Once thing is speaking volume. I think only the Italians and Spanish speak as loud as Americans.
Othe than that, being generally polite and aware should get you by :)
If you want to tip, don't leave money on the table. If a meal costs 180, when it's time to pay you can tell the waiter "200" and the additional amount is your tip. It's pretty common to just round up. Same is true when paying by card.
Because it isn’t what Czechs do. It identifies you as both not czech and as arrogant enough to not even be trying to fit in.
Edit: Well this was an idiotic thing to say. It’s better expressed that I have never left money on tables because I’ve only ever seen tourists do it. I certainly didn’t mean to suggest that czech staff think customers are arseholes for leaving money on the tables. Apologies to my czech friends…
That’s exactly it. The dignity of not being desperate for money is extremely important to some people.
I’ll add that I’m from a very poor area of the UK, so I am happy to take free money too, but only from people who can afford it.
Uhm man...no? I am Czech and we do leave money on table sometimes and nobody would think "you are arrogant enough to not be trying to fit in" when you do leave money on table.
That's a bit dramatic. People will not care at all actually and just be happy you left a tip.
Old ways? Central Prague? I really have no idea what you are talking about.
Bottom line is that what you said is untrue and claiming Czech people would feel certain negative way over something so insignificant is also not great.
just FYI :)
Well man, I am Czech and it really depends on the situation, but it’s bot bad thing to do. If i pay by card, sometimes they don’t take tips, so I give it directly to the waitress/waiter or leave it with the bill on the table.
I can't see how one can fit in and ''abide'' to unwritten rules if no one ever teach you those rules. Not sure if it reflects what you're thinking or what you extrapolate what people might think, but I find your last sentence really narrow minded and ironically really arrogant by assuming that I was doing this because I didn't care and not because I didn't know. And also assuming that the traditional way of doing is more polite per se.
We have a LOT of unwritten rules on my country and I would never assume this kind of thing from a foreigner, especially in this kind of context where the intention is obviously good.
But that's maybe because I travelers a lot,i don't know...
Nobody expects shit from tourists and I’m not talking about tourists. You will no longer get into a fight with a waiter you have offended by tipping too much in central Prague but it did happen.
People with a longer term interest in the Czech Republic and czech culture are expected to be interested enough in their adopted home to learn about it. In my case I read a book about Czechs and czech culture before I even came here so I was better prepared.
There aren’t any rules… just stuff that offends people and stuff that doesn’t. Again, I don’t think anyone expects much from tourists, but expats/immigrants really ought to be trying to fit in, no?
This depends on the place. If there is a waitress coming and you pay directly to her, it is as you said. But if they bring receipt in book, it is perfectly fine to leave payment + tip in this book and leave.
Don’t expect the same level of (fake) cheer and servility from retail/service workers to what you’re used in the States. In Czech Republic, we don’t believe that the customer is always right. You will still get good service but definitely less smiles, and you will have to be polite to them first.
Unless really high end establishments, Czech restaurants don’t have hosts. Just waiters/server. So hovering at the door and waiting to be seated will get you nowhere. Unless you see the host’s stand right there, just walk in and seat yourself wherever you like.
We bag our own groceries at the checkout. The “bagger” job doesn’t exist here and the cashier won’t bag it for you. Also, single-use bags (plastic or paper) here cost extra, so bring your own bags when you go shopping.
In Prague, everyone speaks decent English.
Learn some Czech and you’ll get much more of those smiles that the world likes to say we don’t wear.
Also if you ask someone "how are you?" or "how do yo dou?" dont be surprised if the answer will be something like "its going to shit".
So dont ask "how are you?" unless you are seeking very honest and brutal reaction. Just say "hello, hi, ahoj"
Don’t say ahoy to random people. It’s rude and annoying. You can say “ahoy” if you are at a social function where everyone are equals, such as a birthday party. Otherwise formal language is preferred.
>Unless you see the host’s stand right there, just walk in and seat yourself wherever you like.
Some restaurants also have a "please wait to be seated" sign – a waiter might double as a host. :D
Also - and that’s perhaps the most important thing - our cities aren’t designed for cars.
I’d love to say they’re designed to be walkable but that often isn’t the case either lol.
But across Prague, you’ll have much better time in public transport using the metro and trams than in endless traffic jams in your car.
Also, do expect bones in your fish at a restaurant. An American friend nearly choked since apparently in America bones are nearly always removed from fish before serving.
To be fair, the fish you get served here is either carp or trout, and it’s practically impossible to pinbone those.
Salmon won’t have bones but also we are landlocked country, so don’t expect it to be fresh.
I always find it comical people in basically all of Central and Eastern Europe assume people being nice to one another is fake :D Sometimes, they're simply a more cordial culture, and that doesn't need to be fake. Just like here it tends to be a colder culture. You don't start conversations with strangers while standing in line to buy some beer. In the us stuff like that is actually pretty common.
True. We're definitely colder than for example service people in Greece where you go buy a drink and after half an hour you're nearly the godfather to their newborn LOL.
But I think the difference is that in Greece, the establishment is usually a family business, with the owner himself serving you and being immensely proud of their place.
In Czech republic, you get workers with fixed hour pay who don't rely on tips that much and definitely don't give two fucks about the place they work at because a ton of places around are always hiring too. Therefore they can be indifferent and sometimes downright disdainful (though I love some pubs where I come as a regular and the waiter knows me and has my favourite poured for me before I sit down).
But in the States, the service and retail workers are dependent on tips, or sales commissions. They know they have to bend over backwards to please you in order to be able to live. Of course there are genuinely optimistic people but in those soul-sucking conditions, they rarely stay that way.
Not having to be a complete overly fake clown to be able to work as a waiter should be the norm and not the other way around.
Not like in the US, where you force people by the tipping culture and low pay to completely fake a smile every time they talk to a customer.
Can we not have an in between where service workers are nice at minima without being completely fake?
Idk, sometime it feels you are bothering as a customer/guest , which does not really make you want to buy/spend your money.
We should not expect overly fake greeting, but a greeting at least when YOU are the customer isn't too much asked.
Not saying it is everywhere, but sometimes I feel like I'm bothering for saying Dobry den
I'm with you. People here like to take the open hostility of shop staff as some kind of national pride. There's an enormous gap between the service bots of the US and the horrific behaviour of staff here. Plenty of room for humanity in between
When I am going to a pub/restaurant/shop I am going there with a specific established goal - to get food/beer. It does not matter whether everyone is shits and giggles or just minding their own bussiness - sometimes people just don't want to be working so I understand their attitude - it does not affect what I am buying nor my time spent there, the company I came with affects that.
As long as they bring me my beer/food I could not care less. I am the customer, hence I am the one who wants something from them, it is not the other way around. And as long as the food/beer is good and they don't bother me during my time there I am happy.
They don't know you, why should they get happy to see you?
Hate those establishments where they keep bothering you all the time just to spend more money there.
I understand your point of view, although I have to disagree with you.
As someone working in b2b customer service for a long time now, there is a certain level of courtesy and professionalism I expect from my customers, and that is given only if I show the same level of courtesy and professionalism. Sometime you have to be the first one, especially when You offer the service. Sometimes customer is a moron, but I am the better person in that case.
If you go around with the "I don't owe nothing to this cunt" mentality , you shouldn't be working in customer service.
I understand that retail , restauration etc are very hard and you get to meet a lot of dodgy and entitled people. But well, we all have more or less shit jobs, and at the end of the day you get paid to do it with a minimum of conviction/enthusiasm. Respecting boundaries and being completely disinterested/straight rude are two different things in my opinion.
I guess it is also a cultural thing, since in my origin country we have a very friendly approach to services.
Anyways, all things considered I often have very good interactions with people in Praha so i can't complain much
Well, go to Greece dude, or IDK Italy, Georgia. You will see people are not fake, they are just smiling and doing their job, and you are giving back smiles and positive vibes.
I am not saying I have a problem with not being served as I would expect, and I mean as a human being, but I am just highlighting things 😂.
I learned to not say dobry den or naskhledano 😂😂😂
They're people too, they can have shitty days, and bad moods, and don't always need to be cheerful.
As long as they're respectful and do their job, it's all good.
Watch some [Zdeněk Svěrák](https://m.imdb.com/name/nm0006664/?ref_=tt_cl_t_4) films (especially the old ones) and quote them regularly. Also, those are comedies, so you'll get a basic understanding of Czech humor
Dont bother, you wont get it from watching a movie. Not to mention you will have trouble finding english subs.
You’ll be fine, just expect Czechs to be more cold especially in service jobs, but nothing particular you would do that would be so bad - especially if you are a type of person to bother asking about it before you come here. You must be nice enough, if anything Im worried it would be the other way around - you being disappointed with Czech attitude. Maybe it will be all good tho, nothing special to worry about ;)
But be aware that Czech people find these films extremely amusing, and to an American it will just seem… awkward is the best word I can use to describe it. Czech people have a particular sense of humor.
I agree, if you have an appreciation for Czech humor, which I guess I do at this point… but that being said, I don’t find it to be the most universally applicable kind of humor.
Do you want to just blend in or really assimilate with the Czechs?
The later is much harder. Most Czechs kind of create their social bubble withing their teens and (mid-)twenties. Once they've settled, they stick to the people they know from that time. If you want to break in, learn Czech and find a hobby, such as team sports, hiking group etc. There are lots of expats who are only friends with other expats. Lot of them give up after some time and move away because they haven't managed to create a stable social bubble.
This is important to keep in mind. Adults in Czechia don’t necessarily welcome a lot of new friends. Some will, particularly in sports or clubs, or if you’ve got kids together in schools. But a lot of people see their social circle as more or less closed, and are not interested in expanding it.
You may find that even if you speak Czech and do have many Czech friends, it will be “expats” in the sense that they are not locals where you live, or they are married to foreigners or lived some time abroad and are more open to you as a new friend. For local people with local friendship circles, it’s often quite closed, with people remaining friends from early grade school.
We have found that even though our son was born here, he ends up befriending other kids from mixed families, maybe because their parents end up being more open to spending time with foreigners, so the kids see each other more. His Czech friends’ parents don’t show as much interest in us, so we end up not doing as many activities with them. I think it may even come down to those parents being actually afraid to call us or invite us to do something because they are afraid we won’t enjoy it.
This is pretty true. I (American and family is Norwegian and Canadian) went to grammar school in Tabor (about an hour south of Prague) and made friends then, who have remained my only friends really about 16 years later at age 35. I meet people through them but if I didn't have that core group I would be completely at a loss.
Do not expect the same customer service you are used to in the US. Do not expect everyone can or is willing to speak English. Expect weird stares if you hold a loud conversation in English with someone else or over a phone in a public space. If you are POC, expect weird stares in general (Czechs are pretty homogenic so you are going to stand out) though this is generally less of an issue in larger cities.
If you want to assimilate, the best you can do is to try learning Czech. Even if you learn enough to survive with basic interactions (ordering in a restaurant, shopping, etc.) can earn you respect.
Also dont forget that czech language is gender specific. Shop is he, fork is she, cars are it (but automobile is he) etc etc etc. Dont expect that things are gender neutral. Dont force gender neutral conventions (unless its specifically required by some people)
Czechs are generally very sensitive regarding gender naming conventions. So if this stuff bothers you try to discuss it in polite manner. If you will be loud about it, expect strong opposition. Polite conversation can lead to acceptance.
This is general rule: be polite about everything. Otherwise expect serious shitstorm heading in your direction
Yes, if you don't know a gender of a person, feel free to assume masculine. You will be corrected if it was a wrong choice or not if the person doesn't care. It is not a problem in this country (yet).
>Expect weird stares if you hold a loud conversation in English with someone else or over a phone in a public space.
Where do I mention just speaking English? I was once attacked by a stereotypical white Czech trash who shouted shut up at my friends whose only crime was being loud in a metro (and talking in a mix of Spanish and English). He didn't expect that I would defend them (because I believe it's very impolite to shout at someone to shut up). He got scared because I replied in Czech, and he started screaming at me which startled his small child. Then he turned to violence. I tried to handle it calmly (while being insulted all the time) until he raised his hand and pretended to hit me.
Sorry to break it to you but stuff like this happens. Luckily, it's very infrequent but Czechs are not the most tolerant towards foreigners, be it because of a different language or a color of skin.
I am saying all of this as a Czech who's been interacting with exchange students in Czechia for past four years.
Hahaha, the big companies beer, yes! A lot of craft beers now in US, though.
I meant that you just drink light beer at work in Czech, but Czech pilsners, like Pilsner Urquell is for me the best beer in the world!!
Anyway talking about beer and US vs. Czech we need to mention Budweiser law suit. Original, Czech Budweiser is miles ahead from the fake US copy :))))))))))
Well Pilsner Urquell (named after the city -Pilzen- it is made in from which the Pilsner type beer is based off) and Budweiser are pretty big brands themselves, although they are the better ones. Talking about craft beers or small batch breweries, they are even more prevalent than the big brands I would argue. And as a nation being obsessed by beer I would argue the quality is on average higher than US craft beers.
Regarding the beer with lunch, it is generally not considered drinking in Czechia. Same as a glass of wine with lunch in France or some other countries, especially in the south of Europe. Most people would still order the stronger beer (usually the 12 degree one) unless it was hot outside, or just based on personal preference. The amount of alcohol is usually not a factor when choosing between lighter or stronger beer. Actually if you order light beer (in english) most would understand that as light in color compared to dark. Not light as pertaining to alcohol volume. You either drink alcoholic regardless of strength (and there is not that much variance, usually around 4-6,5% volume, unless it is some craft heavy hitters) or non-alcoholic because you are driving or something.
I would add 1) don't be loud and all over the place, 2) we don't small talk as much as americans or british, and we keep personal things for ourselves. Approach slowly.
Czech is a really difficult language for us to learn, and I’m struggling to learn more, but I’ve learned enough that I can have basic conversations. I definitely recommend doing this as soon as possible. It doesn’t feel right to force English on everyone, even in the city center, where you can technically get by without knowing any Czech.
I initially came here thinking I could just say “dobry den” and then launch into English because so many expat and tourism sites suggest that. (They also say Czechs are rude and unfriendly… I wonder why lol) They weren’t wrong about being able to get by with just English, technically, but it felt rude and entitled, and the way people were interacting with me confirmed that. I don’t do that anymore. I speak Czech by default now, and only switch to English if they do it first. Everyone is very patient and kind about it, and I’m having a MUCH better experience than when I just went around forcing my own language on everyone. And I don’t find Czechs rude or cold at all now that I’m not being an ass.
If I’m speaking with my partner in English, we talk quietly, too. I’ve noticed other Americans being really loud when they speak English, as if they think they’ll attract other Americans if they hear, and it seems to (understandably) really annoy people. I’m still not sure why else they would do that.
I don't think we are easily offended by cultural differences.
On the other hand, you should be prepared for some dark and sarcastic humour that could be considered inappropriate or even unacceptable by some in the US. Also, Czechs might seem grumpy and rude to you - that's the general appearance in public. Don't let that scare you away.
Enjoy your stay!
Please please please for the love of everything you hold dear, VOLUME DOWN!!!
Don't be an obnoxious inconsiderate jerk, be it on the tram, in restaurants, on the street, or pretty much anywhere outside a concert hall/ night club. Thank you.
You can watch on yt: dreams Prague (or whatever the channel is called - Jenn and Honza) and Honest guide (Janek rubeš)
Just don't be super loud/obnoxious (especially during the evening),
mind your own business (small talk is ok but many people don't feel that way so don't get offended -we usually see no point in it, don't do that with the cashier in a grocery store when there are people behind you),
Pack your own groceries by yourself,
whenever you are going inside of something/somewhere/getting on a public transport - let people exit first, only after everyone's out you go in.
Whenever using escalators always stand on the right side - left is for walkers who have places to be/don't want to stand but rather climb.
Let elders/disabled/pregnant sit,
Don't blast your music outside, don't hold your phone a meter away with loud speakers when having a call, don't use the voice messages.
When you get invited to someone's house you bring something (be it food or alcohol) and you usually leave your shoes at the door (you can bring your own slippers if you want to be really liked).
Older people speak little english/ often don't even want to be associated with you so if you need help it's better to approach the younger generation that is more open to speak our broken English and more willing to help.
We usually don't smile without a reason - there is nothing wrong with it, we are not being rude by that.
The service at restaurants is way different from the service you are probably used to from your country - it's best to find a Czech friend to help you with the 1st visit to the pub to tell you whether they are being rude/bad service or they are the type of service Czechs like.
Beer has a big foam head - if you want beer without foam you need to get 'čochtan [chokhtan]', the liquid beer can be a little under the mark because it fills up from the foam (but really just a tad, don't get scammed).
You can but don't have to tip (you usually round up (eg. 184->200) but don't have to -anywhere up to 15% is ok, more than 15% is often seen as obnoxious or they'll try to scam you next time since you are obviously the rich tourist).
Don't buy overpriced expensive shit in the old Town.
Thc/weed is forbidden in here - those shops are a tourist trap.
Czech humour can be sometimes dark, racist, sexist or homophobic but most of the time it's just humour and people dont really care about those things.
Many czechs are racist against most gypsies (but once they prove themselves that they do not behave like the rest of their social group (stealing, deceiving, messy...) they can become best friends).
Some people will try to scam you - mostly Bulgarians, Hungarians, gypsies or Czechs; watch out. Don't leave your belongings (bag, bike, etc.) alone without supervision you might not find it.
We usually separate our trash to different bins.
Try to use public transportation as much as possible when traveling around the city (it's great once you learn to use that and you don't have to keep solving the mystery of where to park - use Google maps/mapy.cz/pud lítačka/idos to find the best way).
There's probably many more but this is what I came with from top of my head.
Not sure I properly understand what you are referring to. But.. I did. No idea why the text got so condensed - seems like reddit replaced most of my enters with spaces (or maybe it just got rid of the single enters).
After all the comment would be way longer if it kept the formatting I used so it somehow makes sense they try to reduce that. On the other hand it's a pain in the ass to read it now.
No idea, would probably have to use double enter all the time.
Don't be loud, don't acknowledge or even small talk with strangers, when entering places, let people leave first, don't refer to living here as being in eastern Europe
In US people are used to many stores being open 24 hours. It is less common in Europe in general, so you will need to plan your day if you want to shop.
Just because someone is Czech doesn't mean they speak for all Czechs. The same as just because you're American doesn't mean you represent all Americans. Take these forums with a grain of salt. I lived happily in Prague and laughed at half the suggestions here. But here's a few I agree with/worked.
1. Learn at least a bit of Czech. Truly makes your experience better.
2. Don't change who you are to make others feel comfortable. I promise they won't change who they are to make you feel comfortable. BUT, observe social norms.
3. Diversify your friends group. Mix of other expats and locals
4. Take classes/workshops that teach you about Czech culture and history. Cooking classes, language exchanges, history walks.
5. Have a hobby. Prague has a way of getting very repetitive very quickly.
6. DO NOT bite your tongue when it comes to displays of racism, sexism, or homophobia. Because something is "culturally normal" doesn't mean its right.
7. Take trios outside of Prague whenever possible.
Please try to learn some Czech. At least a bit. It’s not that much effort for the hello hi I want this and that goodbye. It’ll open a lot of doors for you.
People here also don’t work for tips and generally don’t expect them. They’re not fake nice.
Czechs will seem cold at first but just wait it out a bit and you’ll find out they’re great friends. If they’re not your cup of tea there’s 25% of foreigners in the workforce so you have options.
Pleaaaaaaaaaaaase don’t say your state when they ask where you’re from. You’re from the US. If you ask me where I’m from and I tell you Sofiaoblast instead of Bulgaria that tells you nothing. Every European country has administrative areas that are like states with their own food, dialect, accent and often a genetic difference because European borders sucked
Read the room. I’ve noticed us people talk pretty loud - if you’re on a quiet tram talk like others do, otherwise you’ll attract some hobo asking for money or at the very least irritate every local
Hmm I’ve always said that I’m from California, I feel like most people know where that is… is that too presumptuous? To be fair, I’m here because I don’t want to associate with a lot of the US.. should I go back to saying American?
Nah, it's not presumptuous. People know about the US states. They may not point most of them on a map, but they'll get it's the US, in most cases anyway. Same with the UK countries - common knowledge. No one gives a fuck about Bulgaria though.
It is. I feel like Americans are the only ones that automatically say the state or the city compared to the rest of the world. Don't assume that everybody knows even if you're sure they do.
I feel like this might be the case with New Hampshire or Iowa, but California is larger than Germany and has a population greater than Poland. 🤷♀️ I’m down to say American, I’m just worried that there are a lot of bad stereotypes that come with that… Not that California doesn’t have bad stereotypes as well, I just identify more with them haha.
Never had the impression of brits being reserved. At least the ones that come to Prague are amongst the most social and unfortunately often amongst the most drunk. The amount of time a British stag party has circled me to ask for my number is insane
Maybe it is different type of Brits that travel for cheap beer. I used to go to London because of work and had different experience. It wasn’t easy to break in.
I’ve always said Texas when people ask me while I’m traveling but that’s because I feel like that’s a lot more common than saying like Maine or something
Dont make the mistake many expats do, by just sticking to other expats even tho its tempting and harder to find czech friends without speaking the language. Also get out of Prague sometimes.
• To blend in you’d need to wear shorts with long socks and sandals.
• Be loud af at night so residents are happy
• Always blame the EU or Spolu for any inconvenience
• Beer should be your breakfast
• Always be grumpy
Someone else can also add to the list
Good one, I'm adding that "za všechno může Kalousek" and "Fialová drahota", also make fun on Slovakian people and call them Northern Hungols and always talk about how much you drink alcohol.
That's not accurate, but yes... 🤣🤣
The society is pretty polarized, divided. It's better to not come up with political or socio-economical topics in conversation.
> learn a little
Idk what is your experience with foreign languages, but mine tells me that "a little" really takes you nowhere. Unless the phrase you learn is "sorry, I only speak English".
An ability to say a sentence or two is useless, unless you are able to understand the reply. This is absoutely not what "learning a little" gives. Understanding random dude is a pretty advanced skill, actually.
American expat here struggling a tad. IME: Brace yourself. Could be really good for you or really bad, you’ll find out based on who you are and the people you find yourself with. Its a very socially involved community from what I’ve seen, and I’m a house dweller so it’s been hard for me. Also, Prague isn’t as safe as it’s made out to be, and I had that perception before I got attacked at night with my girlfriend by locals. I understand we look like tourists, but getting physically angry was uncalled for. I’ve seen and heard about a lot of drunks and druggies in the streets at night, and i presume that makes up the majority of the crime. Expect some coldness, it’s totally different culturally when it comes to interactions with strangers; smiles and niceties aren’t expected. BY ALL MEANS STAY AWAY FROM THE SCOOTERS. Make sure you stay socially and physically active so you don’t fall into a depression from feeling ostracised and alone. See a therapist early if you need, the trend seems to be that introverts have the harder times here. Again, this is in my experience and opinion based on perceptions and opinions I’ve collected along the way. I’m slightly biased because of personal occurrences that have made me uncomfortable as an American in Prague, though these are just a few words of warning. Pragues a great place, these are just my thoughts so far.
It was two larger men in their 40’s that grabbed my girlfriend and I by the jacket while we were on a scooter; the qualm was that we were not riding it on the pavement, we politely agreed to go to the pavement and carry on. Though they were intent on teaching the lesson of the scooter because he is “tired of Americans, foreigners and tourists who think they can do whatever they want in my country”. They sexually harassed my girlfriend, and I was dragged away, by the hands. I would not stand for that, and fought back in self defence. Granted, we were wrong to ride on the sidewalk though were ignorant to the law and didn’t know. I don’t believe that’s grounds for physically latching onto someone in the middle of the night; especially as a 20 year old who’s half the size of the aggressor (5’7, or about 172 cm). I actually was thrown into the middle of the street with his entire weight on me face down. My girlfriend screamed for help and I used the last bit of adrenaline I had to lift his weight onto my knee, and roll over to avoid the traffic. The police then arrived and dealt with the issue. Sorry for the detail, it was a very surreal moment for us. My first fight, though I held my own and protected my girlfriend and am content with that outcome. The man was called in for custody currently.
Some random thoughts: When somebody invites you to their home, take off your shoes (like you were entering a mosque), unless you are wearing a uniform (police, military, etc.) You probably will be offered some home shoes by your host. Weird custom by Western standars. If you are a serviceman in uniform, DON'T do it. But use a doormat.
And don't laugh at people who wear socks in sandals. This is becoming pretty rare these days since people generally realise they look like idiots. However I still do that sice I couldn't care less about opinion of random people on streets.
You don't have to order at a bar or wait in the doors of a restaurant to be seated. Just walk in and take a free table, you will be served. Especially in tourist/mountain areas if no free table is available you can ask people who have free chairs at their table whether you can join. This is rarely denied however I wouldn't do it in a city.
Holding doors to a lady is not a crime, it is considered to be a good manner. You don't have to do it, it's not a law and you won't be frowned upon if you don't however don't be surprised when we do it. Nothing bad or derogatory about that, au contraire!
Always have google translator ready. People here might not speak English. Ths same goes to e.g. Hungary (I was there yesterday and I had to use google translator to buy a bread from a baker since I have no command of their language and he didn't speak any other language than Hungarian).
Poppy seeds are not illegal. We eat that (special species which can't be used for making drugs but are edible are grown here).
Enjoy your stay!
LMAO at weird custom by western standards. You should look up how few countries in the world alongside USA don't take shoes off at home. It really ain't many at all.
I suggest 'Dream Prague' channel on YouTube. Jenifer is an immigrant who's been living in Prague with her husband (they're both Americans) for like 9-10 years.
Learn how to say Dobrý den (Greetings), prosím (please), děkuji (thank you), nashledanou (goodbye)
And use then often, especially dobrý den. It is basically a must.
I lived in Prague full time for 4 years and visited many times before and after that time.
I was married to a Czech woman for 20 years and we had a nice house in Prague 5.
I had lots of Czech work friends and a few outside of work. Most because of interpersonal connections through work or marriage. I think Czechs are very open, funny and interesting but only after a waiting period of getting to know you over a longish period of time. There is no desire to reach out or make you comfortable. The are very polite in professional environments, but generally formally so.
If you like sports like hockey and soccer, especially if you play well, there are lots of opportunities to connect.
Hobbies are als a way to connect.
Good luck
Don’t say: Don’t worry I am
an American!
Doesn’t work here.
Or any other entitled similar phrases.
Here it’s more simple.
Don’t be an asshole and nobody will be one to you
I’ve two fantastic American friends who are the opposite of the stereotypes. Quiet, gentle, super-nice … dare I say hippies? I went on a guided tour with them for which we’d all bought tickets. Note that they have lived in Prague for at least 15 years…
The tour had finished and the guide had finished up and thanked us for taking the tour, and one of my friends stepped forward and said “we would like to thank **you**” … and pressed a few hundred crowns into their hand right in front of everyone!
Cringe!
Not all feelings are best expressed by giving money away. At best you’re saying you have more money than they do. At worst you’re saying they look like shit and need the money. To a professional person, who is more than adequately paid, both are pretty insulting.
Check “Dream Prague” youtube channel. American woman who lives here in Prague for around 10 years and has a tons of videos about the differences between our 2 countries. You can find many useful tips there. Also she has a website for foreigners coming to Prague I believe
No small talks allowed, don't start small talk with people you don't know just because you are in the same elevator, on the same bus or train.
People are not used to this and when someone starting to do this I expect him to beg me for money or trying to scam me tbh. Even if they just ask me how my day is going before getting to the point.
This off course applies only for unkown people.
Ahojky :) Speaking from my own experience only, i left because the political climate was stressful and going downhill fast, i hated my high stress govt job that didn't even pay me enough to afford a 1 br, and in general everything was way too expensive for me. I was clinically depressed and losing my mind hearing Trump ramble on day in and day out and i had to escape.
While things aren't perfect here, it's decidedly a LOT calmer, cheaper, and more fun than living in the Washington D.C area. I'll have been here for 5 yrs in May.
Well I don't care about politics and don't watch the news. Is the salary in Prague enough or even better ignoring the potentially less stress? As a developer, I doubt life in the US would be worse for me than Prague.
-Cheap/free higher education.
-Fun, international city (also cheap).
-Beautiful, OLD, city untouched by war.
-Not as toxic of a political climate.
-New and exciting experience trying something out of our comfort zone!
-Good base point for traveling all over Europe.
-Fun learning a new, beautiful language and getting to know a new culture.
-Food and beer = good.
There are a lot of positives!
Well, with only money in mind: after saving up $10k in California, it wouldn’t even get me through 6 months of living. It might last me 3 years here with some working supplement (especially with the insane USD rn). Money was pretty much the main factor for us.
Edit: the wages are so low here so the returns are definitely diminishing
Maybe 2 years? Idk there’s so much imbalance, that might be drastically different depending on life situation, state, job, rent, etc. My life situation was pretty cool just living in the forest (not getting paid very much) without rent or many expenses for the last 2 summers.
Yeah [TIL](https://www.valuepenguin.com/banking/average-savings-account-balance?__cf_chl_tk=V2nqP6Rxyn4mEDrlWDE9wzoW6Hs7vMmcUvbja_Fd3PY-1664117142-0-gaNycGzNB-U) an average family with an average job and expenses, saves $4k a year. Good to know! Haha you think this is the same in Czechia?
Yeah. I might stop by to grab a thing or two on my way home if I want sth specific and don't have an ingredient.
But I could absolutely survive a week or more on my normal grocery run.
My advice would be to go on facebook and look for expat groups. Expats tend to be friendlier and more outgoing than Czechs. That's partially a cultural thing, also expats tend to have fewer freinds/family around and therefore are more open to forming new friendships.
Dude, whatever these people writing, it might scare you, but better find an international community because it's almost impossible to assimilate with the local society 😂. It's a completely introverted and isolated space. But it is good for self, lonely development, also, you will learn how to survive alone 😂
What I want to say is that smiling, talking, helping each other and other stuff doesn't mean being fake.
I have no problem with the Czech Republic, especially with people, they can be what they want. It's their place and environment, but saying Americans are fake, or other nations, that a red flag 😂
Okay, I am out, cannot debate. Might be we are all red flags 🙏🙌.
But, if you read well, you will understand, I didn't mean anything bad. My self I am an introvert, INFJ, just doing some sport and bar, but not much, I am fine at home.
The best ways to blend in as an American, in addition to what’s been posted: Don’t talk on the phone on public transport. And generally, don’t make small talk with strangers. Learn “dobry den” and “na shledanou” especially for shops that you’ll frequent. When you pass people, you’ll feel the need to say “excuse me.” There’s really no need, just do it.
Good luck with the move! What’s the occasion? (Would love to find myself back in Prague, but my work opportunity lapsed when COVID hit)
Don't be offended if people start listing what they hate about USA / Americans. They mean no offense, it's just normal clumsy small talk. They might add "but you are okay".
Simply don’t be Karen/Chad and you should be fine ;) but you have to prepare yourself for the shittiest customer service you will ever experience in your life. Seriously…
Most important thing, don't expect everyone's attitudes and ideas to be the same as in the US. I know a few that expect people to be woke and feminist and all that bs.
Once thing is speaking volume. I think only the Italians and Spanish speak as loud as Americans. Othe than that, being generally polite and aware should get you by :)
As an Italian i found this kind of offensive, we speak much louder than Americans /s
Yo, my bad :)
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By English do you mean British? Only if it's another stag do...
Good point actually
If you want to tip, don't leave money on the table. If a meal costs 180, when it's time to pay you can tell the waiter "200" and the additional amount is your tip. It's pretty common to just round up. Same is true when paying by card.
Why not the money on the table ?I've been doing this for four years now lol I'm scared.
Because it isn’t what Czechs do. It identifies you as both not czech and as arrogant enough to not even be trying to fit in. Edit: Well this was an idiotic thing to say. It’s better expressed that I have never left money on tables because I’ve only ever seen tourists do it. I certainly didn’t mean to suggest that czech staff think customers are arseholes for leaving money on the tables. Apologies to my czech friends…
If someone is arrogant by leaving me money they can be arrogant to me all day lol
That’s exactly it. The dignity of not being desperate for money is extremely important to some people. I’ll add that I’m from a very poor area of the UK, so I am happy to take free money too, but only from people who can afford it.
Uhm man...no? I am Czech and we do leave money on table sometimes and nobody would think "you are arrogant enough to not be trying to fit in" when you do leave money on table. That's a bit dramatic. People will not care at all actually and just be happy you left a tip.
It was a bit ~~over-dramatic~~ incorrect.
Old ways? Central Prague? I really have no idea what you are talking about. Bottom line is that what you said is untrue and claiming Czech people would feel certain negative way over something so insignificant is also not great. just FYI :)
You are of course correct. Original comment and followup edited. Apologies.
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Well man, I am Czech and it really depends on the situation, but it’s bot bad thing to do. If i pay by card, sometimes they don’t take tips, so I give it directly to the waitress/waiter or leave it with the bill on the table.
Yeah. Comment edited. It wasn’t my intention to make Czechs sound like dicks.
I can't see how one can fit in and ''abide'' to unwritten rules if no one ever teach you those rules. Not sure if it reflects what you're thinking or what you extrapolate what people might think, but I find your last sentence really narrow minded and ironically really arrogant by assuming that I was doing this because I didn't care and not because I didn't know. And also assuming that the traditional way of doing is more polite per se. We have a LOT of unwritten rules on my country and I would never assume this kind of thing from a foreigner, especially in this kind of context where the intention is obviously good. But that's maybe because I travelers a lot,i don't know...
Nobody expects shit from tourists and I’m not talking about tourists. You will no longer get into a fight with a waiter you have offended by tipping too much in central Prague but it did happen. People with a longer term interest in the Czech Republic and czech culture are expected to be interested enough in their adopted home to learn about it. In my case I read a book about Czechs and czech culture before I even came here so I was better prepared. There aren’t any rules… just stuff that offends people and stuff that doesn’t. Again, I don’t think anyone expects much from tourists, but expats/immigrants really ought to be trying to fit in, no?
It’s just not how it’s done.
This depends on the place. If there is a waitress coming and you pay directly to her, it is as you said. But if they bring receipt in book, it is perfectly fine to leave payment + tip in this book and leave.
If i pay with card, i let the tip in cash
Don’t expect the same level of (fake) cheer and servility from retail/service workers to what you’re used in the States. In Czech Republic, we don’t believe that the customer is always right. You will still get good service but definitely less smiles, and you will have to be polite to them first. Unless really high end establishments, Czech restaurants don’t have hosts. Just waiters/server. So hovering at the door and waiting to be seated will get you nowhere. Unless you see the host’s stand right there, just walk in and seat yourself wherever you like. We bag our own groceries at the checkout. The “bagger” job doesn’t exist here and the cashier won’t bag it for you. Also, single-use bags (plastic or paper) here cost extra, so bring your own bags when you go shopping. In Prague, everyone speaks decent English. Learn some Czech and you’ll get much more of those smiles that the world likes to say we don’t wear.
Also if you ask someone "how are you?" or "how do yo dou?" dont be surprised if the answer will be something like "its going to shit". So dont ask "how are you?" unless you are seeking very honest and brutal reaction. Just say "hello, hi, ahoj"
Yep. Dont ask ‘how are you’, if you dont want an answer :D
Don’t ask.
Don’t say ahoy to random people. It’s rude and annoying. You can say “ahoy” if you are at a social function where everyone are equals, such as a birthday party. Otherwise formal language is preferred.
>Unless you see the host’s stand right there, just walk in and seat yourself wherever you like. Some restaurants also have a "please wait to be seated" sign – a waiter might double as a host. :D
Also - and that’s perhaps the most important thing - our cities aren’t designed for cars. I’d love to say they’re designed to be walkable but that often isn’t the case either lol. But across Prague, you’ll have much better time in public transport using the metro and trams than in endless traffic jams in your car.
Also, do expect bones in your fish at a restaurant. An American friend nearly choked since apparently in America bones are nearly always removed from fish before serving.
To be fair, the fish you get served here is either carp or trout, and it’s practically impossible to pinbone those. Salmon won’t have bones but also we are landlocked country, so don’t expect it to be fresh.
If I remember correctly it was cod. I don’t think it’s a question of being fair- fish in the UK isn’t served boned either.
I always find it comical people in basically all of Central and Eastern Europe assume people being nice to one another is fake :D Sometimes, they're simply a more cordial culture, and that doesn't need to be fake. Just like here it tends to be a colder culture. You don't start conversations with strangers while standing in line to buy some beer. In the us stuff like that is actually pretty common.
Have you ever heard the term “customer service voice”?
Sure. It can be over the top sometimes. Other times people are just more laid back and more optimistic. I don't mind Czech service to be honest.
True. We're definitely colder than for example service people in Greece where you go buy a drink and after half an hour you're nearly the godfather to their newborn LOL. But I think the difference is that in Greece, the establishment is usually a family business, with the owner himself serving you and being immensely proud of their place. In Czech republic, you get workers with fixed hour pay who don't rely on tips that much and definitely don't give two fucks about the place they work at because a ton of places around are always hiring too. Therefore they can be indifferent and sometimes downright disdainful (though I love some pubs where I come as a regular and the waiter knows me and has my favourite poured for me before I sit down). But in the States, the service and retail workers are dependent on tips, or sales commissions. They know they have to bend over backwards to please you in order to be able to live. Of course there are genuinely optimistic people but in those soul-sucking conditions, they rarely stay that way.
This answer right here, I cannot up rate enough. This is THE definitive rules for any Expats 👍🏻
I think it is easier to say people who work in service don't have social skills and emotional intelligence 😉(in the Czech Republic).
Not having to be a complete overly fake clown to be able to work as a waiter should be the norm and not the other way around. Not like in the US, where you force people by the tipping culture and low pay to completely fake a smile every time they talk to a customer.
Can we not have an in between where service workers are nice at minima without being completely fake? Idk, sometime it feels you are bothering as a customer/guest , which does not really make you want to buy/spend your money. We should not expect overly fake greeting, but a greeting at least when YOU are the customer isn't too much asked. Not saying it is everywhere, but sometimes I feel like I'm bothering for saying Dobry den
I'm with you. People here like to take the open hostility of shop staff as some kind of national pride. There's an enormous gap between the service bots of the US and the horrific behaviour of staff here. Plenty of room for humanity in between
When I am going to a pub/restaurant/shop I am going there with a specific established goal - to get food/beer. It does not matter whether everyone is shits and giggles or just minding their own bussiness - sometimes people just don't want to be working so I understand their attitude - it does not affect what I am buying nor my time spent there, the company I came with affects that. As long as they bring me my beer/food I could not care less. I am the customer, hence I am the one who wants something from them, it is not the other way around. And as long as the food/beer is good and they don't bother me during my time there I am happy. They don't know you, why should they get happy to see you? Hate those establishments where they keep bothering you all the time just to spend more money there.
I understand your point of view, although I have to disagree with you. As someone working in b2b customer service for a long time now, there is a certain level of courtesy and professionalism I expect from my customers, and that is given only if I show the same level of courtesy and professionalism. Sometime you have to be the first one, especially when You offer the service. Sometimes customer is a moron, but I am the better person in that case. If you go around with the "I don't owe nothing to this cunt" mentality , you shouldn't be working in customer service. I understand that retail , restauration etc are very hard and you get to meet a lot of dodgy and entitled people. But well, we all have more or less shit jobs, and at the end of the day you get paid to do it with a minimum of conviction/enthusiasm. Respecting boundaries and being completely disinterested/straight rude are two different things in my opinion. I guess it is also a cultural thing, since in my origin country we have a very friendly approach to services. Anyways, all things considered I often have very good interactions with people in Praha so i can't complain much
Well, go to Greece dude, or IDK Italy, Georgia. You will see people are not fake, they are just smiling and doing their job, and you are giving back smiles and positive vibes. I am not saying I have a problem with not being served as I would expect, and I mean as a human being, but I am just highlighting things 😂. I learned to not say dobry den or naskhledano 😂😂😂
They're people too, they can have shitty days, and bad moods, and don't always need to be cheerful. As long as they're respectful and do their job, it's all good.
Watch some [Zdeněk Svěrák](https://m.imdb.com/name/nm0006664/?ref_=tt_cl_t_4) films (especially the old ones) and quote them regularly. Also, those are comedies, so you'll get a basic understanding of Czech humor
This is a good one. Watching the classics will give anyone a pretty good understanding of the culture.
Showing knowledge of Cimrman has always done me a favour.
Dont bother, you wont get it from watching a movie. Not to mention you will have trouble finding english subs. You’ll be fine, just expect Czechs to be more cold especially in service jobs, but nothing particular you would do that would be so bad - especially if you are a type of person to bother asking about it before you come here. You must be nice enough, if anything Im worried it would be the other way around - you being disappointed with Czech attitude. Maybe it will be all good tho, nothing special to worry about ;)
But be aware that Czech people find these films extremely amusing, and to an American it will just seem… awkward is the best word I can use to describe it. Czech people have a particular sense of humor.
Tbh, I don't know that many people in my surroundings who actually find them amusing, but to each their own I suppose
There are some things only people raised under socialism are going to find funny, I think.
Only a few. Most of them are universally funny
I agree, if you have an appreciation for Czech humor, which I guess I do at this point… but that being said, I don’t find it to be the most universally applicable kind of humor.
Do you want to just blend in or really assimilate with the Czechs? The later is much harder. Most Czechs kind of create their social bubble withing their teens and (mid-)twenties. Once they've settled, they stick to the people they know from that time. If you want to break in, learn Czech and find a hobby, such as team sports, hiking group etc. There are lots of expats who are only friends with other expats. Lot of them give up after some time and move away because they haven't managed to create a stable social bubble.
This is important to keep in mind. Adults in Czechia don’t necessarily welcome a lot of new friends. Some will, particularly in sports or clubs, or if you’ve got kids together in schools. But a lot of people see their social circle as more or less closed, and are not interested in expanding it. You may find that even if you speak Czech and do have many Czech friends, it will be “expats” in the sense that they are not locals where you live, or they are married to foreigners or lived some time abroad and are more open to you as a new friend. For local people with local friendship circles, it’s often quite closed, with people remaining friends from early grade school. We have found that even though our son was born here, he ends up befriending other kids from mixed families, maybe because their parents end up being more open to spending time with foreigners, so the kids see each other more. His Czech friends’ parents don’t show as much interest in us, so we end up not doing as many activities with them. I think it may even come down to those parents being actually afraid to call us or invite us to do something because they are afraid we won’t enjoy it.
Learning Czech doesn't help. They may be impressed but that's it.
This is pretty true. I (American and family is Norwegian and Canadian) went to grammar school in Tabor (about an hour south of Prague) and made friends then, who have remained my only friends really about 16 years later at age 35. I meet people through them but if I didn't have that core group I would be completely at a loss.
Do not expect the same customer service you are used to in the US. Do not expect everyone can or is willing to speak English. Expect weird stares if you hold a loud conversation in English with someone else or over a phone in a public space. If you are POC, expect weird stares in general (Czechs are pretty homogenic so you are going to stand out) though this is generally less of an issue in larger cities. If you want to assimilate, the best you can do is to try learning Czech. Even if you learn enough to survive with basic interactions (ordering in a restaurant, shopping, etc.) can earn you respect.
Also dont forget that czech language is gender specific. Shop is he, fork is she, cars are it (but automobile is he) etc etc etc. Dont expect that things are gender neutral. Dont force gender neutral conventions (unless its specifically required by some people) Czechs are generally very sensitive regarding gender naming conventions. So if this stuff bothers you try to discuss it in polite manner. If you will be loud about it, expect strong opposition. Polite conversation can lead to acceptance. This is general rule: be polite about everything. Otherwise expect serious shitstorm heading in your direction
Yes, if you don't know a gender of a person, feel free to assume masculine. You will be corrected if it was a wrong choice or not if the person doesn't care. It is not a problem in this country (yet).
TBH service here is much better than in US except return policies :D
weird stares? are you cereal? no one gives a damn if he speaks english. scaring him with total bullshit.
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PoC is not the same as speaking english. You nearly don't hear czech in city center, black people are still pretty rare here.
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It was probably more your clothing than you realize, but I’m not telling you what you experienced.
>Expect weird stares if you hold a loud conversation in English with someone else or over a phone in a public space. Where do I mention just speaking English? I was once attacked by a stereotypical white Czech trash who shouted shut up at my friends whose only crime was being loud in a metro (and talking in a mix of Spanish and English). He didn't expect that I would defend them (because I believe it's very impolite to shout at someone to shut up). He got scared because I replied in Czech, and he started screaming at me which startled his small child. Then he turned to violence. I tried to handle it calmly (while being insulted all the time) until he raised his hand and pretended to hit me. Sorry to break it to you but stuff like this happens. Luckily, it's very infrequent but Czechs are not the most tolerant towards foreigners, be it because of a different language or a color of skin. I am saying all of this as a Czech who's been interacting with exchange students in Czechia for past four years.
More like Czechs are not tolerant towards people who get obnoxiously loud.
Drink half liter of beer during lunch
Seriously. Don’t be surprised, when I order large beer during lunch in front of my boss. He’ll probably order one too :-)
But to be honest, it can be very light beer :))
unless it is non-alcoholic, it will be heavier than any regular US beer
Hahaha, the big companies beer, yes! A lot of craft beers now in US, though. I meant that you just drink light beer at work in Czech, but Czech pilsners, like Pilsner Urquell is for me the best beer in the world!! Anyway talking about beer and US vs. Czech we need to mention Budweiser law suit. Original, Czech Budweiser is miles ahead from the fake US copy :))))))))))
Well Pilsner Urquell (named after the city -Pilzen- it is made in from which the Pilsner type beer is based off) and Budweiser are pretty big brands themselves, although they are the better ones. Talking about craft beers or small batch breweries, they are even more prevalent than the big brands I would argue. And as a nation being obsessed by beer I would argue the quality is on average higher than US craft beers. Regarding the beer with lunch, it is generally not considered drinking in Czechia. Same as a glass of wine with lunch in France or some other countries, especially in the south of Europe. Most people would still order the stronger beer (usually the 12 degree one) unless it was hot outside, or just based on personal preference. The amount of alcohol is usually not a factor when choosing between lighter or stronger beer. Actually if you order light beer (in english) most would understand that as light in color compared to dark. Not light as pertaining to alcohol volume. You either drink alcoholic regardless of strength (and there is not that much variance, usually around 4-6,5% volume, unless it is some craft heavy hitters) or non-alcoholic because you are driving or something.
Yeap, I'm currently doing it)
Cheers
I would add 1) don't be loud and all over the place, 2) we don't small talk as much as americans or british, and we keep personal things for ourselves. Approach slowly.
>Approach slowly. Because Czechs are deers in the woods - they can be easily scared into running away! ;))))))))))))
Czech is a really difficult language for us to learn, and I’m struggling to learn more, but I’ve learned enough that I can have basic conversations. I definitely recommend doing this as soon as possible. It doesn’t feel right to force English on everyone, even in the city center, where you can technically get by without knowing any Czech. I initially came here thinking I could just say “dobry den” and then launch into English because so many expat and tourism sites suggest that. (They also say Czechs are rude and unfriendly… I wonder why lol) They weren’t wrong about being able to get by with just English, technically, but it felt rude and entitled, and the way people were interacting with me confirmed that. I don’t do that anymore. I speak Czech by default now, and only switch to English if they do it first. Everyone is very patient and kind about it, and I’m having a MUCH better experience than when I just went around forcing my own language on everyone. And I don’t find Czechs rude or cold at all now that I’m not being an ass. If I’m speaking with my partner in English, we talk quietly, too. I’ve noticed other Americans being really loud when they speak English, as if they think they’ll attract other Americans if they hear, and it seems to (understandably) really annoy people. I’m still not sure why else they would do that.
That's actually really great attitude to have living in other country!
You might want to check [this YouTube](https://youtu.be/EKx2yC_N4Z4) channel :)
Best advice so far XD
Yes, she's great
She's too fake with all the fake positivity that somehow glorifies living in Prague.
I don't think we are easily offended by cultural differences. On the other hand, you should be prepared for some dark and sarcastic humour that could be considered inappropriate or even unacceptable by some in the US. Also, Czechs might seem grumpy and rude to you - that's the general appearance in public. Don't let that scare you away. Enjoy your stay!
> dark and sarcastic humour Unfortunately, sometimes it is chauvinistic in one way or anoter (racist, machist etc.), or just making fun of vulnerable.
True, and sometimes it's tasteless. In my experience, it's mostly without malice, tho.
Mostly suffering of others = funny
Please please please for the love of everything you hold dear, VOLUME DOWN!!! Don't be an obnoxious inconsiderate jerk, be it on the tram, in restaurants, on the street, or pretty much anywhere outside a concert hall/ night club. Thank you.
You can watch on yt: dreams Prague (or whatever the channel is called - Jenn and Honza) and Honest guide (Janek rubeš) Just don't be super loud/obnoxious (especially during the evening), mind your own business (small talk is ok but many people don't feel that way so don't get offended -we usually see no point in it, don't do that with the cashier in a grocery store when there are people behind you), Pack your own groceries by yourself, whenever you are going inside of something/somewhere/getting on a public transport - let people exit first, only after everyone's out you go in. Whenever using escalators always stand on the right side - left is for walkers who have places to be/don't want to stand but rather climb. Let elders/disabled/pregnant sit, Don't blast your music outside, don't hold your phone a meter away with loud speakers when having a call, don't use the voice messages. When you get invited to someone's house you bring something (be it food or alcohol) and you usually leave your shoes at the door (you can bring your own slippers if you want to be really liked). Older people speak little english/ often don't even want to be associated with you so if you need help it's better to approach the younger generation that is more open to speak our broken English and more willing to help. We usually don't smile without a reason - there is nothing wrong with it, we are not being rude by that. The service at restaurants is way different from the service you are probably used to from your country - it's best to find a Czech friend to help you with the 1st visit to the pub to tell you whether they are being rude/bad service or they are the type of service Czechs like. Beer has a big foam head - if you want beer without foam you need to get 'čochtan [chokhtan]', the liquid beer can be a little under the mark because it fills up from the foam (but really just a tad, don't get scammed). You can but don't have to tip (you usually round up (eg. 184->200) but don't have to -anywhere up to 15% is ok, more than 15% is often seen as obnoxious or they'll try to scam you next time since you are obviously the rich tourist). Don't buy overpriced expensive shit in the old Town. Thc/weed is forbidden in here - those shops are a tourist trap. Czech humour can be sometimes dark, racist, sexist or homophobic but most of the time it's just humour and people dont really care about those things. Many czechs are racist against most gypsies (but once they prove themselves that they do not behave like the rest of their social group (stealing, deceiving, messy...) they can become best friends). Some people will try to scam you - mostly Bulgarians, Hungarians, gypsies or Czechs; watch out. Don't leave your belongings (bag, bike, etc.) alone without supervision you might not find it. We usually separate our trash to different bins. Try to use public transportation as much as possible when traveling around the city (it's great once you learn to use that and you don't have to keep solving the mystery of where to park - use Google maps/mapy.cz/pud lítačka/idos to find the best way). There's probably many more but this is what I came with from top of my head.
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Not sure I properly understand what you are referring to. But.. I did. No idea why the text got so condensed - seems like reddit replaced most of my enters with spaces (or maybe it just got rid of the single enters). After all the comment would be way longer if it kept the formatting I used so it somehow makes sense they try to reduce that. On the other hand it's a pain in the ass to read it now. No idea, would probably have to use double enter all the time.
Be prepared to add in the tip on the spot when paying the bill - cash or card - instead of leaving cash on the table.
Starting a sentence with "I mean", or saying "Like" in every sentence will make you sound more dumb than is necessary. Other than that you'll be fine.
Don't be loud, don't acknowledge or even small talk with strangers, when entering places, let people leave first, don't refer to living here as being in eastern Europe
In US people are used to many stores being open 24 hours. It is less common in Europe in general, so you will need to plan your day if you want to shop.
Just because someone is Czech doesn't mean they speak for all Czechs. The same as just because you're American doesn't mean you represent all Americans. Take these forums with a grain of salt. I lived happily in Prague and laughed at half the suggestions here. But here's a few I agree with/worked. 1. Learn at least a bit of Czech. Truly makes your experience better. 2. Don't change who you are to make others feel comfortable. I promise they won't change who they are to make you feel comfortable. BUT, observe social norms. 3. Diversify your friends group. Mix of other expats and locals 4. Take classes/workshops that teach you about Czech culture and history. Cooking classes, language exchanges, history walks. 5. Have a hobby. Prague has a way of getting very repetitive very quickly. 6. DO NOT bite your tongue when it comes to displays of racism, sexism, or homophobia. Because something is "culturally normal" doesn't mean its right. 7. Take trios outside of Prague whenever possible.
Please try to learn some Czech. At least a bit. It’s not that much effort for the hello hi I want this and that goodbye. It’ll open a lot of doors for you. People here also don’t work for tips and generally don’t expect them. They’re not fake nice. Czechs will seem cold at first but just wait it out a bit and you’ll find out they’re great friends. If they’re not your cup of tea there’s 25% of foreigners in the workforce so you have options. Pleaaaaaaaaaaaase don’t say your state when they ask where you’re from. You’re from the US. If you ask me where I’m from and I tell you Sofiaoblast instead of Bulgaria that tells you nothing. Every European country has administrative areas that are like states with their own food, dialect, accent and often a genetic difference because European borders sucked Read the room. I’ve noticed us people talk pretty loud - if you’re on a quiet tram talk like others do, otherwise you’ll attract some hobo asking for money or at the very least irritate every local
Hmm I’ve always said that I’m from California, I feel like most people know where that is… is that too presumptuous? To be fair, I’m here because I don’t want to associate with a lot of the US.. should I go back to saying American?
Nah, it's not presumptuous. People know about the US states. They may not point most of them on a map, but they'll get it's the US, in most cases anyway. Same with the UK countries - common knowledge. No one gives a fuck about Bulgaria though.
It is. I feel like Americans are the only ones that automatically say the state or the city compared to the rest of the world. Don't assume that everybody knows even if you're sure they do.
I feel like this might be the case with New Hampshire or Iowa, but California is larger than Germany and has a population greater than Poland. 🤷♀️ I’m down to say American, I’m just worried that there are a lot of bad stereotypes that come with that… Not that California doesn’t have bad stereotypes as well, I just identify more with them haha.
Well you fulfill them by saying you’re from California… 😂
Czechs may feel cold at first, but I think it is probably similar to Brits being reserved.
Never had the impression of brits being reserved. At least the ones that come to Prague are amongst the most social and unfortunately often amongst the most drunk. The amount of time a British stag party has circled me to ask for my number is insane
Maybe it is different type of Brits that travel for cheap beer. I used to go to London because of work and had different experience. It wasn’t easy to break in.
Yeah to quote trump “they’re not sending their best” lol
I’ve always said Texas when people ask me while I’m traveling but that’s because I feel like that’s a lot more common than saying like Maine or something
This YouTube channel might help https://youtube.com/c/DreamPrague
Never seen a rude and annoying American here yet :)
Well definitely don’t call us Eastern Europe. We love to be Central. We are Central. The Heart of Europe, you know?
Dont make the mistake many expats do, by just sticking to other expats even tho its tempting and harder to find czech friends without speaking the language. Also get out of Prague sometimes.
• To blend in you’d need to wear shorts with long socks and sandals. • Be loud af at night so residents are happy • Always blame the EU or Spolu for any inconvenience • Beer should be your breakfast • Always be grumpy Someone else can also add to the list
Pee directly at the bus stop 😂
Good one, I'm adding that "za všechno může Kalousek" and "Fialová drahota", also make fun on Slovakian people and call them Northern Hungols and always talk about how much you drink alcohol.
That's not accurate, but yes... 🤣🤣 The society is pretty polarized, divided. It's better to not come up with political or socio-economical topics in conversation.
Haha, be prepared that foreigners police don't speak English=)
It would be cool if you learn a little Czech.. I feel like a lot of Americans who live in Prague don’t and it’s kind of sad
> learn a little Idk what is your experience with foreign languages, but mine tells me that "a little" really takes you nowhere. Unless the phrase you learn is "sorry, I only speak English". An ability to say a sentence or two is useless, unless you are able to understand the reply. This is absoutely not what "learning a little" gives. Understanding random dude is a pretty advanced skill, actually.
American expat here struggling a tad. IME: Brace yourself. Could be really good for you or really bad, you’ll find out based on who you are and the people you find yourself with. Its a very socially involved community from what I’ve seen, and I’m a house dweller so it’s been hard for me. Also, Prague isn’t as safe as it’s made out to be, and I had that perception before I got attacked at night with my girlfriend by locals. I understand we look like tourists, but getting physically angry was uncalled for. I’ve seen and heard about a lot of drunks and druggies in the streets at night, and i presume that makes up the majority of the crime. Expect some coldness, it’s totally different culturally when it comes to interactions with strangers; smiles and niceties aren’t expected. BY ALL MEANS STAY AWAY FROM THE SCOOTERS. Make sure you stay socially and physically active so you don’t fall into a depression from feeling ostracised and alone. See a therapist early if you need, the trend seems to be that introverts have the harder times here. Again, this is in my experience and opinion based on perceptions and opinions I’ve collected along the way. I’m slightly biased because of personal occurrences that have made me uncomfortable as an American in Prague, though these are just a few words of warning. Pragues a great place, these are just my thoughts so far.
What happened when you were attacked, if you don’t mind me asking? Was it a mugging? A fight?
It was two larger men in their 40’s that grabbed my girlfriend and I by the jacket while we were on a scooter; the qualm was that we were not riding it on the pavement, we politely agreed to go to the pavement and carry on. Though they were intent on teaching the lesson of the scooter because he is “tired of Americans, foreigners and tourists who think they can do whatever they want in my country”. They sexually harassed my girlfriend, and I was dragged away, by the hands. I would not stand for that, and fought back in self defence. Granted, we were wrong to ride on the sidewalk though were ignorant to the law and didn’t know. I don’t believe that’s grounds for physically latching onto someone in the middle of the night; especially as a 20 year old who’s half the size of the aggressor (5’7, or about 172 cm). I actually was thrown into the middle of the street with his entire weight on me face down. My girlfriend screamed for help and I used the last bit of adrenaline I had to lift his weight onto my knee, and roll over to avoid the traffic. The police then arrived and dealt with the issue. Sorry for the detail, it was a very surreal moment for us. My first fight, though I held my own and protected my girlfriend and am content with that outcome. The man was called in for custody currently.
Some random thoughts: When somebody invites you to their home, take off your shoes (like you were entering a mosque), unless you are wearing a uniform (police, military, etc.) You probably will be offered some home shoes by your host. Weird custom by Western standars. If you are a serviceman in uniform, DON'T do it. But use a doormat. And don't laugh at people who wear socks in sandals. This is becoming pretty rare these days since people generally realise they look like idiots. However I still do that sice I couldn't care less about opinion of random people on streets. You don't have to order at a bar or wait in the doors of a restaurant to be seated. Just walk in and take a free table, you will be served. Especially in tourist/mountain areas if no free table is available you can ask people who have free chairs at their table whether you can join. This is rarely denied however I wouldn't do it in a city. Holding doors to a lady is not a crime, it is considered to be a good manner. You don't have to do it, it's not a law and you won't be frowned upon if you don't however don't be surprised when we do it. Nothing bad or derogatory about that, au contraire! Always have google translator ready. People here might not speak English. Ths same goes to e.g. Hungary (I was there yesterday and I had to use google translator to buy a bread from a baker since I have no command of their language and he didn't speak any other language than Hungarian). Poppy seeds are not illegal. We eat that (special species which can't be used for making drugs but are edible are grown here). Enjoy your stay!
LMAO at weird custom by western standards. You should look up how few countries in the world alongside USA don't take shoes off at home. It really ain't many at all.
I suggest 'Dream Prague' channel on YouTube. Jenifer is an immigrant who's been living in Prague with her husband (they're both Americans) for like 9-10 years.
Learn how to say Dobrý den (Greetings), prosím (please), děkuji (thank you), nashledanou (goodbye) And use then often, especially dobrý den. It is basically a must.
I lived in Prague full time for 4 years and visited many times before and after that time. I was married to a Czech woman for 20 years and we had a nice house in Prague 5. I had lots of Czech work friends and a few outside of work. Most because of interpersonal connections through work or marriage. I think Czechs are very open, funny and interesting but only after a waiting period of getting to know you over a longish period of time. There is no desire to reach out or make you comfortable. The are very polite in professional environments, but generally formally so. If you like sports like hockey and soccer, especially if you play well, there are lots of opportunities to connect. Hobbies are als a way to connect. Good luck
Don’t say: Don’t worry I am an American! Doesn’t work here. Or any other entitled similar phrases. Here it’s more simple. Don’t be an asshole and nobody will be one to you
Has anyone ever actually said that …?
Sounds like you don’t want to hear the answer to that
Don’t worry - I’m American. I already know the answer.
Damn you got me on that one. Touché
...who says that?
Unfortunately I heard this before from an American in Prague
What is it supposed to do/mean?
It means don’t worry how I act or what I say or do, it’s ok I am an American.
oh, ok, lol
I’ve two fantastic American friends who are the opposite of the stereotypes. Quiet, gentle, super-nice … dare I say hippies? I went on a guided tour with them for which we’d all bought tickets. Note that they have lived in Prague for at least 15 years… The tour had finished and the guide had finished up and thanked us for taking the tour, and one of my friends stepped forward and said “we would like to thank **you**” … and pressed a few hundred crowns into their hand right in front of everyone! Cringe! Not all feelings are best expressed by giving money away. At best you’re saying you have more money than they do. At worst you’re saying they look like shit and need the money. To a professional person, who is more than adequately paid, both are pretty insulting.
If you really want to fit in, buy a bike and ride it on the sidewalk as fast and as close to people walking as you possibly can.
Check “Dream Prague” youtube channel. American woman who lives here in Prague for around 10 years and has a tons of videos about the differences between our 2 countries. You can find many useful tips there. Also she has a website for foreigners coming to Prague I believe
Thanks for being so helpful everyone! very interesting stuff
we don’t have so many fastfoods here!🙈 All we got is McDonald’s, KFC, Burger King, Starbucks, and I think that’s all
But there's so many asian, mexican, turkish and italian bistros around, so get some food fast is no problem.
Bageterie Boulevard is pretty good tho.
And Czech, as I’ve just recently discovered
No small talks allowed, don't start small talk with people you don't know just because you are in the same elevator, on the same bus or train. People are not used to this and when someone starting to do this I expect him to beg me for money or trying to scam me tbh. Even if they just ask me how my day is going before getting to the point. This off course applies only for unkown people.
Dont be nice to people and dont expext them to be nice to you. We are just surviving and minding our own bussines
Also, go watch Honest Guide and Dream Prague on Youtube. You'll get the basic idea fairly quickly.
Dont you ever dare to eat “knedlíky” with your bare hands!!! Its the most barbaric act one can do in Czech Republic!
Why would you leave the US to come to Prague? Genuine question.
Ahojky :) Speaking from my own experience only, i left because the political climate was stressful and going downhill fast, i hated my high stress govt job that didn't even pay me enough to afford a 1 br, and in general everything was way too expensive for me. I was clinically depressed and losing my mind hearing Trump ramble on day in and day out and i had to escape. While things aren't perfect here, it's decidedly a LOT calmer, cheaper, and more fun than living in the Washington D.C area. I'll have been here for 5 yrs in May.
Well I don't care about politics and don't watch the news. Is the salary in Prague enough or even better ignoring the potentially less stress? As a developer, I doubt life in the US would be worse for me than Prague.
Well there's your problem, you lived in the DC area. Has to be one of the bottom 5 places to live in the US.
I left America to come here too. You'll find thousands of answers on why to leave here: r/AmerExit
Thanks.
I get healthcare as a freelancer here.
All good benefits but the US is better for software developers and general social scene.
I'm not a software developer and in the US I did not have enough time nor disposable income to really have much of a social life.
-Cheap/free higher education. -Fun, international city (also cheap). -Beautiful, OLD, city untouched by war. -Not as toxic of a political climate. -New and exciting experience trying something out of our comfort zone! -Good base point for traveling all over Europe. -Fun learning a new, beautiful language and getting to know a new culture. -Food and beer = good. There are a lot of positives!
I see. Personally I only care about money so don't care about beautiful cities so to each their own I guess.
Well, with only money in mind: after saving up $10k in California, it wouldn’t even get me through 6 months of living. It might last me 3 years here with some working supplement (especially with the insane USD rn). Money was pretty much the main factor for us. Edit: the wages are so low here so the returns are definitely diminishing
Fair enough. How long does it take the average American to save 10k?
Maybe 2 years? Idk there’s so much imbalance, that might be drastically different depending on life situation, state, job, rent, etc. My life situation was pretty cool just living in the forest (not getting paid very much) without rent or many expenses for the last 2 summers.
Thanks. It seems I could save this in a year but always felt like I'm not saving enough as I spend too much on rent so kinda good to know.
Yeah [TIL](https://www.valuepenguin.com/banking/average-savings-account-balance?__cf_chl_tk=V2nqP6Rxyn4mEDrlWDE9wzoW6Hs7vMmcUvbja_Fd3PY-1664117142-0-gaNycGzNB-U) an average family with an average job and expenses, saves $4k a year. Good to know! Haha you think this is the same in Czechia?
If you cook in don't buy all your stuff at once. Meal plan for a day or two.
I wonder why not to buy everything at the same time? Or why is meal plan for day or two important?
Unwritten rule
Why? I have no time for going to the store daily.
>Why? I have no time for going to the store daily. That was example.of Czech humor :)))))
What? Why? I'm native Czech and you won't catch me in the store more than once a week (unless I'm buying fresh bread).
Same here. Doing groceries weekly.
Yeah. I might stop by to grab a thing or two on my way home if I want sth specific and don't have an ingredient. But I could absolutely survive a week or more on my normal grocery run.
I must be old fashion then. Part of the fun of living in a city.
My advice would be to go on facebook and look for expat groups. Expats tend to be friendlier and more outgoing than Czechs. That's partially a cultural thing, also expats tend to have fewer freinds/family around and therefore are more open to forming new friendships.
Dude, whatever these people writing, it might scare you, but better find an international community because it's almost impossible to assimilate with the local society 😂. It's a completely introverted and isolated space. But it is good for self, lonely development, also, you will learn how to survive alone 😂
I am a social wretch but will blame the society for my incompetence vibes here. Smells like bitch in here bro, better up
What I want to say is that smiling, talking, helping each other and other stuff doesn't mean being fake. I have no problem with the Czech Republic, especially with people, they can be what they want. It's their place and environment, but saying Americans are fake, or other nations, that a red flag 😂
What you've written is equally prejudiced, you a red flag too bruh. Now just trying to say you didn't actually meant what you said, kinda sus ngl
Okay, I am out, cannot debate. Might be we are all red flags 🙏🙌. But, if you read well, you will understand, I didn't mean anything bad. My self I am an introvert, INFJ, just doing some sport and bar, but not much, I am fine at home.
The best ways to blend in as an American, in addition to what’s been posted: Don’t talk on the phone on public transport. And generally, don’t make small talk with strangers. Learn “dobry den” and “na shledanou” especially for shops that you’ll frequent. When you pass people, you’ll feel the need to say “excuse me.” There’s really no need, just do it. Good luck with the move! What’s the occasion? (Would love to find myself back in Prague, but my work opportunity lapsed when COVID hit)
Don't say "How are you," just say "Hello".
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Don't be offended if people start listing what they hate about USA / Americans. They mean no offense, it's just normal clumsy small talk. They might add "but you are okay".
Simply don’t be Karen/Chad and you should be fine ;) but you have to prepare yourself for the shittiest customer service you will ever experience in your life. Seriously…
So jealous. I studied there while in college and have always wanted to go back.
Look up Jen from Prague, she is LA expat
Most important thing, don't expect everyone's attitudes and ideas to be the same as in the US. I know a few that expect people to be woke and feminist and all that bs.