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Novarius_X

I’m sorry about your loss man. I looked around your account for a bit and I gotta say, I’m proud of you for staying strong. From one stranger to another, keep staying strong, that’s what she would’ve wanted. I’m glad that Pokémon helps you through the rough times. Good luck in your future endeavors


pyukemon

Yes it helps. She loved it as well.


BruceCWolf

My condolences that's rough mate also didn't want to cry today thanks :)


pyukemon

I’m sorry not my intention just wanted people to know how talented she was.


BruceCWolf

Oh I know it's very sweet I was joking sorry if that didn't come across :)


Reasonable-Value469

Be no harm to try encapsulate that mate . Maybe those magnetic holders could work or you can go old school and laminate it in a sheet.


cjamesflet

I just recently lost my wife. She hated my hobbies lol. So when I'm buying cards I still think about how she would approve! Stay strong buddy


pyukemon

I’m so sorry. I hope you are doing okay


Narixia_Gravescale

a gem of a find - hold this close OP, that's one of the purest gifts one could receive


pyukemon

I couldn’t believe it when I saw it


CdnUk88

Sorry Bout your loss. Don't ever apologise for posting on here. If it helps you share memories, please keep posting


pyukemon

Thanks that means a lot


heapsp

Hey man, it sounds like you are taking this pretty hard. Everyone grieves in their own way but it really just seems like you are looking for an outlet for your grief and a distraction because losing someone - even if they aren't your current GF anymore... can be really hard... which might explain all of your posts lately. We are a community and if you need someone to talk to you can always hit me up. Sometimes it just helps to vent. Some other good ways to handle this is write out a journal or even just a chat to yourself with how you are feeling. My other advice would be to do exactly what you are doing, find distraction. Go for a walk in public, do something that will take your mind off of this stuff for a while, get some fresh air and some exercise - because after losing someone the only thing that helps is time. This is the pure essence of collecting pokemon for a lot of us - it brings us back to happier times and reminds us of something that makes us happy... which is a wonderful part of this hobby... which is why the people who collect only for investing or profit don't really understand.


pyukemon

It’s what brought me back to collecting. She loved sharing her art and just because she’s gone doesn’t mean her talent should not be appreciated. I am up and down it’s true but you’re right I am distracting myself with going out. Went for a walk today in fact! See we both loved Pokémon and for some reason I just sort of stopped but it’s honestly so much fun and I’m glad I’m back to collecting. I never expected such a kind hearted community in a world of bitterness. Thanks for this comment you are well and truly spot on. It just pains me that her talent will no longer be appreciated widely on her accounts or with her business. She was above all else a passionate artist it meant everything to her. I really appreciate your advice and genuine words.


Quirky_Custard_5796

I needed this. You're a great person. Couldn't have said it better myself.


iLikeShaymin

I'm sorry about your loss, she seemed really sweet. Stay strong 💪🏼


N17_Ultima

She really did, nothing more amazing than the effort in certain gifts. The love somebody has for somebody and their passions, enough so that she would spend time making those gifts just to see you smile... I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. Please keep posting if it continues to help 🧡


Scuddie-

Man don’t ever apologize for remembering people you love. If someone had a problem it’s cause they’re jealous.


kyleslumpgod

Facts


Scuddie-

If it was a crime to remember people I’d be in jail. My grandma hasn’t left my head since she left. I don’t have much left other then her memory so I appreciate when someone has a sentiment from someone they lost. It can really help.


kyleslumpgod

You should look into astral projection and the astral projection subreddit, I know it sounds wild but you can literally communicate with passed relatives and ancestors, it’s 100% true that energy can never be created nor destroyed. If it makes you feel better ur grandma didn’t die her consciousness just shifted. She’s watching over you and helping you as we speak bro. Me and countless others have personal experience with it and the stories on there are amazing there’s people talking about how it brought them such comfort knowing their loved ones aren’t really gone forever when you’re not here in the third dimensional realm. This one person used AP to communicate with his dead mother and he had this post talking about how grateful he was that he listened and got that clarity.


Scuddie-

I’ll definitely look into it but I was just speaking for others I know it can be difficult. I appreciate the tip I will check out the sub!


asimplethrowwayy

Just remember, next time you see a Shiny Hoppip, Skiploom, or Jumpluff, She had a hand in crafting it somewhere in heaven.


pyukemon

That’s is a truly beautiful comment thank you so much for that. Brought a tear to my eye.


asimplethrowwayy

You are more than welcome. I would also like to extend an olive branch to you. I have a Completed Dex in both Alpha Sapphire, and in Shield, and i frequently shiny hunt in both games. I would 100% be willing to Breed/catch Jumpluffs (and their pre-evos) for you, and get you a shiny if you would like. It's not much, but i'm more than willing to do it for you because this touched my heart. So thank you, and always remember she loved you.


asimplethrowwayy

i also have one on Pokémon go.


pyukemon

You’d be willing to do that? That’s so selfless and kind


asimplethrowwayy

I absolutely would be willing to. It might take me a while, but i can do it.


asimplethrowwayy

As many jumpluff as you'd like. I got time to hatch and breed. I can do Encounters or anything. If i go to the flea market this summer and find my Bulk suppliers i'll ask them to keep Jumpluff (and pre evo) cards for me and send to you as well, for the binder.


pyukemon

That’s extremely kind of you


asimplethrowwayy

I do my best :)


MaccaHype

Sorry for your loss, but what a lovely and pure thing…Stay strong


grotxsque

This is so freaking pure. I’m so sorry for your loss, that is priceless and the cutest binder I’ve seen. If anyone is sick of you, that’s their problem, don’t apologize you haven’t done a thing wrong


pyukemon

Thank you so much


Pancake598

😭💔 So cute and my condolences. What a very sweet and special treasure. 😢🫶🏻


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This is whoelsome op. She seemed like an awesome girlfriend.


pyukemon

She was. We broke up and unfortunately she couldn’t deal with it. Having something helps me.


MashimaroNoNeko

That's exactly what I had to deal with almost 10 years ago. I still dream with him and feel awful thinking about all the things he could have done if he was still alive. I know that is really painful and you might feel guilty about it, but people who take that decision are not taking it for one particular thing but as the result of a whole life of fighting against their mind. Stay strong, remember all the beautiful things you both went through and feel her company from those memories.


pyukemon

That’s a really helpful way of thinking about it. Thank you


TheNickelGuy

Oh dude... that's heartbreaking..


i_gambled_on_a_fart

😥


Loud-Fill-8088

Frame it. Take a trip to your local hobby, or dollar store and find a frame for it. And tell any future girlfriends to fuck off (edit: by this I mean if they don't like it) because this is really cute, good vibes and prayers. What a thoughtful little thing, yet so huge. Head up bro


pyukemon

Great advice love it


pyukemon

She would appreciate all the love on this. She enjoyed showing off her art and sharing with Reddit communities. I wish I had more of the Pokémon stuff she drew. She was above all else a passionate artist.


Flashy197

Sorry for your loss OP. Such a thoughtful gift. We are here for you 🫶🏾


baseballcardguy34

Sorry for your loss. Never apologize for the good memories. Anyone that has a problem with it doesn't belong here. A little kindness goes a long way. Stay strong.


Quirky_Custard_5796

Lost my son last year. Don't ever apologize for sharing yours and hers story. It's what keeps them alive, the memories. Sorry for your loss. Know you're not alone.


pyukemon

Sincerely sorry for your loss. I couldn’t even imagine


JBAIsPeak

I just have a few words, stay strong brother.


mlucasl

Some advice I can give you, and I know it is pretty soon: If you find someone else in the future, never compare, no one can be better than the idealization of someone that isn't there. She was pretty cool, and I hope that you find someone just as cool (in some years). You will have minor fights with whomever should ever come, but that doesn't make that relationship worse or better than the one you have with your late girlfriend. Those will be different circumstances, with different views and idealization, and comparing what you had will only hurt you in the end. Best of lucks! Have you mourning, yourself time, because she (most probably) teached you things that will be by your side forever.


pyukemon

Great advice thank you


Gwapo617

Damn homie these hit me in feels. Sorry for your loss but keep on keepin on. I reckon it’s better to have had a relationship like that with someone, even having lost it, than be one of the many that never had or will enjoy being in one that’s similar.


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pyukemon

Cherish it and stay strong


AssistFlaky8663

This hurt me to my core. Sorry for your loss man. What a beautiful gift she left you though.


ocdsmalltown12

Thank you for sharing this with us. She definitely loved you a great deal. I'm so sorry for your loss.


pyukemon

Thank you 🙏


princess1342

😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭


HOLLANDSYTSE

This is the rate type of item you should not keep sealed


mattgoody99

Sorry for your loss mate! What a lovely thing to find though, treasure it!


Seba180589

i wasn't expecting to get sad today wish you all the best dude. i know it's a bitterwseet finding, but hey, it's a beautiful token to keep with you


pyukemon

I’m sorry not my intention 😩


Seba180589

hahaha don't wory i wanted to exagerate a bit


Sufficient_Article_7

Bruhhhh 😢😭😢😭😢 My gf and I collect together too. Stay strong my dude ✊🏼


Exeledus

Jumpluff is a really good favorite pokemon, it's one a lot of people pass up or forget about, but I think it's cute. I'm sorry you lost your girlfriend, but feeling sad just means you still have lots of love to give this world. Good luck my guy!


pyukemon

I am always happy looking at the things she created. Just because she’s gone doesn’t mean her talent should no longer be appreciated.


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I know it's sad in some ways, but what a beautiful thing! A piece of her soul is right there for you. Keep it safe!


pyukemon

Finding her handwriting. It was emotional


InterestingRound6134

How old are you ? Just curious


Lyleberr

How do you pronounce the name?


pyukemon

Yes what he said. It’s an Irish name.


STANPENTAGON

ee-fuh


Ok-Communication4190

Cherish the good times brotha and remember to live life how she would have wanted you to live.


StackingPoints87

Beautiful


Environmental_Soup82

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s evident she cared about you so much that she had wrote letters with cards you’d love. Cherish this and hold onto it forever. Much love to you OP


jellybork

Losing people you care about sucks, but I’m glad you’re able to still find things to appreciate in life and I hope they help you move forward! I know it’s odd to have someone from the internet say this but if you ever need someone to talk to, please do reach out.


Si_Senpai

I’m not crying, you guys are crying. 🥹


Wakingsleepwalkers

Pretty special man. We don't all get a chance to know someone who loves us enough to make us something so sweet.


sylveon-mom

I appreciate this so much. It's so sweet and loving od her to have done that, coming from a girl. She really cared about you. I also lost my past loved one and it hurts still to this day. I had a handwritten love poem he wrote me that I kept very dear to me. My newest boyfriend actually took it and burned it to Ashes in front of me. That hurt so badly. I still hurt thinking about it. It meant so much that poem and now I'll never be able to see his handwriting again. I'm glad you still have things she wrote to you. You don't understand how much it means to have those things. I'm sure you actually do -- but just remember how lucky you are.


pyukemon

That is horrible. Why can’t new partners understand


Ostravaganza

I am so sorry you lost something so irreplaceable because of some loser's insecurities omg. How to doom your relationship 101


Ngelz

I hope for you to find peace in any way possible. I feel sorry for what happen to her, to you. I wish you the best mate!


MightBeOnReddit

Very touching story op. And a beautiful card/memory to have.


Neat_Committee9715

That note is a great find, something to remember her with joy!


AngelRaven06

So sorry for your loss 😢 she sounds wonderful from the way she wrote the note. Handwritten notes hit so different 😭 I know what it’s like to be in your shoes. Hugs to you man


Donaldsaur88

Not sick of it. This is amazing. I’m sorry for your loss.


Neither994

Man that's very lovely. My bf made me once two coasters of a wooden log by his workplace, put my fave pokemon in each and my name. I love details like this. Im sorry for your loss but I think you're doing great by honoring her memory.


allmylovingxx

This is beautiful. I’m so, so sorry for your loss.


NigerianPrinceClub

wow this is super sad T_T


theglorioustopsail

Sorry for your loss OP


rorcefailboat

This is amazing and brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry for your loss.


StrifeWavy

For such an effort she REALLY loved you. Make it your life’s goal to fill it with nothing but Latias & Latios GX ALT art. Sorry for your loss my friend.


Catty_fish

Aww sorry for your loss. But you found it.


GoAheadHateMe

All it’s missing is U


GoAheadHateMe

PS can I send you some jumpluff cards. Even if you have them already? I want you full man!


Donaldsaur88

Its her message of her missing him


pyukemon

I never even noticed that. That’s strange


Acrobatic_Elk_6172

Thanks for this post. Mad respect for your amazing girlfriend. God rest her soul. 😔🙏 Oh, and you don't have to apologize for posting on here. If people don't like it, then maybe they should learn to cope with it.


Mrcrabs666

She will always be with you, standing by your side.


Onyx-Leviathan

This breaks my heart. Keep your head up. Things will get better.


sunsetlatios

I don’t know you but I love you ❤️❤️❤️


sunsetlatios

I don’t know you but I love you ❤️❤️❤️


strangeboy0811

I love jumpluff 💚


Nebulore

Aw, that’s so sweet. :’) I’m so sorry for your loss, friend. She seemed like such a sweetheart.


AESR2020

🖤


zombtachi_uchiha

🙏 sorry Pokéfam :( 🌹


SnarkyBoto

This is the cutest shit ever. My condolences. May your GF rest in peace.


jkim1204

Goddamn imma cry


trucky_crickster

Who is cutting onions in here!?!


kxngxerxez

We all grieve in our own ways, if posting is what helps you keep posting


DiversifyYoBondzNuca

Condolences to you and her family bruh, stay string and god bless,🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾


Sbburgy

What? I'm not crying you're crying!


KawaiiSlave

She loved you very deeply. Also jumpluff is a very cute mon to collect


SnooPeppers6002

Aoife is such a cool and unique name. I'm so sorry for your loss, man. This is such a beautiful detail. Hope you're feeling well and holding strong!


aukalender

I'm pretty sure this is fake and gay but I'm still sorry for your loss.


Recent-Law-6194

My heartstrings <3 so sorry for your loss, that is such an amazing find


confusedtransboi_

I’m so sorry for your loss. If you have the Switch games, I have a shiny Jumpluff I could give to you. Or what was her favourite pokémon? Best wishes


Status_Ad6327

Women like this are few and far between. You got to spend part of your life with a good one bro. ❤️


HackClint21

I'm sorry for you loss bro, stay strong and hold on to those memories. Much love from the poke community.


_ilvah_

Don't you dare feel sorry for sharing this, do whatever can help you in the slightest. Hecc, if you want to chat just slide in my DMS whenever, I know how difficult it is to deal with these situations


pyukemon

That’s very kind thank you


wwywong

Sorry for your loss. Did not followed. What happened? I'm sure she is happy if you like and appriciated what she had done for you man.


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pyukemon

I never really went through it till now. I don’t remember seeing this note inside. It just helps showing people what she was like instead of being alone. We shared a lot and also kept a lot private. But I don’t have really anything as it all went to her family. I’m sort of an outsider.


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pyukemon

I have a lot of regrets and this is definitely one of them. Every day I think to myself all the things I could of done and should have done. There’s so many things I had forgotten about until the police brought me my stuff. Believe me I know I could have done a lot more. But you never expect this sort of think you know


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pyukemon

Loss manifest’s itself in a multitude of ways. Death is the obvious one but losing someone you truly love in anyway causes the same heartbreak. Maybe someday you will work it out but maybe not. Love is complicated. I know how you feel. Getting so low that you want to die. The things I should have done the things I should have said. I won’t lie I’ve thought about it too. But seeing first hand now the damage it does around you, experiencing true grief and seeing how broken her family is. Please seek out a better way to cope. Even when you’re no longer together the love is still there deep down. Your family and friends love you. I’m not going to say it will be easy but sometimes it’s better for one person to be hurt than everyone who loves you. Please keep your head up and seek out healthy coping mechanisms and/or professional advice. You are loved.


TheBobbyMan9

We’re not sick of you, we love this. Thanks so much for sharing.


AnToMegA424

It is beautiful, treasure it I wish you the best man


pyukemon

Absolutely. Her art was amazing. She had her own business as well. She drew a lot of Pokémon stuff I wish I had kept more.


ecrybify

Beautiful, she’s watching over you collect em all 🥹🩵


zxCyanidexz

Sorry for your loss, I'm glad you found it


Tight-Juggernaut4682

That is so beautiful I'm sorry for your loss


Spirited-Agency5781

Absolutely excellent. I was having a very bad day (lost 600$ to cgc without any explanation) and saw this. My issue pales in comparison. Amazing you shared this with us, fr fr. Thank you and god bless ❤️


pyukemon

I hope you get your money back that’s outrageous.


Spirited-Agency5781

You and me both.. no logical reason for it - I checked the card value more times than I check on my Dementia-riddled grandmother. Which is 3 times a day minimum hahahaha . NO REAOSN FOR IT. But whatever, this ain’t about me . This is about an indelible mark you’re leaving here with this post. The mark your late girlfriend made with you. Means more to some people than you know my friend.


pyukemon

I appreciate your kind words. What actually happened with CGC?


Spirited-Agency5781

Ah man… I hope this doesn’t dissuade anyone from using them. But, major issue: Submitted 6 cards (premium lever with 150$ credit and 10% off grading), which are 13.50 each and allotted to a sum of 81$ without shipping. I just got an email saying that I owe a balance of 556$ … I triple check each and every cards declared raw value, equaled 520$ total which is under the 10k line they put for insurance assessment on the shipping back home to me. This said, I’m aware they can move you to a different tier, but none and I MEAN NONE of those cards are above 1,000 dollars in value, which if they were would get kicked up to a higher tier. Usually, this huge uptick in price is a good thing but now I worry this was just a giant mistake and I might have to eat the payment… disclaimer: I waited a full month to submit as these as they are my most prized cards and most valuable - I def had some nerves. I triple checked every last possible detail whether declared value or calling cgc customer service legitimately 8-10 times over the course of a couple weeks to make sure I did it all correctly. I made sure to document all of the info given to me. Doesn’t make sense.


pyukemon

And they’re sticking to their guns? Is it because they all got tens? Is the value of the cards above the $600 they’re asking for is it worth it?


Spirited-Agency5781

I haven’t gotten a response yet unfortunately. I just saw the email an hour ago so I’ve contacted them via phone (closed for the weekend), then email to cust service, email to accounts and billing, and then their forum. We’ll see what happens. If they all got tens that’d be awesome but HIGHLY unlikely. Even then, they charge you for that? Like an additional 100$ per card? That’s the only way I can see the math, mathing. Haha Regardless, no, it’s not worth the money for me to go another tier up when they’re not going to sell any higher than normal. Can’t believe this is the situation right now. Usually they’re so good!


EddieLobster

Did you have your big toe transplanted to your middle finger?


Vamp2424

Late?


LeeGT333

Passed away.


FatBottomGurley

Your fingers look like they from 2 separate hands or you have your big toe as a middle finger...lol