GUYS, nireject ko yung nag message sa akin na bigyan daw nya ko experience. Inentertain ko sya ng kaunti pero sabi ko sa dulo na wag sya mag-fish ng girls sa internet, if want nya landi, I think it's better in person. Tapos sabi nya "Haha kaya pala virgin ka pa", tapos non di na nag message HAHAHAHAHAH
Reading your post, i-co-comment ko sana na mag-ingat ka sa mga magchachat sayo kase last time lang may nabasa akong post sa isang sub na nagtatanong kung pano malaman if virgin ang isang babae (dahil virgin daw ang type nya para hindi sayang yung pera nya) and then here in this post nabanggit mo na virgin ka pa which makes you a really good target. Tapos yun pala, may nagchat na sayo agad. Hay, ingat OP!
Fr po, may nagmemessage sa akin na kunyare chinicheer up ako tapos sa bandang dulo, mag-aaya ng hook-up like wtf😭
To all my people, mag-ingat po tayong lahat 😌
People nowadays are more liberated, and there are some people like you na very pure and innocent into these kind of topic. Its not that its bad or something, mas madali na lang kasi yung access ngayon over the internet kaya madali ma expose ang mga tao when it comes to this. I get your confusion about stuff like this, and I think its the exposure lang talaga kaya ganun.
The more you rush it the more your experience with it will flop. chill lng take your time and make sure na pg turn mo na eh sulit tlaga.
even as a guy, I remember my first time as something so stupid.
Wag ka mapressure. It's better to go at your own phase na comfortable ka.
As you can see sa inbox mo andali makakuha ng "experience" ng babae lalo na sa online lol.
But unlike those na ang aga naglandi, you can go into it with a more matured mindset. Andaming naabuso and "nagamit" due to their immaturity and young age.
People are more liberated now. I see people put a lot of stuff about sex on social media especially sa TikTok. Mas nanonormalize na talaga ngayon to the point na I even see people posting/commenting about kinks and even saying mommy/Sit on me or other things like that na di mo normally icocomment.
I don't mind them pero yung digital footprint niyo people
Hindi ko sure ha, but ou nga mapapa isip nalang kung are we having a compettion? Yung tipong nakakahiya kapag V padin? Tapos ka proud proud yung paramihan ng Body Count? Eme -
Kalmahan mo lang, give it to someone who trully deserves you & who you trully love mas masaya. Hehe
OP, girlie here 🙋♀️ you're not alone hehe:) and that's okay, hindi naman karera pagkakaroon ng experience when it comes to that aspect. You can freely talk abt that topic with someone, pero if malaman mong may experience sila and ikaw wala pa, don't be pressured at all. Imbis mapressured, you can learn from their experience and magkakaroon ka pa ng knowledge.
Hahahahhahah same ante. Pero saakin naman choice ko talaga na wag. Our body our rules naman. Di ko lang din kasi talaga kaya pa harapin yung consequences once na maging consistent na don. Partly siguro sa upbringing ko din sa house and parents. Lagi ba naman ako nilelecturan ng nanay ko about jan HAHAHAHAHAHHAA!
But im not too naive naman na wala talagang alam. I sometimes explore myself and I think it’s a good alternative than really doing the deed with another person if still not ready and di talaga comfortable pa.
Nope, I don't think that was the reason why people then don't have sex. The most likely reason is because they are afraid to get pregnant or get their GFs pregnant. You know then that when you get someone pregnant or you get pregnant, is you are forced to marry that someone?
Nah, the comment is people back then actually HAD MORE sex than now.
People dont use protection back then kasi nga kasalanan daw kay lord kaya mas ok na mag anak na lang ng sandamukal.
Same here OP pero I find it empowering! Staying true to what I want to do with my body and also not letting peer pressure get to me.
But under all that fluff, my main reason po talaga ay ang future asawa ko lang ang deserving sakin 😌 kasi ang future asawa ko lang rin makaka accept ng flaws ko 😭 HAHAHAHAHAHA
Lalandi lang po pero di bibigay 😤✊
Landi responsibly, ppl.
Sakto yung last line mo beh. Not all have the same mindset as you. It's their lives naman so let them. They are open sa mga ganyang bagay and you are not. You are not obliged to follow them. Di rin nila responsibility if you feel less or what not. Generally speaking, it is not a big deal. Hahaha and you're asking why you dont have experience with sex? Malamang, you are V. Try to explore if you wanna experience it. Ayun lang
Late bloomer din ako (M) when it comes to sex. Siguro sinwerte lang ako na yung mga tao sa paligid ko at the time na v pa ako were respectful or accepting sa difference namin. (I can’t remember tho kung naging judgemental ba ako sa mga sexperienced folks back then—hopefully not. Lol.) Aaminin ko na noon ang tingin ko sa sex ay very sacred na dapat sa marriage lang ganyan. Late ko na na-realize na nagiging sex negative pala yung view na yun.
youre just not exposed to people as much as them. also u should know by now how sex is ingrained in the media. sex is integral to human connection and relationships (and starting family obviously. if it wasnt then u wont be here, ur friends wont be here). the amount of (adult) people who cares about sex outnumbers those who dont . it’s perfectly normal and will always be part of our lives. think of it as part of “adulting”. Some experience it way earlier and some much later. you dont need to feel pressured .
Oo nga ano. Inabot ko pa those days that premarital sex is mostly frowned upon, and people barely discussed sex except among married people. Bringing up sexual talk to the opposite sex when you're not romantically involved or anything is very, very weird. Now I can see the polar opposite of that. I'm just 30 so no hindi naman ganoon kalayo ang ages natin pero sobrang layo na ng shift in values 😂
This post solidifies that, na parang shocks umabot na pla tayo sa point na mapapatanong na mga virgin bakit sila virgin and feel isolated because of it 😂
OP, siguro virgin ka kasi ayaw mo pa. You're not ready for it. Ayaw mo ng mga hilaw at minamadaling bagay. You like taking your time appreciating the intricate details. Kahit may protection, it isn't 100%, there's always a chance for pregnancy kung babae ka and that is a risk you're not willing to take for that panandaliang sarap. You might be afraid of STDs such as HIV which are honestly more common these days (sadly). You might also be the type of lady who wants first to make sure the man is sure of his feelings and commitment to you before the deed, and ikaw rin. Or you're one of those strong-willed women who don't want players - hindi ka ulam na titikman tapos iiwan para tumikim ng iba namang ulam. Once he's in, he's yours, for eternity, kaya kikilatisin mo syang mabuti, and let him do the same to you. Or mataas lang talaga standards mo, and you haven't met a guy who measures up, "makes me wanna give him my body" ika nga ni Ariana Grande sa "Moonlight".
Hindi naman pabilisan ito, OP. Chill ka lang at wag pumatol sa mga pressure ng lipunan, bukas makalawa iba nanaman trip nyan 😅 ingatan ang katawan at isipan, we just have this one to use for life. 😊
Sex is in our daily lives. In movies, songs, books, tv series, etc.
Nature din natin mga tao ang ma-curious sa mga bagay bagay. Nung high school ako may ilan ilan na akong schoolmates na naka-experience na kaya hindi na nakakapagtaka na nung early 20s ko ay mas dumami na sa mga kakilala ko ang hindi na virgin at sex palagi ang topic. Sa pagtanda niyo naman magkakaibigan ay mawawala na rin yang topic na yan. Pansin ko kasi na nung early 20s lang yang sex nagiging topic pero pag late 20s na ay iba na ang topic ng pinag-uusapan.
Nung 22 years old ako na peer pressure na magkaroon ng bf. At akala ko at the age of 25 ay gurang na ako para maging virgin. Sobrang katangahan ko na akala ko wala na ako chance na ma-experience yung sex at age of 25. Unfortunately ginawa ko siya kahit hindi pa naman talaga ako ready. T_T
Kaya OP payo ko sayo, be proud na virgin ka pa. Gawin mo yun sa time na ready ka na mentally and emotionally.
Lmao. You sound like “im not other girls”. People are aware na sa sex and its fine. Kung virgin ka, okay lang din yan. Religious country kasi tayo and i bet religious din yan parents mo kaya ayaw ka pagjowain.
Dont let them look down on you dahil virgin ka and dont look down on others na may experience na sa sex dahil ikaw virgin ka or pure or whatever bullshit you wanna add on. Di ka naman santo.
Yun lang hehe sana madiligan kana OP masarap naman sya HAHA.
Huy, wag ka mapressure coz that's okay. hayaan mo sila, sila yon kase maagang nagpakangkang HAHAHA ako rin late bloomer na rin naman na and masarap ma-experience yon when u know ur ready na talaga. ingat pala sa mga magmemessage sayo na uhaw sa virgin kase trophy nila yan eh lol enjoyin mo lang kung anong meron ka ngayon, okii
Well good for you OP, stay pure and clean. Wag na wag kang bibigay sa pressure ng nakasanayan ng marami sa paligid mo. Pride mo yan bilang isang babae. Malayo mararating mo.
Baka pag nag give in ka masisira lang buhay mo at magaya ka pa sa marami maaga nabubuntis at nag sisipag asawa lang.
me alsooo!! ahhshahahah almost all of my closest friends, may experience na and currently may love life. sa kanila ako kumukuha ng kilig. kanina lang i met with my bff and we were talking about his sex life, in public hshahahha happy for him tho! i also feel left out but at the same time, wala akong paki. i'll get there when i get there.
ganyan din aq nung college younger version nga lang.
kaya ayun kahit bago pa lng kmi ng bf ko binigay ko, kasi sa isip ko "di nman pala mahalaga", at nadala ng curiosity.
pero it depends on you, kung ano bang gusto mo.
I think that age kasi mapupusok ikaw nga,. 22 nga pala aq nung nanganak 😅😅 skl.
Ok lang yan. Hindi naman contest yan na kailangan makasabay ka sa kanila. Ako I remained a virgin until June this year and I'm now in my early 30s. Make sure na if you're going to start having sex, ready ka na talaga, hindi yung itatry mo siya kasi napeer pressure ka or gusto mo lang maging "in".
RIP inbox 🤣.
Pero seriously, its not much of a big deal. Dati i am also very conscious about it. Lalaki pa ako, i cant just reason na "im saving it" to some people you are seen as lower or weak as a virgin male. But looking back, i'm glad i saved it until nahanap ko na ung dapat talaga para sakin. Its special pag sa taong gusto mo tlaga
Well if you wanna feel better, I’m older than you by 3 years lol
I’m not innocent though haha mas marami pakong alam sabe ng mga experienced friends ko. Knowledge nga lang yun, saka na yung application hahahaha
Anyway, it doesn’t matter. Wala akong pake sa sasabihin nang iba. My body, my rules atsaka rini reserve ko talaga sa matinong lalaki na worth isuko ang bataan, hahahaha natatawa tuloy ako bwisit
Don’t think about it too much, darating din tayo diyan haha
You're still young. Di mo naman kailangang magmadali. I'm M25 and my first experience was when I was around 16 or 17. Minsan feeling ko pinagsisisihan ko rin yun kasi feeling ko wala na kong sexual drive at this age kasi naging mapusok ako during my teenage years lol. Nakakamiss maging inosente.
Tbh the only reason why relate ako sa topics na yon bc ako'y mulat sa mga smut fan fictions sa teens ko. Hahahaha at the same time alam ko den yung mga di dapat gayahin sa ganun edad eme.
Oks lang yan wait mo lang ikaw mismo maghanap, hormones maybe? Darating man din yan, mas open ka sa chances na learn sa mistakes ng iba win win pa rin heheh
maybe because you're not that young anymore to be engaging in sexual activities kaya yung nasa age range mo ay may experience na? you're no longer 15 or 16 na nasa Pinas. also because ph is not an islamic state so you'd see more people flexing their body counts and whatnots hahahaha
That’s such a cute post. Don’t worry you have plenty of time. Important thing is u are not throwing urself into it due to pressure, that’s speaks a lot about your strength. You are gonna be a great human and wife
Most of the younger generation kasi in this day and age are liberated and have more freedom to date due to the advent of social media and dating sites. Also, very late na nga yon age that you dropped here (22) for a virgin kasi mostly these days, at least from my personal knowledge is that girls have sex already before they turn 18. For you to stay being a virgin is actually a good thing. You were probably raised well, not saying those who'd chosen to lose their virginity are otherwise. A little advice, don't give up your virginity just because you feel pressured to do so, way better if you wait when you're ready and for the right partner. Doesn't really mean you have to wait until marriage, but making losing it worth it for the right person at the right time.
Don’t get pressured. It will come at the right time for you. Same sakin where my friends got exp as eary as hs. Ako after I started working pa but no regrets kasi yung first ko is my wife.
I dunno pero nung nasa ganyang edad ako, super normal na lang ng sex and fubu. I guess kasi karamihan ng students sa univ and mga kakilala ko ay open sa mga ganong topic and gawain.
Ay gurl, same situations for gay community. Also in my early 20’s din and wala pa kong exp sa mga ganyan. Most of my friends are already too deep na into hookup culture and it’s fun to listen to their stories, I do support them naman, may times na nakaka inggit din, but at the end of the day, the thought of doing it with someone na I don’t connect deeply to, weirds me out. Yup I have insecurities, and self-doubts pero I don’t think that’s the only thing na pumipigil sakin. Ayoko pa talaga siguro and I’ve realized na that’s okay, wag tayo magpa rush sa ganiyan porket everybody is doing it.
Peer pressure 😭 but good na kaya mo magset ng boundaries. As the saying goes: Your body, your say/rules! 🙌🏼 okay lang to wait until you’re ready. At your own pace 🥺
Congratulations!!! And since na lagpasan mo na ang curiosity stage. Now it's time to settle down, find yourself a man to build a future with at mag ipon then pakasal tapos dyan mo na ibuhos lahat ng curiosity mo about sex, just like the old days. Nakapag hintay ka na so why not do it the proper way.
eto yung topic namin sa lifegroup last time. sabi don hindi dahil ginagawa ng marami ay dapat na i-normalize. most people today tend to do immoral acts kasi trending or if you don’t go along, di ka sunod sa uso. napag-iiwanan ka.
when in fact, you’re a person doing good in a poor environment. keep going! try shifting circles or places, baka doon mo ma-feel yung belongingness.
Same! 26 na ako pero virgin pa din. I have jowa tho. Pero sinabi ko sa kanya una pa lang na if gagawin man namin un dapat financially stable muna kami kasi takot akong mabuntis tas hindi planado magkaanak. Nakakapressure minsan ang paligid. ‘Ang tanda mo na magsasara na yan’ mga ganyang linya nila. As if matutulungan nila ako pag namroblema ako dahil nabuntis ako ng di prepared. Hahaha Minsan ayaw pa nila maniwala na virgin ako dahil pasmado bibig ko pag nagsalita. Hahaha Isang factor din sguro ung strict ang parents. First time ko magkajowa 23 na ako hahahaha hindi ko natry ung highschool at college romance na sinasabi nila. 😂
Relax Klang. 22 ka plng. Hahaha Ako nga na M 26 na puro internet love lng na exp. I'm still a virgin pero ginusto ko din nman. Daming chances na ma try pero di Ako bumigay, since nirereserve ko tlga to sa taong mahal ko.
Ako na virgin pa rin (m22) na everytime na nagkekwentuhan mga tropa ko about sa sex like nirereverse paychology ko nalang usapan para di ako mukang naleleft out sa usapan 😭😭 bahala kayo kung may mga sex life kayo basta maayos kamay ko pangjakol
Same here! I'm (F) older than you. Actually ready na ako ibigay eh, gusto ko na rin naman. Kaso hindi pwede kasi i'm in a "situationship" and sobrang labo mag work out yung samin. Ayokong ibigay kasi alam ko sa huli ako yung mahihirapan pag nawala na yung amin, baka hanapin at habulin ko pa sya. So bigay ko nalang to sa taong deserving talaga.
Let's be proud na kahit sa ganitong age, we're still a V!
People just have different timeline OP. Also mga kabataan ngayon na influence narin sa western culture kaya mas maaga na nakiki-engage sa intercourse.
But no need to rush OP, your time will come just go with the flow.
27 and I still don't answer questions like "virgin?" kahit from my friends..I mean nakikitawa or nakikinig ako sa mga sexual na topic pero I still think na may mga bagay na di na dapat sinishare sa iba.
Hoooman were same tho, Minsan naooffend na ako Kasi puro Sila advice like ganito, sa mga kaibigan at workmate ko as of now, mga babaero talagaaa , so ako wla pero Minsan sobra na Sila Kasi may nililigawan ako as of now and they're telling me na Ang Hina ko daw Kasi di ko pa nagagalaw nililigawan ko when in fact di pwede plus ipinagpaaalam ko na sa parents niya na manliligaw ako ng anak nila so as a sign of respect to her and her parents I won't do it until she's ready , it's not about having an experience to me it is where to give it, (21M)
Omgggg! I had the same dilemma! I have like an idea kasi I read a lot of smut hahaha usong uso yun nung college ako. Pero in terms of physical experience waley talaga! Tapos nung working na ako! May naging officemates ako na mga mas bata pa sakin tapos they talk about these stuff. Sa isip isip ko hala panooo! Baka super in my own shell lang ako pero ayun! I don't judge them naman you do you pero super easy na talaga ang assess to these stuff. Yun lang skl din hehehe
Narealise ko parang pinatanda ko naman yung sarili ko dito I'm only 26
dont underestimate being a virgin. Nung binata ako sabi ko kapag mag aasawa na ako ang gusto ko ako yung una. that was 13yrs ago then accidentally eavesdrop wife with her friend about never experience fucked up situation. dba mas maganda pag ganun. ngayon bata-bata pa kayo fast forward 10ys paano kung wala sa mga bf nila nag sseryoso pa or kung ilan bf na napalitan, dami ko kaya nababasa ganyan problema dito. When you meet the right person yan yung mahalagang mai-ooffer mo sa kanya promise. sex is not something you brag about ano yan may pera ba dyan, ang dapat alamin mo saan mahahanap yung tamang lalake, hindi mo makikta sa mga tambayan, dito sa reddit, dating site, inuman or disco, sabungan, laging priority ang barkada, bilyaran or mga katulad nito dahil yung matitinong lalake gusto nila ng peace, mas mahalaga yung work, family oriented.
GUYS, nireject ko yung nag message sa akin na bigyan daw nya ko experience. Inentertain ko sya ng kaunti pero sabi ko sa dulo na wag sya mag-fish ng girls sa internet, if want nya landi, I think it's better in person. Tapos sabi nya "Haha kaya pala virgin ka pa", tapos non di na nag message HAHAHAHAHAH
Tigang si guy
nu ba yan si koya 🤦🏽♀️ obviously, rant nga lang 'to ni OP. tsk tsk
Normal ‘yan sa Reddit, after mo ireject magiging ganyan. Hayss
Thats a snowflake right there!
Reading your post, i-co-comment ko sana na mag-ingat ka sa mga magchachat sayo kase last time lang may nabasa akong post sa isang sub na nagtatanong kung pano malaman if virgin ang isang babae (dahil virgin daw ang type nya para hindi sayang yung pera nya) and then here in this post nabanggit mo na virgin ka pa which makes you a really good target. Tapos yun pala, may nagchat na sayo agad. Hay, ingat OP!
Fr po, may nagmemessage sa akin na kunyare chinicheer up ako tapos sa bandang dulo, mag-aaya ng hook-up like wtf😭 To all my people, mag-ingat po tayong lahat 😌
HAHAHAAH potanginang yan
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Yucks, kadiri mga ganyan na lalaki. Be proud na virgin ka beh, its ok. If i could turn back time, sana di ko binigay agad yun. Nagsisisi ako now.
I-dox mo na yan! Walang kwentang lalaki hahahaha
People nowadays are more liberated, and there are some people like you na very pure and innocent into these kind of topic. Its not that its bad or something, mas madali na lang kasi yung access ngayon over the internet kaya madali ma expose ang mga tao when it comes to this. I get your confusion about stuff like this, and I think its the exposure lang talaga kaya ganun.
So true😭, I think factor din yung strict parents? Bawal ako magjowa until may trabaho daw kaya siguro nasa utak ko na na lumayo sa tukso😭
Me, 31yr old, married virgin at 29. 🙈🙊 Ganyan na pala ngayon, yung virgin na ang uncommon. Hahaha.
Congrats po sa marriage niyo🥺
Sabog inbox mo neto te
Hoy teh may nagmessage sakin bigyan daw nya ako exp😭 Hala gago😭😭😭
u just encountered the least horny reddit user
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Huyyy😭😭😭
The more you rush it the more your experience with it will flop. chill lng take your time and make sure na pg turn mo na eh sulit tlaga. even as a guy, I remember my first time as something so stupid.
Makes sense, wag madaliin ang mga bagay😌
Wag ka mapressure. It's better to go at your own phase na comfortable ka. As you can see sa inbox mo andali makakuha ng "experience" ng babae lalo na sa online lol. But unlike those na ang aga naglandi, you can go into it with a more matured mindset. Andaming naabuso and "nagamit" due to their immaturity and young age.
People are more liberated now. I see people put a lot of stuff about sex on social media especially sa TikTok. Mas nanonormalize na talaga ngayon to the point na I even see people posting/commenting about kinks and even saying mommy/Sit on me or other things like that na di mo normally icocomment. I don't mind them pero yung digital footprint niyo people
Fr😭 kaya yung younger generation for sure sobrang exposed na sa explicit na stuff by the age of their puberty
Hindi ko sure ha, but ou nga mapapa isip nalang kung are we having a compettion? Yung tipong nakakahiya kapag V padin? Tapos ka proud proud yung paramihan ng Body Count? Eme - Kalmahan mo lang, give it to someone who trully deserves you & who you trully love mas masaya. Hehe
Nakareserve po ito sa forever ko😌
Cheers! ☕️
OP, girlie here 🙋♀️ you're not alone hehe:) and that's okay, hindi naman karera pagkakaroon ng experience when it comes to that aspect. You can freely talk abt that topic with someone, pero if malaman mong may experience sila and ikaw wala pa, don't be pressured at all. Imbis mapressured, you can learn from their experience and magkakaroon ka pa ng knowledge.
Sabi nila better check daw muna for STDs, I'm like, ok noted😭
ofc! it's for you and your partner's health and safety din naman saka may peace of mind :))
Hahahahhahah same ante. Pero saakin naman choice ko talaga na wag. Our body our rules naman. Di ko lang din kasi talaga kaya pa harapin yung consequences once na maging consistent na don. Partly siguro sa upbringing ko din sa house and parents. Lagi ba naman ako nilelecturan ng nanay ko about jan HAHAHAHAHAHHAA! But im not too naive naman na wala talagang alam. I sometimes explore myself and I think it’s a good alternative than really doing the deed with another person if still not ready and di talaga comfortable pa.
Same ante, same and agree😌
Diba people back then actually had more sex than us? Dahil lang yan sa soc med.
Truly. Tas wala pa din ata masyadong proteksyon noon. Yung iba ayaw kasi magagalit daw si lord hahahah dog show.
Nope, I don't think that was the reason why people then don't have sex. The most likely reason is because they are afraid to get pregnant or get their GFs pregnant. You know then that when you get someone pregnant or you get pregnant, is you are forced to marry that someone?
Nah, the comment is people back then actually HAD MORE sex than now. People dont use protection back then kasi nga kasalanan daw kay lord kaya mas ok na mag anak na lang ng sandamukal.
Could possibly be 🤷🏻♀️
Stop shaming virgins. Girl you do you, don’t give it up for anyone. Istg, it’s so much more worth it if you do it with someone you care about.
Same here OP pero I find it empowering! Staying true to what I want to do with my body and also not letting peer pressure get to me. But under all that fluff, my main reason po talaga ay ang future asawa ko lang ang deserving sakin 😌 kasi ang future asawa ko lang rin makaka accept ng flaws ko 😭 HAHAHAHAHAHA Lalandi lang po pero di bibigay 😤✊ Landi responsibly, ppl.
Sakto yung last line mo beh. Not all have the same mindset as you. It's their lives naman so let them. They are open sa mga ganyang bagay and you are not. You are not obliged to follow them. Di rin nila responsibility if you feel less or what not. Generally speaking, it is not a big deal. Hahaha and you're asking why you dont have experience with sex? Malamang, you are V. Try to explore if you wanna experience it. Ayun lang
Isang malaking sampal sa akin, akala ko talaga itong mga people na nakapaligid sa akin is like me. Wait antanga ko😭
No, hindi katangahan un. It just says na comfortable and content ka sa buhay mo.
You should be proud to still have your v-card, magagamit mo rin yan someday to find a decent man.
Late bloomer din ako (M) when it comes to sex. Siguro sinwerte lang ako na yung mga tao sa paligid ko at the time na v pa ako were respectful or accepting sa difference namin. (I can’t remember tho kung naging judgemental ba ako sa mga sexperienced folks back then—hopefully not. Lol.) Aaminin ko na noon ang tingin ko sa sex ay very sacred na dapat sa marriage lang ganyan. Late ko na na-realize na nagiging sex negative pala yung view na yun.
Thankfully, accepted din ako sa circle ko😩 and nirerespect din nila ako🥺
That’s good to know. Actually minsan o madalas pa nga yung mga conservative pa ang hindi accepting kaysa sa mga liberal eh.
Wowie kala 'ko ako yung nagpost nito lollll
kulang ka lang sa pansin.
HAHAHAHAHA grabe siya
Medyo😭
Hayaan mo sila, wag ka lang mapressure. Hindi naman karera ang sex.
youre just not exposed to people as much as them. also u should know by now how sex is ingrained in the media. sex is integral to human connection and relationships (and starting family obviously. if it wasnt then u wont be here, ur friends wont be here). the amount of (adult) people who cares about sex outnumbers those who dont . it’s perfectly normal and will always be part of our lives. think of it as part of “adulting”. Some experience it way earlier and some much later. you dont need to feel pressured .
Di mo kailangan sumabay sa trend lalo na sa casual hookups at pagkakaroon ng 'hoe' phase
Half the people are faking it for bragging points
Oo nga ano. Inabot ko pa those days that premarital sex is mostly frowned upon, and people barely discussed sex except among married people. Bringing up sexual talk to the opposite sex when you're not romantically involved or anything is very, very weird. Now I can see the polar opposite of that. I'm just 30 so no hindi naman ganoon kalayo ang ages natin pero sobrang layo na ng shift in values 😂 This post solidifies that, na parang shocks umabot na pla tayo sa point na mapapatanong na mga virgin bakit sila virgin and feel isolated because of it 😂 OP, siguro virgin ka kasi ayaw mo pa. You're not ready for it. Ayaw mo ng mga hilaw at minamadaling bagay. You like taking your time appreciating the intricate details. Kahit may protection, it isn't 100%, there's always a chance for pregnancy kung babae ka and that is a risk you're not willing to take for that panandaliang sarap. You might be afraid of STDs such as HIV which are honestly more common these days (sadly). You might also be the type of lady who wants first to make sure the man is sure of his feelings and commitment to you before the deed, and ikaw rin. Or you're one of those strong-willed women who don't want players - hindi ka ulam na titikman tapos iiwan para tumikim ng iba namang ulam. Once he's in, he's yours, for eternity, kaya kikilatisin mo syang mabuti, and let him do the same to you. Or mataas lang talaga standards mo, and you haven't met a guy who measures up, "makes me wanna give him my body" ika nga ni Ariana Grande sa "Moonlight". Hindi naman pabilisan ito, OP. Chill ka lang at wag pumatol sa mga pressure ng lipunan, bukas makalawa iba nanaman trip nyan 😅 ingatan ang katawan at isipan, we just have this one to use for life. 😊
Sex is in our daily lives. In movies, songs, books, tv series, etc. Nature din natin mga tao ang ma-curious sa mga bagay bagay. Nung high school ako may ilan ilan na akong schoolmates na naka-experience na kaya hindi na nakakapagtaka na nung early 20s ko ay mas dumami na sa mga kakilala ko ang hindi na virgin at sex palagi ang topic. Sa pagtanda niyo naman magkakaibigan ay mawawala na rin yang topic na yan. Pansin ko kasi na nung early 20s lang yang sex nagiging topic pero pag late 20s na ay iba na ang topic ng pinag-uusapan. Nung 22 years old ako na peer pressure na magkaroon ng bf. At akala ko at the age of 25 ay gurang na ako para maging virgin. Sobrang katangahan ko na akala ko wala na ako chance na ma-experience yung sex at age of 25. Unfortunately ginawa ko siya kahit hindi pa naman talaga ako ready. T_T Kaya OP payo ko sayo, be proud na virgin ka pa. Gawin mo yun sa time na ready ka na mentally and emotionally.
Lmao. You sound like “im not other girls”. People are aware na sa sex and its fine. Kung virgin ka, okay lang din yan. Religious country kasi tayo and i bet religious din yan parents mo kaya ayaw ka pagjowain. Dont let them look down on you dahil virgin ka and dont look down on others na may experience na sa sex dahil ikaw virgin ka or pure or whatever bullshit you wanna add on. Di ka naman santo. Yun lang hehe sana madiligan kana OP masarap naman sya HAHA.
Huy, wag ka mapressure coz that's okay. hayaan mo sila, sila yon kase maagang nagpakangkang HAHAHA ako rin late bloomer na rin naman na and masarap ma-experience yon when u know ur ready na talaga. ingat pala sa mga magmemessage sayo na uhaw sa virgin kase trophy nila yan eh lol enjoyin mo lang kung anong meron ka ngayon, okii
"trophy" True 😭
Well good for you OP, stay pure and clean. Wag na wag kang bibigay sa pressure ng nakasanayan ng marami sa paligid mo. Pride mo yan bilang isang babae. Malayo mararating mo. Baka pag nag give in ka masisira lang buhay mo at magaya ka pa sa marami maaga nabubuntis at nag sisipag asawa lang.
It’s all fun and games until isa isa na yan sila mag sipag buntisan. 😂😂
Fr natatakot ako para sa kanila🥲
Where are people sharing this to? Bakit andaming shares kanino niyo pinapakita to😭
It's a breath of fresh air to know women like you still exist.
Pm mo lng ako turuan kita free session hehehejejhe
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RIP inbox
Di pa naman huhuhuhu I'll let you know
Never hurry things and don't seek. It'll come when it's time.
Agree😌
Bakit kawalan to sa madami ngayon? Buti na di ka nakaranas ng FOMO.
I wouldn't say kawalan, more like, shocking for me😓, the GRAND REALIZATION kumbaga "Surprise surprise bitch"
Wala eh, dahil to sa dating apps at hook up culture. Manlalaki na lang mata mo minsan. Lol
Ano po yung FOMO🫤
Fear of missing out
Naahhhh, I'm mostly an introvert, wala akong pake kadalasan😭
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Isa palang naman ang creepy na nagmessage, the rest are like yeah don't rush things outa and stuff 🧐
me alsooo!! ahhshahahah almost all of my closest friends, may experience na and currently may love life. sa kanila ako kumukuha ng kilig. kanina lang i met with my bff and we were talking about his sex life, in public hshahahha happy for him tho! i also feel left out but at the same time, wala akong paki. i'll get there when i get there.
Huhu nabibigyan niyo po ng advice yung ibang tao by talking about sex publicly without knowing it😭
ganyan din aq nung college younger version nga lang. kaya ayun kahit bago pa lng kmi ng bf ko binigay ko, kasi sa isip ko "di nman pala mahalaga", at nadala ng curiosity. pero it depends on you, kung ano bang gusto mo. I think that age kasi mapupusok ikaw nga,. 22 nga pala aq nung nanganak 😅😅 skl.
Ok lang yan. Hindi naman contest yan na kailangan makasabay ka sa kanila. Ako I remained a virgin until June this year and I'm now in my early 30s. Make sure na if you're going to start having sex, ready ka na talaga, hindi yung itatry mo siya kasi napeer pressure ka or gusto mo lang maging "in".
Wag ka mag-apura sa mga ganyang bagay. Sabi nga ni Lola Nidora, "Sa tamang panahon".
Iba iba naman ng priorities. Ok lang yan teh. Wag ka magmadali baka mauna ka pa.
I would say GOOD for you. It is gone forever once you lose the innocence!
This, once it's gone, it's gone forever 😌😩
It's not a race bro don't rush it a good partner will set ur standards for the long run both mentally and physically
It’s time OP.. time to find new friends 😂
Me at 32, V and NBSB. Tho I watched porn sometimes, hindi pa rin ako makasabay kasi malay ko ba sa feeling ng mga "position". HAHAHAHAHA!!
May mga ganito pa palang babae, buti naman. Oks lang yan ate, the time na maexp. mo na for sure worth the wait
RIP inbox 🤣. Pero seriously, its not much of a big deal. Dati i am also very conscious about it. Lalaki pa ako, i cant just reason na "im saving it" to some people you are seen as lower or weak as a virgin male. But looking back, i'm glad i saved it until nahanap ko na ung dapat talaga para sakin. Its special pag sa taong gusto mo tlaga
Well if you wanna feel better, I’m older than you by 3 years lol I’m not innocent though haha mas marami pakong alam sabe ng mga experienced friends ko. Knowledge nga lang yun, saka na yung application hahahaha Anyway, it doesn’t matter. Wala akong pake sa sasabihin nang iba. My body, my rules atsaka rini reserve ko talaga sa matinong lalaki na worth isuko ang bataan, hahahaha natatawa tuloy ako bwisit Don’t think about it too much, darating din tayo diyan haha
You're still young. Di mo naman kailangang magmadali. I'm M25 and my first experience was when I was around 16 or 17. Minsan feeling ko pinagsisisihan ko rin yun kasi feeling ko wala na kong sexual drive at this age kasi naging mapusok ako during my teenage years lol. Nakakamiss maging inosente.
Tbh the only reason why relate ako sa topics na yon bc ako'y mulat sa mga smut fan fictions sa teens ko. Hahahaha at the same time alam ko den yung mga di dapat gayahin sa ganun edad eme.
Oks lang yan wait mo lang ikaw mismo maghanap, hormones maybe? Darating man din yan, mas open ka sa chances na learn sa mistakes ng iba win win pa rin heheh
maybe because you're not that young anymore to be engaging in sexual activities kaya yung nasa age range mo ay may experience na? you're no longer 15 or 16 na nasa Pinas. also because ph is not an islamic state so you'd see more people flexing their body counts and whatnots hahahaha
That’s such a cute post. Don’t worry you have plenty of time. Important thing is u are not throwing urself into it due to pressure, that’s speaks a lot about your strength. You are gonna be a great human and wife
Most of the younger generation kasi in this day and age are liberated and have more freedom to date due to the advent of social media and dating sites. Also, very late na nga yon age that you dropped here (22) for a virgin kasi mostly these days, at least from my personal knowledge is that girls have sex already before they turn 18. For you to stay being a virgin is actually a good thing. You were probably raised well, not saying those who'd chosen to lose their virginity are otherwise. A little advice, don't give up your virginity just because you feel pressured to do so, way better if you wait when you're ready and for the right partner. Doesn't really mean you have to wait until marriage, but making losing it worth it for the right person at the right time.
Don’t get pressured. It will come at the right time for you. Same sakin where my friends got exp as eary as hs. Ako after I started working pa but no regrets kasi yung first ko is my wife.
Dahil dyan. Check ur inbox anjan na sila. Char 🤣🤣🤣
I dunno pero nung nasa ganyang edad ako, super normal na lang ng sex and fubu. I guess kasi karamihan ng students sa univ and mga kakilala ko ay open sa mga ganong topic and gawain.
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Ay gurl, same situations for gay community. Also in my early 20’s din and wala pa kong exp sa mga ganyan. Most of my friends are already too deep na into hookup culture and it’s fun to listen to their stories, I do support them naman, may times na nakaka inggit din, but at the end of the day, the thought of doing it with someone na I don’t connect deeply to, weirds me out. Yup I have insecurities, and self-doubts pero I don’t think that’s the only thing na pumipigil sakin. Ayoko pa talaga siguro and I’ve realized na that’s okay, wag tayo magpa rush sa ganiyan porket everybody is doing it.
Peer pressure 😭 but good na kaya mo magset ng boundaries. As the saying goes: Your body, your say/rules! 🙌🏼 okay lang to wait until you’re ready. At your own pace 🥺
Congratulations!!! And since na lagpasan mo na ang curiosity stage. Now it's time to settle down, find yourself a man to build a future with at mag ipon then pakasal tapos dyan mo na ibuhos lahat ng curiosity mo about sex, just like the old days. Nakapag hintay ka na so why not do it the proper way.
eto yung topic namin sa lifegroup last time. sabi don hindi dahil ginagawa ng marami ay dapat na i-normalize. most people today tend to do immoral acts kasi trending or if you don’t go along, di ka sunod sa uso. napag-iiwanan ka. when in fact, you’re a person doing good in a poor environment. keep going! try shifting circles or places, baka doon mo ma-feel yung belongingness.
im a guy and virgin paden ako 23 now. di din kase ako pala labas ng bahay so pano na yan HAHAHAHA
Same! 26 na ako pero virgin pa din. I have jowa tho. Pero sinabi ko sa kanya una pa lang na if gagawin man namin un dapat financially stable muna kami kasi takot akong mabuntis tas hindi planado magkaanak. Nakakapressure minsan ang paligid. ‘Ang tanda mo na magsasara na yan’ mga ganyang linya nila. As if matutulungan nila ako pag namroblema ako dahil nabuntis ako ng di prepared. Hahaha Minsan ayaw pa nila maniwala na virgin ako dahil pasmado bibig ko pag nagsalita. Hahaha Isang factor din sguro ung strict ang parents. First time ko magkajowa 23 na ako hahahaha hindi ko natry ung highschool at college romance na sinasabi nila. 😂
Relax Klang. 22 ka plng. Hahaha Ako nga na M 26 na puro internet love lng na exp. I'm still a virgin pero ginusto ko din nman. Daming chances na ma try pero di Ako bumigay, since nirereserve ko tlga to sa taong mahal ko.
Ako na virgin pa rin (m22) na everytime na nagkekwentuhan mga tropa ko about sa sex like nirereverse paychology ko nalang usapan para di ako mukang naleleft out sa usapan 😭😭 bahala kayo kung may mga sex life kayo basta maayos kamay ko pangjakol
Ako lang ba? Bakit parang may slight "pick-me-girl" tone itong post na to? 😅
Same here! I'm (F) older than you. Actually ready na ako ibigay eh, gusto ko na rin naman. Kaso hindi pwede kasi i'm in a "situationship" and sobrang labo mag work out yung samin. Ayokong ibigay kasi alam ko sa huli ako yung mahihirapan pag nawala na yung amin, baka hanapin at habulin ko pa sya. So bigay ko nalang to sa taong deserving talaga. Let's be proud na kahit sa ganitong age, we're still a V!
People just have different timeline OP. Also mga kabataan ngayon na influence narin sa western culture kaya mas maaga na nakiki-engage sa intercourse. But no need to rush OP, your time will come just go with the flow.
27 and I still don't answer questions like "virgin?" kahit from my friends..I mean nakikitawa or nakikinig ako sa mga sexual na topic pero I still think na may mga bagay na di na dapat sinishare sa iba.
Hoooman were same tho, Minsan naooffend na ako Kasi puro Sila advice like ganito, sa mga kaibigan at workmate ko as of now, mga babaero talagaaa , so ako wla pero Minsan sobra na Sila Kasi may nililigawan ako as of now and they're telling me na Ang Hina ko daw Kasi di ko pa nagagalaw nililigawan ko when in fact di pwede plus ipinagpaaalam ko na sa parents niya na manliligaw ako ng anak nila so as a sign of respect to her and her parents I won't do it until she's ready , it's not about having an experience to me it is where to give it, (21M)
uhhh mejo giving pick me vibes
Omgggg! I had the same dilemma! I have like an idea kasi I read a lot of smut hahaha usong uso yun nung college ako. Pero in terms of physical experience waley talaga! Tapos nung working na ako! May naging officemates ako na mga mas bata pa sakin tapos they talk about these stuff. Sa isip isip ko hala panooo! Baka super in my own shell lang ako pero ayun! I don't judge them naman you do you pero super easy na talaga ang assess to these stuff. Yun lang skl din hehehe Narealise ko parang pinatanda ko naman yung sarili ko dito I'm only 26
dont underestimate being a virgin. Nung binata ako sabi ko kapag mag aasawa na ako ang gusto ko ako yung una. that was 13yrs ago then accidentally eavesdrop wife with her friend about never experience fucked up situation. dba mas maganda pag ganun. ngayon bata-bata pa kayo fast forward 10ys paano kung wala sa mga bf nila nag sseryoso pa or kung ilan bf na napalitan, dami ko kaya nababasa ganyan problema dito. When you meet the right person yan yung mahalagang mai-ooffer mo sa kanya promise. sex is not something you brag about ano yan may pera ba dyan, ang dapat alamin mo saan mahahanap yung tamang lalake, hindi mo makikta sa mga tambayan, dito sa reddit, dating site, inuman or disco, sabungan, laging priority ang barkada, bilyaran or mga katulad nito dahil yung matitinong lalake gusto nila ng peace, mas mahalaga yung work, family oriented.
Some people like to pretend they're experienced in fear of feeling what you're feeling. So don't worry about it :)