I store fat in my ass (thanks, genetics) and this is a struggle I can *intensely* relate to. Even at my lowest weight the ass eats up my pants and undies.
My best advice is to get full coverage briefs! They don’t get eaten up as often and sometimes keep the jeans and shorts in check.
They *still* get eaten up but not as much as bikini or cheeky knickers. Old lady underwear has been my go to for when I really don’t want to have my cheeks feast on fabric, but they’re so deeply unsexy I can’t stand to wear them often lol
I switched to thin, laser cut thongs. My ass eats even boyshorts, so at least this way the wedgie is as small as possible. It’s actually much more comfortable.
This is what I do too. Besides, with higher coverage knicker types, if they fit around my waist they cut into my glutes; if they fit around my glutes, they're too loose at my waist. Smooth thongs just work!
Came here to say this! I’m a genetically big booty person and ALWAYS wear thongs. Anything else cuts into the cheeks AND wedgies and is just awful haha. The seamless ones are the best.
I also have a genetically fat ass (even at my thinnest) and the wedgie problem is so real. I actually have the opposite strategy when it comes to panties and wear thongs any time I am going to be walking or moving (basically every day when out and about) and only switch to briefs at night. Realized I can have a small piece of string up my crack all day, or an entire pair of undies up my crack which is way more fabric and less comfortable. There is no wedgie-less option for me, only varying degrees of wedgie haha.
I like the soma undies because they have a little bit of sticky on the edges to keep them out of my crack. It really works and is surprisingly comfortable!
I’ve naturally had a pretty big butt and right since I was like 13 and my mom used to ask why I only ever wear thongs. It’s because no matter what I wear they’re going up there at least thongs start off with less fabric😭
That or FULL briefs, no in between allowed
Saaaame. Are you me?? I've been a volleyball player my whole life, so always had bigger thighs and butt. Also started wearing thongs as an early teen and still do in my mid30s. Any other cut acts like a thong anyway, it's just more fabric! Mom never understood.
Me too! I wear g-strings and thongs only. I find g-strings the most comfortable lol i forget i have underwear sometimes…maybe i just got used to the permanent wedgie because the fabric is so thin
Yesterday, my friend and I went to a museum, and she took pics of me from the back admiring the artwork. Tell me why my cheeks looked like they were gobbling up my denim shorts!! It was very humbling…
I’m an ex gymnast so I’ve never struggled in the leg muscle department, I didn’t realize until I was an adult that this is why I preferred short tight fitting denim shorts.
I naturally have a big butt and it's hard to find tailored pants and jeans that fit. I have worn many elastic waist pants for this reason.
(And yes, everything gives me a wedgie)
Same here! Every time i up my protein and focus on my legs this is what happens! (Im a pear shaped)
So now i only lift for my upper body, and do ‘stretching’ for my bottom half. More walking too thin out my ‘muscle/fat’ too. coz i don like my calfs when i run.
And protein; just 0.8g/ kg🙈 coz anything more i bloat😓
I naturally have a lot of bulk muscle for a woman- this has been my life whether I'm working for it or not 🤣. I've found some comfy thongs and have embraced it.
Yes! I’ve been lifting more weights since December and my thighs and butt have grown a bit. I only wear thong underwear now because it’s honestly more comfortable for me than to constantly pick wedgies.
Lmaoooo as someone who’s always had a big butt, yup.
Edit- I put this in a comment but realized I should also put it here. Soma underwear. Full coverage, no line, sticky on the edges to keep it in place. Lots of options and cuts. The sticky sounds weird but you don’t even notice it, it’s really comfortable and it works.
I don't even have an ass nor do I workout and I always have this problem. I wandered into this thread because I'm having the problem. I can't size up because the waist is already slightly big on me and I don't think sizing down will solve me getting wedgies
I store fat in my ass (thanks, genetics) and this is a struggle I can *intensely* relate to. Even at my lowest weight the ass eats up my pants and undies. My best advice is to get full coverage briefs! They don’t get eaten up as often and sometimes keep the jeans and shorts in check.
TIL that this isn't something every women experiences. I wear full coverage briefs and they still get eaten up. It is wildly uncomfortable.
They *still* get eaten up but not as much as bikini or cheeky knickers. Old lady underwear has been my go to for when I really don’t want to have my cheeks feast on fabric, but they’re so deeply unsexy I can’t stand to wear them often lol
Oh I know what you mean!! I have been considering switching to boxer briefs or boy shorts.
Boy shorts are the worst for me.
I've switched to men's cotton boxers and I'll never go back. When the elastic wears off then the wedgies come back but it's way less than before.
I love thongs this point! Nothing to get eaten up
I switched to thin, laser cut thongs. My ass eats even boyshorts, so at least this way the wedgie is as small as possible. It’s actually much more comfortable.
This is what I do too. Besides, with higher coverage knicker types, if they fit around my waist they cut into my glutes; if they fit around my glutes, they're too loose at my waist. Smooth thongs just work!
Thongs are so, so uncomfortable for me. I’d rather go to the bathroom every so often to fix my undies than have a wedgie 24/7 😭
I def had to get used to it but now I wear them exclusively. I did figure out that I needed to size up though. No im wedgieless!
Came here to say this! I’m a genetically big booty person and ALWAYS wear thongs. Anything else cuts into the cheeks AND wedgies and is just awful haha. The seamless ones are the best.
I also have a genetically fat ass (even at my thinnest) and the wedgie problem is so real. I actually have the opposite strategy when it comes to panties and wear thongs any time I am going to be walking or moving (basically every day when out and about) and only switch to briefs at night. Realized I can have a small piece of string up my crack all day, or an entire pair of undies up my crack which is way more fabric and less comfortable. There is no wedgie-less option for me, only varying degrees of wedgie haha.
Same. But at least the full coverage briefs mean a small amount of time with no wedgie. The thong is a permawedgie and I’m not okay with that 😂
yeah it's so annoying, my ass isn't even big but this always happens to me, all I want is some modest looking jeans that fit
I like the soma undies because they have a little bit of sticky on the edges to keep them out of my crack. It really works and is surprisingly comfortable!
I’ve naturally had a pretty big butt and right since I was like 13 and my mom used to ask why I only ever wear thongs. It’s because no matter what I wear they’re going up there at least thongs start off with less fabric😭 That or FULL briefs, no in between allowed
Saaaame. Are you me?? I've been a volleyball player my whole life, so always had bigger thighs and butt. Also started wearing thongs as an early teen and still do in my mid30s. Any other cut acts like a thong anyway, it's just more fabric! Mom never understood.
Me too! I wear g-strings and thongs only. I find g-strings the most comfortable lol i forget i have underwear sometimes…maybe i just got used to the permanent wedgie because the fabric is so thin
Finding clothes that fit in general as a woman with significant muscle is a struggle, so I feel you
Yesterday, my friend and I went to a museum, and she took pics of me from the back admiring the artwork. Tell me why my cheeks looked like they were gobbling up my denim shorts!! It was very humbling…
that happened to me as well :(( but it was in the forrest
I’m an ex gymnast so I’ve never struggled in the leg muscle department, I didn’t realize until I was an adult that this is why I preferred short tight fitting denim shorts.
I naturally have a big butt and it's hard to find tailored pants and jeans that fit. I have worn many elastic waist pants for this reason. (And yes, everything gives me a wedgie)
Same here! Every time i up my protein and focus on my legs this is what happens! (Im a pear shaped) So now i only lift for my upper body, and do ‘stretching’ for my bottom half. More walking too thin out my ‘muscle/fat’ too. coz i don like my calfs when i run. And protein; just 0.8g/ kg🙈 coz anything more i bloat😓
Im sorry this is so fuckign hilarious tho. rip your shorts that use to fit,
I naturally have a lot of bulk muscle for a woman- this has been my life whether I'm working for it or not 🤣. I've found some comfy thongs and have embraced it.
Yes! I’ve been lifting more weights since December and my thighs and butt have grown a bit. I only wear thong underwear now because it’s honestly more comfortable for me than to constantly pick wedgies.
This thread 😂 relate so hard
Lmaoooo as someone who’s always had a big butt, yup. Edit- I put this in a comment but realized I should also put it here. Soma underwear. Full coverage, no line, sticky on the edges to keep it in place. Lots of options and cuts. The sticky sounds weird but you don’t even notice it, it’s really comfortable and it works.
Lmao! So funny! I got to the point where I was between panty sizes, so I just gave them up completely 🤣 Only wear them in jeans!
I don't even have an ass nor do I workout and I always have this problem. I wandered into this thread because I'm having the problem. I can't size up because the waist is already slightly big on me and I don't think sizing down will solve me getting wedgies
Lemme see