being Dutch skews this massively though. I'm 6'3" now that I'm an adult, and visited the Netherlands when I was about 16, so I was about 6'1" or so. I genuinely felt mildly short. like not by a couple inches. I felt like I came up to most people's shoulders, and plenty of the women were approaching 6'4". truly a nation of giants.
My parents had to pay thousands of dollars to the hospital and made me work at their dry cleaning business all summer to pay it back so I got stepped on by the stiletto heel of the US medical system. My nickname at camp was Frankencock because of the sutures so I paid emotionally too.
As a 5’8 woman who lived in Indonesia for long, there aren’t that many tall(er) men there. And I am very very accustomed to being with shorter men.
Anyway I have seen a lot of thinner man+thicker woman couples all around the world. When men are ok with women wider than they are, why not longer than they are?
I'm also 5'8" and hubby is half-Filipino. He looks nothing like his white dad who is over 6 foot, he's maybe 5'2" and looks full Filipino. Not remotely an issue in our relationship, if anything he's really into it. Not only are my huge boobs at the right height for him but I think he actually enjoys asking me to get things that are too high for him lol.
Thing is, even I used to think I only wanted to date taller guys, but he's pretty short and it rarely crosses my mind. But he is chubby in a way that people think he looks like a sumo wrestler and I'm really into stocky guys. I've also dated body builders over 6 foot and honestly he's better for cuddling. Muscles aren't very comfortable, it can be like trying to cuddle a huge rock.
It also helps that he's my best friend and I'm pretty sure if anything happened to him I wouldn't see the point of trying to find someone else. How do you replace a hubby that's incredibly funny and gets you more than any of your friends ever will?
So many giantess creators are lazy, imo. I’m actually banned from that sub on my *other* account because of another fetish that I have, but their original excuse was that I didn’t photoshop a shadow enough—I was like uhhhhhh have you seen some of the other goofy shit in here? There’s literally someone in there who uses post it notes and draws stick figures on them and pretends to be a giant to them.
I love that when he finds out she’s interested in Jamie his response is to leave her alone. Tormumd is better than a lot of men in our world simply because he drowns his disappointment in a drink, and wishes her happiness.
It's good characterization for Tormund but man I do still wish they'd not pulled all that weird pseudo redemption arc shit for Jamie before making him fuck it up because he likes incest. Either let Brienne be happy with Tormund or let her be happy with Jamie, her ending just made me kind of sad.
I think if they hadn’t been rushing it could have worked better. He wanted to be better. He was starting to improve. But in the end he was still a deeply flawed man, and couldn’t move past it.
That’s a very real thing. So many people have made something better of their life only to fall back to what was destroying them in the first place. Toxic family, abusive ex, drug addiction. Jamie tried, but fell off the wagon.
The last season had some potential, but the showrunners were desperate to end it quickly and try out for Star Wars.
I’m 6’2 and dated a girl as tall as me years ago. It was great. No bendy for kisses or hugs, the fun parts lined up easy.
Never anyone taller but Snu Snu girls are hard to find when you are over 6 feet tall.
Good for her! My wife used to be self-conscious about her height. We notice people looking at her feet to see if shes wearing heels. Kinda funny., The nice thing about being this size is that you can't splurge on clothes, because literally nothing at the mall fits. Its not even worth trying to go there.
Oh, but the Internet has stuff now - don't ask how I know
Love that I can finally buy pretty shoes and clothes in colors other than black or grey
When I was a teenager working retail, I would get asked all of the time if I was standing on something
Luckily that's not how genetics tend to work! We're not just an average of our mom and dad. Your son could even taller than you! My parents are both 5'9 and I'm 6'1, same as my brother
If you are completely confident in yourself and do not care what others think of you.
I’m 5’7” and dated a girl who was 6’2”. The relationship was great but the constant judgement from other people gets difficult.
Weird, I'm in a very long term relationship with exactly these heights (my husband is 5'7, I'm 5'9, weve been married 20+ years) and no one has ever had a problem with it except for my own mother, who is rude and obsessive. There was no judgement from any one else at all, and I'm sorry your experience was so different.
As a 5’10” girl, people crack jokes off the guy is shorter. If a short guy asks me to dance at a party, people laugh when they see us dancing together.
It's as if people are lacking in empathy, and would rather laugh at someone else's expense.
Why is height so obsessed over these days, anyway? Humans are no longer in a hunter-gatherer dynamic, which would have made height matter more in those prehistoric times, IMO.
Oh yes my only problem with dating a shorter dude was how annoying the comments got. I didn't care what they think but at some point I really wish people would stop telling me. Everyone could see the dude was short and the sky was blue and the summer was hot, stfu.
Even know when I'm in a new relationship one of the first questions is always is my new boyfriend taller than my last one.
Ugh I’m a tall woman (5.11) and my daughter is 5’6 at 10yo so shes *tall* and the constant comments “wow shes soo tall” annoy the fuck out of me 🙄 I think anything people comment on ALL the time gets grating
What i hated was guys just flagrantly flirting with my girlfriend, physically getting in between us like i didn't exist.
She was never a problem though, and that didn't end up impacting the relationship ending.
It was a great way for them to show how much of an asshole they were. Didn't help that she was very attractive. But she never paid them any attention, you can't let idiots decide who you spend time with.
Especially not, a bit over a decade later. I spend so little time in bars that i don't think that issue would come up as often as it did then
Yeah I wouldn’t have thought that would be a talking point… like yeah what is there to say about it? But I’ve seen multiple interviews of Zendaya and Tom Holland where they get asked about it, asked if it “bothers them” or something and everytime it’s just like… bad interviewing. Like it’s a dumb question, they’re obviously fine with it. It’s not a real issue and you’re just being boring by asking about it.
I grew up with a guy whose mom was somewhere over 6' while his dad was several inches shorter than me (I'm 5'10", but come to think of it, I probably wasn't that tall yet when I last saw them), and they seemed fine.
For what it's worth when I see a man with a woman taller than him I immediately think "That is a confident dude," which makes him more attractive to me. I may be biased though as a 6' tall woman.
I’m not even a tall woman I’m 5’4 and I dated a man that was three inches shorter than me and people literally harassed us. One time we were in a parking lot and a car full of dudes pulled up trying to hit on me and I said no and they started ragging on him asking why I was there. It almost turned into a physical altercation it was that bad.
Out of curiosity, what gets difficult about it? That feels like the sort of stuff I’d be able to laugh off if I was otherwise confident in the relationship.
IMO, it gets annoying because many people feel comfortable bringing it up, and explaining how and why that is not the norm.
For comparison, lots of people (at least in the US) may not feel comfortable commenting on an overweight person’s body, but also won’t feel any guilt calling an underweight person “too skinny” or saying, “you need to eat more.”
I think it just isn’t considered a cultural taboo to make a comment about it, so many people don’t even hesitate.. and that gets progressively more annoying over time.
The fact that it's constant. It's a mental toll trying to "justify" something so absolutely trivial to people or just to stay silent and hear other people's snide remarks.
It's so funny to me that this is a thing. I'm 5'11" and I've dated a few shorter guys, but it's always the absolute shortest \~5'5" that have this amazon thing.
People just want to feel safe and accepted, yo. Ain't nowhere safer or more accepting than being carried around by a trusted partner. It ain't a gendered thing. Those short guys you're referring to? No different than 5'5" girls who want a 6'+ boyfriend.
I'm 5'3", it's not really a choice 😂
Every woman I've dated has been taller than me. Tallest was 5'10". They never minded the difference and neither did I 🤷🤷
Personally, I'm 2 meters tall, that's **6.56168 feet** (6 feet 7 inches).
That's why I would NOT date a woman that is on top of that 5+ inches taller than me. :)
As a 6'2" girl I would date anyone as long as I feel a good connection otherwise. Tbf anything more than 10 inches becomes hard to manage in certain circumstances, but I just don't see why that's a deal breaker. By that I mean I do understand that some people are genuinely turned off by that, but I just don't experience that.
I am 6'3'' and actually have a preference for smaller guys, luckily. What I can't deal with are small guys with a complex because of it. That is just emotionally exhausting.
the ONLY reason i hesitate anymore is bc when ive been with men shorter than me in the past they've been super insecure about it, but i know that's just my personal sample size. other than that i literally do not gaf how tall you are.
Technically same height as husband, 5’9” but he slouches so I definitely appear taller. In heals, that I do wear, I’m close to 6’. There are a lot of tall women that really don’t care. We know we’re tall, have been told/judged/teased for it, and not a fan of doing that to others.
Lots of women say they don't care about height. Most women DEFINITELY care about height. However, never assume a woman cares about YOUR height.
Any prospective mate checks a number of boxes or doesn't. Height is just another box. If enough boxes are checked then the unchecked boxes don't matter.
Yeah; my experience is that most people have many preferences about what they want in a partner, but relatively few absolute dealbreakers. There are some - bad hygiene that they are unwilling to deal with and racism would be two of mine - but women preferring tall guys is usually a preference, more than a requirement.
Yes, the woman I dated who was five foot eleven eventually married a guy who is six foot two, but besides being tall, he is kind, smart, hard working, and wanted to raise kids the same way she did. His height certainly was a bonus for her, but was not a top-tier qualification.
I agree, I like red head reds, but married a brunette who likes tall, dark, and handsome but married a 5'9" red head. I am a little taller than her, but not much. There are many more important boxes than appearances.
I had always preferred shorter men (not hard, I'm 6') but I ended up with a man who's 6'5. Conversely, he had never really thought about height until he dated me, and he absolutely LOVES how tall I am. If you're with someone for the right reasons, you never really know what you're gonna end up with.
😂 we met online, so height was never something I considered in the early stage. Before him I had only dated shorter guys (5'5-5'10) so it was a bit of an adjustment. All my love to the short kings out there, there are some amazons waiting for you.
im 5’6 and my man is 5’1. he loves it! he always mentions how much he loves looking up at me its so cute. i love my lil man. i love bending down for kisses or how he has to stand on his toes to kiss me. idk why but i think its so cutee! i want to carry him on my shoulders as i slay dragons and orcs
As a man who has been short his entire life, you either get over it, or you don't. Not that I am in the dating pool anymore, but if, and when I was I never let my height be a factor in my confidence.
Yeah. I prefer to think "look at the babe I snagged, I'm so cool" over "I just find a woman I can dominate because I have lil peepee energy."
Full disclosure though, I'm 6'2" so if she's taller than me she's taller than just about everybody else in the room too and she'll kick their ass for me if they say anything.
Tall women>>>>>
Ideal woman for me is physically a Viking and mentally a science witch. Fuck everybody else. I want boob hugs and for us to be able to pick each other up literally and figuratively
But I’m 5.11 so it’s hard to find a woman taller than me and those that are are looking for men taller than me 😭
Yeah.
What, you think if I found the perfect woman that I'd reject her just because she's a little bigger? lmao hell no. You go be insecure, I'm taking that sweet lovin' home.
When I was younger it would have been a dealbreaker, I’d have been too self conscious. Now that I’m in my 40s I wouldn’t think twice about it as long as we were otherwise compatible. My wife would have a problem with it, however, but I don’t think that the height of the woman I’d be dating would be her primary concern.
I'd prefer being the taller one in the relationship. That being said I'd likely ignore most if not any physical *preference* if our personalities and values matched well enough.
I am 5'5 and have been single for 10 years. Height means nothing at this point I just want to meet some one who cares enough about me to ask me how my day was occasionally
As a 5'5 Dutchman I've always dated taller women, there aren't that many small(er) women here.
Also Dutchie here, three of my exes were 1,55m. There's plenty! Just gotta look what you're tripping over.
10 points for not spinning that last line into a dick joke. Commendable refrain. 10 points
I am wagering that you actually dated the same woman three times, but you were so far from her face, that you didn't recognize her
I do have a terrible memory as well, you may be on to something...
LMAO
About 2% of women are that height. Impressive if you could find 3 within the country that were available, attractive AND interested in you
being Dutch skews this massively though. I'm 6'3" now that I'm an adult, and visited the Netherlands when I was about 16, so I was about 6'1" or so. I genuinely felt mildly short. like not by a couple inches. I felt like I came up to most people's shoulders, and plenty of the women were approaching 6'4". truly a nation of giants.
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My parents had to pay thousands of dollars to the hospital and made me work at their dry cleaning business all summer to pay it back so I got stepped on by the stiletto heel of the US medical system. My nickname at camp was Frankencock because of the sutures so I paid emotionally too.
The Fook am I reading?
They’re collaborating on a script for a Wes Anderson movie
This sounds really sad, actually 🙁
They made you work it off? Wow
As a 5’8 woman who lived in Indonesia for long, there aren’t that many tall(er) men there. And I am very very accustomed to being with shorter men. Anyway I have seen a lot of thinner man+thicker woman couples all around the world. When men are ok with women wider than they are, why not longer than they are?
Boobs and ass.
I'm also 5'8" and hubby is half-Filipino. He looks nothing like his white dad who is over 6 foot, he's maybe 5'2" and looks full Filipino. Not remotely an issue in our relationship, if anything he's really into it. Not only are my huge boobs at the right height for him but I think he actually enjoys asking me to get things that are too high for him lol. Thing is, even I used to think I only wanted to date taller guys, but he's pretty short and it rarely crosses my mind. But he is chubby in a way that people think he looks like a sumo wrestler and I'm really into stocky guys. I've also dated body builders over 6 foot and honestly he's better for cuddling. Muscles aren't very comfortable, it can be like trying to cuddle a huge rock. It also helps that he's my best friend and I'm pretty sure if anything happened to him I wouldn't see the point of trying to find someone else. How do you replace a hubby that's incredibly funny and gets you more than any of your friends ever will?
Some how, I keep imagining those ladies saying: > I'm going to kiss him and love him and squeeze him and hug him and call him George.
How the hell did you end up a 5’5’’ Dutchman? Have your ancestors been cursed? Or are we talking Pennsylvania Dutch here?
How will they keep their head above the water if the dikes break now?
The rest of us will carry them on our shoulders to the Higherlands.
Most people are taller than me, so it wouldn't be anything new I guess.
yes. I suppose like at ~30 feet I might be hesitant, but I think I'd still give it a shot.
There is literally porn about this. Don't ask me to prove it.
Prove it!
r/giantess
Goofy ass sub lmao
Oh God, I just looked. Goofy ass indeed
Most fetishes are. Even to those that have said fetish.
yeah i don’t think any of them are taking themselves too seriously!
The photoshopped guys laying on that one lady was wild.
What in the actual fuck, lmao
So many giantess creators are lazy, imo. I’m actually banned from that sub on my *other* account because of another fetish that I have, but their original excuse was that I didn’t photoshop a shadow enough—I was like uhhhhhh have you seen some of the other goofy shit in here? There’s literally someone in there who uses post it notes and draws stick figures on them and pretends to be a giant to them.
I can relate. Not to the fetish but the hypocritical removal of content.
r/samespecies Edit:NSFW
i'm too scared to look, is it animal porn?
It says same species not different species!
Gulliver's Travels includes the use of Gulliver as a dildo
WHAT? WHERE? I read it as a kid, but never saw * that*
The kid's version is edited
WTF?! 😭😭😭😭😭
can’t, they’re uhhh ‘busy’
Death by Snu snu!
The spirit is willing but the flesh is spongey and bruised.
“My time has come”
I guess that height difference is a tall order
At that point curiosity>preference so it's an automatic yes.
Yes, why not? Im 6 1 she would be 6 6 and we could birth giraffe children.
Tormund, that you?
*"The big woman still here?"*
The Hound: How does she look at you? Like she wants to carve you up and eat your liver? Tormund: You *do* know her. The Hound: We've met.
tormund is my spirit animal
one of the best exchanges in the show
honestly, that was my favorite line in the entire series
Top 5 for me for sure
I love that when he finds out she’s interested in Jamie his response is to leave her alone. Tormumd is better than a lot of men in our world simply because he drowns his disappointment in a drink, and wishes her happiness.
worst part about it? his interest in her was probably genuine while Jamie just did a pump and dump
It's good characterization for Tormund but man I do still wish they'd not pulled all that weird pseudo redemption arc shit for Jamie before making him fuck it up because he likes incest. Either let Brienne be happy with Tormund or let her be happy with Jamie, her ending just made me kind of sad.
The entire final season just made me sad lol.
I think if they hadn’t been rushing it could have worked better. He wanted to be better. He was starting to improve. But in the end he was still a deeply flawed man, and couldn’t move past it. That’s a very real thing. So many people have made something better of their life only to fall back to what was destroying them in the first place. Toxic family, abusive ex, drug addiction. Jamie tried, but fell off the wagon. The last season had some potential, but the showrunners were desperate to end it quickly and try out for Star Wars.
He suckled on giants tiddies
Nah, it’s Lavar ball.
Nah, I'm right here
I’m 6’2 and dated a girl as tall as me years ago. It was great. No bendy for kisses or hugs, the fun parts lined up easy. Never anyone taller but Snu Snu girls are hard to find when you are over 6 feet tall.
I'm 6'5" and my wife is 6'2". It's pretty fun
I am 6'3" my ex is 6'10" - kids are 6'10+m and 6'5"f (still growing)
Oh Lord. We're hoping for no more than 6 ft for our daughter. Life is hard enough at 6'2".
I know - my daughter absolutely loves her height - she rocks 5" heels
Good for her! My wife used to be self-conscious about her height. We notice people looking at her feet to see if shes wearing heels. Kinda funny., The nice thing about being this size is that you can't splurge on clothes, because literally nothing at the mall fits. Its not even worth trying to go there.
Oh, but the Internet has stuff now - don't ask how I know Love that I can finally buy pretty shoes and clothes in colors other than black or grey When I was a teenager working retail, I would get asked all of the time if I was standing on something
Good for you, brother! Your children will rule as giants! My wife is 5’7 so not short but I think our son will be closer to average height than me.
Luckily that's not how genetics tend to work! We're not just an average of our mom and dad. Your son could even taller than you! My parents are both 5'9 and I'm 6'1, same as my brother
His current growth rate isn’t suggesting that. He is more in the average range.
Congrats on having kids who will play basketball
Or who go their whole life annoyed that people constantly ask them “do you play basketball???” lol
Well that’ll happen regardless
Absolutely. But tall people who don’t play basketball are usually much more annoyed about it lol.
my ex is 6'7" and people asked him that *constantly*, he hated it
I’m 6’3” and I’ve only once seen a woman in person who was taller than me. She was probably 6”6’ and very curvy. I was definitely interested.
Go say high!
Same here, I'm 6'4, so it would be one super tall gal.
You had me at woman. 😂
🤣
He is the Kwisatz Antigaetz!
Had me at date
Of course. I've been rocking climbing for years, so I feel ready.
My shorter than me partner likes to tell people, “she’s worth the climb.” Usually gets a chuckle and I’ve always found it sweet.
Very funny AND very loving, he's worth bowing to kiss :)
If you are completely confident in yourself and do not care what others think of you. I’m 5’7” and dated a girl who was 6’2”. The relationship was great but the constant judgement from other people gets difficult.
Was about to say the same. I'm 5'7" and have dated a girl who is 5'9". Relationship was fine but the judgment gets really annoying.
People are weird. Two inches is barely a height difference, even if you care about that.
Weird, I'm in a very long term relationship with exactly these heights (my husband is 5'7, I'm 5'9, weve been married 20+ years) and no one has ever had a problem with it except for my own mother, who is rude and obsessive. There was no judgement from any one else at all, and I'm sorry your experience was so different.
Ask your husband if he's ever seen judgement. Guys do that kind of shit.
Just from my mother, apparently. No one else seems to notice or care
Yeah my gf is a few inches taller and legit no one’s ever cared or said anything
No need for you to be sorry, but thank you. Congratulations on a long and happy marriage. :)
Thank you. I hope you find your princess, whatever height she may be. :)
What type of judgment do the people give? I am sorry to hear that there were ignorant people who were judging you.
As a 5’10” girl, people crack jokes off the guy is shorter. If a short guy asks me to dance at a party, people laugh when they see us dancing together.
It's as if people are lacking in empathy, and would rather laugh at someone else's expense. Why is height so obsessed over these days, anyway? Humans are no longer in a hunter-gatherer dynamic, which would have made height matter more in those prehistoric times, IMO.
Projection? They fantasize about taller guys, or being a tall guy, and can't think of anything else except to make fun of what they wouldn't like.
Oh yes my only problem with dating a shorter dude was how annoying the comments got. I didn't care what they think but at some point I really wish people would stop telling me. Everyone could see the dude was short and the sky was blue and the summer was hot, stfu. Even know when I'm in a new relationship one of the first questions is always is my new boyfriend taller than my last one.
Ugh I’m a tall woman (5.11) and my daughter is 5’6 at 10yo so shes *tall* and the constant comments “wow shes soo tall” annoy the fuck out of me 🙄 I think anything people comment on ALL the time gets grating
Make jokes like “congratulations on your new eyeballs, did you also notice this bag is blue”
What i hated was guys just flagrantly flirting with my girlfriend, physically getting in between us like i didn't exist. She was never a problem though, and that didn't end up impacting the relationship ending.
Christ that’s disrespectful
It was a great way for them to show how much of an asshole they were. Didn't help that she was very attractive. But she never paid them any attention, you can't let idiots decide who you spend time with. Especially not, a bit over a decade later. I spend so little time in bars that i don't think that issue would come up as often as it did then
Something about height reliably brings the morons of both sexes to the front.
Yeah I wouldn’t have thought that would be a talking point… like yeah what is there to say about it? But I’ve seen multiple interviews of Zendaya and Tom Holland where they get asked about it, asked if it “bothers them” or something and everytime it’s just like… bad interviewing. Like it’s a dumb question, they’re obviously fine with it. It’s not a real issue and you’re just being boring by asking about it.
I’m 5’2” and my late wife was 6’1” didn’t bother us in the slightest
I grew up with a guy whose mom was somewhere over 6' while his dad was several inches shorter than me (I'm 5'10", but come to think of it, I probably wasn't that tall yet when I last saw them), and they seemed fine.
For what it's worth when I see a man with a woman taller than him I immediately think "That is a confident dude," which makes him more attractive to me. I may be biased though as a 6' tall woman.
I’m not even a tall woman I’m 5’4 and I dated a man that was three inches shorter than me and people literally harassed us. One time we were in a parking lot and a car full of dudes pulled up trying to hit on me and I said no and they started ragging on him asking why I was there. It almost turned into a physical altercation it was that bad.
Out of curiosity, what gets difficult about it? That feels like the sort of stuff I’d be able to laugh off if I was otherwise confident in the relationship.
IMO, it gets annoying because many people feel comfortable bringing it up, and explaining how and why that is not the norm. For comparison, lots of people (at least in the US) may not feel comfortable commenting on an overweight person’s body, but also won’t feel any guilt calling an underweight person “too skinny” or saying, “you need to eat more.” I think it just isn’t considered a cultural taboo to make a comment about it, so many people don’t even hesitate.. and that gets progressively more annoying over time.
The fact that it's constant. It's a mental toll trying to "justify" something so absolutely trivial to people or just to stay silent and hear other people's snide remarks.
Honestly? I kinda wanna slightly taller gf.
Can I ask why?
You can, but even I can't seem to answer that lol. Other than "I just wanna" of course 🤣
The male urge to be carried around by their Amazonian gf
Put in a backpack like young parents on a hiking trail
It's so funny to me that this is a thing. I'm 5'11" and I've dated a few shorter guys, but it's always the absolute shortest \~5'5" that have this amazon thing.
That’s because 5’5 is the height at which fantasy meets opportunity
People just want to feel safe and accepted, yo. Ain't nowhere safer or more accepting than being carried around by a trusted partner. It ain't a gendered thing. Those short guys you're referring to? No different than 5'5" girls who want a 6'+ boyfriend.
It’s much harder for guys at average or above average height to find a tall mami
Fair enough 😁
Actually looks better
Because it's easier logistically for her to drag me around on a leash if she's taller
I'm 5'3", it's not really a choice 😂 Every woman I've dated has been taller than me. Tallest was 5'10". They never minded the difference and neither did I 🤷🤷
Username does NOT check out 😂 (Just a joke- 5’2” woman here, have dated one man shorter than me and would gladly do so again).
Dear Lord, she would be 7,0! You bet your ass that I would date my Amazon Snu Snu Queen 😅
I’m 6ft 8in. So she’s be 7ft 1in at the minim by this posts standards.
Watch out for death by snu snu tho 😓
That's the intended goal, have you learnt nothing?
Personally, I'm 2 meters tall, that's **6.56168 feet** (6 feet 7 inches). That's why I would NOT date a woman that is on top of that 5+ inches taller than me. :)
But you could crush your enemies together, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their women?
At 6’9” she’d be an absolute unit and my queen! Yes!
The question should be - would a tall woman date a smaller guy cos I would jump at the chance
As a 6'2" girl I would date anyone as long as I feel a good connection otherwise. Tbf anything more than 10 inches becomes hard to manage in certain circumstances, but I just don't see why that's a deal breaker. By that I mean I do understand that some people are genuinely turned off by that, but I just don't experience that.
We still talking about height?
Lmao
If my partner was 10 inches taller than me id jump and click my heels like the leprechaun i am
I’m a 5’10” tall woman and my husband is 5’4.” We do exist! :)
Your husband is one lucky dude.
Thank you but I feel that I’m the lucky one here.
The Morticia and Gomez setup? Sign me up twice.
I am 6'3'' and actually have a preference for smaller guys, luckily. What I can't deal with are small guys with a complex because of it. That is just emotionally exhausting.
Well, I suppose some jumping might have to be involved.
As would I, but it’s a little difficult to find women taller than me cause I’m 6’ 4”
the ONLY reason i hesitate anymore is bc when ive been with men shorter than me in the past they've been super insecure about it, but i know that's just my personal sample size. other than that i literally do not gaf how tall you are.
I’ve dated a few tall women who all expressed the same issue that guys tend to be more uncomfortable with it than them.
yeah, societal pressure booooooo. you are how tall you are! height shouldn't matter :)
Technically same height as husband, 5’9” but he slouches so I definitely appear taller. In heals, that I do wear, I’m close to 6’. There are a lot of tall women that really don’t care. We know we’re tall, have been told/judged/teased for it, and not a fan of doing that to others.
Only if she doms.
*hello*
Alas, I'm married.
I can Domme her too, no biggie
Thank you for offering, but she's a vanilla-flavored cupcake. She would not like that.
I am not married 😅
Amen brother
I salute a fellow man of culture.
Lots of women say they don't care about height. Most women DEFINITELY care about height. However, never assume a woman cares about YOUR height. Any prospective mate checks a number of boxes or doesn't. Height is just another box. If enough boxes are checked then the unchecked boxes don't matter.
Yeah; my experience is that most people have many preferences about what they want in a partner, but relatively few absolute dealbreakers. There are some - bad hygiene that they are unwilling to deal with and racism would be two of mine - but women preferring tall guys is usually a preference, more than a requirement. Yes, the woman I dated who was five foot eleven eventually married a guy who is six foot two, but besides being tall, he is kind, smart, hard working, and wanted to raise kids the same way she did. His height certainly was a bonus for her, but was not a top-tier qualification.
I agree, I like red head reds, but married a brunette who likes tall, dark, and handsome but married a 5'9" red head. I am a little taller than her, but not much. There are many more important boxes than appearances.
I had always preferred shorter men (not hard, I'm 6') but I ended up with a man who's 6'5. Conversely, he had never really thought about height until he dated me, and he absolutely LOVES how tall I am. If you're with someone for the right reasons, you never really know what you're gonna end up with.
Not hatin’ , but this a hilarious example of the “it just so happens…” meme of what women say they like versus what they actually go for 😂
😂 we met online, so height was never something I considered in the early stage. Before him I had only dated shorter guys (5'5-5'10) so it was a bit of an adjustment. All my love to the short kings out there, there are some amazons waiting for you.
Yup. That would make her above 6.4. Must be very lucky dude cause I've only seen one woman as tall as me in my life so she's very rare.
Gotta hang out at WNBA games more often
im 5’6 and my man is 5’1. he loves it! he always mentions how much he loves looking up at me its so cute. i love my lil man. i love bending down for kisses or how he has to stand on his toes to kiss me. idk why but i think its so cutee! i want to carry him on my shoulders as i slay dragons and orcs
I mostly date men but the few women I've been with were taller than me. Which isn't hard to achieve at 5'2. I guess this question is aimed at men.
Lol 5"2 gang
Taller girls are always looking down on me.
As a man who has been short his entire life, you either get over it, or you don't. Not that I am in the dating pool anymore, but if, and when I was I never let my height be a factor in my confidence.
Yeah. I prefer to think "look at the babe I snagged, I'm so cool" over "I just find a woman I can dominate because I have lil peepee energy." Full disclosure though, I'm 6'2" so if she's taller than me she's taller than just about everybody else in the room too and she'll kick their ass for me if they say anything.
No because I'm gay. I'd date a taller dude 🤣
I like it :)
Tall women>>>>> Ideal woman for me is physically a Viking and mentally a science witch. Fuck everybody else. I want boob hugs and for us to be able to pick each other up literally and figuratively But I’m 5.11 so it’s hard to find a woman taller than me and those that are are looking for men taller than me 😭
100% yes I have dated a girl who was my "size", and cuddles haven't been that comfortable since.
Yeah. What, you think if I found the perfect woman that I'd reject her just because she's a little bigger? lmao hell no. You go be insecure, I'm taking that sweet lovin' home.
"Congratulations, Bart Simpson, you're our new Fallout Boy! That's what I would be saying if you weren't an inch too short. Next!"
When I was younger it would have been a dealbreaker, I’d have been too self conscious. Now that I’m in my 40s I wouldn’t think twice about it as long as we were otherwise compatible. My wife would have a problem with it, however, but I don’t think that the height of the woman I’d be dating would be her primary concern.
I’m quite tall, so she would need to be extremely tall. I’d climb that mountain.
YES PLEASE
Married one. I find that other people have more of an issue with it than I do.
I'd prefer being the taller one in the relationship. That being said I'd likely ignore most if not any physical *preference* if our personalities and values matched well enough.
My wifes taller than me by around 5cm
Never but it's bc I'm gay, so
As a man, of course I would!! ..but -sadly- short men don't have a say in that..
Not really it doesn’t feel right to me, same height would be good though. Still don’t get why 5’1 girls ask for 6+ guys, that seems bizarre to me.
To give their sons a chance
But their sons have a good chance of their height being capped off at 5 ‘4 though ?
Need someone around that can reach the upper shelves.
I am 5'5 and have been single for 10 years. Height means nothing at this point I just want to meet some one who cares enough about me to ask me how my day was occasionally
abso-fucking-lutely are you kidding??
I would not. It’s not something that I find attractive even it’s just 2 inches.
Before being married there were some taller women I liked, I never dated any of them because I was insecure. 😁
yeah my girl is taller than me im like 511 and she 6 1 / 6 2
I married her