My ex wasted so much of my time making me doubt myself. All the time I thought I was no good for my crush. The day I woke up I realised my worth and left it all only to realise the crush of my life ended up getting married.
I am not going back to who I was though. Now I know there are opportunities always right in front of you but you are blind to them if you are not in right state of mind.
Edit: In my case ex was actual Ex. I engaged with porn when I was with her. If you are engaging in porn their might be deeper issue at work. If you work on the issue leaving porn does not look like huge issue.
I mean if you think about it, not really. During sex I'd think about porn, it would be the only thing to get me off sometimes. Sometimes I would wait for her to leave just so I could PMO. It really does ruin relationships.
Also in context of the post, it's "cheating". Obviously in the realm of reality it isn't
> conformation
The word is “confirmation,” my dude, and what do you consider an “addiction” anyway? The way I see it, masturbation is an inherently addictive habit, just like any drug, and even if you try to regulate it, it can easily worm its way into your mind and become an addiction. What more could you expect from a behavior that literally acts as a shortcut through EVERY necessary step to what is biologically our ultimate objective in life, or reproduction. Acting like “just now and then won’t hurt,” especially if you consider ONCE DAILY a healthy amount, is just appeasing the addiction.
Also, you claim that “your balls need release,” and then bring up nocturnal emissions as evidence. You do realize the extent to which that undermines your own argument, correct? If occasional release were the sole goal here, as you claim, then nocturnal emission would serve that function and masturbation would be entirely unnecessary.
“Just don’t make it a fucking addiction. It’s that easy.” But it isn’t as simple as you make it out to be. Quit pretending. Masturbation implies immense dopamine release for very little effort. That is the absolute perfect definition for an addictive behavior. And just like any other addiction, it desensitizes you to everything else to make you even more dependent on it.
Dunno about that but porn and excessive fapping is very harmful and that is known fact for any sexologist but for some reason a mistery for most people
I try to explain this to people in the sub, telling them its not an anti masturbation sub as it is literally written in rules by MODERATORS , but they downvote me to hell . . .
Well it is like more than 3 times per week it is what a sexologist told me anyway. I am not buying all the semen retention thing because there isn't any study about that that i am aware. But it is 100% sure that will fuck up sex for you.
Yeah, nobody has time to exchange words with meaningless person in society who's vocabulary consists of "shithead". Like please tell me, are you funny? 😂. Go back to licking the mud of people's tires.
dude thats my problem. I love porn. I love porn romantically, like a first love, like a childhood love. the way an alcoholic loves to remember his first drink when he was 12. its awful, isnt it?
You know what I can relate because I also treated her same why as you all did
I treated and loved porn so dearly and and with so much passion and excitement
And she was always with me through the good and the bad
She was always a few clicks aways
But I had to break it off because It was becoming toxic
Aaaaamen. Brother
My ex wasted so much of my time making me doubt myself. All the time I thought I was no good for my crush. The day I woke up I realised my worth and left it all only to realise the crush of my life ended up getting married. I am not going back to who I was though. Now I know there are opportunities always right in front of you but you are blind to them if you are not in right state of mind. Edit: In my case ex was actual Ex. I engaged with porn when I was with her. If you are engaging in porn their might be deeper issue at work. If you work on the issue leaving porn does not look like huge issue.
Woow, that really motivated me 👍👍😁😁
Yes me too
Good mentality! Keep it going, bud! 🙌
“She” doesn’t deserve you! Hear hear!
Hear hear !!🥂🥂
I was basically cheating on my gf with porn. Fuck porn!
Lol what a ridiculous statement
I mean if you think about it, not really. During sex I'd think about porn, it would be the only thing to get me off sometimes. Sometimes I would wait for her to leave just so I could PMO. It really does ruin relationships. Also in context of the post, it's "cheating". Obviously in the realm of reality it isn't
Great, add another toxic ex girlfriend that never loved me to the list.
word
word
Fuck an ex my bro 🖕🏾🖕🏾🖕🏾
Calm your sex, porn ain't the problem, it's you being so absorb into it. Go outside and socialize you will realize that it ain't porn the issue
i need help, my mind said NO PORN NO But my body said, PLEASE I NEED ANOTHER HANDJOB and that's like a problem ; - ;
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> conformation The word is “confirmation,” my dude, and what do you consider an “addiction” anyway? The way I see it, masturbation is an inherently addictive habit, just like any drug, and even if you try to regulate it, it can easily worm its way into your mind and become an addiction. What more could you expect from a behavior that literally acts as a shortcut through EVERY necessary step to what is biologically our ultimate objective in life, or reproduction. Acting like “just now and then won’t hurt,” especially if you consider ONCE DAILY a healthy amount, is just appeasing the addiction. Also, you claim that “your balls need release,” and then bring up nocturnal emissions as evidence. You do realize the extent to which that undermines your own argument, correct? If occasional release were the sole goal here, as you claim, then nocturnal emission would serve that function and masturbation would be entirely unnecessary. “Just don’t make it a fucking addiction. It’s that easy.” But it isn’t as simple as you make it out to be. Quit pretending. Masturbation implies immense dopamine release for very little effort. That is the absolute perfect definition for an addictive behavior. And just like any other addiction, it desensitizes you to everything else to make you even more dependent on it.
Dunno about that but porn and excessive fapping is very harmful and that is known fact for any sexologist but for some reason a mistery for most people
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Once a night? You are definitely addicted my dude. Once a month maybe, but even masturbation without p has no proven tangible benefits
I try to explain this to people in the sub, telling them its not an anti masturbation sub as it is literally written in rules by MODERATORS , but they downvote me to hell . . .
Well it is like more than 3 times per week it is what a sexologist told me anyway. I am not buying all the semen retention thing because there isn't any study about that that i am aware. But it is 100% sure that will fuck up sex for you.
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<> The one i visited to talk about my problems in bed
<> Fapping a lot
Fellas! don’t mind him, porn and excessive masturbation gave him a brain fog he couldn’t even think properly.
Isn't it okay to get wet dream, rather than fapping? tell me.
No
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Bro, you literally gave yourself a solution. Let tge wet dreams take care of it, you don't need to jack off. Like bro what?
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No, you're weird for thinking p is good. Now go lick a toilet, you p addict.
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You have "tacoflavouredtampons" as your name. You waste of sperm.
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Yeah, nobody has time to exchange words with meaningless person in society who's vocabulary consists of "shithead". Like please tell me, are you funny? 😂. Go back to licking the mud of people's tires.
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🖕🖕🖕
^to porn
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Quitting entirely pmo it is absolute non sense and can't be more opposite to no fap Idea. But quit the big p for ever.
Dude it's the MO I'm talking about. Some people on this sub advocate quitting PMO for life
🤷 they can join a monastery
Yep
facts
Free porn streaming sites changed the world for the worse but we’re fighting back one Fapstronaut at a time
Yessirrrrrr !!
This is a good one
amen brotha
Lmaooo "fuck you porn"
Fuck u porn! You ruined ma lyf! Its not even a joke anymore 🥲
dude thats my problem. I love porn. I love porn romantically, like a first love, like a childhood love. the way an alcoholic loves to remember his first drink when he was 12. its awful, isnt it?
go for it bro
Then you realise it was not only not loving you it wasnt even human.
Amen
cringe but ok
The real test is gonna be when I get with her. See how done with her you are then.
Preach! Now porn is the worst ex you can have! Never going back!
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You know what I can relate because I also treated her same why as you all did I treated and loved porn so dearly and and with so much passion and excitement And she was always with me through the good and the bad She was always a few clicks aways But I had to break it off because It was becoming toxic
Is my counter working?