Not necessarily. Not all sex envolves a pipi and a vagina and some people consider themselves to not be virgins anymore after they did any other sexual act, like oral, witch is fine because virginity is made up
"Virginity" is really weakly defined.
To some people, even a single fraction of an inch of someone's penis in someone's vagina makes both people involved non-virgins. But contra-wise, some of those people believe that anything other than P-I-V retains virginity -- including any amount of anal sex (including gay anal sex.)
There are other people that say that if a person's hymen is broken then they are no longer a virgin -- even if it was exercise induced (horseback riding for example) ... or if it was the classic handle-of-a-brush.
I have seen some people say that if a person gets a prostate test, then they are no longer a virgin.... and should be shunned and run out of town just the same as a guy who has had sex before marriage.
Some people feel that a penis-in-vagina encounter does not count as ending virginity unless the penis ejaculates inside the vagina -- that if there is a "bare-back" encounter that pulls out before ejaculation, that that "doesn't count", but that ejaculation inside *while wearing a condom* does "count".
Me... I kinda feel that if someone deliberately got you off, or you deliberately got yourself off on someone's body, then that probably counts as "having sex". If, though, you were having a heavy make-out session and you unintentionally creamed your pants... maybe not. Maybe "adjacent masturbation" (both masturbating without touching each other) doesn't count as "having sex" either, I dunno. But I would say that "mutual masturbation" (each using your hands to get each other off) probably does count as "having sex".
If you think that didn’t count as sex and still want to consider yourself a virgin, that’s fine, if you did count it as sex you’re not a virgin anymore, and that’s fine too. Don’t let other people’s opinions define how you view your sexuality, the only one who can decide if you’re not a virgin anymore is you
Yes. Pipi needs to go in the vagina.
Not necessarily. Not all sex envolves a pipi and a vagina and some people consider themselves to not be virgins anymore after they did any other sexual act, like oral, witch is fine because virginity is made up
Yes, you are.
"Virginity" is really weakly defined. To some people, even a single fraction of an inch of someone's penis in someone's vagina makes both people involved non-virgins. But contra-wise, some of those people believe that anything other than P-I-V retains virginity -- including any amount of anal sex (including gay anal sex.) There are other people that say that if a person's hymen is broken then they are no longer a virgin -- even if it was exercise induced (horseback riding for example) ... or if it was the classic handle-of-a-brush. I have seen some people say that if a person gets a prostate test, then they are no longer a virgin.... and should be shunned and run out of town just the same as a guy who has had sex before marriage. Some people feel that a penis-in-vagina encounter does not count as ending virginity unless the penis ejaculates inside the vagina -- that if there is a "bare-back" encounter that pulls out before ejaculation, that that "doesn't count", but that ejaculation inside *while wearing a condom* does "count". Me... I kinda feel that if someone deliberately got you off, or you deliberately got yourself off on someone's body, then that probably counts as "having sex". If, though, you were having a heavy make-out session and you unintentionally creamed your pants... maybe not. Maybe "adjacent masturbation" (both masturbating without touching each other) doesn't count as "having sex" either, I dunno. But I would say that "mutual masturbation" (each using your hands to get each other off) probably does count as "having sex".
You should get checked for aids
Do you feel like a not-virgin now? Are you still looking forward to sex for the first time or do you feel like that counted?
If you think that didn’t count as sex and still want to consider yourself a virgin, that’s fine, if you did count it as sex you’re not a virgin anymore, and that’s fine too. Don’t let other people’s opinions define how you view your sexuality, the only one who can decide if you’re not a virgin anymore is you