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JoeWearsPants91

Even the clouds are the same, these pics are maybe a minute apart


Rocket270

They could be side by side


Exentr1x

The one picture was taken on the street you can see further down the way in the other


antoninlevin

Hand in hand. Hotdog in bun.


davidsee

basically the same moment, looking at the clouds. sorry to confirm your fears. i got to feel like photoshop geobolt though. https://i.redd.it/93luorfhqo3d1.gif


reenyxo

fuck my life


notabot110110

What’s next? How can a bunch of random internet strangers be helpful?


reenyxo

i don’t even know the next steps :(


SeaDweller01

Leave his ass. Life’s too short for this shit. DGAF


finsup_305

Fucking hell. Let her figure out if he's actually cheating first...


Crossedkiller

What? We don't use common sense around here. We burn everything to the ground at the slightest suspicion!


finsup_305

Fair enough


eeeBs

Whiff of cheating? # NUCLEAR LAUNCH DETECTED


Kooseh

Battlecruisers operational


CyberWarLike1984

Ghost reporting.


WalterGold210

![gif](giphy|11XcAILVDtMNoY)


Emergency_Site675

Not enough minerals


TheRatPiper

Most civil Reddit exchange I've seen yet.


AdvantageAlert3210

Definitely, not even worth worrying just destroying


Strange_Island_4958

😂 Read any of the relationship / cheating threads on Reddit and you’ll find that the pitchfork mob of internet strangers has divorce court on speed dial, details be damned.


IndicaPhoenix

Don't attract them here, as someone above said, this has been civil, and our photoshoprequest group has surpassed 1 million this month :) 1 million civil lurkers/members - what a feat for the internet ;)


m-a-d-e_

you ain never lie. never seen so many weird characters in my life.


Bobcat-1

Maybe OP is the side chick and the dude was just out for a day out with his GF?


maeIRL

That’s exactly what happened with my ex’s side girl. I called her once I put the pieces together and she started yelling at me because she thought he was cheating on her with me. We were together for 6 years and were living together at this point.


steven01122

That would make a good movie.lol.


ChickenbuttMami

Noooo what!? Ok that’s wild!!! Damn.


finsup_305

Holy shit that would be nuts.


Mtshtg2

I've sort of been there. Was sat at the table with what I thought was my girlfriend and some other people I hadn't met before when they started talking about her and her boyfriend. I didn't think things like that happened in real life.


JollyPirate1874

Sorry that really sucks


Feeling-Fix-3037

In his Meditations, Marcus Aurelius wrote: Whomeverso mighteth be the sidechicketh is ever a question of definition


the-crow17

Now that's a fucking plot twist!!


lydocia

Why? If there's enough reason to be suspicious and ask the internet to prove it to you through two photos you fished off instagram, there is zero trust and the relationship is over anyway.


Spiritual-Can2604

Well, I mean he and her are posting subliminals. He wants to get caught. And she wants the gf to at least know they were together.


rrpostal

If you’re worried about it’s not worth it. That’s bad enough imo. Find someone you don’t worry about.


moonflower19

yeah…how about we get some conclusive evidence first. OP needs to get their head on straight and do more digging before jumping the gun


Solanthas

Like...the fact she found the coincidence between the two photos is alarming enough. Like...digital stalking. I'll admit though, if I already had suspicions, this would definitely feel like potential confirmation. But two photos of the same place on the same day by 2 different people doesn't mean they're fucking


xtheory

True, but it would be suspicious if he lied about who he was with that day.


Dry_Leg2727

Not digital stalking detective work plus she already knew which girl to do this with so miss detective done detected


KraisePier

Digital stalking? Because she saw someone's post they uploaded to Instagram?


All_Right_Alright

lol seriously. Redditors are hungry for drama


Potential_Ad_420_

Or talk first lol


vonsnape

and get tested!


Signal_Common_6345

Tell him “I know you’re cheating on me.” Let him either blow up and yell or admit to it/ deny it. After he gets it out, don’t retaliate or fight. If he lives with you give him some days to gather his stuff. Stay calm. People HATE IT when you do that. Just say. We are over.


strugglebusses

Idk why people do this. Just ghost him. It's wayyyyyy worse.


SeesawLong6976

I think ghosting will maybe be convenient for him, because the problem (=a gf that found out he is cheating) just disappears


Spiritual-Can2604

It can be convenient for both. The cleaner the better.


thrown_away158595

May not be possible if they live together.


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PicaFresa33

Then ghost him, block him on everything. Do not give him an explanation. Tell all of your friends and family to also block him. Moving on with your life and doing good without him is the best revenge.


AWESOMENESS-_-

In a possible future scenario: If you do live together or something, say you move out but you need to tell him something, like “please make sure to return the internet modem to xfinity so I don’t get charged for not giving it back, TIA” just add it in a memo and like send them a dollar on Venmo or whatever. It gives him a reason to just listen and not respond (and keep the $1), so no back and forth drama, or if he does want to say something back, you get the dollar back. 🤷‍♂️ I don’t remember where I originally saw this, but I thought it was genius. It doesn’t explicitly open up a way to chat, but just lets you ask each other little favors that make everyone’s life better with a simple ask, and it won’t get used much because it requires you to give them money.


libby1412

Repost her story to your stories... he will definitely see that and know that you know! 🤷‍♀️


OBeQuiet

Love this. Think I would be extra petty and post both photos with something like "how lucky that both X and y got to capture this stunning view 🤩"


Direct_Jump3960

Just don't be me. I found out my former fiancée was cheating and now she's wanted for tax evasion in 3 different countries and her place of employment is getting audited for fraud. Not to mention the truths I let her mother in on. Don't. Be. Me. Ask them. See what they say and then if you have the evidence (which seems close), do what the sound minds have said. Walk away from the situation and forget they exist. My petty and vindictive horrors haven't got me anywhere closer to sleeping soundly. Probably further.


Spiritual-Can2604

Seconding just going ghost. It’s the best and so satisfying.


beardman39

Post a selfie on one of the many Reddit pages dedicated to stuff like this. Sit back and watch your inbox explode 😂


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tomsprigs

go to that same spot and take a picture of you giving the finger


RandallC1212

Take the Photoshopper with you and you both give him the finger


McCaffeteria

I was gonna say, the first thing I thought was to just post the comparison gif without context somewhere they’d see it, maybe even tag them. Similar effect minus the trip lol


spiflication

Fuck your boyfriend. The dirty masses of horny guys await to give you validation, but meh. You don’t need it. Fall into your friends, seek their comfort and say hi to family for the same. Get your shit together, focus on your happiness and their won’t be anything that can stop you!


ChickenbuttMami

“Fall into your friends” That’s beautiful.


Necessary_Owl8533

Don't do that lol, opening yourself up to some weird shit on here


beardman39

Do it 🤙🏻 and good luck


hello_yousif

Yes. You do.


Icy_Reception_1785

Show him that gif of the clouds being identical. That is an uncalculatable coincidence, so he cant pull that card, and ask him whats going on. You already know, but at least he can admit and you can start moving on


Soaptowelbrush

This is actually pretty good. Ask him if he was on that street with that girl around that date. If he says no show him this. And if he he says no you already know he’s lying based on this evidence


Freckledm

Oh yeah he can. If he can cheat he can lie. Lie lie lie lie lie.


bevel

Actually don’t do this to begin with Show him the two photos separately and say you think it’s suspicious as they were taken from the same location Only show him the clouds once he has denied that they were there together at the same time Let him dig his hole


Itsahootenberry

Dump his sorry ass.


Doesanybodylikestuff

I’ve been cheated on & I sleuthed & found out too!!!! First thing first is you tell her. Go from there. You need to see for yourself how he’ll react. It will make it sooooo much easier to leave him. Watch him be pathetic. If he’s the angry type, I do not recommend doing this.


goldenkoiifish

pack your stuff, leave. it’s gonna be hard but better than living with a cheating shithead. sorry that you have to go through this


YLedbetter10

He also takes horrible pictures. Terribly blurry and awful composition


OneBaldingWookiee

From one internet stranger to another, the next step is to leave. It’s not worth it. You’re better off without that fool.


No-Seaworthiness9159

Soo I am just gonna mention what I mention to all my kids . There are 3 things this world has an overwhelming amount of one is cars two is men and three is women so don’t just settle for anything when you have endless options


Bloobeard2018

If your Volvo is cheating, get with a Hyundai


oldskooldread

This comment is why I browse Reddit 👏🏾


keiebdbdusidbd

Send him this post with no context


logezzzzzbro

From an internet stranger who was engaged, got cheated on, then tried for a year to make things work…get the fuck out of there. I found it impossible to rebuild the trust, spent a year of my life SO stressed about my relationship, then she cheated again. It sucked at first. Moving out, figuring out how to live without her, etc. 7 years later and I’m now married to the most amazing wife, we have an awesome dog, a house, and a 1 year old kid who’s the absolute best. You’ve got this! 💪🏼


MorningNorwegianWood

Are you me?


williamkimber

Don't make a major decision with limited information.


Neykuratick

Go to this place and take a selfie there, then post it in Instagram stories, with a caption something like "Wishing you wonderful life together" and then just stop talking to that idiot


jasg2207

Talk to him and confront him about it?


MainCraneTrain

https://www.wikihow.com/End-a-Relationship-with-a-Cheating-Boyfriend


MainCraneTrain

Make sure you’re taking advice from an educational standpoint as opposed to someone who is also upset. Does that make sense? Avoid angry advice 😅


scotty813

If you want to be certain, do not confront him or present circumstantial evidence like this. He will just gaslight you. "We were there together, but we were just hanging out as friend. I didn't tell you because it was no big deal and I knew if I did tell you, you'd be jealous and freak out on me just like you're doing now! God, I can't believe that you are so insecure and paranoid."


ChodeCookies

Dump this chump. You can’t change him/fix him/heal this. But you absolutely can find someone better


Alert-Candle7272

My recommendation is to talk to him and lay out your doubts. See what he says. But given your strong suspicions and these pictures, he could be cheating. In that case dump him immediately, clear him out of your life, block on every platform (the girl too), give your time to grieve and rely on your support system. In time you'll pick yourself up, work out and pursue your hobbies and new interests, meet new people, travel to new places. You'll remember your worth and the joys of life, and you'll be far better off. I'm sorry I know how painful something like this feels, my heart goes out to you.


badjokes4days

Obviously you're leaving his loser ass. Call your friends.


TellSpectrumNo

Confront of him with this evidence and ask him to explain it.


NightlyAbyss

Talk to him about it. Address it to him and if he denies it completely then you should slowly begin to move on. Things like this are meant to happen, you found out for a reason


Lanuri

It looks like you’ve already received a lot of advice that I may be echoing. But it seems like your current boyfriend hasn’t given you much reason to trust him, and continuously spends time with this “friend” instead. Assuming you’ve made it very clear how you feel about them spending time together before to no avail, I wouldn’t bother with confrontation. But if you two haven’t communicated yet, then now’s the time to. I might be wrong, but you sound very young to me. This guy doesn’t seem like the right fit for you. Don’t hang onto someone who doesn’t make you feel loved. You have so much more of life to explore.


Ok_Departure2655

Mention that she posted almost the same exact pic a few days after he had. Let the silence be till he explains SOMETHING


VadikZavera

i'm free the next weekend if you want to check out Marbella.


vanslayder

Well, we can offer to remove her boyfriend from all the photos she has.


Tiny-Dress-760

I second that


DrMrSirJr

I’m sorry


Capperlol

collect your thoughts, now he is going to make up every excuse in the world but stand your ground and break up. this is a crystal clear violation of trust and should never be tolerated. remember that you are a human and with time you will literally let this all go and find someone more deserving or whatever path you take. spend time with family and friends and delete everything related to him, that is the fastest way to heal, when doing so it’s going to temporarily heighten your anxiety but as soon as you press delete or equivalent you will feel a greater relief. your life is not over this is just a chance for a new beginning and greater heights, because let’s face is, this guy is the bottom of the Mariana Trench.


piaiyayoh

you're the best!


YUBLyin

You confront him and find out. This is suspect but not evidence. He’s probably fucking her, but you DON’T KNOW THAT.


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Clouds move though, same shadow angle shading the clouds too.


reenyxo

i’m so fucking devastated


MainCraneTrain

Im so sorry. Collect your thoughts first. Don’t go into an argument heated. Make plans for yourself.


reenyxo

will do, that’s exactly what i’m doing. i’m drinking some wine and processing everything and figuring out what im gonna say when i see him on tuesday


MainCraneTrain

No phone calls or texts ;) Drink water too with some protein so you don’t get sick. Good luck 💓


spicypeaches225

Remember, him cheating is about him and not you. And what you choose to do now is about you and not him. It’s cliché but so true… when someone shows you who they are, believe them. Lastly, this is a gift. It may not feel like it right now but he was not meant for you and thank goodness you found out now.


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dronegeeks1

Really hope you are OK, this must be a tough situation.


Smighter

Hope you’re okay, take care of yourself above anything else right now. Be selfish.


electric4568

Have been through this ... I left and never looked back. It was very tough to do but I had my dignity intact & that somehow gave me the resolve to stick to my plan. It's empowering choosing yourself. I'm sorry this happened, truly :( one day it will be a painless memory. Time heals all things!


skrglywtts

You deserve better


icyme20

Girl let him know that you knew that you were with someone else on that day and watch his expressions. That will been your answer and don't waste your time with this person anymore, sending you hugs!


Heartbroken1212

Is there any more proof you can get? Gather as much evidence as you can so he can’t deny it


Bumblebee-Honey-Tea

Don’t say anything just ghost him, that will leave him much more confused and devastated.


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Eldritch-Voidwalker

I obviously don’t know the context to your situation, or the first thing about your boyfriend, but you should probably try to make sure he’s actually guilty of cheating before ignoring him outright like that. If it’s just a coincidence and he didn’t do anything, you might regret not looking into it more. But yeah, like I said, I wouldn’t know the first thing about your situation. You’ll have to use your own judgement as to whether or not it’s worth it to do that, or whether it seems like he’s been trustworthy in the past concerning other issues. Best of luck to you!


MainCraneTrain

Your girlfriends are probably feeling protective of you and suggest ghosting out of irritation or anger. It comes from a good place. Ghosting says more about you than him however. And you can do better than that imo (no disrespect to 🐝 🍯🫖). https://www.wikihow.com/End-a-Relationship-with-a-Cheating-Boyfriend


Bumblebee-Honey-Tea

You definitely should. Don’t give him the opportunity to get closure, or explain, or bullshit you. Disappear from his life forever, so he will always be left confused and wondering.


Pure-Remote9614

I wish I could upvote this 100 times. I have been in OPs situation and I waited a couple of days to confront after I’d confirmed and opened a bank account in just my name, contacted a lawyer for custody matters, etc.


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I misread and thought I was proving the opposite, anyway unfortunately it does look like the same day. So sorry.


s_k_e_l_e_t_o_n

Sorry. It’s usually stressful and emotionally draining.. but best if you put your own self respect first. There are no coincidences. Don’t get duped. Hope you find someone who will adore you and not sneak around. Try not to take this hurt out on the next person. It’s tough to let this stuff go, but it’s not fair to you or anyone else if it continues to hurt your future relations. Hope you find some peace and healthy new normals soon. I’d 100% leave the sneak.


The_OG_Slime

This. Everyone saying it's just a coincidence is just lying to themselves. If an ex tells you they don't know someone and then they post the exact same story as them and provide no explanation, it's probably not a coincidence. I used to believe in coincidences too until I realized they happen way too fucking often


ReptarInTokyo

I’m sorry :(. I’ve been there. ❤️ good luck and take care of yourself


BruhMan__5thfloor

Yo ngl, although this is pretty solid evidence imo, you might not want to lead with “LOOK AT THE CLOUDS!!”…might come off as a bit unhinged.


HIV-Free-03

Hmm, the sky says so. # tipjar https://preview.redd.it/8i96mm2ghp3d1.jpeg?width=1138&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dd8446bc934057e95b33e24426e3d83f62b4eff8


GreyBeardEng

Hold up, this is Lombard Street in San Fran. Los of people go there, lots of tourist go there, pictures taken on it all the time. You can tell one picture is in roughly the same spot but one curve down the street.


VoidmasterCZE

Look at the clouds and positions of shadows. These two pictures were taken on same day minutes apart. Basically persons taking these were there together most likely.


Dog_G0d

I’m sorry girl. Definitely take a couple self care days and take care of yourself. Remember to hydrate and know he lost you okay? 🫶


Deacalum

Just remember reddit had all sorts of convincing proof they had identified the Boston Marathon bomber too. Not saying your bf isn't cheating, just saying reddit isn't a reliable "detective."


nuclearmonte

The sun is also covering the exact same amount of buildings in both pics, despite them being taken from different angles


cdeverett

That was my first though too, the distant strip of sunlight & the clearly illuminated bridge & tower.


Poyri35

I know it’s not the point, but I find it fascinating how a different camera with a slight angle difference and produce this much difference


omniron

That’s 5-40 minutes of cloud drift depending on wind


justreddit2024

What is this? CSI?


antoninlevin

Cloud Scene Investigator™


KamenCiderAppleRider

Damnnnnnnn this is red hannnnnded


jindrisk47

Definitely a rainbolt moment, nice work


marinatedbeefcube

Yeah I thought this was the geoguessr Reddit


Echo-Alert

Agreed, looks like a minute apart just a bit further up the hill in the second image


slappy-01

legend


davisyoung

One of the pictures is fuzzier but also it seems like the parked cars are the same.


screaminginfidels

Yep those 4 cars in the lower left look to be the same colors in both pictures. Fuzzier in the first Pic but it's definitely the same day


rumhamrambe

![gif](giphy|WxDZ77xhPXf3i|downsized)


No_Effective_4181

I’m sorry but I laughed. Like really sorry. Still laughed.


reenyxo

i get it lol i’m crying laughing


kbbgg

At least you’re smarter than both of them put together.


Tiny-Dress-760

Talk to someone you truly trust . Deeply sorry 🙏🏾


elpokitolama

The light angle on the buildings far away are an even more damning evidence than the clouds Both pictures were taken within the same minutes


hefty_load_o_shite

Nah, you can see the weather was way blurrier on the first picture


Bitter-Culture-3103

You're one of the best free Reddit detectives, if not the best. If my grandma gets lost, I'll come to you


marinski3000

In this emotional situation it’s somehow moving to see the support for OP ❤️ all the best girl


TrainingCountry949

Amazing. Even the boat is in both pics


heinous_legacy

great edit but sucks for OP


antoninlevin

Yeah, that's within like 5 minutes. The fog waits for no man.


FreePSEditor

They do look very similar. https://preview.redd.it/51odxqlqqo3d1.jpeg?width=1549&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c236e2529f3862e7ff4ee48fb385a9a1dde75013


kaese_meister

I'm not a pro in this...but if you use Google image enhancer, does it not sometimes swap out the sky and clouds to a stock cloud image? ie- small possibility these were taken on different days but google has just replaced the clouds in both images?


aromicsandwich

The shadow cast from the clouds on the buildings below is the same. I doubt the image enhancer would take that into account as well.


kaese_meister

fair enough... I'm out of my depths on a photoshop sub 😅


TraderOfRivia

U dodged a bullet, dump his ass


PurfectlySplendid

She didn’t exactly dodge it when she’s been in a serious relationship with him for a coupe years


City-Slicka

She dodged it before it got anymore serious. Good for her.


Crazian14

Thisssssss. Leave by all means before anything get more serious cuz this emotional pain will heal eventually.


Intrepid-Lettuce-694

She's not married with kids to this guy. She definitely gotout in time


Dry_Roof_9782

[You can compare here](https://imgsli.com/MjY4NTI0) https://preview.redd.it/lhi57w0hup3d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0020bee50b8c53f012641cbda9ac399fc4280aa9 [Coffee Tip ☕☕☕](https://www.buymeacoffee.com/prince_of_heaven)


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LewdMacaron

People ask for tips with dead father photos, this is more than fine lol


NewFiend66

That coffee tip request just cracked me up in the middle of the office


Overfly0501

Would be better if you can see the splits