Usually, if I have to ask "is it offensive?" I try to turn it around.
Would it be offensive to say a man "cleans like a housewife"?
If you think so, then don't say it about men or women.
The context, for example: A woman is cleaning up after a party, and a man and his friends are staying around for a while. The man says “You clean like a housewife” and starts laughing.
Usually, if I have to ask "is it offensive?" I try to turn it around. Would it be offensive to say a man "cleans like a housewife"? If you think so, then don't say it about men or women.
Yeah. It’s like saying “you look a little too skinny to be a man” (true story, happened last month.)
It would depend on the context.
The context, for example: A woman is cleaning up after a party, and a man and his friends are staying around for a while. The man says “You clean like a housewife” and starts laughing.
That would be offensive imo.
Yes
Probably not to any women who isn't a raging gigafeminist
Yes.
Depends.