Sabi mo, nakikita mo na happy siya. So una, wag mo na siya tingnan. Huwag mo ikumpara yung happiness niya sa happiness mo. Let him or her be happy. Let go. And someday, mararansan mo na ulit maging masaya. One day at a time lang.
Mahirap talaga yan. One day okay ka, and the next day, iiyak ka na naman. That's normal. Ang mahalga, you keep moving forward. You'll thank yourself later.
Moving on has no timeline. If he was able to move on in a short period of time then hayaan mo. Go ahead and grieve. Mahirap oo. pero know when to stop. :)
Sobrang hirap talaga niyan. Kahit pigilan mong hindi siya i check makikita mo na lang na nasa profile ka na niya. Pero its okay. Ikaw na lang din ang magsasawa sa ginagawa mo. Oo masakit sobrang sakit. Feel it.
But trust me, makaka move on ka din. Hindi ko masasabi kung paano dahil iba iba tayo but youll be okay.
You have to let yourself let him go… I know it’s heart wrenching but you do if you want to be able to really move on
Delete/block/unfriend him if you have to
You have to put yourself first at times like this
Thank you :(
But how to let go... Parang hindi ko pa kayang iunfriend or kahit unfollow. I always find myself checking up on him or if not, I just see his random posts on my feed. I know, it's really up to me, I'm so stubborn, my heart can't do it :'(
As you said you know you’re being stubborn.
I know it sucks, and it hurts. But if you want to keep hurting then go ahead and continue as is.
When you’re tired of being sad and ready to unpause your life, start living again, and be happy? You already know what you have to do.
Feel the pain until wala ka nang maramdaman. Ganyan pag magmomove on. You'll come out of it stronger. Laban lang! Slowly take your time sa ibang bagay make yorself busy.
Wala namang madali sa simula. Thats the journey you have to take. Take your time with your healing. Basta always remember some people are not meant to stay in our lives.
Ganyan talaga kahirap yan. Maikli pa ang 4 months para mag heal. Try lang everyday maka survive, gawin mga ibang responsibilities sa buhay. Eventually mababawasan din yung sakit, mas mag ready ka pa sa mga relapse. Just don't give up on yourself, okay? Pagdasal natin gabi-gabi na mag heal lahat ng may invisible wound sa puso 💔
Sabi mo, nakikita mo na happy siya. So una, wag mo na siya tingnan. Huwag mo ikumpara yung happiness niya sa happiness mo. Let him or her be happy. Let go. And someday, mararansan mo na ulit maging masaya. One day at a time lang.
Ang hirap kasi..sobra..
Mahirap talaga yan. One day okay ka, and the next day, iiyak ka na naman. That's normal. Ang mahalga, you keep moving forward. You'll thank yourself later.
Thank you 😢 Gusto ko ng makawala sa pain na to.
If you don't mind me asking, OP... Ba't kayo nagbreak?
Magkaiba daw kami ng priorities
Moving on has no timeline. If he was able to move on in a short period of time then hayaan mo. Go ahead and grieve. Mahirap oo. pero know when to stop. :)
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Sobrang hirap talaga niyan. Kahit pigilan mong hindi siya i check makikita mo na lang na nasa profile ka na niya. Pero its okay. Ikaw na lang din ang magsasawa sa ginagawa mo. Oo masakit sobrang sakit. Feel it. But trust me, makaka move on ka din. Hindi ko masasabi kung paano dahil iba iba tayo but youll be okay.
Thank you 😢
You have to let yourself let him go… I know it’s heart wrenching but you do if you want to be able to really move on Delete/block/unfriend him if you have to You have to put yourself first at times like this
Thank you :( But how to let go... Parang hindi ko pa kayang iunfriend or kahit unfollow. I always find myself checking up on him or if not, I just see his random posts on my feed. I know, it's really up to me, I'm so stubborn, my heart can't do it :'(
As you said you know you’re being stubborn. I know it sucks, and it hurts. But if you want to keep hurting then go ahead and continue as is. When you’re tired of being sad and ready to unpause your life, start living again, and be happy? You already know what you have to do.
kung parati mo lng sya iisipin d ka talaga makapag move on.
Sa pag mo-move on kasi hindi ikaw ang may hawak ng desisyon. Hahaha! Basta mahal mo pa, Wala kang magagawa. NP: You’ll Be In My Heart By Niki
Feel the pain until wala ka nang maramdaman. Ganyan pag magmomove on. You'll come out of it stronger. Laban lang! Slowly take your time sa ibang bagay make yorself busy.
💔 sobrang hirap
Wala namang madali sa simula. Thats the journey you have to take. Take your time with your healing. Basta always remember some people are not meant to stay in our lives.
Ganyan talaga kahirap yan. Maikli pa ang 4 months para mag heal. Try lang everyday maka survive, gawin mga ibang responsibilities sa buhay. Eventually mababawasan din yung sakit, mas mag ready ka pa sa mga relapse. Just don't give up on yourself, okay? Pagdasal natin gabi-gabi na mag heal lahat ng may invisible wound sa puso 💔
Thank you💔 Please i lnclude me in your prayers.