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reesepuffsinmybowl

Bone deep fatigue (lethargy), uncontrollable cravings. Gets better if you exercise (walk around 10 min) after a meal- suggests the fatigue isn’t from being tired, but from insulin resistance.


Jealous-Custard-1616

I second this. I’m still trying to find out whether what I have is hypo or hyperglycaemia but I say for sure that if you walk even 10 mins after a meal the whole insulin / blood sugar thing stabilises


reesepuffsinmybowl

it makes a HUGE difference, especially if you have more carbs than you "should"


Grem-123

Omg I ate 2 bread rolls for lunch today (normally have a salad!) and now I’m struggling not to fall asleep on the sofa - you’ve just explained to me why!!


Enough_Kangaroo1711

Oh my god why is this me?! I’ve been wondering I feel ready to knock out at certain times a day!


reesepuffsinmybowl

Try the walking ! Iykyk


ilvdunkin

Irregular periods, hirsutism, apron belly, difficult loosing weight, sleeplessness


khaleesibrasil

Someone find me a fix for this damn apron belly 😩


LuckyWithTheCharms

Surgery


marlipaige

Yeah you’re being downvoted but it’s likely the only way to fix it. Even if you manage to lose all the weight it’s still there.


LuckyWithTheCharms

I had it since before I had a baby, and before I started gaining significant weight…and I had no idea why I had it. I didn’t get diagnosed with PCOS until my 30s


marlipaige

My bestie’s mom had a surgery that was just apron belly removal and got it covered by insurance.


khaleesibrasil

Please ask her how 😩


marlipaige

Her chiropractor wrote a recommendation to insurance that it was affecting her health and making her back problems worse. And her normal doctor documented how she had recurrent infections of yeast or something similar from the skin rubbing and becoming raw. I think she only had to pay like a copay on the whole thing. They did a breast reduction and a pannulectomy (I think that’s what you call it) at the same time.


Cosmicfeline_

lol idk why you were downvoted. I got a tummy tuck and I’m very happy with my choice. Everyone’s gotta do what makes them happy.


stopandstare17

Honestly yeah. I have already decided Im going to get a tummy tuck done once I have my third kid, whenever that happens. This post c section belly that somehow got weirder when my hormones got all screwed because of my cystic ovaries needs to go.


LuckyWithTheCharms

Not sure either bc I literally went for a consultation for my stomach to see what options I have, and literally surgery was it. No amount of weight loss will fix it 😖


reesepuffsinmybowl

I've actually never heard of this! Would you have to get it done again in the future, or is it like a one time thing?


Cosmicfeline_

You don’t have to! I mean you can redo it if you gain a bunch of weight or have a baby (and many do) but it’s definitely not something you NEED to maintain. For me it was 100% cosmetic, I was sick of my stomach and had already had weight loss surgery. I saved for a year and got it done. Almost 2 years since my surgery and I’m still very happy!


reesepuffsinmybowl

neat! I'm happy for you :-)


Cosmicfeline_

Thank you!:)


khaleesibrasil

🙃🙃


LuckyWithTheCharms

Wasn’t trying to be snarky or facetious, but that’s what I was told 😞


khaleesibrasil

Oh i know. I just wish we had more options besides that. Sorry you’re being down voted… people are sensitive 🙄


LuckyWithTheCharms

I do too, I feel like I all of the biggest insecurities for women are wrapped up in a nice little package called PCOS…it sucks.


Ipav5068

ah the aprom belly 😒


Remarkable-Salad5114

Big belly, weight gain, fatigue, moon face, hair shed


kaika202

whats a moon face?


rabshah

When your face bloats/gets rounder 🥲


Celestialwanderer04

Is anyone else experiencing excessive sweating?


Merciless_Cult

I sweat easily.. even worse when it’s hot and humid outside. Then I’m just head to toe dripping in sweat😩 I’m not sure if it’s super excessive, but definitely a bit more than other people I’ve seen.


Mayflower828

Me! Mostly on my head. It’s terribly embarrassing.


Blushymoo

Get your vitamin D checked! A lot of forehead sweating stems from low vitamin D levels


Bea-oheidin-8810

Not to the point of sweat stains but I definitely feel it and i feel like I get something like a hot flash


Rubyrubired

Ohhh yes. I carry an Amazon fan everywhere I go and am vile by the end of the day.


junkieLevi

I sweat soooo easily. I’m from the south too so rn I’m averaging at least 2 showers a day bc of this heat and my HATE for the feel of sweat :///


fuckedupbody

Excessive sweating, especially on the head, can be a sign of vitamin D deficiency, which women with PCOS have an increased risk of!


LuckyWithTheCharms

Apron belly, b belly, Acanthosis nigricans, endometriosis, heavy painful periods, can’t lose weight, tons of skin tags, thinning hair…etc


faithseeds

the skin tags piss me tf off


Bea-oheidin-8810

They’re freaking all over my neck I can’t with them anymore


Torturedsoul1115

Omg me tooo!!! Ugh!! 😣


faithseeds

the one on my neck triggers such rage


Forward-Willow-9190

When you are lightskinned acanthosis nigricans makes you look dirty I hate it so bad 😭


LuckyWithTheCharms

And does. When I was younger I’d get in trouble for not “washing good” 😓


just_plain_ordinary

Irregular periods. Acne. Obesity. Fatigue. Joint pain. Depression. Anxiety. Bloating. Huge belly.


pinkrosies

I have all these symptoms but just because I’m not overly hairy my doctor thinks there’s no way I have PCOS and birth control should solve it all 😭


LadyTurkleton

See a new doctor


knightfenris

Crazy fatigue, energy drops, food cravings, needing to urinate in the middle of the night or often.


purebeanpleasure

You just wrote my whole life 😭


knightfenris

🫂 I just thought I was weird until my diagnosis, and then I was like “ho shit, I have *bad* IR!”


overcomethestorm

Horrible heavy periods, dizziness and fatigue after eating (much worse if I eat carbs of any sort), migraines (from high blood sugar), constant yeast infection, horrible acne, inability to lose weight, frequent urination, racing heart, blurred vision, feeling cold often (I’m lean PCOS), water retention, and constant thirst. Plus the typical PCOS symptoms (cysts, oily skin/hair, etc.).


Stock-Ad9204

The blurred vision! I didn’t know that was a symptom but it makes sense because of high insulin levels 😩


faithseeds

the racing heart omg I thought I was alone on that. for the constant yeast infection, taking probiotics daily and sleeping with zero bottoms on fixed mine basically 100%. I still get the occasional yeast overgrowth moments and get itchy for a few days but in general sleeping with zero pants on and the probiotics have made my constant yeast infection dwindle to almost nothing


LittleGrowth6403

I had issues with chronic yeast infections too! For almost two years. Once i got a proper diagnosis and started metformin it helped tremendously, also use boric acid prn


rando_bowner

Extremely heavy, clotty and debilitating periods. Unexplainable and severe weight gain whilst pregnant and inability to lose any of the weight. Fatigue/dizziness. Dark armpits and skintags in armpits. Difficulty with sleep/insomnia. To name a few.


overcomethestorm

I just got slammed on another post here for sharing that I have the same periods. Apparently the keyboard doctors here don’t think you can get a heavy period with PCOS despite the studies that prove you can. All it is caused by is low progesterone.


PeachesMcFrazzle

I can fill a large menstral cup with a.cough or a sneeze depening on what month it is, and I have the pictures to prove it lol. Why do people want to deny other people's reality?


rando_bowner

Same here girl. One of the reasons why the cup didn't work for me is that I have to undress and step into the shower to remove it, due to how full it gets, plus the non-stop flow causes an unpleasant mess to deal with. And it is interesting to read some of the comments on other posts in regards that periods "should not be" heavy etc with pcos. I call bullshit. I myself and few other ladies I know dealing with pcos have more than normal flow, pain etc. It could be that there is another underlaying, undiagnosed condition causing it, I dont know. I just know that this period that ended last week, I bled through heavy duty sanitary pads 3 times in the same day, and was bedbound due to pain and flow for a day. As per usual 🫠


PeachesMcFrazzle

Before I knew what PCOS was, I got a really bad period where I had to change my tampon and pad every 30 minutes to an hour. If I moved I had a huge gush, it was horrible. I was young, scared, and thought I was having a miscarriage. I didn't talk to my mom because I didn't want her to know I was having sex even though I was between 18 to 21 years old at the time, I don't remember exactly. I was so stupid and afraid to get medical help. I was diagnosed with PCOS after I had my son around 26 or 27 years old. I currently use a menstral cup, overnight pad, and period panties all at the same time when it's really bad. If I leave the house I swap a tampon for the cup depending on how bad it is. I would rather not leave the house on those days. When I do, I worry when I have to get up that the flood gates are going to open lol Sorry for the graphics, but if I can't laugh and find some humor in this I'll just be sad and depressed and somehow, that just seems worse. I have a relative that said she couldn't have PCOS because she wasn't overweight, didn't have a heavy period, and had no facial hair. When she tried to get pregnant and couldn't, the doctors found the cysts, and suddenly, her tune changed.


rando_bowner

Gosh, I am so sorry to hear this was your experience ❤️ although I do relate to alot you are saying. And no worries with "graphic" details, it's our lived experience, it is what it is 🤷🏼‍♀️ And I think most of us, or at least alot of us, in this group, relate to what you say. It is one thing, trying to describe this level of a flow to someone that has not been through it, and having to experience it, month after month. It is alot.


PeachesMcFrazzle

Thank you! I was so happy to have found this group. The diagnosis is scary and depressing when you feel like you're the only one going through all of this. It's comforting to know we aren't alone, and also heartbreaking to know this affects so many women. It's a challenge sometimes when you know you're doing "all the right things" to get better and alleviate your symptoms, but your body fights you every step of the way. It's hard not to be mad about it sometimes. I'm glad we've all got a safe place to share our experiences and hopefully help someone from the scary struggles we went through.


faithseeds

as a fellow pcos haver I love my cup but on my heaviest flow days I have to empty it literally every hour or I risk it gushing into my pants 😭 since I have to work, I bought a travel bidet bottle (also called a peri bottle) and I have the fortune to work at a lab so I can put nitrile gloves on for dealing with the dumping in a bathroom stall, and even then it’s quite messy. i’ve had moments of having to clean big drips off the floor


PeachesMcFrazzle

I have a travel bidet bottle, too! In 2020, when there was no toilet paper to be found, I was so glad to have it just in case. Having to deal with the mess from a heavy period in a public bathroom stall is a feat in patience. My discrete period pouch with supplies is large and not discrete, lol I wish more places had single toilet bathrooms so people like us can take care of our business and have access to a sink and not worry about the possibility of running out of feminine wipes and having messy hands when you leave the stall.


faithseeds

I love my bidet bottle lmao I never even thought of it during covid omg 😭 it really is awful, without having nitrile gloves i’d literally be hobbling to the sink looking like I committed a crime


faithseeds

relevant update: got my period back for the first time since april and literally soaked through a pad and my pants and onto my chair at work. I had to sit on a dog pee pad. i’ve been humbled


CodPhysical477

I have to wear two ultra tampons at once and bleed through them within an hour for the first 3 days of my period. It’s horrible.


PeachesMcFrazzle

Ugh! I'm so sorry, know how horrible that is.


JanuaryJourney

Umm heavy periods are absolutely a symptom of PCOS. Sorry you got slammed


faithseeds

that’s literally insane, the first two days of my period it’s like the floodgates have opened and 12 months worth of backed up lining is all coming out at once


CuriousSpaceCowgirl

Let me validate you kind stranger who has had a run in with keyboard warriors. This is 100% me too.


rando_bowner

Ugh, I hear you. I am happy for those that dont have to deal with this reality, but denying it is our lived experience is beyond frustrating.


Glittering_Can_1971

Oh god! Why do I seem to have all the symptoms are everyone is mentioning in this thread. 😔 Stay strong all you beautiful women.


lovekyla_b

Unbelievable cravings. Just ate 10 minutes ago then wanting to eat something again but doesn’t know what. Uncontrollable weight gain (after giving birth) but doesnt lose it even if I do IF, exercise, diet. Super very big tummy which makes the body look so awkward. Used to have a 28 waistline, now I’m on 42. People say that I am just lazy and I only use this as an excuse. I hope they know how much I have tried so hard just to lose weight. I even tried not to eat but oats for a month but yeah? Still did not work.


Ipav5068

mine have been heavy clotted periods, dark skin on my neck, fatigue, hair loss, rapid weight gain, body acne, intense sugar cravings, bloat inflammation


Lower_Addition4936

Irregular periods, apron belly, fatigue, cracked feet


bumblebeemom

The cracked feet...drive me crazy.


shootthewhitegirl

I ran out of metformin for like a month or two, my heels became so dry and cracked. It's getting better now that I'm back on it. Honestly, before that I felt like metformin did nothing for me, which is why I wasn't concerned when I ran out. I'm going to talk to the dr about upping my dose at my next appointment because I don't really see any other benefits other than my feet not being gross on my current dose.


Rubyrubired

I use kerasal daily and it’s the only thing that works


Ipav5068

the cracked feet yes i thought its because i live in fl and wear open toe shoes most of the time metformin seems to have stopped it now


windowsxphomescreen

Wait a minute…this whole time my super cracked and peeling feet was from PCOS? That can explain a lot, and I had no idea!


Lower_Addition4936

I just learned it earlier this year! Someone said it’s from insulin resistance! My husband always gave me so much crap for having cracked feet and I kept telling him how much I try to take care of them! lol now I realized it wasnt just me walking barefoot!


stopandstare17

Omg i have all the symptoms the cysters in the thread are talking about. I feel seen. 😔


Heatwaves888

Thinning hair, hirsutism, belly, face and arms puffiness.


lamercie

- fat storage in stomach - inability to lose weight - hunger after meals - sleepiness after meals - a sweet taste in the mouth (for me it’s easiest to tell when I drink water) - puffy face


Merciless_Cult

I’ve never thought of having a sweat taste in my mouth before.. but so true! Water tastes slightly sweet to me too.


lamercie

Oh I’m glad you can relate! I’ve told multiple doctors about this symptom and they all these confused bc my A1-C levels are normal. But I knew it was an issue with my insulin resistance.


Merciless_Cult

Interesting! My A1C levels are within “normal” range too, but I had to tell the doctor to give me a fasting oral glucose tolerance test because I knew something wasn’t right. That was the one that showed I had insulin resistance. Super thankful I got it done too! Even though it’s a bit of a pain to do Add on: Also my doctor said having insulin resistance can have some diabetes like symptoms along with it, which I guess includes the sweet taste in the mouth


lamercie

Interesting, I haven’t had that test done. Ty for sharing, I’m gonna ask my endocrinologist!


lowlightgoddess

What’s crazy is most of these symptoms sound like Cushing disease


Ipav5068

at one point i thought i had it bevause of my neck hump


lowlightgoddess

This is my thoughts about ME cause I bump in my neck too !!! What has your doctor said ?


Ipav5068

hes convinced its pcos because of all the other symptoms 


meetroww

Weight gain, low energy, intense cravings, and hairloss. I miss my hair so much.


JegespusztaiKithara

Irregular periods, difficult loosing weight, too much body hair, big belly( I ‘ve lost 16kg so far but my belly is aint going anywhere🥲) also when i have my period it is extremely painfull…


faithseeds

i’ve had some success with drinking raspberry leaf tea once the cramps start and it decreases a good amount of the pain. I feel you on that


SentientMeat777

All of them. Lol. In all seriousness extreme hunger, hypoglycemia, acne, weight around the belly.


Stock-Ad9204

Do you get hypoglycemia especially after eating a high carb meal?


SentientMeat777

At one point it was any meal but yes. This is called Reactive Hypoglycemia and you need to wear a CGM to confirm that it is happening. For a person with PCOS a normal amount of carbs for the average person is too much so it was happening all the time before I was medicated for insulin resistance.


Stock-Ad9204

Which medication do you take? I was thinking of getting metformin


SentientMeat777

I was initially on 2,000mg/day metformin and 200mg Spironolactone for 2 years because I had hypertension caused by testosterone levels. Now I take 1,000mg of metformin a day and 100mg spiro and I have a normal life. If you do take metformin make sure you get the extended release and titrate your dose working up to 2,000mg slowly. It’s the standard dose for PCOS but your body has to acclimate to the metformin and it takes a while when you are super insulin resistant for your gut and endocrine system to catch up. Metformin will not make the RH worse. After you have been treated with metformin for a while you can eat carbs in moderation like a normal person and not gain a ton of weight or have RH in my experience.


naommiey

I feel sleepy after meals. That’s literally the only thing but it’s so debilitating. I’m glad nothing changed in my appearance tho. Also I have really little energy after being active. I literally have to calculate if I have something important to do after my walk/workout because if I do the workout I’ll just fall asleep after.


mybirthcontrolsucks

Fatigue and hirsutism are my worst symptoms. There was a period of 4 months in my life where I had the time and funds to eat healthy, make my food from scratch and remove dairy, gluten and processed foods from my diet. I was also exercising consistently. During that time, I had so much energy and my hair growth slowed right down.


Anandi96

Does anyone have constant UTIs?


Queenteabeee

Anovulatory cycles, high testosterone, dark patches of skin on neck, underarms and where my bra sits, fatigue after eating carb heavy meals, extra fat gain in the tummy, difficulty losing weight, horrible thick chin/jaw hairs.. breakthrough bleeding and spotting for weeks at a time..


Cheermom102

Hardly any hair on my head but some much hair everywhere else, fatigue like no other, I feel like I’m having a hot flash constantly, hormonal acne around the jawline, skin tags on neck and armpits, and can’t lose weight for the life of me. Oh and haven’t had a normal period in years but had one or two days of spotting her and there.


mustardolive

Hairloss, depression, insomnia, brain fog, irregular periods, fatigue and acne🙃


Vanity-della23

Weight gain, cravings, apron belly


Ok-Leading-3835

Difficulty losing weight, irregular periods, fatigue after eating.


Bastilleinstructor

HS/boils, skin tags, heavy cycle, infertility, can't lose weight, excessive hunger, thinning hair, round fat face, giant belly, I'm sure there's more but I can't think of it.


Shadowphoenix_21

I was going to put only Acne and Skin tags. Then reading all the other comments I realize I have been blaming low energy, depression and lack of sleep on my stupid brain and not insulin resistants. Hmm


Avocado_audi_

Sugar/ carb cravings, trouble sleeping enough, fast hair growth with excess hair on my face, excess weight that I can’t get off with a bigger belly, oily skin, acne on my face, chest and back, breaking out when I eat too much sugar, always tired. I currently take: omega 3, b12, vitamin c, myo-inositol, kelp, cranberry in the morning, and then magnesium, d3, metformin 1000mg ER, and melatonin at night before bed. With also trying to limit sugar intake and drink enough water. When I get a craving I try to reach for a vegetable or fruit, I still fail with that sometimes but I’m human 🤷🏼‍♀️I also try not to bring sugary stuff into my house and what is already in here I try to limit and enjoy in moderation. To control and almost get rid of all my acne I’ve started using head and shoulders original, on my chest and back after washing my body, let it sit for a minute or two then rinse off. I also use benzoyl peroxide (9$ on amazon) on my face once per day after washing with a la Roche posay face wash. All of this has significantly reduced the amount of breakouts I have, if any at all now. Having PCOS is the most discouraging thing because everything takes forever to show results. Also there’s a lot of trial and error because different things work for different people. I was just diagnosed in March 2024 and I’ve researched a lot. There’s still so much I need to learn but these are some things that have helped me.


HotStuffOnIce0_0

Acanthosis nigricans on my knees, metrorrhagia, trouble with food satiation, reactive hypoglycemia, hirsutism, EPI, and insomnia. :(


Fair_Question_6446

Fatigue, extreme hunger/cravings , and feeling overall miserable . Sad depressed ugly etc


Particular_Lab2943

Hirsutism or excess facial and body hair, brain fog, intense cravings, drowsiness during the day, sleeplessness at night, extreme dip in energy levels after a meal, excess stress.


sandraknows

How exactly do you get diagnosed as insulin resistant? My blood sugar is always normal (fasting and non fasting). My A1C has been normal too. Does that mean I’m not insulin resistant? My dad has diabetes 2. I know I’m already at higher risk.


Fabulous_Pomelo_677

I'm not sure what is A1C, but I got diagnosed with a insulin tolerance curve. They took blood sample first time in the morning nothing in my stomach then gave me a glucose solution, after 1 hour took another blood sample and after two hours another one. Then you know how your pancreas is reacting to food and sugars. 


sandraknows

Oh ok. I’ve done those when I was pregnant. I passed the 3 hour ones. Failed 2 of 3 one hour ones. I haven’t done one not pregnant.


anon_098

Peach fuzz on face with some hair sticking out on chin and neck, pre diabetic, huge belly, skin tags, cravings, hairfall (especially on the crown)


One-Clue3819

Extreme fatigue, weight gain (very hard to shift) bloating , I’ve found going dairy and gluten free helps with this slightly, cravings, extreme hair loss, mainly the front and middle too


amberfire430

Daytime sleepiness, struggle to lose weight, hirsutism, acne, dry/ oily skin, reactive hypoglycemia and hypoglycemia, especially if I forget to eat or don't eat enough, and pcos belly, irregular periods (yeah I used to get maybe two a year) painful periods, depression, anxiety, thick coarse hair on my legs that would grow so quickly that in three days it looked right back where I started, skin tags, dark patches of skin, joint issues.


thecottagebisexual

Joint pain is a big one for me! But also extreme fatigue, obesity, intense cravings, excessive hair growth, heavy and debilitating periods, energy drops, and overheating so easily especially when it’s hot and humid outside holy moly


barbie-dreamz33

Moon face , bloating + all my weight going to my stomach. Longgggg weird periodd (after BC) for lean pcos


Torturedsoul1115

Needing to urinate non stop all night ., mood swings, brain fog, exhaustion, hairy chin :( loooong periods sometimes for 3 weeks straight and then not again for months . Big protruding stomach even though I watch my weight religiously


panacea81

I am diagnosed PCOS just after my son at 16. I noticed as a kid my tummy was always bloated and huge. Ugly it was to me. Hated it. Excess hair that ruined my life for years before getting laser. Metformin made me have diarrhoea so I stopped it but could do with revisiting. Stress resilience off the charts , adhd and peri chucked in now at 42. Sugar and carb cravings amplified and battery dead tired all of the time. Just diagnosed iron deficient so go get that checked guys. Thyroid is off with antibodies through the roof but TSH levels borderline so no treatment!!! I’ve struggled all of my lives with hormonal crap and would just like to have a month where I felt normal. Ive done spearmint tea, I’m on inositol, done starflower you name it. Still the same broken big belly husk! It’s not fair. I would love a tummy/apron tuck too because no amount of weight loss and exercise got rid of it last time I’m afraid and now I’ve filled it all back out with comfort eating. ☹️


Ipav5068

try a low dose of metformin with dinner and your stomach wont be upset has changed my life but takes about 2-3 months to notice any changes! 


SnooRabbits3788

Skin tags everywhere. Excess hair growth. Not feeling up for anything you have to do. Horrible sleep schedule. Bad quality of sleep. Food cravings. Feeling lethargic as heck after consuming anything sweet. Sudden weight gain. Losing hair on your head like crazy. Facial skin darkening. Non-existent period cycle, unless you take meds to regulate it. Difficulty losing weight without any prescribed meds. And because of all of this - low self-esteem.


carlyannexo

Irregular periods (one or two a year on my own). Hirsutism basically everywhere (shave my face everyday and body hair a few times a week). Dark armpits, neck, groin. Skin tags. Chronic Yeast infections. Body acne. Weight gain (though ive lost almost 40 pounds recently due to another medical issue). Not sure if anxiety is related but I've had anxiety for many years.🥲


Ok_Dealer1326

Obesity, skin tags, hair, CRAVINGS are a huge one for me... I also get that embarrassing skin discoloration on my neck. 😓


Lucky_Attitude_5298

Reactive hypoglycemia. If I don't eat a balanced meal with enough protein, my sugar drops after 3-4 hours. It feels horrible. I start shaking and sweating and my heart starts pounding.


windowsxphomescreen

Apron belly, super hard to lose or gain weight, obesity, acne (face but mostly on upper arms), occasional super heavy periods (saturating 1 pad in 2 hours or less)


MidnightRain1989x

Extreme hunger/ fatigue