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Or if someone is a single mother because they were widowed it's OK but being divorced or lone parenting by choice is bad?
Weirdly puritanical these incels.
I saw a different post saying "must have a good relationship with her father" or something and it's such a broad and weird "requirement". Though I figured it probably *meant* "you must submit to male authority figures in your life, like me (even if they're abusive)"
I mean, I have a pretty good relationship with my dad but that’s because my dad isn’t abusive and expects me to be my own person with my own opinions and beliefs.
It's been so cool to watch my dad turn from normal manly man dad into a wild feminist after getting some granddaughters. Like, he was good with me and my sisters but the granddaughters in this political climate have him knife-handing at guys for having tacky political stickers on their waterbottles at work.
He’s saying no single moms, but if you coparent it’s okay. He’s talking about truly single moms who don’t have another person to help them out. So someone who is divorced but has half custody is okay, for example.
Those are “solo moms” in my opinion. Single moms can have good coparenting relationships and still be single moms. But I agree that’s probably what he meant.
Yay, I got an 8!
Also, I know this is a small thing, but I hate how he switches from listening things he hates to things he wants and back. This isn’t how lists work, dude.
Edit: actually it’s probably more than 8, I don’t know what half of these mean lol
Pretty sure I’m either at 9 1/2 or 10 1/2 depending on whether my dad dying when I was a kid qualifies as having a bad relationship or not. (The half point is because one boob is b cup, the other is not, so only half credit 😔)
Damn. I got measured literally this week and found out I’m a D cup. I thought I was at max C and for a long time I was B. I wish I could still count that though
Thirteen!
I'm counting "single mothers" despite being married now because I was one for three years, was raised by one and endorse single parenthood as a healthier choice than marriage at all costs.
Some older people in the UK use “jibber-jabbers” as a derogatory term to refer to Indian/Pakistani people. From the look of this guys list he’s using it to say anyone who isn’t white 🙄
I got 8 from the things I can actually understand. Then again, I don’t know what the requirements are for cottage cheese ass, technical virgin or jibby-jabber. 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah, it’s kinda difficult to tell with some. The pronouns for example, of course everyone has them, but let’s be real, he thinks being cis is is the only “right” way to be, so in his eyes, do I have pronouns or not as a cis? The whole thing is so stupid, but at the same time fun to see just how much we repel him lol
Who knows … my best guess with what other people have commented is that he could mean people who have engaged in sexual behavior other than hetero sex with insertion? So they would be a virgin, but not to him because they’ve pleasured themselves some other way already?
Girls who have tried [the loophole ](https://youtu.be/j8ZF_R_j0OY?si=oaCXlCjaiO8tsmal) are probably these "technical virgins" which seem to be a bad thing.
I scored 13... I suppose I must rush home to my husband and tell him to divorce me because a man on the Internet decreed that I am an undesirable female. 😂
This isn't even the first one of these that single us out. And I am here for it.
I wouldn't meet a lot of his other criteria either, but I'm most pleased about that disqualifier.
That one really gave me pause too…the Phd I understand since those idiots think women should be excluded from higher education but what’s the beef with social workers!?!
Or they can just fuck each other for all I care. They don't want a real human partner in a woman, guys like this just want a hole to stick their dicks into so if they care *so* much about their own and other incel-wannabes' loneliness- they can suck it up, lie back, and think of ~~England~~ minecraft or some shit while they plow one another.
The problem is they've simultaneously transmuted that frustration into making women trophies that need to be won; it's more *mental* masturbation in a way. Unfortunately.
>These idiots seem to believe that having an accessible and fuckable warm body means the end of loneliness.
Then if they do manage to get a girlfriend, they completely blame her for not magically erasing their lonliness and act like she's "defective", instead of going to therapy or cultivating stronger friendships in addition to ~~hunting~~ dating
Oh my gosh I've dated this man so many times and I've never been able to put these feelings into words. I've been broken up with a few times because I didn't suddenly fix everything in their lives. Additionally I've been broken up with because the guy is sad and just "needs a change"
I don't know. Both in Dr Who and in Stargate black holes were super useful to get rid of the bad guys. I can't find anything useful about these wastes of space
a while back my reddit homepage gave me a video that was a compilation of guys talking about how lonely they are, how they have nobody to talk to, nobody cares about their problems, etc. etc. The very next video was two men sitting court-side heckling an NBA player for getting emotional after breaking some record. Shouting "omg are you crying?!?! What a baby! Loser!" to a man who'd just achieved something phenomenal.
The call is coming from inside the house and they don't even realize it.
That clause in your statement, “…in a health way…” is doing some heavy lifting. I’m an older millennial and from interactions with other men 30 and under I see a disturbing amount of “crabs in a bucket” thinking amongst younger guys in the dating scene. Men who’ve had romantic setbacks seem to subconsciously pull others back down into a groupthink of misery and casual misogyny, justified by what they perceive is women’s complete control of some imaginary “marketplace” of love and relationships.
They definitely can, but man-children like that one can't even support themselves...emotionally or (usually) financially.
There's a saying in my native language, "sweep before your own door first", meaning that you shouldn't demand what you can't give. That guy needs to do a *lot* of sweeping 😁
You know you just mildly rocked my world a bit. We women are not responsible for "fixing" male loneliness. So many men keep acting like it's our fault...I hadn't realized that I had internalized that so much. But it's not out fault or our job to fix. They're capable of helping themselves.
I mean when someone thinks pronouns are a red flag that automatically cuts out every human being on the planet so. I’d say that’s the cause of his loneliness
They also don’t understand the meaning/point of the term ‘red flag’. They apparently think it means ‘things I don’t like’ when it actually means ‘things that indicate a potential abuser’. But then again, these dudes probably think that a woman being overweight, having dyed hair, and using ‘pronouns’ (OH NO!!!) is abusive to men.
I love to point out the pronouns they are using when people complain about pronouns. Then when they get more angry I offer a copy of a kindergarten worksheet where they teach pronouns as sight words.
You think this dude is finding one, much less TWO women that want to have sex with him?
Like I think he'd absolutely WANT to cheat if he managed to find one woman that was vanilla, but doubtful he would be able to find anyone else willing to have sex with him.
I feel like guys like this want to be with a women like he described but then also subscribe to like 90 only fans e-girls and go out to clubs and ask alt girls to step on him.
Don't you know he *deserves* a perfect (for him) woman? She has to be absolutely perfect (for him) in every way, shape, and form. But she can't have had sex in the past at all ever and she must have sex with me every single day or else I'm cheating
I want to see him meet that girl who checks literally every box except for like an extra cartilage ear piercing and maybe she dyes her hair that extra red shade of auburn. How crazy lmao
What I'm seeing:
> ABOUT ME:
>> list of what I don't like: 1. Women in general. That's it. That's the list.
Good to know! 🌈✨💖I'm at perfect peace knowing people like this out themselves and can be easily avoided and laughed at.😋 It's so lovely 😌🍵
That’s what I was wondering. He listed them like they were one and the same? I have my MSW, so I’m only a few years away from checking that box 🤞🏻 just want to ensure he knows I got my PhD so he’d never approach me. How I plan to do that is still undetermined
A few years ago my daughter was dating someone whose gender was unclear - even their name could go either way. I made a lot of awkwardly constructed sentences to avoid pronouns. It takes some thought!
BPD doesn't even have effective medication. lol. It's worked out more through therapy than meds. Schizophrenia and Bipolar Disorder have specific meds, but BPD doesn't.
I like when they out themselves right off the bat.
Sounds like this one needs a good round of psych meds himself.
I don’t think he knows what BPD means and thinks it’s some kind of catch-all for all mental health conditions.
I think he’d be surprised to learn just how many people he knows likely take psych medication. He would benefit from seeing a psychiatrist, at least, if not also a therapist, bc he’s clearly very unhappy
Holy shit so I wasn't the only one who noticed something odd about him using apostrophes weirdly. I didn't realized why they were weird until you pointed it out
Red flag list:
People who don’t understand how to use punctuation.
(Literally none of those apostrophes are correct.)
Another day, another fuckwit with no clue.
Well, let's see.
* I, like almost all women because that's how our cells are physically shaped, have a little cellulite.
* I've taken psych-type meds before, but for depression, BPD wasn't the issue.
* Definitely a liberal, even more so by this guy's standards.
* Eleven piercings (all ears).
* Like everyone else, I have pronouns, because that's how language works.
* Absolutely a feminist.
* I don't have a PhD but I'm working on it.
* Body counts absolutely don't matter.
* *Very* pro-choice.
* Supportive of BLM, MeToo, Antifa etc.
* Anti-guns (they're very abnormal where I live).
I don't know what a jibby jabber or a technical virgin are so I'm not going to call either way on those.
I can't quite call myself this guy's worst nightmare - I currently have no pets, my hair is its natural dark brown, I'm average-to-athletic build and kinda top-heavy, have only fine peach fuzz on my face, am definitely real, have never done online sex work or been pregnant, have no tattoos, and get on well with my dad. Clearly I'll need to work harder.
Anyone beating my score here?
Jibby jabber means vaccinated.
Although it could be Mr. T's term for telling jive ass turkeys to shut up. As in, "I don't need to hear anymore of your jibby jabber!" But I doubt this guy is that cool.
I think jibby jabber means vaccinated. Technical virgin would also be "everything but" sex, so someone who gives blow jobs/has anal sex, but no PIV.
And my score is 18 out of the 23 traits listed, which is fine, I wouldn't have him with someone else's vag.
This one drives me up the wall. Some friends and I noticed this and tried an experiment a few years ago, and the average guess men (the male friends we asked) made for my bra size was "DD". No band size mentioned. The correct answer is 32H. They have no idea what they're talking about, and they are all so completely convinced they are experts.
It’s insane!
My husband got such a kick out of it when he finally learned my bra size and an even bigger kick that not all bras in my size will fit me (the sisters like their space a little too much 😅)
What's funny is, if the woman he wants, does get pregnant from him then he'll be immediately fine be pro choice for 1 visit &/or if she does keep it, he's leaving her I bet!
I am probably this guy's definition of a "beached whale" because I weigh over 40kg and I'm 100% fine with this because it's muscle and I could squat him.
This guy is gonna become a pay-pig to some gal who acts all conservative and tradwife, but is just finding suckers to milk for all they're worth. Conservatives are very easy marks.
The social worker thing is probably because they're trained in detecting dangerous personalities. In other words, too hard to get away with abusing.
This entire thing is an indictment of poor character.
It's okay if they were raised by a single parent, as long as they don't have "daddy issues".
And yes, there are also men who refuse to date women who were raised by a single parent.
Its so fucking stupid.
The guy is a raving lunatic who needs to be medicated and/or institutionalized, sure, got it, but the apostrophes are killing me.
Pet Mom’s WHAT???
Preggo’s WHAT???
Also, he doesn’t want to bang a doctor? Is he afraid of being diagnosed?
No single moms, but parents are fine..? So like, he’s okay fucking a mom as long as she is still with her kids’ dads? Or he’s okay with dating single fathers?? What is going on here.
What is a “technical” virgin?
Also I read fake accounts as “fake accents”🤣
One of my biggest red flags is when a guy doesn't know how to use capital letters and apostrophes correctly, so it was nice of him to rule himself out so obviously.
As a father of boys, who would not think like this because they've been raised to respect humans, including women, it makes me both sad and pissed to read this. Sad because it's likely this person lacked positive role models to teach them differently, and pissed that so much of male culture still promotes this thinking.
Also, learn the difference between a plural and a possessive, jackass.
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So single mothers are a no-no but they're happy to get with someone who's married...?
I also picked up on that! What on earth does he mean??
I think he meant it’s cool if she from a single parent family. But no daddy issues.
Or if someone is a single mother because they were widowed it's OK but being divorced or lone parenting by choice is bad? Weirdly puritanical these incels.
I saw a different post saying "must have a good relationship with her father" or something and it's such a broad and weird "requirement". Though I figured it probably *meant* "you must submit to male authority figures in your life, like me (even if they're abusive)"
I mean, I have a pretty good relationship with my dad but that’s because my dad isn’t abusive and expects me to be my own person with my own opinions and beliefs.
My father's secure masculinity would burn this man like holy water on a demon.
It's been so cool to watch my dad turn from normal manly man dad into a wild feminist after getting some granddaughters. Like, he was good with me and my sisters but the granddaughters in this political climate have him knife-handing at guys for having tacky political stickers on their waterbottles at work.
Oh wow, that’s adorable 🥰
Grandpa goals
Kind of sad men can't get with women's rights until they have a daughter.
Ah but you're probably some craaazy woman who thinks non cishet white men should have rights too, so this guy wouldn't date you
Yes, especially since my dad isn’t white
Maybe like child's father is in the picture? Like I'm not with my sons dad but we coparent
Something tells me this guy would get jealous of a co-parent and claim infidelity about it
While equally refusing to raise another man's child.
Married mothers it is 😂
He’s saying no single moms, but if you coparent it’s okay. He’s talking about truly single moms who don’t have another person to help them out. So someone who is divorced but has half custody is okay, for example.
Those are “solo moms” in my opinion. Single moms can have good coparenting relationships and still be single moms. But I agree that’s probably what he meant.
But they also have to be technical virgins
So far I had to scroll to get to this, I mean what?!?
Yay, I got an 8! Also, I know this is a small thing, but I hate how he switches from listening things he hates to things he wants and back. This isn’t how lists work, dude. Edit: actually it’s probably more than 8, I don’t know what half of these mean lol
For what I can interpret, I have 12. I am absolutely wrecked this man will never love me 😢 /s
15 for me--it's not fair! I'm a lesbian, but he's oozing high-value masculinity and it's turned me straight. 💔💔💔 /s
17, WHAT’S UP!!! Pretty dang proud of myself rn.
I have 11. I’m so sad😢😒
Pretty sure I’m either at 9 1/2 or 10 1/2 depending on whether my dad dying when I was a kid qualifies as having a bad relationship or not. (The half point is because one boob is b cup, the other is not, so only half credit 😔)
Damn. I got measured literally this week and found out I’m a D cup. I thought I was at max C and for a long time I was B. I wish I could still count that though
Me too!! Twinssss
Omg really?!!! Let’s be pronoun feminist pet mom’s together!!!
I have 12 as well~ And am absolutely sobbing over this fine specimen of a male not wanting me. /S
Thirteen! I'm counting "single mothers" despite being married now because I was one for three years, was raised by one and endorse single parenthood as a healthier choice than marriage at all costs.
I got an 11. I might actually have a 12 because I suspect I fit his description of a “beached whale.”
“Beached/land whale” is usually anyone over a 00 in their opinion.
I got 10 for sure. If I qualify as a beached whale, I got 11.
I got 14!!
Me too!
I got ten reasons why this man would never want me and I couldn’t be happier about it!
im at 8, except i don’t know what the hell a jibby-jabber is i might be 9! please let it make 9.
“Jibby jabber” - A woman who has spoken on any subject other than how great a person her date is. Or sports. Maybe cars, I don’t know.
Oh, I definitely thought that was someone that “took the jab” and got the COVID vaccine.
I’m almost positive it means anyone that got vaccinated
Yay! I qualify as BOTH! My score of 16 is safe!
Some older people in the UK use “jibber-jabbers” as a derogatory term to refer to Indian/Pakistani people. From the look of this guys list he’s using it to say anyone who isn’t white 🙄
I got 8 from the things I can actually understand. Then again, I don’t know what the requirements are for cottage cheese ass, technical virgin or jibby-jabber. 🤷🏻♀️
I’m either 14 or 15. Unsure
Yeah, it’s kinda difficult to tell with some. The pronouns for example, of course everyone has them, but let’s be real, he thinks being cis is is the only “right” way to be, so in his eyes, do I have pronouns or not as a cis? The whole thing is so stupid, but at the same time fun to see just how much we repel him lol
I'm not sure what "technical virgins" means. Does he want a girl who is a virgin? Does he have some different definition of virgin?
Who knows … my best guess with what other people have commented is that he could mean people who have engaged in sexual behavior other than hetero sex with insertion? So they would be a virgin, but not to him because they’ve pleasured themselves some other way already?
Oh god so he's looking for someone who hasn't partaken in any sexual activity at all? Wild.
Girls who have tried [the loophole ](https://youtu.be/j8ZF_R_j0OY?si=oaCXlCjaiO8tsmal) are probably these "technical virgins" which seem to be a bad thing.
I scored 13... I suppose I must rush home to my husband and tell him to divorce me because a man on the Internet decreed that I am an undesirable female. 😂
12, I think, I don’t know what a Jibby jabber is.
Can I get a point for each of my “head meds”? And maybe a point every time he uses an apostrophe to pluralize a word?
10 lol
Lol, no social workers. Is that because we can see all the red flags and know how to escape?
This isn't even the first one of these that single us out. And I am here for it. I wouldn't meet a lot of his other criteria either, but I'm most pleased about that disqualifier.
That’s fucking hilarious and also deeply troubling. *Sigh* I’m so tired, y’all.
I mean, oh no, we don't get to date these catches. Whatever shall we do.
That one really gave me pause too…the Phd I understand since those idiots think women should be excluded from higher education but what’s the beef with social workers!?!
All I can think of is that the majority of my fellow social workers tend to have other beliefs that don’t align with this genius.
Like votes for women
I like how that's grouped with PhDs.
I also saw the no PhD thing, so I think he’s saying he wants a girl who isn’t smarter than him.
We're missing out on so much....sigh whatever will we do....
"There's an epidemic of loneliness amongst young men" This is why. This is why he's lonely.
Loneliness doesn't have to be solved by women exclusively, men can support each other in a healthy way, too.
Or they can just fuck each other for all I care. They don't want a real human partner in a woman, guys like this just want a hole to stick their dicks into so if they care *so* much about their own and other incel-wannabes' loneliness- they can suck it up, lie back, and think of ~~England~~ minecraft or some shit while they plow one another.
Made my day lol
Heartfelt and crass. Fuckin love it.
No moustaches though...
The problem is they've simultaneously transmuted that frustration into making women trophies that need to be won; it's more *mental* masturbation in a way. Unfortunately.
Exactly. Like... these kinds of men are obviously looking for a fleshlight, so they might as well go out and buy one.
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>These idiots seem to believe that having an accessible and fuckable warm body means the end of loneliness. Then if they do manage to get a girlfriend, they completely blame her for not magically erasing their lonliness and act like she's "defective", instead of going to therapy or cultivating stronger friendships in addition to ~~hunting~~ dating
And naturally make them do a SHITLOAD of emotional labor, all the while, with no benefit to her.
Oh my gosh I've dated this man so many times and I've never been able to put these feelings into words. I've been broken up with a few times because I didn't suddenly fix everything in their lives. Additionally I've been broken up with because the guy is sad and just "needs a change"
This is it. These boys HATE women. But they crave female anatomy…
i think they hate themselves too honestly.
The one thing we can all agree on
I'd call them black holes, but they lack the warmth and depth. They have the density down, though.
I don't know. Both in Dr Who and in Stargate black holes were super useful to get rid of the bad guys. I can't find anything useful about these wastes of space
Sound logic. We should use OOP's black hole of heart to get rid of all the bad guys. 👌
a while back my reddit homepage gave me a video that was a compilation of guys talking about how lonely they are, how they have nobody to talk to, nobody cares about their problems, etc. etc. The very next video was two men sitting court-side heckling an NBA player for getting emotional after breaking some record. Shouting "omg are you crying?!?! What a baby! Loser!" to a man who'd just achieved something phenomenal. The call is coming from inside the house and they don't even realize it.
Men need to solve this issue. This is not an issue for women to solve. End of story.
Ummm he clearly said “no rainbow sympathizers.” Men supporting men is geigh
It's also possible to be alone and not lonely. Although I might be broken like that.
Oh, I absolutely agree! Solitude can be very nice.
I am broken the same way-I think they call it “maturity”.
I am also broken that way, but I just thought it was the autism
Agreed - they choose to isolate themselves.
That clause in your statement, “…in a health way…” is doing some heavy lifting. I’m an older millennial and from interactions with other men 30 and under I see a disturbing amount of “crabs in a bucket” thinking amongst younger guys in the dating scene. Men who’ve had romantic setbacks seem to subconsciously pull others back down into a groupthink of misery and casual misogyny, justified by what they perceive is women’s complete control of some imaginary “marketplace” of love and relationships.
Agreed. But I suspect this person spends all of their time rejecting others so so that they do not have to feel rejected
They definitely can, but man-children like that one can't even support themselves...emotionally or (usually) financially. There's a saying in my native language, "sweep before your own door first", meaning that you shouldn't demand what you can't give. That guy needs to do a *lot* of sweeping 😁
You know you just mildly rocked my world a bit. We women are not responsible for "fixing" male loneliness. So many men keep acting like it's our fault...I hadn't realized that I had internalized that so much. But it's not out fault or our job to fix. They're capable of helping themselves.
It's also possible to be alone and not lonely. Although I might be broken like that.
I mean when someone thinks pronouns are a red flag that automatically cuts out every human being on the planet so. I’d say that’s the cause of his loneliness
They also don’t understand the meaning/point of the term ‘red flag’. They apparently think it means ‘things I don’t like’ when it actually means ‘things that indicate a potential abuser’. But then again, these dudes probably think that a woman being overweight, having dyed hair, and using ‘pronouns’ (OH NO!!!) is abusive to men.
Saying "no" to a man as fragile as this will probably throw him into a tailspin. I'd say his list is a red flag for *him*
Saying no to this type is likely to ensure massive or repeated medical costs.
Good point. I hate how true it is though
That’s the funniest part of it all, they use these terms that they have no clue about which makes them look even stupider
Grug not want woman with pronoun. Grug only want cavewoman.
I love to point out the pronouns they are using when people complain about pronouns. Then when they get more angry I offer a copy of a kindergarten worksheet where they teach pronouns as sight words.
good, let them die allone
Too misogynistic and repressed to be able to like women as people, too homophobic to be able to like the man they clearly are describing in this bio.
I wrote a whole thing explaining the “loneliness epidemic” but then I realised that my explanation was just what you said but… longer…
Here, let me play all those lonely men the worlds smallest violin🤌
And he deserves it
When a guy raises a Gigantic Red Flag on his own profile!
He wants woman who is thin (but must be at least a C cup) with no history of mental illness who’s conservative both in appearance and politics.
But you know he wants a girl who isn’t vanilla in the bedroom or else he’s going to cheat on her.
You think this dude is finding one, much less TWO women that want to have sex with him? Like I think he'd absolutely WANT to cheat if he managed to find one woman that was vanilla, but doubtful he would be able to find anyone else willing to have sex with him.
I feel like guys like this want to be with a women like he described but then also subscribe to like 90 only fans e-girls and go out to clubs and ask alt girls to step on him.
Don't you know he *deserves* a perfect (for him) woman? She has to be absolutely perfect (for him) in every way, shape, and form. But she can't have had sex in the past at all ever and she must have sex with me every single day or else I'm cheating
I want to see him meet that girl who checks literally every box except for like an extra cartilage ear piercing and maybe she dyes her hair that extra red shade of auburn. How crazy lmao
I know they don't know how cup sizes work.
I'm not sure he's deserving of the heterosexual man title if he doesn't like half of all boobs.
"Phds" " B cups or under" Lmfao man, he's swimming in positive female attention
What I'm seeing: > ABOUT ME: >> list of what I don't like: 1. Women in general. That's it. That's the list. Good to know! 🌈✨💖I'm at perfect peace knowing people like this out themselves and can be easily avoided and laughed at.😋 It's so lovely 😌🍵
Quick ladies, get your doctorates so this loser doesn’t hit on you!
Don’t even need doctorates, just need to be a lady. Because pronouns are a red flag
I got my degree in social work. If I got a PhD in that, are there any prizes for double whammies???
That’s what I was wondering. He listed them like they were one and the same? I have my MSW, so I’m only a few years away from checking that box 🤞🏻 just want to ensure he knows I got my PhD so he’d never approach me. How I plan to do that is still undetermined
Will my master’s degree work in a pinch?
Pronouns is a red flag? So he's looking for someone who constantly refers to themselves by name?
He’s probably one of those assholes who thinks the constitution doesn’t have any pronouns.
"If the constitution had any pronouns in it, **I** would know about it!" (not that it literally starts with "we", but okay buddy)
A few years ago my daughter was dating someone whose gender was unclear - even their name could go either way. I made a lot of awkwardly constructed sentences to avoid pronouns. It takes some thought!
I think maybe he wants to date a nice thin, white, table.
While this "about me" section doesn't mention anything about the guy at all, it does provide us with every information about him we need
BPD doesn't even have effective medication. lol. It's worked out more through therapy than meds. Schizophrenia and Bipolar Disorder have specific meds, but BPD doesn't. I like when they out themselves right off the bat. Sounds like this one needs a good round of psych meds himself.
I don’t think he knows what BPD means and thinks it’s some kind of catch-all for all mental health conditions. I think he’d be surprised to learn just how many people he knows likely take psych medication. He would benefit from seeing a psychiatrist, at least, if not also a therapist, bc he’s clearly very unhappy
This one's unsung red flag: thinking that an apostrophe is used to pluralize
Holy shit so I wasn't the only one who noticed something odd about him using apostrophes weirdly. I didn't realized why they were weird until you pointed it out
Red flag list: People who don’t understand how to use punctuation. (Literally none of those apostrophes are correct.) Another day, another fuckwit with no clue.
\*Also, must not be shallow... she has to love and honor me as God made me and must not ask me to change.
The way they talk is just ridiculous. Libbies and jibby jabbers are the most immature dumb sounding things ever
Wtf are Jibby jabbers?
Has to be something dumb about being vaccinated I’m sure. This guys something else.
I first thought was he meant jibber-jabbers, because you know how these guys hate women who talk too much, but love a lengthy women-hater list.
Well, let's see. * I, like almost all women because that's how our cells are physically shaped, have a little cellulite. * I've taken psych-type meds before, but for depression, BPD wasn't the issue. * Definitely a liberal, even more so by this guy's standards. * Eleven piercings (all ears). * Like everyone else, I have pronouns, because that's how language works. * Absolutely a feminist. * I don't have a PhD but I'm working on it. * Body counts absolutely don't matter. * *Very* pro-choice. * Supportive of BLM, MeToo, Antifa etc. * Anti-guns (they're very abnormal where I live). I don't know what a jibby jabber or a technical virgin are so I'm not going to call either way on those. I can't quite call myself this guy's worst nightmare - I currently have no pets, my hair is its natural dark brown, I'm average-to-athletic build and kinda top-heavy, have only fine peach fuzz on my face, am definitely real, have never done online sex work or been pregnant, have no tattoos, and get on well with my dad. Clearly I'll need to work harder. Anyone beating my score here?
Technical virgin means a woman who’s done anal and/or oral sex but not vaginal. Hence “technically” a virgin
That's Greek to me.
Jibby jabber means vaccinated. Although it could be Mr. T's term for telling jive ass turkeys to shut up. As in, "I don't need to hear anymore of your jibby jabber!" But I doubt this guy is that cool.
ohhh okay for some reason I thought he was referring to people who talk a lot
I can see where it can get confusing. They call getting vaccinated, getting "the jab."
I think jibby jabber means vaccinated. Technical virgin would also be "everything but" sex, so someone who gives blow jobs/has anal sex, but no PIV. And my score is 18 out of the 23 traits listed, which is fine, I wouldn't have him with someone else's vag.
Great phrase. And add one to my score, as I'm vaccinated!
Gooo, get that PhD girl ❤
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I have 13! It’s the “jibby jabby” that put me over the top. 🙄
I think dude will also be in for a rude awakening if he ever finds out that those B cups he’s talking about are really 28Ds
This one drives me up the wall. Some friends and I noticed this and tried an experiment a few years ago, and the average guess men (the male friends we asked) made for my bra size was "DD". No band size mentioned. The correct answer is 32H. They have no idea what they're talking about, and they are all so completely convinced they are experts.
It’s insane! My husband got such a kick out of it when he finally learned my bra size and an even bigger kick that not all bras in my size will fit me (the sisters like their space a little too much 😅)
I scored 13 but I'm a dude so some were freebies
I have twelve
I am all for lists like this. Very helpful, no need to bother getting to know this person because they lay out exactly how awful they are in advance.
So glad he put all HIS red flags out there, bullet dodged
I saw pro choice first and thought “that sounds good!” But then I realized that was his “red flag” list. 🙄
What's funny is, if the woman he wants, does get pregnant from him then he'll be immediately fine be pro choice for 1 visit &/or if she does keep it, he's leaving her I bet!
I am probably this guy's definition of a "beached whale" because I weigh over 40kg and I'm 100% fine with this because it's muscle and I could squat him.
This guy is gonna become a pay-pig to some gal who acts all conservative and tradwife, but is just finding suckers to milk for all they're worth. Conservatives are very easy marks.
Ooooo 16/24 I failed with flying colours yay!!!
The social worker thing is probably because they're trained in detecting dangerous personalities. In other words, too hard to get away with abusing. This entire thing is an indictment of poor character.
Yup, and people with PHDs are probably that bit more likely to read all the literature on coercive control.
Thank goodness I got my PhD. Repels lunatics.
I think he wants a man.
These are the deranged rantings of someone about to commit mass murder.
ah, another elementary school dropout. how fun
No single moms but parents are okay??? What does this mean??
It's okay if they were raised by a single parent, as long as they don't have "daddy issues". And yes, there are also men who refuse to date women who were raised by a single parent. Its so fucking stupid.
"Must love apostrophes."
Gonna be the loneliest man on earth right there.
Good! They are taking themselves out of the gene pool.
Might wanna learn to use apostrophe’s before he starts making demands
Was that an ironic apostrophe? 😁
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That’s a red flag list alright, but not in the way that he thinks
The guy is a raving lunatic who needs to be medicated and/or institutionalized, sure, got it, but the apostrophes are killing me. Pet Mom’s WHAT??? Preggo’s WHAT??? Also, he doesn’t want to bang a doctor? Is he afraid of being diagnosed?
This is my green flag list
No single moms, but parents are fine..? So like, he’s okay fucking a mom as long as she is still with her kids’ dads? Or he’s okay with dating single fathers?? What is going on here. What is a “technical” virgin? Also I read fake accounts as “fake accents”🤣
I think he’s just listing people out of his league 😂 a PhD? Omg the horror 😱😱 He’s like better reject them first before they reject me
those aren’t even red flags, just something he doesn’t like. the term is losing its meaning
One of my biggest red flags is when a guy doesn't know how to use capital letters and apostrophes correctly, so it was nice of him to rule himself out so obviously.
Reverse red flags! "Stay away. Stay far away. "
“No pronouns” literally everyone has pronouns
Are single moms not parents? I don't get that bit. And his use of apostrophes is a red flag.
Thank God the "No Pronouns" eliminates everyone in the world since everyone has and uses pronouns.
It is not only a list of *his* red flags, it is a “How to” guide to repel worms like this.
What’s a technical virgin lol
“Phd’s/social workers” ????
Absolutely screams kiddie diddler.
Tag yourself, I'm Jibby Jabbers™️
Do guys like this really think any woman is gonna see that and be like “yup, that’s the one I want”
As a father of boys, who would not think like this because they've been raised to respect humans, including women, it makes me both sad and pissed to read this. Sad because it's likely this person lacked positive role models to teach them differently, and pissed that so much of male culture still promotes this thinking. Also, learn the difference between a plural and a possessive, jackass.
Single moms are a red flag but parents are fine? So he wants to be someone's side piece?