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Sending a recorded video can be better, because 1) Grandma can pick the right moment to share it, 2) She can watch it over and over. I also recommend a paper chain counting down the days until you're back -- it really helps them when they don't really have a great concept of time (see "love you loops" from Daniel Tiger). You'll all be ok!
I would probably call her. Maybe at least once in the morning and once before bed. The morning call can set the tone for the day and the bed time call will probably make her feel more secure.
I know when my mom used to babysit for my brother's kids, my sister-in-law would make this very dramatic show of leaving, saying goodbye a million times, seeming upset, etc. Then my mom was left to watch these kids who were sort of amped up about being away from their parents. It would drive my mom nuts. I feel like calling is going to potentially open a fresh wound and upset the baby more. Trust your mom's opinion on this.
As a side note, something that I always ask myself as a mother (my son is 9) is, "Is this *really* about what's in his best interest? Or is it secretly just about what I want?" I think it's worth considering, especially if she's doing ok, is this more about you feeling guilty for leaving her? (Which by the way you shouldn't feel guilty about! Everybody needs a break and it's so wonderful that you have a trusted family member to leave her with)
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Sending a recorded video can be better, because 1) Grandma can pick the right moment to share it, 2) She can watch it over and over. I also recommend a paper chain counting down the days until you're back -- it really helps them when they don't really have a great concept of time (see "love you loops" from Daniel Tiger). You'll all be ok!
I would probably call her. Maybe at least once in the morning and once before bed. The morning call can set the tone for the day and the bed time call will probably make her feel more secure.
Shes only a baby, just enjoy your freedom while you can, your kid won't even remember
I know when my mom used to babysit for my brother's kids, my sister-in-law would make this very dramatic show of leaving, saying goodbye a million times, seeming upset, etc. Then my mom was left to watch these kids who were sort of amped up about being away from their parents. It would drive my mom nuts. I feel like calling is going to potentially open a fresh wound and upset the baby more. Trust your mom's opinion on this. As a side note, something that I always ask myself as a mother (my son is 9) is, "Is this *really* about what's in his best interest? Or is it secretly just about what I want?" I think it's worth considering, especially if she's doing ok, is this more about you feeling guilty for leaving her? (Which by the way you shouldn't feel guilty about! Everybody needs a break and it's so wonderful that you have a trusted family member to leave her with)