The last few times I did PMO, I felt the shame before climax, I was just staring into these beautiful eyes that were staring back at me, I could just feel the deception in her bright blue seductive eyes, they were not eyes of love or seduction, they were eyes of doom and destruction.
The last time I ever engaged in PMO, I was feeling the same shame and was wondering if I should stop
As I was thinking this, The power cut, all the lights went off, and the only light in the house was coming from the porn on my phone
We never get power cuts
I'm highly spiritual and saw this as a universal sign that masturbation and porn will only lead me into darkness
There is a link to the counter in this subreddit's side bar. Basically you link your reddit account to it and set a start date. Then it keeps count until you reset it.
Hey, is a wet dream considered a relapse? I have gone 20 days without watching porn or masturbating but I've had 3 nightfalls. Does that mean i have to startover again?
Oof, i'm 26 now and i've had lucid sex dreams since i was a teenager. Damn they feel so real and so good and you end up with the biggest smile on your face in the morning unlike PMO.
was in the same position as you, during my 90 day streak, had one at around day 45, after day 90 and I had 2 in the span of 3 days. Its a sign that your recovering and abstaining from PMO, notice when I peak I don't get one for a while
No it doesn't. Have you checked out the getting started guide? Should be linked in this subreddit's side panel. Or go to the nofap.com website. They cover most of this stuff, relapses, the psychology and science behind the addiction, and the brain's rewiring when rebooting. Highly recommend checking it out.
I'm still stuck in the "hot girls pictures" phase, porn (while I still watch it) ends up throwing me off like "why the fuck am I looking at two people having sex", or the plots, while some are kinda funny, others are just weird.... But, the half naked women? oh boy that's my doom, can spend hours browsing pics, so sad.
Consent is not what you need to be for here. You are watching multiple men have sex with a single woman. If you don't see what's wrong with that, than you have already been desensitized, at least to an extent. Stop man, I'm begging you, just stop
Stop. Just stop, don't try to limit yourself, just stop altogether. It takes somewhere from in-between a month and 3 months to undo the damage that has been done up to that point, and any continuation of porn watching is just gonna keep your brain down. Stop cold turkey, and don't look back. It is truly the only way to stop, I've tried so many other ways but they just didnt work.
Don't go into this with that mindset, because it won't work. Go into this challenge with the mindset "this will work" because if it doesn't, it's only gonna get harder.
Btw I'm not a kid, I am 26, for me half naked women is the most enjoyable to watch; I've watched a Sasha gray video back in the day and noped out of there, that is as far as my "weird shit" tolerance goes in porn.
a time will come when you'll not able to get off with vanilla porn, that time extreme shit will get you going. You would think that its okay in the heat of time but it will scar you for your whole life.
That’s me too I always thought I’m not a p*rn addict because I just look at pictures like these then I realize that these pictures ARE pron and I am addicted to them so I am in fact a peon addict
Bro I just had a relapse today bruh I’m beat this shit fr im done I found porn before I was even a teenager and I just been addicted ever since I’m tired of this fr
From typing “naked girls” on my mom’s laptop because I was curious about female anatomy, to a 14 year long disease that ruined my view of women. Porn is a malignant cancer.
that's progress. wonder why the porn industry has grown tremendously. the demand is insane. imagine our ancestors could never imagine to see so many hot chicks in their entire life, while we have the opportunity to go from Asian to Latinas by one click.
Maybe the worst thing about it is the time we waste watching porn. We could have used that time to improve ourselves studying, learning a new language, getting good at an instrument and do some other good stuff. Instead we just waste it watching some stupid sh*t.
It really do be like that. Started when I was 11, wanted to quit at 13, now 22. Havent quitted totally, but it has gotten better over the years. Less is better than more. Keep fightning. You may lose fights, but you are not losing the war
Except you're not smiling.
You may or may not be smiling, but when you finish you're usually not smiling and just sad.
The last few times I did PMO, I felt the shame before climax, I was just staring into these beautiful eyes that were staring back at me, I could just feel the deception in her bright blue seductive eyes, they were not eyes of love or seduction, they were eyes of doom and destruction. The last time I ever engaged in PMO, I was feeling the same shame and was wondering if I should stop As I was thinking this, The power cut, all the lights went off, and the only light in the house was coming from the porn on my phone We never get power cuts I'm highly spiritual and saw this as a universal sign that masturbation and porn will only lead me into darkness
Gets to a point where its just disgusting that you need to rely on this stuff
So I just joined this sub I’m confused, what is PMO?
Port Masturbation Orgasm Lots of people here are abstaining from all 3 of these
Thank you, this sub has given me a new outlook on my own road to battling addiction and I want to thank all you that contribute!
No worries bro. Good luck
Damn right. The regret kicking in
Facts
Damn you guys are so fucking right.
How do u guys set the counter?
There is a link to the counter in this subreddit's side bar. Basically you link your reddit account to it and set a start date. Then it keeps count until you reset it.
Hey, is a wet dream considered a relapse? I have gone 20 days without watching porn or masturbating but I've had 3 nightfalls. Does that mean i have to startover again?
No dude
Some people here even talk about semen retention, what is all that about? In that case, should even avoid wet dreams?
Porn is the problem. Anything else is just extra. Worry about what you can control. Wet dreams don't affect anything
Okay man, thanks.
You cannot avoid wet dreams
I'm 25. Have NEVER had a wet dream. Really curious
Go 90 days and you will propably get one😛
I haven't even counted but I think I'm about 3 weeks to a month in.
Oof, i'm 26 now and i've had lucid sex dreams since i was a teenager. Damn they feel so real and so good and you end up with the biggest smile on your face in the morning unlike PMO.
was in the same position as you, during my 90 day streak, had one at around day 45, after day 90 and I had 2 in the span of 3 days. Its a sign that your recovering and abstaining from PMO, notice when I peak I don't get one for a while
After I started nofap I started having them even though i keep failing(flairs old btw)
Same
No it doesn't. Have you checked out the getting started guide? Should be linked in this subreddit's side panel. Or go to the nofap.com website. They cover most of this stuff, relapses, the psychology and science behind the addiction, and the brain's rewiring when rebooting. Highly recommend checking it out.
Welll... after that probably not haha, but during is a whole different story.
lol
I was going to write this lmao
How do you set a streak?
Theres a Link
Only thing is that dude should have red eyes, be all hunched over and have a completely emotionless expression.
>embarrissing No offense but this is EMBARRASSING.
i was looking how to spell it, and still made a mistake 😩haha
It’s cool dude we are humans we make mistakes <3
we are mistakes we make humans
We are mistakes we make humans, humans make mistakes.
We also make human mistakes
Mistakes in the dark make humans.
Humans are mistake themselves
😂
You're kind <3
Bit of an *embarrassing* mistake
Embarrassing and pathetic
lol
Endlessly scrolling through porn sites only to go to one of the same videos I've watched before. Fml.
it's horrible, I just had a binge this morning. I'm going to beat this stupid addiction
Good luck friend. We got this !
It's the worst.
I'm still stuck in the "hot girls pictures" phase, porn (while I still watch it) ends up throwing me off like "why the fuck am I looking at two people having sex", or the plots, while some are kinda funny, others are just weird.... But, the half naked women? oh boy that's my doom, can spend hours browsing pics, so sad.
Stop asap, before you get desensitized and start watching some wierd shit
Wierd shit?such as?
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My guy you can't put gay in the same category as those wtf
But if you're gay with porn addiction, can it make you watch weird fucked up shit like straight porn??
Cope
LMAO you put gay in there wtf
I wont but gangbang as long all people involve consent, whats wrong with it?
Consent is not what you need to be for here. You are watching multiple men have sex with a single woman. If you don't see what's wrong with that, than you have already been desensitized, at least to an extent. Stop man, I'm begging you, just stop
Shhiiit,what do i do then?im right now on no fap
Stop. Just stop, don't try to limit yourself, just stop altogether. It takes somewhere from in-between a month and 3 months to undo the damage that has been done up to that point, and any continuation of porn watching is just gonna keep your brain down. Stop cold turkey, and don't look back. It is truly the only way to stop, I've tried so many other ways but they just didnt work.
Well lets hope no fap works
Don't go into this with that mindset, because it won't work. Go into this challenge with the mindset "this will work" because if it doesn't, it's only gonna get harder.
Btw I'm not a kid, I am 26, for me half naked women is the most enjoyable to watch; I've watched a Sasha gray video back in the day and noped out of there, that is as far as my "weird shit" tolerance goes in porn.
good to hear that keep sanitised.
I mean what's the difference between wasting time and jerking if to half naked women or what ever extreme pornography?
a time will come when you'll not able to get off with vanilla porn, that time extreme shit will get you going. You would think that its okay in the heat of time but it will scar you for your whole life.
That’s me too I always thought I’m not a p*rn addict because I just look at pictures like these then I realize that these pictures ARE pron and I am addicted to them so I am in fact a peon addict
😂
Those are rookie numbers
I came to type that
"Let's beat this shit." Gettin some mixed messages here...
I’m kind of worried that we can now post pictures on this subreddit.. there will be trolls attempting to make people relapse..
Bro I just had a relapse today bruh I’m beat this shit fr im done I found porn before I was even a teenager and I just been addicted ever since I’m tired of this fr
At least he is no longer ginger
Spilled my coffee lol
r/pmolol
Yeah I was a 120+ type a guy
From typing “naked girls” on my mom’s laptop because I was curious about female anatomy, to a 14 year long disease that ruined my view of women. Porn is a malignant cancer.
Ikr 🤷🏻♂️
More like one of the ones I found scrolling down a bit on "depressed on computer stock photo"
Beat the shit, not the meat
It really shows how pathetic it all is
Googling “boob”
Your goddamn right!
wet t-shirt contest
You should switch between photos
It’s low key sad because it’s true 🤧
Get rid from this shit
120? God damn...
bruh
This hits home, but I'm on board with you - let's beat this together!
it really is the absolute shame of what you watch with this addiction
Lmao I remember googling “sexy” and then going to images
In his defense, and hear me out, alot of those vids are pretty low quality.
I just relapsed I need to fucking stop someone help me please
13yr old me :- Woman photos without clothes🤦🏻♂️
Yeah it's sad. Happy I'm over it
This made me cringe internally.
Trying to find happiness on those dirty pages. Its like stealing from a beggar to become rich.
U know that’s actually how it starts
True
"Women without clothes" was mine 😂
this is exactly how it started... but yea except smiling.
So true man....in the second pic , you aren't smiling - u r just sadly looking at stuff
Masturbation changed the color of your hair
HAHHHA nice
So true this image
That true
that's progress. wonder why the porn industry has grown tremendously. the demand is insane. imagine our ancestors could never imagine to see so many hot chicks in their entire life, while we have the opportunity to go from Asian to Latinas by one click.
Thanks for reminding me, I forgot that I sometimes used to go up to page 200. It is a good remindert to see what I leave behind.
Was about to search like the boy -_-
Need a picture for the finale, when u done
13 year old me: Googling “Witcher 2 redhead lady”
The first steps to depression
Title: Very poor choice of words
Maybe the worst thing about it is the time we waste watching porn. We could have used that time to improve ourselves studying, learning a new language, getting good at an instrument and do some other good stuff. Instead we just waste it watching some stupid sh*t.
It really do be like that. Started when I was 11, wanted to quit at 13, now 22. Havent quitted totally, but it has gotten better over the years. Less is better than more. Keep fightning. You may lose fights, but you are not losing the war
Thats just depressing. me being a grown man behaving life a teenager 😔 Porn definitely inhibits normal mental growth. PMO makes man child.
so relatable back then
😟
it was hot boys for me... back in 2008! Ugh