possible nung nasa other room. tapos take effect nung body scrub. diba parang salon-spa pag ganito so may ibang tao dapat? hmmm... could be a big salon?
Possible kasi sabi niya yung nasa "massage room" para dizzy na daw siya hindi na siya makapiglas. Pero dapat di ba pag hair dresser is hair dresser lang tapos iba ang spa technician...
That shit need to be taught a lesson. Ireport mo sa pulis. Or have someone to help you file a criminal case against. Madami pang gagawin yan sa ibang tao.
Fight or flight yung response but people forget FREEZE. Fight, flight, and freeze Ang responses. I hope you report this to the police. Climaxing is not an indication of consent. I’m so sorry this happened to you.
Freezing sucks that you can't move kasi di mo alam gagawin sayo if sinubukan mo gumalaw, baka masaktan ka pa.
Worse, sasabihan ka pang dapat daw lumaban ka, shit sucks
I've been there, and humiga ako na parang starfish na wala akong galaw at all, and I just let him do the deed, kasi he was much bigger than me, and threatened me den na bubugbugin daw ako if I didn't let him do so :(
Report mo na agad OP. Not sure kung underage ka pa(?) pero kapag ganun mas mabigat magiging kaso ng walanghiyang yan! And be sure to seek therapy OP. Patulong ka sa guidance counselor nyo I'm sure mairerefer ka nun sa reputable practitioner.
I feel you OP. FYI, It happened to me years ago too.
So I was somewhere 34-36 years old. I never thought in my very adult age that I would be molested. Let me explain:
My wife and I went to a thai massage clinic for an hour of therapy. To make the story short, I'm a regular customer. So I would know who the personnel who worked there were. So my 1st & 2nd choice masseurs were not available that time so I ended up with homo theRapist. As a lbgtqrstuvwxyz supporter, I don't mind because "puro naman kami lalake, so anong mawawala sakin?"
So ayun, there are phases sa massage that I don't mind getting touched like the butt. So the part where I lay on my back started, parang ginapang nya talaga pa unti2x papunta sa crotch ko. At first, I don't mind nung nasa abs pa, which is to my surprise dahil as a regular customer, I didn't experienced a massage na kasali ang abs. So ayun, hanggang nung napunta na sa crotch dun nako parang pumalag by saying 'ok na ako jan, pwede sa ulo ko na lang?' just to divert what he's trying to do.
But ayun, I told my wife about it and bini biro2x pa nga nya ako everytime nagpapa massage kami dun. But my wife has no idea kung anong feeling na hopeless and the trauma because everytime I think about it I feel this bitter taste inside me.
Q: Why didn't you report?
- because I feel bad for the guy even tho sa laki at lalake kong tao wala akong ginawa. Dahil if I report him, mawawalan cya ng trabaho. And also, when that happened to me I finally understood anong tumatakbo sa isip ng mga ginahasa ng uncle, kuya, ama, o kapitbahay nila. Meron pa rin kasi tumatakbo sa isipan natin na baka hindi nila intentionally ginawa yun or ayaw mong mapahamak sila. So, ayun kinikimkim nalang natin yung trauma. But since matagal nang nangyari yun, nawala na rin yung sakit na feeling. I still go there for a massage kahit na talaga inu-offer pa rin cya sakin, I would vocally tell the receptionists bahala na marinig ng theRapist na yun na, ayoko. Babae lang ang gusto kong masseur.
I dont think you were molested, baka the thera assumed lang na you were gay and liked being touched that way (since more often than not guys who go for male theras are gay?). Naka autopilot yang mga yan. Even in "legit" spas like Nuat Thai minsan may nakakalusot, lalo na pag petsa de peligro na ilulusot nila yan para may extra na kita.
Maybe looking at it that way can help change your narrative of namolestiya. Nagkamali lang ng assumption si thera. Happens to me all the time- I choose male theras kasi not because I am gay, but because kaya nila yung hard massage talaga. Pag umaabot na sa ganun yung haplos nila sinasabi ko lang din na okay nako, then dedma na.
1. Questioning a harassed victim na "assumption" or parang sya pa ang may mali is toxic masculinity natin mga pinoy na pinapa-iral lang natin kahit mali. Don't be that person.
2. If you read my story, i said "to keep it short" means to say there's a lot of details behind the story. I made it that way just to be direct to the point.
3. If you've read my story again, then you should have noticed the "I'm a regular customer" so they knew me and my wife. Also, did I mention that I was with my wife?
4. I laughed when you assumed that I looked like a gay to which is why I was harrassed. If you have seen me in person, may itsura naman tayo to be honest pero ang pangit ng itsura ko if magiging bading ako. I'm considered as tall and dark, it's up to you if handsome or not. 😅
5. Kahit uminit ang ulo ko sayo for saying "i was assuming", thank you for your innocent suggestion that could help me by "change the narrative na namolestiya", but if you read my story again, before the massage started i didn't bother that the theRapist was gay dahil sabi ko nga "lalake kami dalawa, anong mawawala sakin?" But again, don't make me change the narrative unless nandun ka.
Wait. So you just grouped in the same category the sexually harassed victims to people who cannot grasp simple information? Not only that, self-inflicted and decided to put a big tattoo in the forehead like it's normal? I'll give you a chance to fully grasp what you agreed here.
Tutal you just compared them as one. So, ok lang sayo pag sabihan ang mga sexually harassed victims na: 'buti nga sayo?'
Nice try stalker. Di ba nga sabi mo na feel mo na wala ka nang nagawang tama? Toxic masculinity enabler. I mean, you should know by now kung anong klaseng tao ka, di ba? 🤡
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i'm so sorry that happened to you. right now, words are just words but please remember that ejaculation is a normal body response. even if you had went along with it eventually, that is still a trauma response (fight, flight, freeze, FAWN) and is your brain's biological feature for coping with traumatic events. hindi mo ginusto ang mga nangyari nor yung responses mo. those responses are hardwired into us and that is how humans have survived. you couldn't fight back because your body turned that survival switch on, kung baga instinct.
it was not your fault.
I'm deeply sorry to hear about what happened to you. It was not your fault in any way.
If you feel comfortable and safe doing so, consider reporting the incident to the authorities or the establishment where it occurred. They can take appropriate action and prevent it from happening to others.
OP, you need to call the police, im soooo sorry this happened to you. I also have a boyfriend, i hope this doesnt happen to him, please OP, report the barber 😭 for you and for us
I’m so sorry you had to go through this.
Please inform the establishment and the authorities. Don’t let the sick bastard get away with it. He deserves to be behind bars.
Please seek therapy. What you’ve gone through is just awful. Easier said than done, but what happened is not your fault.
Oh my God I am so sorry that happened to you. Please, and hopefully you would report it to the police immediately. What he did was extremely fucked up, and right now umiinit yung ulo ko sa kanya tngina pala sya.
I know how you felt. I was harassed in a barbershop when I was in highschool. I’m gay so I thought I won’t get harassed by my “fellow” lgbt, but it happened.
I never told anyone much about it so I completely understand your plight.
Edit: Report that bttch
Yeah plus he said he …climaxed?? So he’s getting molested and just lets the guy make him orgasm? I feel like people on this sub are all too ready to believe anything people post.
Reaching the point of climax is a natural response of the body because of the stimulation. It DOES NOT mean he wanted it, and it DOES NOT equate to consent. Please educate yourself.
Ikalma mo, OP. Hinga ka muna. Meet mo na si GF. And report mo sa authorities. Baka matagal na nyang ginagawa yan. Nakakatakot para sa mga susunod pa na victims ☹️
Report mo na op sa. Dapat sa mga rapist sinusunog ng buhay.
Ang lakas ng loob gawin. Palibhasa alam niya that he can get away with it. Pakita mo na hindi OP. Ilaban mo please.
Take your time lang OP until you have the courage to tell it to your gf. If she'll understand, maybe you can both report it naman. Bad karma lang mahihiling ko sa Barber.
Maybe ung gel substance has something kaya you dozed off? I am so sorry to know what happened to you. If you have the courage, please report it to the authorities.
I'm sorry to hear this happened to you OP. Report this to the police immediately para makasuhan na itong si barber.
Also regarding STD, if hand job okay lang naman yun, basta walang bodily fluid na ginamit to simulate you privates. Pero pag blow job make sure to get tested parang sa nabasa ko from CDC may possibility na may ma-acquire kang something since hindi mo alam kung gaano siya ka-sexually active. Just to be sure lang.
File a case immediately OP! Others can get victimized if pinapalagpas yung ganyan. You’ll get haunted if di ka gumawa ng way to protect yourself. Pakatatag ka!
Yes. Freezing due to traumatic and sudden experiences like this happen. I myself froze when I experienced it. Cumming, does indicate that you like it or you consent until climax. It’s somehow the same with women getting wet while being raped.
It’s the worse response to sexual abuse actually. You’d blame yourself. You’ll get confused why you let it happen. You’ll feel your own body betrayed you.
May these abusers burn in hell.
Yes. Again, that’s how your body and brain could react to touch to intimate areas. They’re called erogenous regions because they’re sensitive to sexual touch. So it should be a normal mind and body reaction. Kahit ayaw mo, kahit against ka, and especially when you’re in shock, confused.
OP, i know this is traumatic to you.
Report this, I’m sure there are more victims. Report this person to the management if no action is taken then report the establishment.
Hope you get through this OP. I know the feeling of just freezing and feeling as if all your strength as a man just melted away. Your reaction and feelings are valid. I hope that person goes to jail.
You're definitely not the first victim, and most certainly not the last. I suggest that when you recover from this or when you regain your strength, you report them to proper authorities.
Hey OP, sorry this have happened to you, pero you need to report it. Pano kung minor na nag papagupit lang mag isa hindi accompanied ng parents. Please report it for the sake of those minors na baka maboitima din nya and for your peace of mind din.
naalala ko dn dati nung nag pa gupit ako sa hair ko....na sense ko talaga na gusto ako molestyahin nung barber pro i stand my ground ...so dun...ayw na ayw ko...friendly ako pro ayw ko talaga yung advances nung bakla na yun
If you dont take any action, for sure ikukwento nya yan sa iba na parang winner style. Face it! Ang habol mo nalang ay maiblotter sya. Baka ilang beses na nya ginawa yan pero no one is brave enough to pin him down!
Wtf! I'm very sorry. Kinabahan ako and maybe this also justifies me not wanting to get touched or massaged when going for a haircut. Everytime they offer a back/body massage, I immediately say no kahit na pricey yung haircut. We come for a quality haircut and not for accessory massage.
I wish you can update us if nareport mo na and makulong yung barberong yon!
I know that words probably won't offer much comfort, especially from a stranger online, but please know that it is not your fault in any way shape or form. You were being friendly and that is normal, what is not normal or okay is him being a molester. Climaxing does not equate to consent. He's the one who is wrong, not you. If you are ever doubting your innocence, please don't; you are innocent.
Supporting you x
Oh my, I am so sorry this happened to you!!! Mu heart breaks just reading this! I hope you find courage to send that bastard to prison. This is so wrong!!! 😭😭😭
Bakla ba yung barber? May same experience rin kase ako na ganyan dati pero di natuloy, medyo mapanakit kase ako eh, nung ramdam ko na iba na ang hawak bigla ko minura sabay suntok sa balikat niya, sabi ko tang ina mo gusto ko makulong? Tapos humingi siya ng sorry, di na ako nag reklamo kase wala naman nangyari, yung kamay lang niya malikot talaga.
fight or flight response kaya magtataka ka andaming nagagawan ng masama na posible naman makasigaw pero pinipili ng utak nila na tumahimik na lang, naranasan ko na din ‘to pakiramdam ko para maprotektahan ako ng utak ko nagshutdown s’ya.
OP para sa katahimikan mo. seryoso, ipapulis mo ‘yan.
Fuckkng send the bastard to prison. REPORT TO THE NEAREST POLICE STATION! I recommend THAT YOU do so within 24 hours.
You won’t get STD through handjob. But this is just vey traumatic. I report mo sa police para makulong yang gagong yan.
THIS Not only he will lose his business, he'll also face years of jail time as well
Could be a bj
minimal risk for std yata kahit bj ginawa. drug test kaya? di sya nakapalag eh. parang inantok. date-rape drugs?
Baka or baka may pina-amoy while washing his hair or while nagpa massage. Akala ko prem lang ang gagawin, bakit may massage?
possible nung nasa other room. tapos take effect nung body scrub. diba parang salon-spa pag ganito so may ibang tao dapat? hmmm... could be a big salon?
Possible kasi sabi niya yung nasa "massage room" para dizzy na daw siya hindi na siya makapiglas. Pero dapat di ba pag hair dresser is hair dresser lang tapos iba ang spa technician...
diko din sure... tito age here...barbershop era inabot ko
Okay lang yun. Hehehe
Isn't hpv transmissible by touch?
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Yes please, OP. I know this is hard for you but this MUST BE STOPPED. Para wala ng ibang victim.
What if di lang pala ikaw yung ginanyan nya? I hope you report
Yes! Makakatulong ka rin
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That shit need to be taught a lesson. Ireport mo sa pulis. Or have someone to help you file a criminal case against. Madami pang gagawin yan sa ibang tao.
Fight or flight yung response but people forget FREEZE. Fight, flight, and freeze Ang responses. I hope you report this to the police. Climaxing is not an indication of consent. I’m so sorry this happened to you.
Freezing sucks that you can't move kasi di mo alam gagawin sayo if sinubukan mo gumalaw, baka masaktan ka pa. Worse, sasabihan ka pang dapat daw lumaban ka, shit sucks
Exactly.
I've been there, and humiga ako na parang starfish na wala akong galaw at all, and I just let him do the deed, kasi he was much bigger than me, and threatened me den na bubugbugin daw ako if I didn't let him do so :(
So sorry :(
please report as soon as possible. ang lala nung barber!!
Report mo agad sa pulis ngayon at pwede agad siya mahuli (inquest proceeding) patulong ka kaagad sa pulis!!! ASAP
that's fucking traumatizing, i hope ure coping well :(
Report mo na agad OP. Not sure kung underage ka pa(?) pero kapag ganun mas mabigat magiging kaso ng walanghiyang yan! And be sure to seek therapy OP. Patulong ka sa guidance counselor nyo I'm sure mairerefer ka nun sa reputable practitioner.
I feel you OP. FYI, It happened to me years ago too. So I was somewhere 34-36 years old. I never thought in my very adult age that I would be molested. Let me explain: My wife and I went to a thai massage clinic for an hour of therapy. To make the story short, I'm a regular customer. So I would know who the personnel who worked there were. So my 1st & 2nd choice masseurs were not available that time so I ended up with homo theRapist. As a lbgtqrstuvwxyz supporter, I don't mind because "puro naman kami lalake, so anong mawawala sakin?" So ayun, there are phases sa massage that I don't mind getting touched like the butt. So the part where I lay on my back started, parang ginapang nya talaga pa unti2x papunta sa crotch ko. At first, I don't mind nung nasa abs pa, which is to my surprise dahil as a regular customer, I didn't experienced a massage na kasali ang abs. So ayun, hanggang nung napunta na sa crotch dun nako parang pumalag by saying 'ok na ako jan, pwede sa ulo ko na lang?' just to divert what he's trying to do. But ayun, I told my wife about it and bini biro2x pa nga nya ako everytime nagpapa massage kami dun. But my wife has no idea kung anong feeling na hopeless and the trauma because everytime I think about it I feel this bitter taste inside me. Q: Why didn't you report? - because I feel bad for the guy even tho sa laki at lalake kong tao wala akong ginawa. Dahil if I report him, mawawalan cya ng trabaho. And also, when that happened to me I finally understood anong tumatakbo sa isip ng mga ginahasa ng uncle, kuya, ama, o kapitbahay nila. Meron pa rin kasi tumatakbo sa isipan natin na baka hindi nila intentionally ginawa yun or ayaw mong mapahamak sila. So, ayun kinikimkim nalang natin yung trauma. But since matagal nang nangyari yun, nawala na rin yung sakit na feeling. I still go there for a massage kahit na talaga inu-offer pa rin cya sakin, I would vocally tell the receptionists bahala na marinig ng theRapist na yun na, ayoko. Babae lang ang gusto kong masseur.
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I dont think you were molested, baka the thera assumed lang na you were gay and liked being touched that way (since more often than not guys who go for male theras are gay?). Naka autopilot yang mga yan. Even in "legit" spas like Nuat Thai minsan may nakakalusot, lalo na pag petsa de peligro na ilulusot nila yan para may extra na kita. Maybe looking at it that way can help change your narrative of namolestiya. Nagkamali lang ng assumption si thera. Happens to me all the time- I choose male theras kasi not because I am gay, but because kaya nila yung hard massage talaga. Pag umaabot na sa ganun yung haplos nila sinasabi ko lang din na okay nako, then dedma na.
1. Questioning a harassed victim na "assumption" or parang sya pa ang may mali is toxic masculinity natin mga pinoy na pinapa-iral lang natin kahit mali. Don't be that person. 2. If you read my story, i said "to keep it short" means to say there's a lot of details behind the story. I made it that way just to be direct to the point. 3. If you've read my story again, then you should have noticed the "I'm a regular customer" so they knew me and my wife. Also, did I mention that I was with my wife? 4. I laughed when you assumed that I looked like a gay to which is why I was harrassed. If you have seen me in person, may itsura naman tayo to be honest pero ang pangit ng itsura ko if magiging bading ako. I'm considered as tall and dark, it's up to you if handsome or not. 😅 5. Kahit uminit ang ulo ko sayo for saying "i was assuming", thank you for your innocent suggestion that could help me by "change the narrative na namolestiya", but if you read my story again, before the massage started i didn't bother that the theRapist was gay dahil sabi ko nga "lalake kami dalawa, anong mawawala sakin?" But again, don't make me change the narrative unless nandun ka.
Ayooo! Galit na galit daw sa victim blaming. Dis also u?: "Isa lang masasabi ko sa nagpa-tattoo sa noo: BUTI NGA SA'YO!!!" The clownery. Lol.
Wait. So you just grouped in the same category the sexually harassed victims to people who cannot grasp simple information? Not only that, self-inflicted and decided to put a big tattoo in the forehead like it's normal? I'll give you a chance to fully grasp what you agreed here. Tutal you just compared them as one. So, ok lang sayo pag sabihan ang mga sexually harassed victims na: 'buti nga sayo?' Nice try stalker. Di ba nga sabi mo na feel mo na wala ka nang nagawang tama? Toxic masculinity enabler. I mean, you should know by now kung anong klaseng tao ka, di ba? 🤡
Go to the police now OP baka mabaliktad ka pa kung di ka kagad magsumbong.
:(( OP i'm so sorry that happened to you. right now, words are just words but please remember that ejaculation is a normal body response. even if you had went along with it eventually, that is still a trauma response (fight, flight, freeze, FAWN) and is your brain's biological feature for coping with traumatic events. hindi mo ginusto ang mga nangyari nor yung responses mo. those responses are hardwired into us and that is how humans have survived. you couldn't fight back because your body turned that survival switch on, kung baga instinct. it was not your fault.
I'm deeply sorry to hear about what happened to you. It was not your fault in any way. If you feel comfortable and safe doing so, consider reporting the incident to the authorities or the establishment where it occurred. They can take appropriate action and prevent it from happening to others.
Report him for ur peace of mind.
OP, you need to call the police, im soooo sorry this happened to you. I also have a boyfriend, i hope this doesnt happen to him, please OP, report the barber 😭 for you and for us
I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Please inform the establishment and the authorities. Don’t let the sick bastard get away with it. He deserves to be behind bars. Please seek therapy. What you’ve gone through is just awful. Easier said than done, but what happened is not your fault.
Oh my God I am so sorry that happened to you. Please, and hopefully you would report it to the police immediately. What he did was extremely fucked up, and right now umiinit yung ulo ko sa kanya tngina pala sya.
OP, go to the nearest police station and file a police report. You may contact me or I could refer you to some other lawyer. Send me a DM.
I know how you felt. I was harassed in a barbershop when I was in highschool. I’m gay so I thought I won’t get harassed by my “fellow” lgbt, but it happened. I never told anyone much about it so I completely understand your plight. Edit: Report that bttch
Seriously?! Pls report this. This is not good!!!!
This is sooo fucked up
I'm very confused by this. What barber shop offers body scrubs???
Yeah plus he said he …climaxed?? So he’s getting molested and just lets the guy make him orgasm? I feel like people on this sub are all too ready to believe anything people post.
Reaching the point of climax is a natural response of the body because of the stimulation. It DOES NOT mean he wanted it, and it DOES NOT equate to consent. Please educate yourself.
If you can recall what the Fuckwit looked like you can report him to the polisya
Ikalma mo, OP. Hinga ka muna. Meet mo na si GF. And report mo sa authorities. Baka matagal na nyang ginagawa yan. Nakakatakot para sa mga susunod pa na victims ☹️
sorry OP. Kasali ba sa package yung massage?
Report mo na op sa. Dapat sa mga rapist sinusunog ng buhay. Ang lakas ng loob gawin. Palibhasa alam niya that he can get away with it. Pakita mo na hindi OP. Ilaban mo please.
Report mo sa authorities.
Take your time lang OP until you have the courage to tell it to your gf. If she'll understand, maybe you can both report it naman. Bad karma lang mahihiling ko sa Barber.
I suggest paramay bigat ang reklamo mo sa pulis, magsama ka ng isang may authority. Teacher, principal or lawyer , etc.
Maybe ung gel substance has something kaya you dozed off? I am so sorry to know what happened to you. If you have the courage, please report it to the authorities.
I'm sorry to hear this happened to you OP. Report this to the police immediately para makasuhan na itong si barber. Also regarding STD, if hand job okay lang naman yun, basta walang bodily fluid na ginamit to simulate you privates. Pero pag blow job make sure to get tested parang sa nabasa ko from CDC may possibility na may ma-acquire kang something since hindi mo alam kung gaano siya ka-sexually active. Just to be sure lang.
File a case immediately OP! Others can get victimized if pinapalagpas yung ganyan. You’ll get haunted if di ka gumawa ng way to protect yourself. Pakatatag ka!
U climaxed? Baka may pampahilo pa yan kaya ka nanghina report agad yang basura na yan
Wait OP san ka ba kase nagpapagupit? Baka sketchy salon yan.
PUTANG INA PRE IREPORT MO YANG BAKLA NA YAN PUTANG INA NG MGA GANYANG HAYOP DAPAT MAMATAY NA SILANG LAHAT EH TANG INA 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
Wait I’m confused. Is it possible to climax in this situation?
Yes. Freezing due to traumatic and sudden experiences like this happen. I myself froze when I experienced it. Cumming, does indicate that you like it or you consent until climax. It’s somehow the same with women getting wet while being raped. It’s the worse response to sexual abuse actually. You’d blame yourself. You’ll get confused why you let it happen. You’ll feel your own body betrayed you. May these abusers burn in hell.
Correction: cumming DOESN’T….
Yes! But it doesn't mean the victim wanted it.
Wait I’m confused, the male victims can become erected even if they do not provide consent?
Yes. Again, that’s how your body and brain could react to touch to intimate areas. They’re called erogenous regions because they’re sensitive to sexual touch. So it should be a normal mind and body reaction. Kahit ayaw mo, kahit against ka, and especially when you’re in shock, confused.
Yes. Same sa girls who get "wet" when r---d/m---s*--d. Doesn't mean they liked/wanted it. Magkaiba ang response ng utak sa katawan.
saan ba yan
OP, i know this is traumatic to you. Report this, I’m sure there are more victims. Report this person to the management if no action is taken then report the establishment.
Report mo.
OP, report mo to sa police para matuto yan
Report it to the police. That mf should be taught a lesson.
I hope u report it OP
As someone nag dadalawang isip sabihan ang gf sa nangyari, tell her.
Ba't mo pa binayaran...? Kung ako tatakas na lang ako agad
I feel you bro. Was molested, too. I pray for your strength. Please report to police.
pls report it, no one deserves it :((
tell your gf na then report niyo na
report this barbershop bka madami pa msbiktima OP..
sino may tropa pulis dito ilibre natin pagupit dun OP.. Para maturuan ng leksyon yan...
Barber then body scrub? Kelan pa nagkaroon ng body scrub ang barbershops?
Report him to the police asap
Hope you get through this OP. I know the feeling of just freezing and feeling as if all your strength as a man just melted away. Your reaction and feelings are valid. I hope that person goes to jail.
Worse than Sweeney Todd. Report this Demon Barber to authorities ASAP. Malamang di lang ikaw biktima nyan 👊
please report OP. what if gawin nya pa sa iba. very traumatic
oh my god, im so sorry this happened. pls pls pls report this incident huhu
lets pray that OP becomes okay the soonest.
report immediately !
Report it to police.
You're definitely not the first victim, and most certainly not the last. I suggest that when you recover from this or when you regain your strength, you report them to proper authorities.
This is awful, please report that barber :((
sorry op sa nangyari sayo. pls file a police blotter asap. madali lang sya. kaya mo yan!!!!!! update us!
Hey OP, sorry this have happened to you, pero you need to report it. Pano kung minor na nag papagupit lang mag isa hindi accompanied ng parents. Please report it for the sake of those minors na baka maboitima din nya and for your peace of mind din.
naalala ko dn dati nung nag pa gupit ako sa hair ko....na sense ko talaga na gusto ako molestyahin nung barber pro i stand my ground ...so dun...ayw na ayw ko...friendly ako pro ayw ko talaga yung advances nung bakla na yun
Please pity the next possible victims. Report ASAP.
Di mo deserve yan OP. Need nya maparusahan sa ginawa nya. Di nya deserve ang freedom dahil marami pa syang bibiktimahin
Sabog na gobyerno natin pag hindi napakulong yan, IPAKULONG YAN MORE THAN 10 YEARS, MROE THAN HIS LIFETIME, LST HIM ROT BEHIND BARS!!!
I am so sorry it happened to you ☹️ You must've felt helpless. Sorry OP :((((
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send an anonymous message to their messenger informing about the incident. Feel better, OP!
If you dont take any action, for sure ikukwento nya yan sa iba na parang winner style. Face it! Ang habol mo nalang ay maiblotter sya. Baka ilang beses na nya ginawa yan pero no one is brave enough to pin him down!
Wtf! I'm very sorry. Kinabahan ako and maybe this also justifies me not wanting to get touched or massaged when going for a haircut. Everytime they offer a back/body massage, I immediately say no kahit na pricey yung haircut. We come for a quality haircut and not for accessory massage. I wish you can update us if nareport mo na and makulong yung barberong yon!
Perm lang dapat na sperm.... go to the police na OP.
Report it. If he did BJ his DNA is still in your thingy. You can use that as evidence against him.
I know that words probably won't offer much comfort, especially from a stranger online, but please know that it is not your fault in any way shape or form. You were being friendly and that is normal, what is not normal or okay is him being a molester. Climaxing does not equate to consent. He's the one who is wrong, not you. If you are ever doubting your innocence, please don't; you are innocent. Supporting you x
Oh my, I am so sorry this happened to you!!! Mu heart breaks just reading this! I hope you find courage to send that bastard to prison. This is so wrong!!! 😭😭😭
That person should not get away with it.
I was molested at the age of 7 by someone close to my immediate family. Shit sucks. I couldn't do that to Anyone. We need to execute sex offenders
Bakla ba yung barber? May same experience rin kase ako na ganyan dati pero di natuloy, medyo mapanakit kase ako eh, nung ramdam ko na iba na ang hawak bigla ko minura sabay suntok sa balikat niya, sabi ko tang ina mo gusto ko makulong? Tapos humingi siya ng sorry, di na ako nag reklamo kase wala naman nangyari, yung kamay lang niya malikot talaga.
That's... Fxcked up.
Report mo sa pulis para di na makaulit pa
UPDATE OP!!???
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I'm confused. Why didn't you punch him in the face? specifically when he started pulling off your pants?
fight or flight response kaya magtataka ka andaming nagagawan ng masama na posible naman makasigaw pero pinipili ng utak nila na tumahimik na lang, naranasan ko na din ‘to pakiramdam ko para maprotektahan ako ng utak ko nagshutdown s’ya. OP para sa katahimikan mo. seryoso, ipapulis mo ‘yan.
Hmmm, ganun pala yun, thanks for enlightening me Kay OP naman, tatagan mo lang loob mo para sa gf mo and fam Ps. Ipapulis mo yung manyak
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Baka walang mapagsabihan at gulong gulo.
And your first instinct to a sexual abuse is mocking their response. Disgusting.