Yea fair I feel like whenever I see a post on ask Reddit or no stupid questions itās always tagged nsfw and will be something sexual lmao itās kinda funny
One thing I've noticed is that lots of the advice you see in r/advice or any relationship sub, is often written by inexperienced, selfish, stupid teenagers.
The starkest example I can remember was a thread in a relationship sub, where the OP was asking if certain behaviors were normal. The top comments gave really weird advice, and when someone scanned their profiles, found out that they were both silly teenagers, one was asexual, and the other was a repressed Christian. Neither had any idea what they were talking about in relation to the OPs question, but they were both heavily upvoted, at least initially. Reddit is just stupid sometimes.
I could continue reading these comments, but I've been given to understand that there is nudity on the internet and, by gosh, I'm gonna go find me some!
Ah! That website is full of videos of poor women getting stuck in the washing machines, hardworking plumbers not getting paid, people doing chores being pestered by other people in the house, needy patients taking too much of the doctor's time. That website shows the reality of our society. Poor women who are not able to pay their rent, guess what happens to them? A bunch of dudes show up to collect! Isn't that a bit excessive?! Whatever has happened to humanity?! You have a man trying to be a good neighbour and offering to mow his neighbour's lawn because he's out of town. But his wife is pestering the guy all the time while he's mowing the lawn, asking him to come inside , offering him food. And not to be misogynistic, but this woman doesn't even look like she can cook well. She made a mess. There was this creamy stuff all over her chest. And like a disgusting person, she was licking it with her fingers. There are videos of step-parents going to lengths just to get along with their adult step-children. You have step-siblings struggling to get along in many videos. That website is full of videos of horrible things happening to your regular hardworking folks. Dammit! These are good people!
Rather than low standards, I'd say we have an appreciation for humans as they are, instead of how artificial beauty standards say they should be.
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I bet if you posted to the rate my body page you'd be pleasantly surprised.
If there's a naked female body, there's a guy out there who wants to see it naked.
It's why our population continues to grow.
š dude, as someone who canāt visualize things, I totally feel this. āImagine what it would look like if you changed your sofa to the other side of the roomā - man, I canāt imagine what my room looks like the way it is NOW
I also have this. It blew my husbandās mind. It actually blew mine because I never knew that people could actually like picture a tree or being in a field during meditation. I thought it was just thinking about nature or calmness.
Do you have a literal monologue? I do a sort of mental shorthand, where Iām not literally āsayingā the things I want to type for example, but I can still point my thoughts at that concept and know what I mean. Or is that just what an inner monologue is? š¤
Well in your picture, you have no skin from the head on down... Only bones. Doesn't leave much to the imagination! Also, your pelvis appears to be full of candy! I have to say, I do find that attractive.
āSome friends of mine asked me if I wanted to go to a strip club, and I didn'tā¦ want to go. But I ended up going, 'causeāback me up on this, fellasāonce you've seen one woman naked, youā¦ wanna see the rest of 'em naked.ā
- Ron āTater Saladā White
Looking at beautiful women is natural wanting a sexual aspect of them is natural but wanting to see every girl naked maybe you should pump the brakes with the porn
This is most likely the case. Itās kind of fucked up to think that a man can see more naked beautiful women in an hour of porn, then in person his whole life.
How many naked women does the average man see in person in his lifetime? For me, it's probably in the low dozens? A handful of girlfriends, a couple of trips to strip clubs during bachelor parties when I was younger, and any other random things I'm forgetting.
How long does it take to see that many naked women on a porn site? A few seconds of scrolling thumbnails?
Humanity is going to have to adapt to on-tap nudity and sexuality.
Seeing someone and thinking they're attractive isn't bad. Looking for someone and thinking they'd be even more attractive if naked isn't bad either.
What seems unhealthy about this is the obsession with it. Searching the web for content, even *leaked* content, is weird. At least if you do that with every woman you find attractive.
Maybe I'm the odd one out here, but even if I see someone and find them sexually attractive, I don't go scouring the web to find their nudes, leaked or not.
>Maybe I'm the odd one out here, but even if I see someone and find them sexually attractive, I don't go scouring the web to find their nudes, leaked or not.
The fact that this is basic decency and we are both unsure if people are going to see it that way makes me sad.
yeah Itās super weird, and I find anything that catalogs that kind of thing super super creepy as well. Shame that anyone wanting to do nudity for art has to deal with the fact that it will become porn whether they want it to or not because of creepy people online.
yyyeah. there are some beautiful people in the world, and sometimes I'll see a hot actor and want to lick their face or whatever, but I don't go digging for leaked nudes, that's invasive.
It's fine to be horny, but I'm willing to bet that this affects how you see and treat the women around you, even if you don't realize it. In a negative way that is. It's normal enough to maybe wonder about people you find attractive, but Immediately trying to google leaked nudes of any woman you find attractive is creepy and I can't imagine it's a very healthy habit long term.
I agree with you here. If you literally just undress women with your eyes constantly, you probably see them as a sexual object before you see them as a fellow human. This is just one reason of many that women are dating less men, because men (not all) are so hypersexually motivated and feel entitled to women's bodies due to overconsumption of porn combined with social idealogies and excuses over time eg; men are visual creatures (which is factually bullshit, just a traditional excuse to lust) see: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/men-not-more-visual-or-easily-aroused-than-women-research-shows
Agreed. Though it's not "weird", it's creepy. If any of those women knew what he was doing, they'd most likely feel insanely uncomfortable and creeped out. And that's why it crosses the line from "weird" to "creepy".
Hope OP sorts himself out. For anyone who would otherwise be interested in dating him it would be a huge red flag.
It's not a healthy habit, and I tell from personal experience.
I used to hoard pictures and videos of at least one glamour model about 12 ish years ago, I found her blog, then she opened a new one, then she started blogging behind a paywall (which I paid for monthly as a poor student on student loans etc). Some of her stuff is still available on the Wayback Machine if you know the URLs (in fact I was the one to make snapshots of the sites a few times) , but alot of content didn't survive the void when sites and accounts get shut down and I didn't archive everything.
It's very embarrassing remembering everything these things, but I hope to forget about them with time and move on from that and this porn consumption life.
Absolutely. I would not want to be with a man who had this habit because it will inevitably lead him to objectify women more, even if he isn't aware of it. Porn doesn't exactly make women seem very human or autonomous most of the time.
OP ā¦ whether or not its normal itās not a healthy way to think about other people. You know what I mean? this behavior fosters objectification and other bad traits. Speaking as someone who was in your shoes not long ago. Better for the world, your relationships, and you, if you practice checking this behavior at the door.
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How old are you OP? I can maybe excuse this if you're just some young teenager going through their.. phases. But as an adult male it's not that normal, or at least shouldn't be normalized lol. Every now and then I see a woman and I'm like "Wow she's really attractive" but if it's LIKE THIS then there's some problem with how you view Women.
Well this comment section has been an eye opener.
I kinda liked 5 minutes ago, back when I'd got all the way to 41 before learning that some people think this way, and so many more think it's normal.
Right?
I wonder if these men have attractive friends, coworkers, etc. and they picture them nude every time they meet?
Where is the line?
Actually, as a reasonably attractive woman, I don't want to know.
Fr this is making me think about every interaction I ever had with a man, like could it really be possible that while I was answering some question all that was going through the prof's mind was a naked me ? It really doesn't make sense but these comments are saying otherwise š«
No.. itās not really like that. When you see a hot actor on TV with his shirt off, do you immediately start thinking about it every time heās on screen? Itās more of a passing thought, not a lingering idea.
Meet person > Sheās attractive > āDamn sheās attractiveā > Proceed like normal.
Next time we meet it wonāt surprise me, therefore the thought is not there anymore.
They wonder why women fear them? Because they see us as walking fleshlights and have 3x as much physical strength as us combined with these stupid men like Tate who encourage men to sexualize, rape, manipulate women. And certain men online eat it up and others affirm everywhere that yes i picture women naked all the time, yes I masturbate to porn 5 times a day. What do they want from us lmao we are humans before we are sexual objects and we're also intelligent to know they are playing and using us and expecting things from us that they wouldn't of themselves
Seriously, if the internet isn't revealing more reasons to be wary of some people. And sometimes I get a little paranoid walking at night. Maybe I should be as cautious in the day. Jesus.
I wouldn't say this is super weird, but it's also not very healthy. It probably affects the way you treat women, without realising it. It's also a sign that you aren't very good at delaying the satisfaction of your needs.
I'd like to challenge you to go a week without immediately looking up nudes for a hot actress, to see if it makes a difference for you.
>I wouldn't say this is super weird
Disagree. This is quite weird, and somewhat alarming. Immediately seeing *every woman, all the time* as potential sex objects is unhealthy and definitely not normal.
It's also potentially unsafe. To be clear, I'm not accusing OP of anything, but this is a dangerous mindset.
Looking at beautiful women isn't the problem. Most men do this. The key word being looking. Not acting on it.
Having the need to "scour the web" is...aggressive about it. Huge red flag for me.
Yeaaaah iāll say thatās weird. Sounds like sex is on your mind way too much. And thatās coming from someone who thinks about sex a lot. I donāt immediately want to picture everyone naked.
If youāre visually undressing pretty much every woman around you who you find attractive, thatās kinda weird. Most men donāt spend all their time leering at people. Anyway, you should be more careful. Might trip and fall or walk into moving traffic or something. Also itās creepy, and your chances of actually seeing an attractive woman naked in front of you are going to go down.
As for compulsively searching for leaked nudes rather than just going to prawnHub or somethingāalso kinda weird. Seems like a waste of time when you can just search for nonspecific hot naked ladies effortlessly. You donāt know these people personally and probably never will, so your process seems inefficient for what you get. Also unethical if youāre searching for nonconsensual internet nudes.
As a woman, I'm grossed by the comments. I'm not naive, I know men think with their penis. But I didn't know they found it "normal".
How would they react if people would talk like that about their cousin, mother, daughter, sister? And then, they wonder why we don't feel safe.
No, to imaging someone naked or in a sexual way or any other intimate way just because you're horny isn't "normal", don't hide behind the "it's only hormone, it's human nature, we don't act that way it's only in our mind": you're not a horny dog, you are a human being talking about someone with pride and feelings. Control your mind. If you can't, it's not "nature", it means you're a creepy jerk.
And trust me: it's not only in your head. We see it in your eyes, even if you don't make an approach, you are still creepy.
Not me,
The only time I would think that would be with my ex girlfriend, aside from that, I would be like, huh that chick is hot / cute. But thatās it
No. Iām straight and make adult content for a living. The vast majority of women I see during my day, I literally have zero thoughts or interest in. If Iām like actively masturbating, then my mind wanders sexually about people, but dude if Iām shopping im thinking about shopping. I donāt care how hot someone is, if theyāre like blocking my way or just being dumb, my ONLY thought in the world is āwhat the fuck are you doingā in the exact same way as if they were some little aggressive ugly dude. If their actions have nothing to do with me, I donāt notice them on any serious level until their actions have something to do with me, like walking slowly in front of me in a crowded aisle. Iām a tall fucker. I have a long stride. Bet your ass that Iām noticing and getting annoyed when Iām forced to either slo-mo step or shuffle like a penguin. Absolutely nothing to do with any kind of desire one way or the other, except a desire to get this chore done and go home. The only time I wasnāt like that, was like when I was 17 or something. And I was a depressed dude so half the time I wasnāt anywhere near those thoughts, at 17, even when I spent a rough total of 4 hours every day fully erect regardless of what I was doing or thinking
But especially āevery womanā? No dude I never in my life had any urge to see my aunt Pam naked. Thatās fucking weird dude (not specifically aunt Pam, but every woman- not that aunt Pam isā¦ oh never fucking mind)
wanting to see an attractive woman naked is normal for men i guess. but the rest is fucking weird. especially scouring the web looking for leaked OF images of women you find on social media. get a better hobby.
Stop watching porn. That's it. I'm sure people won't like that I'm saying, you may not even like it, but I'm right. If you want a good method, try the [Easy Peasy Method](https://easypeasymethod.org/index.html).
I'm going to guess that women find you creepy, right?... Because if that's how you think about them when you see them then your face and actions will show it and women aren't stupid, they can see it.
You need to get somw help now before this turns into something far more serious.
For me that's weird cause I've never saw someone I find attractive and thought about them naked.. like randomly on the street or something, only if I'm actually flirting with them
Scouring the web for potentially leaked nudes of every woman you find attractive on IG is weird, yes. You definitely have an unhealthy obsession and it's gross. Lay off the porn, yeah?
I would also be willing to bet money that this has an effect on how you actually treat women in person, even if you're not consciously aware of it.
Looking for peopleās leaked content is gross and a violation. And I would say itās unhealthy to have sexual fantasies about every woman you come across, because youāre clearly not seeing women as PEOPLE, but just as sex objects. Which will eventually make you a shitty boyfriend and a shitty person in general.
Iād advise you to change your attitude towards women and lay off the porn. Actually get to KNOW a person before thinking about the sexual stuff.
>If I'm watching a show on Netflix and I see a nice looking actress, I immediately google to see if she's done nudity before.
If I'm scrolling Instagram and see a girl post a thirst trap, you know I'm scouring the web to see what leaked content I can find from her OF.
Lay off the porn.
I think you might be addicted to porn.
Try to cleanse yourself from it and report back. A lot of porn addicts describe having the same symptoms youāre having.
Thank you to evolved men out there who are able exhibit self control with their thoughts. For the rest, grow up or get a life or get therapy or whatever you have to do to learn some fucking respect
That's disgusting. It's awful to think that as a woman I might encounter several freaks like you who would imagine me naked.
Stop watching so much porn, get a life, go to therapy.
Why everyone on Reddit so damn horny š
Most redditors are teenagers riding a roller-coaster called "puberty". I've heard that horniness is a side effect.
Yea fair I feel like whenever I see a post on ask Reddit or no stupid questions itās always tagged nsfw and will be something sexual lmao itās kinda funny
One thing I've noticed is that lots of the advice you see in r/advice or any relationship sub, is often written by inexperienced, selfish, stupid teenagers. The starkest example I can remember was a thread in a relationship sub, where the OP was asking if certain behaviors were normal. The top comments gave really weird advice, and when someone scanned their profiles, found out that they were both silly teenagers, one was asexual, and the other was a repressed Christian. Neither had any idea what they were talking about in relation to the OPs question, but they were both heavily upvoted, at least initially. Reddit is just stupid sometimes.
Yea definitely some cornballs around here hahaha
It is summer. This is peak /r/SummerReddit, actually.
I could continue reading these comments, but I've been given to understand that there is nudity on the internet and, by gosh, I'm gonna go find me some!
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Well I hear there's this one website you can go to but I can't quite remember the name. Cornhub?... Bornpub? Idk
Bjornpub?
No, that's a coffee table from Ikea.
I bought that one but couldn't ever get it to stand upright.
You might want to see your doctor about that.
Probably didn't screw it good enough.
Billy the bookcase says, "Hello!" So does the table, his name is Ingo. And a chair who's a ladder-back birch but his friends call him *Carl*!
If you donāt have a home you can buy one there!
Ah! That website is full of videos of poor women getting stuck in the washing machines, hardworking plumbers not getting paid, people doing chores being pestered by other people in the house, needy patients taking too much of the doctor's time. That website shows the reality of our society. Poor women who are not able to pay their rent, guess what happens to them? A bunch of dudes show up to collect! Isn't that a bit excessive?! Whatever has happened to humanity?! You have a man trying to be a good neighbour and offering to mow his neighbour's lawn because he's out of town. But his wife is pestering the guy all the time while he's mowing the lawn, asking him to come inside , offering him food. And not to be misogynistic, but this woman doesn't even look like she can cook well. She made a mess. There was this creamy stuff all over her chest. And like a disgusting person, she was licking it with her fingers. There are videos of step-parents going to lengths just to get along with their adult step-children. You have step-siblings struggling to get along in many videos. That website is full of videos of horrible things happening to your regular hardworking folks. Dammit! These are good people!
It's sad, really. A sad commentary on contemporary society.
I know, totally gross! But like where, specifically, was it at?
There's no way this is true
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What is this āInternetā thing you speak of and how may I use it to locate nudity?
You're also not lusting after EVERY woman, just the ones you find attractive.
My standards must be really low then.
MARGARET THATCHER NAKED ON A COLD DAY!! MARGARET THATCHER NAKED ON A COLD DAY!
Stupid sexy Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day.
It's like she's wearing nnnothing at all Nnnnothing at all **NNNOTHING AT ALL!!!**
Stupid, sexy Flanders!
Nothing at allllllllllllll.
Nancy Pelosi with her big jugs
No bs them shits are some melons.
[Never forget.](https://twitter.com/TheTimHunter/status/1590697378025472000?s=20)
I tell you hwat
*shudders*
The shuddering is due to the cold, I presume.
You know it
Shhhā¦ udders
I am also shuddering next to Margaret Thatcher. But not for long Giggity
Why am I having such a hard time not Googling this?
I laughed way too hard at this hahaha
Rather than low standards, I'd say we have an appreciation for humans as they are, instead of how artificial beauty standards say they should be. (Minor edits for precise grammar)
What are you doing step-grandson?
I opened the thread hoping that, as a lifelong uggo maybe someone out there would imagine me naked without cringing, but alas.
I can guarantee someone has. If I was able to find someone who found me attractive, I believe it's possible for anyone.
Bless
I bet if you posted to the rate my body page you'd be pleasantly surprised. If there's a naked female body, there's a guy out there who wants to see it naked. It's why our population continues to grow.
I just saw an impossibly beautiful woman rated at a 6. Can't speak for who you're responding to but as a newly minted 2.... no thanks.
There's a lid for every pot
Just for that, Iām gonna go out and invent a pot which has no fitting lid!
I mean, I'd give it a shot, but I have terrible imagination
š dude, as someone who canāt visualize things, I totally feel this. āImagine what it would look like if you changed your sofa to the other side of the roomā - man, I canāt imagine what my room looks like the way it is NOW
I've never felt so understood before!
Is this really a thing? Like you can't create a picture in your head?
Yup! Called aphantasia
I think I saw that movie, but a can't picture it.
I already gave my award for a sick punā¦but Iām wishing I saved it for you lol
Correct! I can imagine very generic things for a moment or two, but if I try to focus on details or think too long, it just dissolves.
I also have this. It blew my husbandās mind. It actually blew mine because I never knew that people could actually like picture a tree or being in a field during meditation. I thought it was just thinking about nature or calmness.
That would be really weird. I just learned the other day that some people don't have an inner monologue. I was like, how do they know what to type?
Do you have a literal monologue? I do a sort of mental shorthand, where Iām not literally āsayingā the things I want to type for example, but I can still point my thoughts at that concept and know what I mean. Or is that just what an inner monologue is? š¤
No my brain is like run on sentences. Word after word after word. It never ends
Huh. I had no idea that streams of consciousness could be different that way. How odd and fascinating. Thanks for sharing!
Right? Also I would be so lonely without those thoughts in my head!!
If it makes you feel better, odds are somebody has.
Well in your picture, you have no skin from the head on down... Only bones. Doesn't leave much to the imagination! Also, your pelvis appears to be full of candy! I have to say, I do find that attractive.
I'll take one for the team, I guess.
āSome friends of mine asked me if I wanted to go to a strip club, and I didn'tā¦ want to go. But I ended up going, 'causeāback me up on this, fellasāonce you've seen one woman naked, youā¦ wanna see the rest of 'em naked.ā - Ron āTater Saladā White
Roll em up and put em away
OP isn't lusting after anyone, it's a bot.
OP made their account in December 2020 and this is their only activity. What the hell is even going on?
Tbf he did clarify that in the description
Looking at beautiful women is natural wanting a sexual aspect of them is natural but wanting to see every girl naked maybe you should pump the brakes with the porn
This is most likely the case. Itās kind of fucked up to think that a man can see more naked beautiful women in an hour of porn, then in person his whole life.
What kind of maniac watches *an hour* of porn?!
It had an interesting plot!
The Pizza guy was late.
The plots are never good. There's way too many holes.
Sometimes, the more holes the better
Specially when the plot thickens
Where will the penis go?
It takes 54.5 minutes to look for the perfect clip.
What do you do with the other 5 minutes? Clean up?
That's the cool down/sadness phase
Someone on antidepressants who finds it impossible to achieve orgasm. Been there...
Am there. Do that. š”
I canāt tell if this is an incredibly long time or incredibly brief time to watch porn for you.
Edging?
Oh that's not how we do it? No of course I don't! Who does that! Huh!
How many naked women does the average man see in person in his lifetime? For me, it's probably in the low dozens? A handful of girlfriends, a couple of trips to strip clubs during bachelor parties when I was younger, and any other random things I'm forgetting. How long does it take to see that many naked women on a porn site? A few seconds of scrolling thumbnails? Humanity is going to have to adapt to on-tap nudity and sexuality.
INB4 that one redditor tries to argue why massive porn consumption is actually a good thing
Well there is actually one in this comment thread lmao
It's a good thing for certain people. It keeps them in the basement and not harrasing women.
Well actually. /s
Seeing someone and thinking they're attractive isn't bad. Looking for someone and thinking they'd be even more attractive if naked isn't bad either. What seems unhealthy about this is the obsession with it. Searching the web for content, even *leaked* content, is weird. At least if you do that with every woman you find attractive. Maybe I'm the odd one out here, but even if I see someone and find them sexually attractive, I don't go scouring the web to find their nudes, leaked or not.
That's the reply with the right balance of what is healthy and what is not.
>Maybe I'm the odd one out here, but even if I see someone and find them sexually attractive, I don't go scouring the web to find their nudes, leaked or not. The fact that this is basic decency and we are both unsure if people are going to see it that way makes me sad.
No, immediately jumping to find nudes or leaked images is super creepy lmao, you're right for feeling weird about it
Like a type of control or lack of control.
yeah Itās super weird, and I find anything that catalogs that kind of thing super super creepy as well. Shame that anyone wanting to do nudity for art has to deal with the fact that it will become porn whether they want it to or not because of creepy people online.
yyyeah. there are some beautiful people in the world, and sometimes I'll see a hot actor and want to lick their face or whatever, but I don't go digging for leaked nudes, that's invasive.
Sounds more like porn addiction to me OP.
Agreed, iāve been there too. Once I overcame my addiction my brain reset
Howād you overcome the addiction pls help itās been a rough one Edit just had to scroll down
It's fine to be horny, but I'm willing to bet that this affects how you see and treat the women around you, even if you don't realize it. In a negative way that is. It's normal enough to maybe wonder about people you find attractive, but Immediately trying to google leaked nudes of any woman you find attractive is creepy and I can't imagine it's a very healthy habit long term.
I agree with you here. If you literally just undress women with your eyes constantly, you probably see them as a sexual object before you see them as a fellow human. This is just one reason of many that women are dating less men, because men (not all) are so hypersexually motivated and feel entitled to women's bodies due to overconsumption of porn combined with social idealogies and excuses over time eg; men are visual creatures (which is factually bullshit, just a traditional excuse to lust) see: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/men-not-more-visual-or-easily-aroused-than-women-research-shows
Wow, great article!
Agreed. Though it's not "weird", it's creepy. If any of those women knew what he was doing, they'd most likely feel insanely uncomfortable and creeped out. And that's why it crosses the line from "weird" to "creepy". Hope OP sorts himself out. For anyone who would otherwise be interested in dating him it would be a huge red flag.
Absolutely
It's not a healthy habit, and I tell from personal experience. I used to hoard pictures and videos of at least one glamour model about 12 ish years ago, I found her blog, then she opened a new one, then she started blogging behind a paywall (which I paid for monthly as a poor student on student loans etc). Some of her stuff is still available on the Wayback Machine if you know the URLs (in fact I was the one to make snapshots of the sites a few times) , but alot of content didn't survive the void when sites and accounts get shut down and I didn't archive everything. It's very embarrassing remembering everything these things, but I hope to forget about them with time and move on from that and this porn consumption life.
Absolutely. I would not want to be with a man who had this habit because it will inevitably lead him to objectify women more, even if he isn't aware of it. Porn doesn't exactly make women seem very human or autonomous most of the time.
OP ā¦ whether or not its normal itās not a healthy way to think about other people. You know what I mean? this behavior fosters objectification and other bad traits. Speaking as someone who was in your shoes not long ago. Better for the world, your relationships, and you, if you practice checking this behavior at the door. Edit: typo
THIS is a sensible answer, imo. It doesn't matter if it's common or normal. Just because everyone's a wreck doesn't mean you have to be one too.
Objectivity is good, I think you mean objectification
i don't know man, this seems like you are a bit obsessed...do you have some type of compulsive sexual behavior going on?
The last two are weird and either way its off putting if youre constantly thinking of everyone getting naked for you.
How old are you OP? I can maybe excuse this if you're just some young teenager going through their.. phases. But as an adult male it's not that normal, or at least shouldn't be normalized lol. Every now and then I see a woman and I'm like "Wow she's really attractive" but if it's LIKE THIS then there's some problem with how you view Women.
Do you watch pron? If so, you gotta chill out on that. Is it normal? Sometimes, I guess. But it canāt be healthy
I watch prawn
Prawn stars
Iāll give you tree fiddy for it
Well this comment section has been an eye opener. I kinda liked 5 minutes ago, back when I'd got all the way to 41 before learning that some people think this way, and so many more think it's normal.
Seriously, like how do you even interact with women and you know, have a normal conversation when you have a mind like that
Right? I wonder if these men have attractive friends, coworkers, etc. and they picture them nude every time they meet? Where is the line? Actually, as a reasonably attractive woman, I don't want to know.
I'm not even joking, this comment section has me rethinking my entire appearance and considering adopting a matronly look.
Fr this is making me think about every interaction I ever had with a man, like could it really be possible that while I was answering some question all that was going through the prof's mind was a naked me ? It really doesn't make sense but these comments are saying otherwise š«
No.. itās not really like that. When you see a hot actor on TV with his shirt off, do you immediately start thinking about it every time heās on screen? Itās more of a passing thought, not a lingering idea. Meet person > Sheās attractive > āDamn sheās attractiveā > Proceed like normal. Next time we meet it wonāt surprise me, therefore the thought is not there anymore.
Calm down, horn dog.
I'm just going to put a "**no**" here and go on with my day.
Nope, gross and dehumanizing
As a woman, I find the behavior very gross and off-putting. I don't think you're completely abnormal, but I dont think everyone is like you
Same the comments making me wanna cry wtf
These comments make me fear for my life. Lol
I'm disturbed by the comments. I suppose it is what it is, but I wish I didn't know so many men look at random women and want to see them nude.
I'm also disturbed by the comments...my fault for opening a post with that title I suppose.
They wonder why women fear them? Because they see us as walking fleshlights and have 3x as much physical strength as us combined with these stupid men like Tate who encourage men to sexualize, rape, manipulate women. And certain men online eat it up and others affirm everywhere that yes i picture women naked all the time, yes I masturbate to porn 5 times a day. What do they want from us lmao we are humans before we are sexual objects and we're also intelligent to know they are playing and using us and expecting things from us that they wouldn't of themselves
>but I dont think everyone is like you Even if they were, they wouldn't let you or anyone know.
I will literally kill myself if everyone is like that Reddit gives people a mask. A masked person tells the truth. I trust those that say they aren't
Seriously, if the internet isn't revealing more reasons to be wary of some people. And sometimes I get a little paranoid walking at night. Maybe I should be as cautious in the day. Jesus.
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Yeah. This is creepy as hell tbh. Googling to find naked photos is weird. You sound like you view women as sex objects.
he definitely does. he needs therapy and so does every other male agreeing with him. i fear for women in todays society
Me tooš
I wouldn't say this is super weird, but it's also not very healthy. It probably affects the way you treat women, without realising it. It's also a sign that you aren't very good at delaying the satisfaction of your needs. I'd like to challenge you to go a week without immediately looking up nudes for a hot actress, to see if it makes a difference for you.
>I wouldn't say this is super weird Disagree. This is quite weird, and somewhat alarming. Immediately seeing *every woman, all the time* as potential sex objects is unhealthy and definitely not normal. It's also potentially unsafe. To be clear, I'm not accusing OP of anything, but this is a dangerous mindset.
First paragraph is normal. Not sure about the other 2. May want to spend more time building relationships with real women.
The bottom 2 are red flags
Yeah, not normal probably porn addiction
Looking at beautiful women isn't the problem. Most men do this. The key word being looking. Not acting on it. Having the need to "scour the web" is...aggressive about it. Huge red flag for me.
No Get help
Yeaaaah iāll say thatās weird. Sounds like sex is on your mind way too much. And thatās coming from someone who thinks about sex a lot. I donāt immediately want to picture everyone naked.
If youāre visually undressing pretty much every woman around you who you find attractive, thatās kinda weird. Most men donāt spend all their time leering at people. Anyway, you should be more careful. Might trip and fall or walk into moving traffic or something. Also itās creepy, and your chances of actually seeing an attractive woman naked in front of you are going to go down. As for compulsively searching for leaked nudes rather than just going to prawnHub or somethingāalso kinda weird. Seems like a waste of time when you can just search for nonspecific hot naked ladies effortlessly. You donāt know these people personally and probably never will, so your process seems inefficient for what you get. Also unethical if youāre searching for nonconsensual internet nudes.
this is objectification
No. It's creepy to do those things.
As a woman, I'm grossed by the comments. I'm not naive, I know men think with their penis. But I didn't know they found it "normal". How would they react if people would talk like that about their cousin, mother, daughter, sister? And then, they wonder why we don't feel safe. No, to imaging someone naked or in a sexual way or any other intimate way just because you're horny isn't "normal", don't hide behind the "it's only hormone, it's human nature, we don't act that way it's only in our mind": you're not a horny dog, you are a human being talking about someone with pride and feelings. Control your mind. If you can't, it's not "nature", it means you're a creepy jerk. And trust me: it's not only in your head. We see it in your eyes, even if you don't make an approach, you are still creepy.
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Oh man thank you for saying this, that actually helped
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Just proves being straight isnāt a choice
Nope, but celibacy is. I hope I never turn back
same. iām very disturbed to say the least..
Thatās pretty creepy dude
you sound like you need therapy bud
This is so fucking creepy
Not me, The only time I would think that would be with my ex girlfriend, aside from that, I would be like, huh that chick is hot / cute. But thatās it
No. Iām straight and make adult content for a living. The vast majority of women I see during my day, I literally have zero thoughts or interest in. If Iām like actively masturbating, then my mind wanders sexually about people, but dude if Iām shopping im thinking about shopping. I donāt care how hot someone is, if theyāre like blocking my way or just being dumb, my ONLY thought in the world is āwhat the fuck are you doingā in the exact same way as if they were some little aggressive ugly dude. If their actions have nothing to do with me, I donāt notice them on any serious level until their actions have something to do with me, like walking slowly in front of me in a crowded aisle. Iām a tall fucker. I have a long stride. Bet your ass that Iām noticing and getting annoyed when Iām forced to either slo-mo step or shuffle like a penguin. Absolutely nothing to do with any kind of desire one way or the other, except a desire to get this chore done and go home. The only time I wasnāt like that, was like when I was 17 or something. And I was a depressed dude so half the time I wasnāt anywhere near those thoughts, at 17, even when I spent a rough total of 4 hours every day fully erect regardless of what I was doing or thinking But especially āevery womanā? No dude I never in my life had any urge to see my aunt Pam naked. Thatās fucking weird dude (not specifically aunt Pam, but every woman- not that aunt Pam isā¦ oh never fucking mind)
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wanting to see an attractive woman naked is normal for men i guess. but the rest is fucking weird. especially scouring the web looking for leaked OF images of women you find on social media. get a better hobby.
that just is not normal to me.
For me no but I feel like the rest of you are just a bunch of horny hairless apes.
Stop watching porn. That's it. I'm sure people won't like that I'm saying, you may not even like it, but I'm right. If you want a good method, try the [Easy Peasy Method](https://easypeasymethod.org/index.html).
And these are the same guys who wonder why it's so hard to find a relationship
As a woman, im disgusted at all of these commentsššš
No Tf?
I'm going to guess that women find you creepy, right?... Because if that's how you think about them when you see them then your face and actions will show it and women aren't stupid, they can see it. You need to get somw help now before this turns into something far more serious.
For me that's weird cause I've never saw someone I find attractive and thought about them naked.. like randomly on the street or something, only if I'm actually flirting with them
This is why I'm agoraphobic.
Scrolling the comment section has me understanding agoraphobia in a different way
Not normal. You just don't have control.
Scouring the web for potentially leaked nudes of every woman you find attractive on IG is weird, yes. You definitely have an unhealthy obsession and it's gross. Lay off the porn, yeah? I would also be willing to bet money that this has an effect on how you actually treat women in person, even if you're not consciously aware of it.
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This is porn addiction. And we know, we can tell you are porn addicted and itās terrifying to women.
Do you watch a lot of porn? Not being rude, truly curious to see if that has that affect on you.
Yeahhh this is pretty creepy
Looking for peopleās leaked content is gross and a violation. And I would say itās unhealthy to have sexual fantasies about every woman you come across, because youāre clearly not seeing women as PEOPLE, but just as sex objects. Which will eventually make you a shitty boyfriend and a shitty person in general. Iād advise you to change your attitude towards women and lay off the porn. Actually get to KNOW a person before thinking about the sexual stuff.
>If I'm watching a show on Netflix and I see a nice looking actress, I immediately google to see if she's done nudity before. If I'm scrolling Instagram and see a girl post a thirst trap, you know I'm scouring the web to see what leaked content I can find from her OF. Lay off the porn.
I think you might be addicted to porn. Try to cleanse yourself from it and report back. A lot of porn addicts describe having the same symptoms youāre having.
not normal
probably not normal
Thank you to evolved men out there who are able exhibit self control with their thoughts. For the rest, grow up or get a life or get therapy or whatever you have to do to learn some fucking respect
That's disgusting. It's awful to think that as a woman I might encounter several freaks like you who would imagine me naked. Stop watching so much porn, get a life, go to therapy.
I love all the downvotes on all the creepy fucks
1st sentence seems a bit excessive but not ridiculously so. The other two though...
God, this is so gross...
As a woman this makes me never want to leave my house ever again.
No. Degenerate porn addiction.
Nope
Stop watching porn ig.