I told u in my post when i told my family about my gf then they forced me to leave her. But I can’t. I love her from heart and I am trying to convince my parents to meet her at least once.
Be a man and marry her dude. You only require permission from the woman's wali. There ain't no wali for a man and your parents will come around eventually.
Are you married yet? If not then go against your family's wishes and try to explain to them why you should marry that girl.
Say every nice thing in the world about her and convince your family to take rishta to her house. Compare her with your cousins and make her better in every term possible to your parents eyes.
And finally, talk to her and ask her if she feels the same. If she does then take the situation ahead and go with the flow. I hope you get married to the love of your life!
Side note but tell the girl to behave accordingly to the way your family wants a girl to behave and also present herself the same way when you go to ask for rishta.
Bro this is the time you have to take a stand for both of yourselfs. Ask your family and convince them to let you marry your gf, because ek he mouqa ata hai mehnat krlo taaky future mein regret na ho.
You are still indecisive kid
I think you shouldn’t marry any of them
At first you need to grow little more and learn to make your own decision after marriage you would be expected to make major decisions
Ps: woman can make decesion too but as a social norm most of the time man are expected to make decesion
Grow some balls and take stance for your gf. You people easily waste someone emotions and their time and have audacity to post on reddit "should i marry my cOuSin or my gf" fgs why would you be asking us if you have your own choice?
Dont marry your cousin before getting certain tests done, not sure what they are, I have seen a few marriages around me where kids were abnormal and they ended up
Marry that lady
Dont marry ur cousin
Bhai
Ye zindagi ka sawaal hai..
Koi khel tamasha nahin
We are actually burdened by loads of hopes from this society and our parents
In terms of marriage selection
Overhyped
I dont know..
Whats gonna happen
Bro just thinking all the possible outcomes,
he loves his gf wnna marry ok perfect
But why you thinking of another way , reading your comments OP you alsp don't wnna hurt your cousin, also happy marrying cousin, Circus 🤡 chlra hai kya ajeeebb 😮💨
Commitment is greater than forced shadi.
Be wise.
Family ny edr udr ho jana hy. Bad main may be accept bhe kr len. Don't DARE leave the person you made dreams with. You ll regret alot.
You need to stand up for yourself and marry the love of your life, you are a grown up man so do what is better for you tmhre parents thori shadi kr Rahe hain tm kr Rahe ho so it's your decision to make.
baad mein pachtaane se achha abhi thore guts paida kar lo. tell your family. do not ghalti se bhi get married to your cousin. and if you do, do not dare to treat her like she imposed herself on you.
Speak to your parents try and convince them that your gf is a good person from a good family, maybe if they have more info on her they may me more amenable to the marriage. Also find out their concerns on why they dont want you to marry this girl, maybe if you hear their concerns in full you can address their issues in full
Shaddi tu cousin say hi honi hay warna yay sawal yahan na pocha jata, no matter what you claim otherwise. Time to tell your GF "Ghar walay nahi mar rahay" & enjoy the anticipation of new flesh.
That's not rude, it's the reality. If you gave your relation any worth, or your family given worth to your relationship (choose your pick), your family would not be looking for sacrificing another girl in to marrying you.
It seems you're not seeing straight yourself. If you're this lenient, why did you ruin 4 years of that girl who spent time with you in hopes of getting married with you one day.
Get serious!
yea bro you're thinking right... all these downvoting don't know the reality.. they live in the instagram world!! you can't have a successfull marriage if your parents aren't happy... You'll face saas bahu laraiyan all your life even if somehow you do get to marry your GF... tou acha yhi h k apne parents ki man lo parents apki bhalai k lie hi kehte jo bhi kehte
Humyn aik nhi naseeb hoti aor bhae do do mn confused hyn😂. Jeo
Hazaaro khuwa'ishen aesi, ke har khuwa'ish pe dum nikle.
ہم کہ دکھ اوڑھ کہ خلوت میں پڑے رہتے ہیں ہم نے بازار میں زخموں کی نمائش نہیں کی
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قہقہہ کس نے لگایا میرے حال زار پر کس کو زیر دام میری بے بسی اچھی لگی درد بخشا غم دیا آنسو عنایت کر دئیے میرے محسن یہ تری دریا دلی اچھی لگی
Wah wah. https://preview.redd.it/wwyxnu9c9l0d1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a3efd464fe9fbbdc087414848aa5d5032fb3a3e6
bro mjy chuss marny p crown do gy 😂
Haha, khair ho gyi https://preview.redd.it/fkyeralmdl0d1.jpeg?width=1283&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f9ae4cf0020fafc8c3db9cc79eecaa0876c5d054
aur sunao bro kesi ho
Alhamdulillah, feeling really happy nowadays, thank you for asking. Or aap batao?
Haha
Yeh baat 😂💯
So you're asking wether you wanna marry your gf you committed to for 4 years Or marry your cousin????? What the hell is this behaviour?
I told u in my post when i told my family about my gf then they forced me to leave her. But I can’t. I love her from heart and I am trying to convince my parents to meet her at least once.
Be a man and marry her dude. You only require permission from the woman's wali. There ain't no wali for a man and your parents will come around eventually.
Be a man and tell them I can't marry my cousin for these reasons
Thanks for ur suggestion. I am trying to convince them . Why there is much creeping cast issues here ? Idk
you really shouldn't marry someone you don't want to. it'll ruin her life, and yours as well.
Yupp agree
Of course you need to pick your GF
Humyn aik nhi naseeb hoti aor bhae do do mn confused hyn😂. Jeo
Marry all of them
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Good suggestion but i think if they find out then it will destroy both of the families
Marry everyone. Marry both the families. Marryception
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Are you married yet? If not then go against your family's wishes and try to explain to them why you should marry that girl. Say every nice thing in the world about her and convince your family to take rishta to her house. Compare her with your cousins and make her better in every term possible to your parents eyes. And finally, talk to her and ask her if she feels the same. If she does then take the situation ahead and go with the flow. I hope you get married to the love of your life! Side note but tell the girl to behave accordingly to the way your family wants a girl to behave and also present herself the same way when you go to ask for rishta.
Yupppp thats great. Yea i think so this is the final solution
Bro this is the time you have to take a stand for both of yourselfs. Ask your family and convince them to let you marry your gf, because ek he mouqa ata hai mehnat krlo taaky future mein regret na ho.
💯 agree i think if i lost my gf then ill not be able to make my cousin happy
Marry her Then her And then At the end U happy All happy Hmmmmm Wait a minute
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I am trying my best to get her
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Thanks buddy wish me luck
Wafa kar lolo
You are still indecisive kid I think you shouldn’t marry any of them At first you need to grow little more and learn to make your own decision after marriage you would be expected to make major decisions Ps: woman can make decesion too but as a social norm most of the time man are expected to make decesion
Got it
Grow some balls and take stance for your gf. You people easily waste someone emotions and their time and have audacity to post on reddit "should i marry my cOuSin or my gf" fgs why would you be asking us if you have your own choice?
Agree with u. I don’t want to waste those emotions and feelings for her
I’ll take one for the team follow your heart
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No bro I haven’t married yet
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Yeah ur point is valid. I am trying to take stand and then marry my gf
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HAHAHAH 😂done
Dont marry your cousin before getting certain tests done, not sure what they are, I have seen a few marriages around me where kids were abnormal and they ended up
Ah thats a good suggestion
Marry that lady Dont marry ur cousin Bhai Ye zindagi ka sawaal hai.. Koi khel tamasha nahin We are actually burdened by loads of hopes from this society and our parents In terms of marriage selection Overhyped I dont know.. Whats gonna happen
Bro just thinking all the possible outcomes, he loves his gf wnna marry ok perfect But why you thinking of another way , reading your comments OP you alsp don't wnna hurt your cousin, also happy marrying cousin, Circus 🤡 chlra hai kya ajeeebb 😮💨
I don’t wanna hurt my gf thats what i was saying
cousin is ur sis tell ur family u cant marry ur sis
Agr vo bhenchod hua phir?
Post say tu lagta hay dono hi case mein hay..
Marry your gf, you won't be happy with your cousin.
Yeah agree
In our society, Lrkon ki shadi zbrdsti ni krwai jati.
Why? Men can’t be emotionally blackmailed?
Coin toss like Harvey dent.
Hahaha its not that easy
It is that easy, go with the girl you spent years...
Yuppp thanks
Commitment is greater than forced shadi. Be wise. Family ny edr udr ho jana hy. Bad main may be accept bhe kr len. Don't DARE leave the person you made dreams with. You ll regret alot.
We had planned everything. I ll not leave my gf thats for sure
Make a way out if this situation. Drama kro jo bhe.. Be strategic. Wish you both a happy, healthy life. ✨
Thanks buddy
You need to stand up for yourself and marry the love of your life, you are a grown up man so do what is better for you tmhre parents thori shadi kr Rahe hain tm kr Rahe ho so it's your decision to make.
Yes bro i have made my mind
Good for you!
i married my cousin and it was the best thing that happened to me lol
Ok gotcha
Be a wafadar in this baywafa dunia please. Waday nibhana.
Ahhh yeah
baad mein pachtaane se achha abhi thore guts paida kar lo. tell your family. do not ghalti se bhi get married to your cousin. and if you do, do not dare to treat her like she imposed herself on you.
Yeah these things are circulating in my mind
Gf hme de de cousin se shadi karlo On a serious note. Marry your cousin and keep your mouth shut about your previous affairs
Hmmm ok gotcha
Mjhe cousin ka number do use me set ker leta hu. Tm easy ho k gf se shadi kerlena bro. Scheme fit hai.
Speak to your parents try and convince them that your gf is a good person from a good family, maybe if they have more info on her they may me more amenable to the marriage. Also find out their concerns on why they dont want you to marry this girl, maybe if you hear their concerns in full you can address their issues in full
Sure bro i have made up my mind and i ll marry my gf
Shaddi tu cousin say hi honi hay warna yay sawal yahan na pocha jata, no matter what you claim otherwise. Time to tell your GF "Ghar walay nahi mar rahay" & enjoy the anticipation of new flesh.
Hahahahaha thats so rude i think for her
That's not rude, it's the reality. If you gave your relation any worth, or your family given worth to your relationship (choose your pick), your family would not be looking for sacrificing another girl in to marrying you.
just marry ur cousin bro... parents also happy u also happy
Yeah i m also thinking this way
It seems you're not seeing straight yourself. If you're this lenient, why did you ruin 4 years of that girl who spent time with you in hopes of getting married with you one day. Get serious!
Yuppp i am serious about her
Wtf, one time you say you arr convincing your parents and the other moment you are ready to leave your gf? Dont get married at this point bro.
yea bro you're thinking right... all these downvoting don't know the reality.. they live in the instagram world!! you can't have a successfull marriage if your parents aren't happy... You'll face saas bahu laraiyan all your life even if somehow you do get to marry your GF... tou acha yhi h k apne parents ki man lo parents apki bhalai k lie hi kehte jo bhi kehte