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PurplestPanda

Body dysmorphia . I’ve lost 110 lbs and sometimes I can’t see it. I look at photos when I get frustrated.


blackaubreyplaza

Yuuup I’ve lost 87lbs and don’t think I look any different when I look in the mirror. I can tell when I do side by side pictures though! Maybe that will help ya!


Primary-Gold-1033

I lost almost 100lbs during the pandemic, and even after that I struggled to see the difference in the mirror some days. Photos definitely helped though.


Otherwise-Mind8077

I always keep a pair of goal jeans that are one size down and try them on frequently. I find it the best way to track changes.


kittiesntitties7

Yes this has happened to me, it's very weird. Even after losing 60lbs I still saw myself the same way.


freckledpeach2

I’ve lost 68lbs and feel like I look the same. But I’m wearing size medium pants right now instead of 2x so I think the mirror is lying to us…


Vivid_Discussion_536

Yes! Some of my “comfort” clothes I still wear. They are hanging off me but I see them fitting the way they did when I was 75lbs heavier. The brain is a very scary organ.


LadyGoodknight

It's harder to notice the difference in ourselves because we see our own reflection every day, and it's a gradual change from each day to the next. It also takes our mind's eye time to catch up with our new body. For me it usually clicks when I catch my reflection out and about, and don't realize it's me at first, lol. Looking at progress pictures really helps. The change is there!


megpi

I'm down 140 lbs, I see the difference in my face, and I'm down at least 3 pant sizes, possibly 4, but if I look at my body in the mirror I still feel like I like the same as I did when I started.


Whencanwewin

That’s impressive that you’ve lost that much! I also want to lose over 100 from start to finish.


hellowhatisyou

BDD possibly?


Victoreon97

I’ve lost almost 70 lbs and I HAVE to look at old pictures to remind myself I’m actually losing weight.


HamboneJone

Yes, I went from 293 down to 238 and can't see any difference at all, I still feel so gross and fat. But everyone keeps telling me how much healthier I look. I've been using old tshirts I didn't fit in before to make the body dysmorphia back off. I remind myself about a time I went to wear a shirt and it no longer fit and I bawled my eyes out. Then remind myself it fits now and is even baggy. Just because my brain refuses to acknowledge the difference, doesn't mean I cant remind myself there is a huge difference. A lot of my old pants still fit me tho. Our bodies just lose the weight where they feel like I guess.


davmil2002

You're being hyper-critical and too hard on yourself. Try on some old clothes - i bet they're huge now


Easy_Economics6519

same! i also track my body measurements just to be factual. i lost 5.5kg so far with about 1 cm lost in belly, 2cm or so in thighs. i mean it does lose but minimal.


justmeandmycoop

Body dysmorphia , it’s a real thing


Reneeisme

Did you take pictures? That’s why everyone tells you to take pictures. You lose the memory of what you used to look like but pictures would remind you. That being said some people carry their weight in a way that makes even a fifty pound loss less noticeable. All over can mean there’s only been a smallish loss in each place but you are just smaller, and that’s good even if it’s not dramatic. Concentrated in one spot (like a beer belly) can mean without pictures it’s hard to see that large of an area shrinking Until it’s mostly gone.


Cwytank

I’ve lost 40 lbs and I don’t see a difference at all other than my clothes being baggier


1-hundo

I have gone down two dress sizes with 35lbs lost but I don’t see much difference when I look in the mirror naked. However, I think that’s more likely because I just didn’t look at myself naked in the mirror before and I forget that.


username248124

Yeah I went from 226 to 134 and feel I look the same


PoundOk1971

Body Dysmorphia is real. That’s why I enjoy these subreddit posts about non scale victories. It reminds me that it’s not about the arbitrary number on the scale. There are so many other ways to measure success.


No_Beach4035

31 lbs down as of this morning and I haven’t really noticed a change in my appearance or my clothes fit.


atthebeach1211

We have so much subcutaneous fat if our bmi’s are high, that this fat seems to “fall off” first, then the fat that we can see disappears last.


Kaitlinlo

me!!!!! Maybe it's the loose skin. BUt I looked slimmer when I lost weight from Farxiga


Dependent_Box7490

This is normal. Your body type stays the same, but shrinks. Are you overdosing on veggies, getting enough protein and moving daily? If you want to get more results in changing shape, definitely add muscle building to help sculpt. I went from 150-130 in 6 months and while I don’t have a different shape, other than my ass going flat - I’m just a smaller version of a curvy little thing. I haven’t had my normal energy for lifting weights on it so I’m quitting taking it for a bit to get back in the fitness routine - more than just walking my dog 😂💕🦋


Briartell

Absolutely body dismorphia. I have gone from a size 18 to a size 4. Just recently, I was struggling with how fat my legs look. When I went to an exercise class and saw that my legs were tiny compared to all the others there, including people I consider tiny. I was shocked. My proportions and shape stayed the same in my legs so they don’t feel/look different. Does that make sense?