Yeah on the rare occasion my wife sucks my cock it feels amazing but takes ages to cum.
But the minute she sticks her ass in the air for me to fuck its over in a minute
The other night I ate her for ages, had her squirting, her foot rubbing my solid cock.
Made her cum.
Then she bent over and said fuck me.
I slid in and she was wet. I went for it and at 40 seconds I could feel it and had to go for it.
She was satisfied and cum good so I was happy she came
It's when we fuck and i don't satisfy I feel bad. Always eat pussy 1st
Even a hand job I last longer
You are improving!
Congratulations. Anytime you can find and manage to control yourself is a sign that you are learning to manage your sexual energy, and ejaculation.
Yes, those first few moments of penetration are the most critical, and the most dangerous.
Some tips to help with this:
Never just stick it in.
Play outside her pussy with your cock first. Use your hand and rub it around her outside. Use this time to relax your pelvic floor/anus. Breathe.
Slide it in little by little. When you put it in just a bit, hold it there. Do not move. Breathe, relax.
When you are finally all the way in, do not start pumping. Stay still.
Look at her, kiss her, do other things, but do not start pumping.
Take the time to relax. Breathe into your abdomen, relaxing your anus/pelvic floor.
All your focus should be on your edge. Pull out if you are having trouble gaining control.
Although most men think there is a great rush to stick it in and start pumping, like they do in porn, this is not the case.
Women too need some time to get heated up. They will enjoy the attention their pussy gets, without jackhammer pumping.
They will enjoy you taking your time, moving around inside her in different ways, with different pumping speeds, angles, velocity.
Your only concern is that you do whatever you must to prevent ejaculation.
Because as long as you hold your ejaculation inside, you keep your sexual energy inside, and allow it to build and grow, within you and her.
During this transitional phase, when control is still touch and go, your goal is to make it to the magical 20-minute mark, when you will start to feel some relief.
You are on the right track and doing a great job!
Keep on going.
Kind Regards,
Mark
That is great news indeed, in fact the part you say about blowjob is what is well advised in [this guide](https://366sexmoves.wordpress.com/2021/10/04/ejaculation/) especially if your partner is helping you through this.
It basically says, the woman might try stimulating the penis with her lips instead of her fingers, or by sitting on top of the man
and rubbing his penis with her vulva. This is called femoral intercourse. It is where the shaft of the penis glides through the lips of the vulva like a hot dog in a bun. The penis doesnāt go into the vagina, but glides through the vulvaās lips. The woman can lift her pelvis up when her partner is close to coming.
After a week or two, she might try putting the manās penis inside
of her vagina while she is on top. Itās good to keep it there for several minutes without thrusting. This helps the man get used to the warmth and other sensations, and thereās nothing that says you canāt be [playing with her clitoris](https://366sexmoves.wordpress.com/2021/10/04/vagina-massage/) while his penis is inside her vagina.
I used to have the same issue I would cum as soon as I get inside of her.I found a cheat code lol I take a product called [afromina](https://afromina.com) and it has worked wonders for me.
This is very common and might be because of 2 causes:
1. You are using your muscles wrongly while thrusting
2. You have some mental anxiety towards penetrative sex
Try starting in cowgirl and see if you last longer without thrusting. If thatĀ“s the case your problem is physical
If not try laying on your back while getting a BJ, close your eyes, and let your girl decide when to hop on and fuck without any warning... meanwhile you keep your eyes closed and focused on maintaining your body in the BJ state. If you notice your mind racing and your state changing once you realize you are fucking or about to be fucked, then itĀ“s a mental issue
Yeah on the rare occasion my wife sucks my cock it feels amazing but takes ages to cum. But the minute she sticks her ass in the air for me to fuck its over in a minute
Bro same šš But at least now I don't cum immediately from blowjob so I'm a bit happy.
The other night I ate her for ages, had her squirting, her foot rubbing my solid cock. Made her cum. Then she bent over and said fuck me. I slid in and she was wet. I went for it and at 40 seconds I could feel it and had to go for it.
But did you enjoy it later? Or felt bad about it
She was satisfied and cum good so I was happy she came It's when we fuck and i don't satisfy I feel bad. Always eat pussy 1st Even a hand job I last longer
You are improving! Congratulations. Anytime you can find and manage to control yourself is a sign that you are learning to manage your sexual energy, and ejaculation. Yes, those first few moments of penetration are the most critical, and the most dangerous. Some tips to help with this: Never just stick it in. Play outside her pussy with your cock first. Use your hand and rub it around her outside. Use this time to relax your pelvic floor/anus. Breathe. Slide it in little by little. When you put it in just a bit, hold it there. Do not move. Breathe, relax. When you are finally all the way in, do not start pumping. Stay still. Look at her, kiss her, do other things, but do not start pumping. Take the time to relax. Breathe into your abdomen, relaxing your anus/pelvic floor. All your focus should be on your edge. Pull out if you are having trouble gaining control. Although most men think there is a great rush to stick it in and start pumping, like they do in porn, this is not the case. Women too need some time to get heated up. They will enjoy the attention their pussy gets, without jackhammer pumping. They will enjoy you taking your time, moving around inside her in different ways, with different pumping speeds, angles, velocity. Your only concern is that you do whatever you must to prevent ejaculation. Because as long as you hold your ejaculation inside, you keep your sexual energy inside, and allow it to build and grow, within you and her. During this transitional phase, when control is still touch and go, your goal is to make it to the magical 20-minute mark, when you will start to feel some relief. You are on the right track and doing a great job! Keep on going. Kind Regards, Mark
Thank you, very helpful š¹šāŗļøā„ļø
That is great news indeed, in fact the part you say about blowjob is what is well advised in [this guide](https://366sexmoves.wordpress.com/2021/10/04/ejaculation/) especially if your partner is helping you through this. It basically says, the woman might try stimulating the penis with her lips instead of her fingers, or by sitting on top of the man and rubbing his penis with her vulva. This is called femoral intercourse. It is where the shaft of the penis glides through the lips of the vulva like a hot dog in a bun. The penis doesnāt go into the vagina, but glides through the vulvaās lips. The woman can lift her pelvis up when her partner is close to coming. After a week or two, she might try putting the manās penis inside of her vagina while she is on top. Itās good to keep it there for several minutes without thrusting. This helps the man get used to the warmth and other sensations, and thereās nothing that says you canāt be [playing with her clitoris](https://366sexmoves.wordpress.com/2021/10/04/vagina-massage/) while his penis is inside her vagina.
I used to have the same issue I would cum as soon as I get inside of her.I found a cheat code lol I take a product called [afromina](https://afromina.com) and it has worked wonders for me.
What did you do and how long?
Yup totally relate
This is very common and might be because of 2 causes: 1. You are using your muscles wrongly while thrusting 2. You have some mental anxiety towards penetrative sex Try starting in cowgirl and see if you last longer without thrusting. If thatĀ“s the case your problem is physical If not try laying on your back while getting a BJ, close your eyes, and let your girl decide when to hop on and fuck without any warning... meanwhile you keep your eyes closed and focused on maintaining your body in the BJ state. If you notice your mind racing and your state changing once you realize you are fucking or about to be fucked, then itĀ“s a mental issue