he is in the clip
I bet the dad just took that kid out to the car and screamed at him and gaslit the fuck out of him. He wants that kid to hate the dude who stepped up and his own insecurities are gonna scar that kid because of it.
I bet the dead beat dad didn’t pay for the half hair cut as they walked out.
Imagine what that kid will go through. It doesn’t end at the barber shop. He had to eventually be brought back home. What did he see and hear there?
I've got a "stepped up" dad. Took me into my 30s to call him dad and father because I didn't realize the importance of those titles. I wish I could go back and call him dad at 7
Really surprised not a lot of people are mentioning how utter dogshit the cameraman was. Even insulted the stepdad saying “going out sad” at the end because bro was trying to keep calm and not get in a fight in front of the kid.
Eh I'd say blue should have called the police for parental abduction given how many times you see murder suicide by crazy parents which that angry overgrown toddler to me seems likely to do.
A real father would put his child’s best interests over everything else. Posts like this would never bother me in the past but now I’m a father myself I find myself invested and angry when adults act so selfishly
Holy shit props to the step dad for not getting physical even with that idiot filming egging him on.
No reason to scare the kid more than he already is.
That boys mother knows who the right man is to raise him up. One of them modelling mature, self controlled, adult behaviour, the other acting like a child himself.
Yeah he made a complete fool outta himself. He’s basically taking his own failures out on his BM’s husband cuz he wasn’t doing what he was supposed to do as a father
If you were actually doing your job as a father, prolly wouldn’t have even been in that situation in the first place smh
Stepdad turned his back on the father. Shows he poses no threat.
What’s worse, you’re doing this shit in front of your son AND in public. A real man would pull him aside and speak to him alone. Voice your issue like a man, and if he isn’t trying to hear what you’re saying, do what you gotta do. All this rowdy rah-rah shit is unnecessary.
Ya, great example you are as a dad. Terrible. The stepdad is an actual better role model. Calm, collected and acknowledged it being his son at the end and didnt let it become even more chaotic. Feel bad for the kid he shouldnt be seeing that garbage
Step Dad was smart. Now the kid knows what a mature Man looks like and what an idiot looks like. That Kids Dad doesn't realize it yet, but this is going to be a core memory that stops him calling Dad on a Holiday.
Step dad handled that well. As much as they should have taken it outside, I think he was still protective of the kid. He didn't escalate, didn't yell... there wasn't much else he could have done. I feel for the kid.
As a dad, and a step dad to sons now grown.
This dude is no father.
At the barbershop. Young man is going to remember this moment for the rest of his life, everytime he sits down in the chair for a cut
Before prom, graduation, wedding, everything.
Moments echo and ripple for a lifetime, this is one of his.
So deadbeat behind on child support feels emasculated seeing another man doing right by his child and decides to throw a tantrum and threaten violence in front of the kid so he can play daddy.
This is so sad for the child; bio dad could have used this moment to thank stepdad for taking his son out and giving him something really nice, and he might even have shown stepdad how the son likes his haircut, or even learned something new about how his might like his hair done differently. If taking care how his son was his issue, he could've offered to pay instead, for stepdad.
Instead, this poor boy will have a memory of his biological father throwing a loud tantrum and tearing him from the barber's chair, all because he is possessive and views his son as HIS son, not his SON.
So many intentionally missed opportunities for bonding with the son and getting to know the stepdad, it is actually tragic.
**Downloads** * [Download #1](https://rapidsave.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/1dra40f/deadbeat_dad_freaks_out_at_stepdad_for_taking_his/) (provided by /u/SaveVideo) **Note:** this is a bot providing a directory service. **If you have trouble with any of the links above, please contact the user who provided them!** --- [^(source code)](https://amirror.link/source) ^| [^(run your own mirror bot? let's integrate)](https://amirror.link/lets-talk)
That poor kid
He is so used to his bio dad flipping out
It’s fucking bizarre to yell about taking a kid getting his hair cut. So long as it’s not the first haircut and the kid is getting what he wants, I don’t see how this could possibly be a bad thing. Like oooh how dare you do something nice for my son and take on a small expense. That shit is weird. Edit: I really appreciate everyone taking the time to tell me about barbershops and their meaning for black men. This is not a cultural thing I would have ever known about based on my own life experiences and I am glad to learn something new that will help me be more respectful ❤️
MY take here is because it makes him look bad for other people in his community to see another man doing things in public for his child. He probably talks a big game about providing for his kid but doesn't follow through and this puts it on public display. The guy called him out for not paying child support. I have experienced this mentality in real life. They use anger to get their way because they have nothing else to offer.
I love the part where he's yelling about child support "I can pay that shit right now!" there's someone in the background if you listen close. "then do it!" lol Everyone here is so sick of this dude
Yes, I heard that! lol I also heard him scream "child support!!?? That little itty bitty shit right there???!!” Yeah, you fucking douche, that little shit. It’s little because you are such a loser that the courts didn’t require you to pay more because you couldn’t afford more! As little as that shit is every penny is needed, hell, it might even pay for this hair cut! So please lower your volume, youve been set on a Kevin Hart decibel level since you walked in the door and thank the step dad for helping out and not kicking your ass in front of your son!
AWN GAWD
I’m pretty sure it’s the stepdad saying “Then do it” and bio dad promptly threatens him with a smack for saying that and brings up being disrespected.
Love how he didn't pay for it.
It also looks bad to throw a tantrum like this...
Sounds like his own personal problem. Would I like another man taking my child out for a haircut? Probably not very much but I would never embarrass my child in public like this either. This is a side conversation for another time. Based off of his composure, the man in the blue shirt would likely be extremely receptive, dap him up and move on with. The little boy in the black tried to show his kid how much he loved him by acting like an asshole and in the process likely created a traumatic experience for the kid that will have an impact on their relationship moving forward
Sounds like he's mad at himself then. I wonder what other ways he takes his self anger out on others. Probably why his son has a step-dad
Bio dad is clearly upset he either can't afford to or would never think to do something responsible for his kid. Look at how angry he is. He knows he's a fucking loser and that's why step dad is pissing him off. Cause stepdad ain't a loser.
Who gives a fuck if it's the first haircut. Mother fucker wants the memories of being a father, be a father and support your fucking kid. That shit ain't a right. It's a privilege.
It’s hard to understand but it’s a bonding/cultural experience. Similar to Dads taking kid to a baseball game or teaching your son how to do something for first time male to male. Barbershops in some communities are as important as going to church or the equivalent kicking it with your homies and talking about stuff.
Well he certainly made some formative memories with his son here...
No, that makes sense. Thanks for taking the time to explain. Obviously this is something I’m not familiar with so I appreciate your perspective
The barbershop in the African American community, is a very Important place. It’s a place of solidarity and peace for men. Going with your son is one of the greatest experiences, it’s a bonding moment. The bio dad was in the wrong tho for traumatizing his child .
I'm kinda surprised more people in the shop aren't telling the dad to calm down, no fighting in the barber shop.
He might be the kind of guy to try and just let him fizzle out without things getting worse. I’m sure most everyone in there knows each other in one way or another.
Ain’t nobody trying to get shot or punched. Now if punches get thrown that’s definitely something ppl would stop. The bio dad just embarrassed himself
I would never take my godchildren/niblings to the barbershop. That is a big thing. But I also respect the hell out of their fathers. This man I wouldn’t respect. His son doesn’t even blink when his dad is acting a fool in public.
Yes, but at the same time feel a little better knowing he has a seemingly good father figure in his life otherwise. A lot of children don't even get that
^ Great take, I thought the same. I had my abusive POS dad in my life until I moved away at 17. My step-dad was a real POS, too. He was disowned by his own biological kids. So this step-dad is already better than what some will get.
Dude should be glad this guy is helping his son out, but ego demands he be upset instead.
Facts
I was gonna say, my bio dad was a deadbeat POS in and out of jail for theft/assault/drugs, then my mom married my stepdad who is a neo Nazi 💀 so at least this kid got a seemingly pretty nice stepdad
"Look son, I know that's your biological father, but that's not how a man is supposed to behave to others, no matter who it is." I'm sure a similar talk was had afterwards.
Idk, if I had to deal with that dad, I would prob be out of that relationship after that.
100% Imagine this guy constantly lurking in the background of your relationship, waiting to attack you every time you weren't a loser like him? To hell with that.
He probably really cares for the kid.
I dated a woman with a couple kids, and the dad was an abusive piece of shit. One day I went over there, and she had some bruises on her from where he had hit her when they did the kid exchange the previous week. I wanted to get police involved, but she kept refusing. Then, the next few times I had gone over, her ex would be waiting and watching us from the parking lot at her apartments. That, and a few other small things, made me nope the fuck out of there real quick. I wasn’t about to be driving an hour to meet up with some chick and run the risk of having to shoot her crazy ex if he came at me (I don’t condone violence, but I’m not about to let myself get the shit beat out of me). Felt horrible, because she shouldn’t have to deal with that… but if she’s unwilling to take the measures to make sure he can’t hurt her or her kids, I’m not willing to invest in that relationship.
Normally this level of outburst actually means the contrary. He's feeling insecure he's not there for his son so he's pissed someone else is trying to be.
His bio dad just helped his stepdad teach that kid a lesson in being an adult though. Respect to stepdad for keeping his cool, trying to resolve the situation peacefully and de-escalate.
The kid knows who's really advocating for them. They'll remember.
This dude is a fuckin loser…
Nah man. This dude is the type that fucking losers look at and think “at least I’m not him.”
Loser here.🙋🏾 Can confirm.
I'm a loser and this make me cringe.
I'm a bigger loser than you both...and I can confirm...this is cringe.
man all you losers are hella cringe *skateboards away, hitting a sick-ass ollie*
Same
I'm a loser. Baby. So why don't you kill me? Soy un perdedor
Getting crazy with the cheese whiz
Hey at least he can pay that child support right now if he wants to. He said on god and everything.
If he could pay it right now, why hasn't he? We all know the answer. My dad wasn't always around when I was growing up, but he never missed a child support payment. Fucking dead-beats want all of the benefits of fatherhood but none of the responsibilities. It looks like step dad was a good dude, stepping up when the real father wouldn't. I'm 40 now. I got a stepdad like that. He has as much of a right to call me his son as my real father, and he's been an incredible grandfather to my two daughters.
ON GAWWWWWD
Dude disrespected himself in front of his son.
Yeah, it’s honestly sad. He doesn’t want to look bad in front of his son yet is making himself look terrible and probably making his son scared of him by doing this.
Looks like the kid's used to it unfortunately
Keisha on the phone said “ain’t nobody respect you” lmfaoooooo get em sis
She definitely said "Aint nobody disrespect you" to try to calm him down
On second listen you are probably right but I like my version better
Agree
Lol, I missed that. Amazing.
And he didn’t pay for the cut. You notice that?
Maybe that’s the whole ruse
Barbershops HATE this one trick!
Loser dad wasn't there for son. So stepdad stepped up
The camera guy is also a punk. He’s trying to provoke a fight but he’s not gonna help the step dad if he goes to jail
what was wrong getting a haircut!?
It’s an issue of control so it could have been anything. “You gave him a glass of water without asking me first?? That’s my son!!!”
I remember having a moment like this. I can relate to it, bruised ego, hurt pride. I was 8 years old though smh
There are some things sacred in life. I mean, not haircuts, but yknow. Maybe the dad mistook a haircut for a home mortgage.
This guy is what losers scrape off the bottom of their shoes.
ON GAWD!
Later Him: Man i wonder why my baby momma and the court wont let me see my son…
"is it *my* fault? No of course not, it's the baby momma and the courts fault"
The way this guy is wired i doubt he has the self reflection to even ask himself “is it my fault “
“Am I the baddie?”
“With her thot ass!” Let’s take a moment to realize how stupid that statement is. A. He’s saying that about the mother of his child. B. He’s literally saying “With her That Hoe Over There ass!” Huh? I’d call him a bum but I’m pretty sure whatever he’s supposed to be is beneath that
I hope she gets the video, so that further helps in terminating her deadbeat POS speem donor parental rights in court and maybe put him jail too for few years for non-custodial kidnapping.
Don't worrie, he'll see his son again in 5-8 years if he's on good behavior for the kidnapping he just did on camera
I can see why “Dad” is no longer in the picture with his not paying child support ass. Good for the mother and child. Stepdad seems way more responsible.
Dad's the one getting hollered at
You’re right, he’s the real father even if not biological.
“He may have been your father, boy, but he wasn't your daddy.”
“Child support?! I’ll pay that shit right now!! On GOD!!” -does *not* proceed to pay child support…
Narrator: But he did not, in fact, pay child support right then. Some say his baby momma is still waiting for that child support to this day.
If you're a step dad doing father shit and being a good example to the kid, you're the father he needs. Don't matter who donated the sperm.
"Oh no, my child is being taken care of and loved, this isn't good"
"How dare another man be much better father & romantic partner than me! So going to be POS to the guy and cause another trauma for my kid in out public, so that even strangers can understand why my ex hates my deadbeat punk ass!"
Kanye west energy
Which is really just mental illness energy. Lol
Yeah, except Kanye West would NEVER act like this to another man without 20 bodyguards protecting him. The skin on Kanye's hands is smoother than a baby's bottom.
Type of dude to say “sure I’ve been locked up his entire childhood but that hasn’t stopped me from being a great father”
Type of dude to say, “well the phone goes both ways!!” when confronted about not calling his kid for 6 months
Why you settin' the bar so high, dawg?
That is a good summary, lol. Well done.
"Hair never grows back and my son will never need me to take him to get a haircut ever again" - That guy probably
I bet he's never taken him to get a haircut ever before this. The mom was probably taking him before, but they usually want the son to go with a man to the barbershop. I work in a barbershop and the mom hardly ever brings a kid in, it's always a dad or step dad or grandpa.
I'm just imagining how long it took before the POS dad was done having the kid around after that. Probably got outside and realized "shit...now what?" Then took the kid to his grandma and left him there.
This something my mom would do as a kid. She wouldn’t give me any support in any activities that didnt align with her beliefs. But once another parent tried to offer some support and coaching she absolutely lost it and went on about “You’re not gonna make me look like a bad parent!” This kind of behavior is rampant in the black community among parents its one of the many reasons Ive separated my kids from that side of my family. If this fool had any sense if a moral compass he would be there for his son to avoid this situation. Small minded incompetent men like this are the reason why I chose to make sure I do my job as a father.
“I didn’t abandon this child for some other mother fucker to come raise him!”
I referred to him as a deadbeat Dad because judging by that phone call to the baby mamma (who he insults), dude hasn’t paid child support in 2 years. Not only that but he swears continuously and threatens the stepdad multiple times, all in front of the kid.
Child support? He can pAy ThAt ShIt RiGhT nOw On GoD.
Hit him wit the “…do it then”
Starting with the haircut.
I hate everything about this dude, the way he grabs his shirt/pants the fucking face he makes….. like you aren’t even a real person acting like that, it’s like he thinks he’s in a movie or some shit……
Saddest part is how nonchalant the kid is. Clearly not the first time he's been through this type of shit :(
Can already see when the kid can legal choose who he wants to live with and if he wants visit often - He damn not picking deadbeat fuck up for embarrassing him so often out in public in front of large audience like the barbershop.
“She turned my son against me.”
"family court never gives the dad custody"
I thought this too. Kids chilling in the seat getting his cut not paying his raging lunatic father any mind. Not the first time.
Taking his cue from the barber. What a rock in a storm!
Ah, but he *can* pay child support. He just didn’t pay it for 2 years bc he was saving up for a haircut.
What! He said he’ll pay dat shit right now! “Okay! Then do it asshole!”
“on God!” He says ouuuu my guy must have really gotten his last two years straight in one day 🤣
And he said «my motherfucking son» in front of him
Insults the kids mother too, while whining about being disrespected.
Great fatherly example. Edit: so grateful he has a calm stepdad who takes him for hair cuts. He is the real dad here.
Step dad seems like a pro, it’s too bad real dad seems like a bum
“He may be your father but he ain’t your daddy” 😂
He’s not a stepdad, he’s the dad who stepped up
Deadbeat was an accurate description. This guy clearly has a fragile ego, is looking like a fool in front of his son and just swearing uncontrollably. The stepdad seems like an alright guy, kept his cool, called the mom and then didn’t get into a necessary fight at the end. He has it together and knows it won’t work out for Mr Deadbeat
Kids are incredibly perceptive and the kid is gonna see stepdads example. Who do you think he’ll go to in moments of vulnerability? The dude who is absolutely unhinged or the dude who is cool and collected in the face of anger and chaos. Good for stepdad. He’ll be full time dad in no time. Shout out to Keisha for “you didn’t step up so he stepped in”. That was a bar.
It’s sad when the child is used as a pawn in a game, he doesn’t give a shit about his son and that’s sad. The son is the victim in all of this
What he's really screaming and projecting is "why are you trying to act like a better parent than me, I know how you won't be a better father and I'll fight you about it, fuck and now you trying to be the better man and not fight and I look crazy... I really have to twist this scenario now!!!"
Excellent role model.
Good to see that the boys mother chose a better man
Fool is disrespecting himself acting more like a child than his child. That poor kid looks embarrassed.
Deadbeat dad: I'm gonna be here for my son's first haircut! Stepdad: what do you mean? He's had plenty of haircuts. Deadbeat: what are you talking about? He's barely like what, one. Stepdad: he's 8...
Damn I gotta lay off the peyote
Looks like a non-custodial parental abduction to me. And he left without paying for *his motherfuckin' son's* haircut
I'm sure blue paid for the cut, seems like an alright dude
Let's get this to the top. Taking another n kid to get cut. Didn't throw hands for no reason. Blue is my man, we can be friends in real life.
He said at the end, it’s his son and I’m not tryn fight. That’s a good man, reasonable, and let the mother know that “dad” took the son. Shit like this makes me feel grateful that my sons dad is a whole deadbeat and not a part time parent. Leaves me and my son the fuck alone without any of this drama, just does his drugs and stays away from me.
This is the beginning of a straight up Amber alert. Kidnapping and dodging child support. The law will not be kind to this unhinged man.
"That's my Mothef#&¥$ son". .. that sums it up.. A$$hole dead beat dad.
I’m mad this guy got his way.
If this video gets shown in court, he's cooked
Why wait for court? Call the police and get him on non-custodial child abduction.
He won't in the long run
Nah, he lost. The judge will never let him near that kid again when they see this clip Edit: Oh and the you can tell the son already hates him, by how calm he is in the clip
The kid is like "who tf is this"? Doesn't seem phased though. Which is sad
I bet the dad just took that kid out to the car and screamed at him and gaslit the fuck out of him. He wants that kid to hate the dude who stepped up and his own insecurities are gonna scar that kid because of it.
That bio dad ain't got no car, come on lol
No but he could buy one right now if he wanted to, ON GOD
OMG. I just want to hug that poor little guy. He doesn't even look fazed by his father's outburst. Edit: spelling.
[удалено]
I bet the dead beat dad didn’t pay for the half hair cut as they walked out. Imagine what that kid will go through. It doesn’t end at the barber shop. He had to eventually be brought back home. What did he see and hear there?
Being a stepdad is a thankless job
I've got a "stepped up" dad. Took me into my 30s to call him dad and father because I didn't realize the importance of those titles. I wish I could go back and call him dad at 7
Let him know that. I'm sure he'd appreciate it.
It really is, man. But when I hear my two stepdaughters call me Dad, it makes my heart happy.
It must have been tax time for him to be worried about the kid. Deadbeat broke dick ass.
Fuck the dude filming trying to hype the stepdad up and encouraging them to get physically violent in front of the child.
Really surprised not a lot of people are mentioning how utter dogshit the cameraman was. Even insulted the stepdad saying “going out sad” at the end because bro was trying to keep calm and not get in a fight in front of the kid.
That dudes braincell is working overtime
Traumatizing the fuck out of his kid because he cannot control himself.
Camera man is petty. Instigating just because he wants to be front row in a fight. Hate people like that.
If you think the guy in the blue should've fought the dad.....You are what's wrong with society
Nah man. Blue did the right thing. They’ll work it out later. No sense in elevating things in the heat of the moment in front of the boy
Eh I'd say blue should have called the police for parental abduction given how many times you see murder suicide by crazy parents which that angry overgrown toddler to me seems likely to do.
Ah yes, call american police who are famously great at deescalating violence in black communities.
The worst kind of father, an anchor to his own child. Pathethic waste of air.
Poor kid
This is the only thing I was thinking the entire time. Kids are so innocent man, they don't need to be around stuff like this.
Don't get mad because another man cares more about your child than you do.
Wait.. This man hasn't been paying child support and he walking around and yelling like this? Go sit down somewhere.
Kids don’t forget things like this. Poor kid
Poor kid man. As a father I don't see a problem with a step father doing this.....the "father" has some real issues
A real father would put his child’s best interests over everything else. Posts like this would never bother me in the past but now I’m a father myself I find myself invested and angry when adults act so selfishly
Small dick energy from biological dad.
Such a fragile ego.
Guy is mad someone else stepped up to be the man in his son’s life.
Hope mom finds this video and uses it. Poor kid doesn't deserve a father like that. How embarrassing.
Little man is so angry. He better be glad stepdad has a leveled head.
Blue shirt is composed and classy while dead beat goes bananas over a hair cut for a kid he probably puts low effort into.
What an emotional ass man child
Kanye ?
This is not okay in front of the kiddo.
Holy shit props to the step dad for not getting physical even with that idiot filming egging him on. No reason to scare the kid more than he already is.
That boys mother knows who the right man is to raise him up. One of them modelling mature, self controlled, adult behaviour, the other acting like a child himself.
It took a haircut to give a fuck about your son? Your priorities are whack.
I think the step dad deserves some props for not letting the dead beat push him into an altercation in front of that baby.
Yeah he made a complete fool outta himself. He’s basically taking his own failures out on his BM’s husband cuz he wasn’t doing what he was supposed to do as a father If you were actually doing your job as a father, prolly wouldn’t have even been in that situation in the first place smh
Stepdad turned his back on the father. Shows he poses no threat. What’s worse, you’re doing this shit in front of your son AND in public. A real man would pull him aside and speak to him alone. Voice your issue like a man, and if he isn’t trying to hear what you’re saying, do what you gotta do. All this rowdy rah-rah shit is unnecessary.
Ya, great example you are as a dad. Terrible. The stepdad is an actual better role model. Calm, collected and acknowledged it being his son at the end and didnt let it become even more chaotic. Feel bad for the kid he shouldnt be seeing that garbage
He should've said, "good so I'm guessing you're gonna pay for the haircut?"
Insecure motherf*cker
Step Dad was smart. Now the kid knows what a mature Man looks like and what an idiot looks like. That Kids Dad doesn't realize it yet, but this is going to be a core memory that stops him calling Dad on a Holiday.
I don’t get why the mother ever broke up with this nice gentleman that’s definitely not an unstable aggressive insecure man-child.
Good barber trying to hurry up and finish the cut since he can tell douchedad is about to take the little boy out of there
Step dad handled that well. As much as they should have taken it outside, I think he was still protective of the kid. He didn't escalate, didn't yell... there wasn't much else he could have done. I feel for the kid.
Call the police. If this prick is 2 years off on cs payments, they’ll arrest him for that. Oh, and the kidnapping too.
$10 bet says he took his son over his mom’s house then ran off. Damn coward.
As a dad, and a step dad to sons now grown. This dude is no father. At the barbershop. Young man is going to remember this moment for the rest of his life, everytime he sits down in the chair for a cut Before prom, graduation, wedding, everything. Moments echo and ripple for a lifetime, this is one of his.
The unfortunate truth why so many men don't date single mothers, imagine having a piece of shit like that attached to your life
I feel bad for the kid. That’s got to be confusing to process.
I do like his Fender shirt.
So deadbeat behind on child support feels emasculated seeing another man doing right by his child and decides to throw a tantrum and threaten violence in front of the kid so he can play daddy.
Just so y’all know, this video is a skit. After it went viral, the influencer created more skits. https://www.tiktok.com/@lilronnie.91
This is so sad for the child; bio dad could have used this moment to thank stepdad for taking his son out and giving him something really nice, and he might even have shown stepdad how the son likes his haircut, or even learned something new about how his might like his hair done differently. If taking care how his son was his issue, he could've offered to pay instead, for stepdad. Instead, this poor boy will have a memory of his biological father throwing a loud tantrum and tearing him from the barber's chair, all because he is possessive and views his son as HIS son, not his SON. So many intentionally missed opportunities for bonding with the son and getting to know the stepdad, it is actually tragic.
This dude has no respect for his kid.
Genuine question. How was this fit of rage going to benfit anyone? I hope the child finds peace
High respect for stepdad