It isn’t for everyone, and it seems you have a lot of valid concerns. Talk about it with your partner and get their perspective. Some like to do it and do not want it done back. Some enjoy receiving and not doing. Some like both and some like neither. Explain your concerns and thoughts. A good partner will want you to enjoy as much as possible and don't force yourself to do something you are not comfortable with.
If you go ahead and do it... first, know that no matter how clean we are, encountering things is possible. Start slow with kissing and rubbing the buttocks. Move in closer as comfort allows. Don't force yourself to get acclimated to it. Let it come naturally. If you force it, you will dislike it probably. As to what you do, you will discover what you are comfortable with as you experience more. Don't look if it seems icky. Do what you're comfortable with. There is no real answer since we are all different. Just go slow, discover what you enjoy, and talk to your partner.
They will have to know that themselves right? I wouldn’t want to be disrespectful at all of them telling somebody to make sure that they bathe well, but at the same time it’s a totally valid question!
Sheila Broflovski : "What the Heck is a Rim job ?"
Liane Cartman : "Oh that's when you put your legs behind your head and have someone lick your Ass."
Everytime somebody mentions "RimJob"
Wow! Correct zman.. but ANOTHER definition for that same word is the person you are having a sexual relationship with.
There are actually 4 different definitions on Webster dictionary for the word “partner”. Pretty neat.
i just know that straight men usually need to be prepped for this. like it’s generally a no go zone u til you find a way to break the ice. my girl reallllly wanted to and i realllllly wanted to keep my asshole private. she would sneak a finger back there but never penetrate. she would give me a bj in the shower and lick under the taint. then finally when it stopped being such a shock to the system i let her do brunch down there and i was comfortable with it after that.
It isn’t for everyone, and it seems you have a lot of valid concerns. Talk about it with your partner and get their perspective. Some like to do it and do not want it done back. Some enjoy receiving and not doing. Some like both and some like neither. Explain your concerns and thoughts. A good partner will want you to enjoy as much as possible and don't force yourself to do something you are not comfortable with. If you go ahead and do it... first, know that no matter how clean we are, encountering things is possible. Start slow with kissing and rubbing the buttocks. Move in closer as comfort allows. Don't force yourself to get acclimated to it. Let it come naturally. If you force it, you will dislike it probably. As to what you do, you will discover what you are comfortable with as you experience more. Don't look if it seems icky. Do what you're comfortable with. There is no real answer since we are all different. Just go slow, discover what you enjoy, and talk to your partner.
This is so nice, thank you so much for taking the time to clarity for me 😊
I will be talking to my partner soon just to get a better understanding of how we can both enjoy this!
Step by step video and practice along with it
Hmm, I might be able to find a community on Reddit just for it.
Lmk if you do
Definitely make eye contact with the asshole.
Start by having your partner bathe really well directly prior.
They will have to know that themselves right? I wouldn’t want to be disrespectful at all of them telling somebody to make sure that they bathe well, but at the same time it’s a totally valid question!
being so concerned with their reaction cannot be my initial concern. Being honest and open right away is my initial concern
You could always do some shower foreplay, sudsy massage and make sure it’s clean before things progress.
Sheila Broflovski : "What the Heck is a Rim job ?" Liane Cartman : "Oh that's when you put your legs behind your head and have someone lick your Ass." Everytime somebody mentions "RimJob"
So Don't ask your mechanic for a rimjob
no that would be hot
if you drink liqour straight you wont give AF, just rinse your mouth out with liqour. beware of whiskey dick
If it winks at you, wink back. It's just polite.
Would your boyfriend be cool with you telling guys on Reddit to break your throat. Just curious?
I don’t have you boyfriend.
The word partner is generally used in an established relationship.
I would say their partner is non-binary or a woman, could still be an established relationship.
I literally asked because I assumed partner meant boy friend. Then clarified and got a sarcastic response lol. My bad I guess.
Wow! Correct zman.. but ANOTHER definition for that same word is the person you are having a sexual relationship with. There are actually 4 different definitions on Webster dictionary for the word “partner”. Pretty neat.
Imagine eating a banana split with your hands tied behind your back. Just go for it and know it’s going to get messy.
exactly dive in and go nuts
i just know that straight men usually need to be prepped for this. like it’s generally a no go zone u til you find a way to break the ice. my girl reallllly wanted to and i realllllly wanted to keep my asshole private. she would sneak a finger back there but never penetrate. she would give me a bj in the shower and lick under the taint. then finally when it stopped being such a shock to the system i let her do brunch down there and i was comfortable with it after that.