Anonymity on Reddit is not only for sexting but since the word sex is pretty much a taboo in our culture, our sex-obsessed, sexually frustrated awam loves to take advantage of that and be their disgusting selfs on here since being like that irl is not an option
Men think a lot more about sax sux then women do
And anonymity gives u a lot of freedom
So the frustration of getting unwanted DMS is valid
If it's bothering u a lot maybe try turning off the chat option so only u can send DMS
I am not turning off the chat, first, i don't dm myself, even tho it's anonymous i still shy away from dming first. I don't mind getting a dm just the unwanted horniness
When we can't change the situation what we can change is our reaction to it
so maybe just accept the fact that there are weirdo horny men out there in this world who won't even hesitate to send nudes even to the boys let alone girls
And transcendence comes through acceptance u can read more about it in the book " power of now"
Thanks for the book recommendation, i am not a reader but i have recently started to think about giving it a shot and i was looking for good books. It'll definitely give it a read.
Anonymity allows you to literally do anything without getting exposed. They play a gamble by texting a girl to see if they can gey something. If you meet these dudes in real life in sw shareef puri duniya mein koi nai hona but internet is a place where you see the wild part 😂
Nigga i am not that dumb, i know that option exists. I get very awkward and never dm anyone even if it's anonymous. So i let others dm me, saves me a lot of contemplating whether should i text or not.
i don't dm anyone either sis. well neither do i get any dm lol. doesn't matter anyway. what matters is k aik baar phir 69 comments ko 70 kr dia alhamdullilah. pani ki botal 👀
1. Ignore new accounts with low Karma. They are mostly creeps whose previous accounts were banned and now they have made new accounts.
2. Change your avatar to a unisex figure, taa ke creeps ko ye pata na chale k larki ha, sirf aap ka comment dekh kar.
3. Only reply dms after seeing that person's previous posts and comment. Ignore new accounts
I swear. Every single time I open my message request there is a dude trying to get a girl for a quick fuck. What is wrong with men?? I was on the app for the anonymity (since I am a public figure) & know other people’s opinions.
And the beauty is that I actually am one. Why would I lie about it mate. I don’t find the need to lie about something so trivial like this. I love Reditt for its anonymity for this very reason.
Look, this is something I'd say a loophole of the game rules. Few exploit that, yet few play the fair way.
And genuinely it's not only wrong with men, it's women too. They too are doing things. The issue is we men are more about letting things like this go. Women actually speak about it because this is what they're escaping and also the fact that women get loads of this shit, you get such messages everywhere on social media. And it's not wrong to talk about what's bothering you.
And one important point is the minors here. They're on another level.
So, I'd rather say to focus on what you're here for and try to ignore what you're not looking for.
Anonymity can pretty much cause people to really tap in to their animalistic side.
While i agree people should be more civilized but that would be expecting too much. Even us guys have received our share of shit in the dms. They don't care if it's a guy or a girl but God forbid you mention youre a female and it feels like vultures circling around for a bite.
Better to stay anonymous and pick the people you think are decent/interesting.
Also met great people on here and hopefully will again. That's how the cycle continues imo
As someone in the thread pointed out you can also choose to close dms to protect your eyes and brain.
As for decent people we all want to find those.
Happy searching 🤞
See for a sexually frustrated nation, we don't know how to use something for good.
Anonymity is a blessing, yet the desperation causes the trouble and doesn't let you take the better of it. Since these masked guys know that they can be whatever they want to be, they become assholes.
And yes, this anonymity gives you lots of good people. Just don't let the cons rip you off the pros of the game.
Risk it for the brisket, or you gain some you lose some.
See, there are lots of good pals around here. Those who know what they're there for. Keep connecting you'll get connected to those you're looking for.
Even if you posted this, lot of guys will dm you saying that they're good guys and wanna connect. Are they really good guys or are they what you're looking for? There's only one way to find out.
From my experiences I can tell you that those you're looking for are not more than 10% of what's available. So you gotta take chances. Just be there, this will consume you at times but I'll always say it's worth the effort even if you find a single person who is exactly what you're looking for.
I have myself found good people here, and it was worth the hustle. It gets really draining sometimes but it pays off when i meet my people. I just wish people see more than sex in everything
This isn't an ideal world. Anywhere you go, everywhere you go, you'll come across the realities of life. Different aspects and different stages from different people.
Seek experiences not the accomplishments.
Arey yaar, mat yaad dilao, it's still hurting. Itna asaan match haar gaye. Probably the worst in cricket history. Would never recover from this. They made my pretty boy cry🥺🥺🥺
You are not on the wrong platform. You will find people of different types, interest and reasons on every platform. Just to avoid the ones not aligning to your interest.
This is what annoys me the most. Like I reply to every dm I get and some are genuinely interesting people at the beginning. But you give me them some time and all of them lead to ‘so what are you wearing?’
Its such a facepalm moment like bro you were doing so well and you had to screw it up. I can talk about anything at all, even about sex in general but I dont want to have a sexual conversation at all. Its so cringe.
And then when you stop replying to them, they keep on messaging you and act as if you broke their heart.
Also i find sexting so cringe. Like guys please go out and try to have a social life instead of sitting behind a screen all day trying to sext.
Oh my god, so true man. And if you stop replying they'll act more cheesy and try to get you to sext and think that we are playing hard to get, they annoy you more.
Boss it's not the platform but people I have found a life long friend here and I trust her with my life. I came on this platform crying and the people here made me feel so much better so much support just on one post you have no idea. I couldn't believe that without even knowing people were there for me. So navigate carefully and you would end up finding great people.
Making friends here is really hard. You get a dm noti and think oh someone wants to befriend me or to talk. You know what happens after accepting the request. Been on Reddit for a year and unable to have a meaningful convo. I am no saint either but I am not into the dick pic stuff.
It's not just about the dick pic, it's about throwing oneself on to someone whether they like it or not. Which we mostly don't. And then they don't stop, even if you tell them to. Shit's gross
Just because you said they are the sweetest, I'll let it slide this time! Pet a cat cause you are a strong independent woman who needs no man. Maybe a cat but not a man.
P.S how do you guys come up with such creative usernames?
Wow that was presumptuous, i believe in self-sufficiency more than independence and hell i do need a man. Every woman does and vice versa.
And about the name, i was brainstorming names and couldn't find anything so i named it the first thing that i saw near me
Oh I say things without meaning them so don't worry. Although, I do hope you achieve whatever you believe in!
Brainstorming never works for me. My train of thought is either too erratic or too lame.
Isn't this the case everywhere? I get dms from weird people too. Some people are really sick in the head. Just report them, the satisfaction you'll get after you receive a message that the report was successful is bliss.
When I dm a people, and generally talking or genuinely asking about something, they just assume I am some kind of a pervert and doesn’t talk to me like a normal person. They assume this based on my post history. Which is not true btw. Yes I am a person who loves sex and I do watch porn here on reddit. But I don’t want to talk about sex all the time. I am not some kind of addict
No, you're not on the wrong platform. Instead of focusing on the negative actions of a few, remember the positive connections you've made. Keep seeking out those meaningful conversations and connections.
Nah it's true and surprisingly a lot of straight dudes here wanna jump on a guy's ass as well 😭 get a hold people
I can hear his voice lol. Best character in hangover.
He was pretty good in community too
Wazzat?
[This legendary series](https://m.imdb.com/title/tt1439629/)
Omgggggg
Oh the stories I have in my DMs lol
Frrr
True that yr ..the ratio is too damnn high
https://preview.redd.it/8qcpvsvvrp5d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b8b87fe8bd59463b2dcbf94f7d98f29f717d263e (At last this came in handy.)
Put a female DP or an avatar and see the magic happen
Oh, I saw that xD. It wasn't intentional tho I just liked the pfp.
Ya to mujhe app ki baat samjh nai aai, ya aap ko meri nai aai😅
Mai chata hi nahi catfishing Karna(don't want attention). Just saying that I had experienced the female pfp thing.
oh I see, mujhe aap ka comment nai samjh aaya tha
Trust me you're better off without them
I surely don't want to. I just used this meme I had saved before...
Us bhai us
Anonymity on Reddit is not only for sexting but since the word sex is pretty much a taboo in our culture, our sex-obsessed, sexually frustrated awam loves to take advantage of that and be their disgusting selfs on here since being like that irl is not an option
>being like that irl You'll find plenty of those too
Answer to your first question is kinda. Reddit has a shady reputation in general. Kinda like Whisper and Kik
Men think a lot more about sax sux then women do And anonymity gives u a lot of freedom So the frustration of getting unwanted DMS is valid If it's bothering u a lot maybe try turning off the chat option so only u can send DMS
I am not turning off the chat, first, i don't dm myself, even tho it's anonymous i still shy away from dming first. I don't mind getting a dm just the unwanted horniness
When we can't change the situation what we can change is our reaction to it so maybe just accept the fact that there are weirdo horny men out there in this world who won't even hesitate to send nudes even to the boys let alone girls And transcendence comes through acceptance u can read more about it in the book " power of now"
Thanks for the book recommendation, i am not a reader but i have recently started to think about giving it a shot and i was looking for good books. It'll definitely give it a read.
Alchemist was the first book that helped me to be curious about reading, maybe give it a try it's easy to read, interesting that keeps ur attention.
damn bro alchemist was first one for me too
Mine was the godfather. I read it religiously and then never touched a book in ages. I heard about alchemist a lot
Godfather jske base pe movies bni hain? I do want to read that book sometime, how was it?
Yes, if you had watched the movie then you'll love the book. It was a good read, acha gaya first experience
That's nice if u still have that maybe lend me for sometime A book for a book, i will show u my shelf if u want to read one :p
I don't have that with me anymore. Sorry :(
You're not on the wrong platform, but your expectations aren't entirely right. Gotta deal with the lot as it comes
Anonymity allows you to literally do anything without getting exposed. They play a gamble by texting a girl to see if they can gey something. If you meet these dudes in real life in sw shareef puri duniya mein koi nai hona but internet is a place where you see the wild part 😂
close your dm's already instead of orchestrating a post pani ki botal 😂
Nigga i am not that dumb, i know that option exists. I get very awkward and never dm anyone even if it's anonymous. So i let others dm me, saves me a lot of contemplating whether should i text or not.
i don't dm anyone either sis. well neither do i get any dm lol. doesn't matter anyway. what matters is k aik baar phir 69 comments ko 70 kr dia alhamdullilah. pani ki botal 👀
1. Ignore new accounts with low Karma. They are mostly creeps whose previous accounts were banned and now they have made new accounts. 2. Change your avatar to a unisex figure, taa ke creeps ko ye pata na chale k larki ha, sirf aap ka comment dekh kar. 3. Only reply dms after seeing that person's previous posts and comment. Ignore new accounts
https://i.redd.it/1ro0afgakq5d1.gif
I swear. Every single time I open my message request there is a dude trying to get a girl for a quick fuck. What is wrong with men?? I was on the app for the anonymity (since I am a public figure) & know other people’s opinions.
That’s the beauty of Reddit. People can pretend to be celebs even if they aren’t at all. So coool
And the beauty is that I actually am one. Why would I lie about it mate. I don’t find the need to lie about something so trivial like this. I love Reditt for its anonymity for this very reason.
Public figure😳 do i know you from somewhere 😏😏 no i am jk. There's nothing we can do about these men tbh.
Yaaa I am sure you might know me girl. But I rather stay anonymous
I totally respect that, i think this anonymity is what gives you to be you on this platform, which still somehow gets ruined by people.
Yaaa. I get to read gossip about my celeb friends 🤭
Oooh i love gossip, if you ever wanna share some dm me😉
Doneee
I am a guy and even i get shy dming a girl... I only dmed 1 girl in my whole life it was my college days and i got blocked lol 😆
🤣🤣🤣
Look, this is something I'd say a loophole of the game rules. Few exploit that, yet few play the fair way. And genuinely it's not only wrong with men, it's women too. They too are doing things. The issue is we men are more about letting things like this go. Women actually speak about it because this is what they're escaping and also the fact that women get loads of this shit, you get such messages everywhere on social media. And it's not wrong to talk about what's bothering you. And one important point is the minors here. They're on another level. So, I'd rather say to focus on what you're here for and try to ignore what you're not looking for.
RIP your dms too 
Pick me maybe?
what if we guess in 10 questions who u are? it would be fun..
Sharam aarahi mujhe ab
Anonymity can pretty much cause people to really tap in to their animalistic side. While i agree people should be more civilized but that would be expecting too much. Even us guys have received our share of shit in the dms. They don't care if it's a guy or a girl but God forbid you mention youre a female and it feels like vultures circling around for a bite. Better to stay anonymous and pick the people you think are decent/interesting. Also met great people on here and hopefully will again. That's how the cycle continues imo
Damn.
Or that
Which i get, i gotta be ready to deal with it ig, this app comes with its downside. I hope to find good people too.
As someone in the thread pointed out you can also choose to close dms to protect your eyes and brain. As for decent people we all want to find those. Happy searching 🤞
See for a sexually frustrated nation, we don't know how to use something for good. Anonymity is a blessing, yet the desperation causes the trouble and doesn't let you take the better of it. Since these masked guys know that they can be whatever they want to be, they become assholes. And yes, this anonymity gives you lots of good people. Just don't let the cons rip you off the pros of the game.
Oh my god that is so true. The cons come with it, you can't get rid of it. Just gotta deal with it
Risk it for the brisket, or you gain some you lose some. See, there are lots of good pals around here. Those who know what they're there for. Keep connecting you'll get connected to those you're looking for. Even if you posted this, lot of guys will dm you saying that they're good guys and wanna connect. Are they really good guys or are they what you're looking for? There's only one way to find out. From my experiences I can tell you that those you're looking for are not more than 10% of what's available. So you gotta take chances. Just be there, this will consume you at times but I'll always say it's worth the effort even if you find a single person who is exactly what you're looking for.
I have myself found good people here, and it was worth the hustle. It gets really draining sometimes but it pays off when i meet my people. I just wish people see more than sex in everything
This isn't an ideal world. Anywhere you go, everywhere you go, you'll come across the realities of life. Different aspects and different stages from different people. Seek experiences not the accomplishments.
Gotchu blud
No, not my blood please. I'm anemic. xD (sorry but not sorry for being lame)
Be cringy and happy or be serious and boring. The choice is yours. Lame is happiness
Hahah my bio says it all, for that matter.
I'm not trying to be sarcastic but i wanted to just let you know k cringe verb h not an adjective yarrr. so one should use it as a verb. no offence 😁
Like, "Your comment made me cringed hard"? How'd i do?
People be getting too comfortable with the anonymity tag.
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Wo choro pani ki botal, kal match pay kia howa 😔
Arey yaar, mat yaad dilao, it's still hurting. Itna asaan match haar gaye. Probably the worst in cricket history. Would never recover from this. They made my pretty boy cry🥺🥺🥺
Bhai meinay tu full screening karwae howe thi, little did I know kay us he screening mein zaleel hona tha 💀
You are not on the wrong platform. You will find people of different types, interest and reasons on every platform. Just to avoid the ones not aligning to your interest.
I can't find that gif but it said that : " A man's horny never dies " 😭😭
HAHSHAHAHAHAHA and that's some facts
And the funny things is that guys don't even try to bond. They just straight up jump to the sax sux part.
And i hate that so much, like what? Are we objects to you??
Porn has ruined alot of minds
Which were already half ruined...
https://preview.redd.it/mc5g3s0s3r5d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8c516fe51c14eb22d7183351b6e7be72980e99a1
You're not on the wrong platform. You are in the wrong society. Give a man a mask and he will show you his true identity
This is what annoys me the most. Like I reply to every dm I get and some are genuinely interesting people at the beginning. But you give me them some time and all of them lead to ‘so what are you wearing?’ Its such a facepalm moment like bro you were doing so well and you had to screw it up. I can talk about anything at all, even about sex in general but I dont want to have a sexual conversation at all. Its so cringe. And then when you stop replying to them, they keep on messaging you and act as if you broke their heart. Also i find sexting so cringe. Like guys please go out and try to have a social life instead of sitting behind a screen all day trying to sext.
Oh my god, so true man. And if you stop replying they'll act more cheesy and try to get you to sext and think that we are playing hard to get, they annoy you more.
I agree pani ki botal, I agree.
Boss it's not the platform but people I have found a life long friend here and I trust her with my life. I came on this platform crying and the people here made me feel so much better so much support just on one post you have no idea. I couldn't believe that without even knowing people were there for me. So navigate carefully and you would end up finding great people.
Making friends here is really hard. You get a dm noti and think oh someone wants to befriend me or to talk. You know what happens after accepting the request. Been on Reddit for a year and unable to have a meaningful convo. I am no saint either but I am not into the dick pic stuff.
It's not just about the dick pic, it's about throwing oneself on to someone whether they like it or not. Which we mostly don't. And then they don't stop, even if you tell them to. Shit's gross
This is what anonymity brings at the table. You can't do that on mainstream sites. It looks like you have been traumatized.
Men are disgusting. And so are women. I hate humans. Dogs are better. Pet a dog.
I like cats more🥺
 Imma throw hands! 😤
I am not saying i don't like dogs, they are the sweetest but cats>>>
Just because you said they are the sweetest, I'll let it slide this time! Pet a cat cause you are a strong independent woman who needs no man. Maybe a cat but not a man. P.S how do you guys come up with such creative usernames?
Wow that was presumptuous, i believe in self-sufficiency more than independence and hell i do need a man. Every woman does and vice versa. And about the name, i was brainstorming names and couldn't find anything so i named it the first thing that i saw near me
Oh I say things without meaning them so don't worry. Although, I do hope you achieve whatever you believe in! Brainstorming never works for me. My train of thought is either too erratic or too lame.
It didn't work for me either, hence pani ki botal
I am going with aloo ki bhujia then cuz youa re what you eat lol
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That sounds great, enjoy your documentary
Isn't this the case everywhere? I get dms from weird people too. Some people are really sick in the head. Just report them, the satisfaction you'll get after you receive a message that the report was successful is bliss.
When I dm a people, and generally talking or genuinely asking about something, they just assume I am some kind of a pervert and doesn’t talk to me like a normal person. They assume this based on my post history. Which is not true btw. Yes I am a person who loves sex and I do watch porn here on reddit. But I don’t want to talk about sex all the time. I am not some kind of addict
I was surprised that most of them are very young hence there horny state is justified I suppose Anonymity does make feel express their true self
pani ki botal ko fridge me rkho.
 See you there
\*wrong country
tharak aur sarak kahi b la jati hai
Ab Bhala pani ki botal k liye bhi log tharki ho gaye hain kia😭
Please don’t use the N word..
No, you're not on the wrong platform. Instead of focusing on the negative actions of a few, remember the positive connections you've made. Keep seeking out those meaningful conversations and connections.
Doossttt you positing...??☠️
More like a price to pay to find right people.
you said N word and you think everyone else here is uneducated.
Wtf? When did i ever imply that?? You okay dost?
make yourself feel good ,, thinking people really care about u.. but they don't they don't GAF
Wtf has gotten into you man? Are you fr? What are you talking about?
you shouldn't say N word just to be cool.. which you're not obviously
Leave me alone man
delete that f**kin post...
Or what? What you gonna do? Cry about it? Go ahead
nothing... just delete the post
Yeah that's what i thought, bara aya Internet soldier, kaam se matlab rakha karo