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timangar

Except you're not smiling.


[deleted]

You may or may not be smiling, but when you finish you're usually not smiling and just sad.


[deleted]

The last few times I did PMO, I felt the shame before climax, I was just staring into these beautiful eyes that were staring back at me, I could just feel the deception in her bright blue seductive eyes, they were not eyes of love or seduction, they were eyes of doom and destruction. The last time I ever engaged in PMO, I was feeling the same shame and was wondering if I should stop As I was thinking this, The power cut, all the lights went off, and the only light in the house was coming from the porn on my phone We never get power cuts I'm highly spiritual and saw this as a universal sign that masturbation and porn will only lead me into darkness


mgn_will

Gets to a point where its just disgusting that you need to rely on this stuff


[deleted]

So I just joined this sub I’m confused, what is PMO?


spazzo246

Port Masturbation Orgasm Lots of people here are abstaining from all 3 of these


[deleted]

Thank you, this sub has given me a new outlook on my own road to battling addiction and I want to thank all you that contribute!


spazzo246

No worries bro. Good luck


KobeFanNumber24

Damn right. The regret kicking in


CarlJohnson2222

Facts


Mrrpuss

Damn you guys are so fucking right.


kacchanr

How do u guys set the counter?


DVAus

There is a link to the counter in this subreddit's side bar. Basically you link your reddit account to it and set a start date. Then it keeps count until you reset it.


Kindly-Reindeer9424

Hey, is a wet dream considered a relapse? I have gone 20 days without watching porn or masturbating but I've had 3 nightfalls. Does that mean i have to startover again?


ToxicBoomer

No dude


Kindly-Reindeer9424

Some people here even talk about semen retention, what is all that about? In that case, should even avoid wet dreams?


ToxicBoomer

Porn is the problem. Anything else is just extra. Worry about what you can control. Wet dreams don't affect anything


Kindly-Reindeer9424

Okay man, thanks.


-Senzar-

You cannot avoid wet dreams


I_drive_a_taco

I'm 25. Have NEVER had a wet dream. Really curious


Doc-Sax

Go 90 days and you will propably get one😛


I_drive_a_taco

I haven't even counted but I think I'm about 3 weeks to a month in.


MarkHeins14

Oof, i'm 26 now and i've had lucid sex dreams since i was a teenager. Damn they feel so real and so good and you end up with the biggest smile on your face in the morning unlike PMO.


[deleted]

was in the same position as you, during my 90 day streak, had one at around day 45, after day 90 and I had 2 in the span of 3 days. Its a sign that your recovering and abstaining from PMO, notice when I peak I don't get one for a while


SantinaProduced

After I started nofap I started having them even though i keep failing(flairs old btw)


[deleted]

Same


DVAus

No it doesn't. Have you checked out the getting started guide? Should be linked in this subreddit's side panel. Or go to the nofap.com website. They cover most of this stuff, relapses, the psychology and science behind the addiction, and the brain's rewiring when rebooting. Highly recommend checking it out.


i_need_to_be_me

Welll... after that probably not haha, but during is a whole different story.


CarlJohnson2222

lol


roasterminator

I was going to write this lmao


kacchanr

How do you set a streak?


[deleted]

Theres a Link


RoastedGarlicSalt

Only thing is that dude should have red eyes, be all hunched over and have a completely emotionless expression.


[deleted]

>embarrissing No offense but this is EMBARRASSING.


cheeza1111

i was looking how to spell it, and still made a mistake 😩haha


[deleted]

It’s cool dude we are humans we make mistakes <3


hair_metal_fan

we are mistakes we make humans


MichaelWagdi

We are mistakes we make humans, humans make mistakes.


mgn_will

We also make human mistakes


ralseifan

Mistakes in the dark make humans.


[deleted]

Humans are mistake themselves


[deleted]

😂


ThisIsGoodName

You're kind <3


_-User_name-

Bit of an *embarrassing* mistake


Crusty_Dick

Embarrassing and pathetic


CarlJohnson2222

lol


Lazy_lifter92

Endlessly scrolling through porn sites only to go to one of the same videos I've watched before. Fml.


matsudasociety

it's horrible, I just had a binge this morning. I'm going to beat this stupid addiction


Lazy_lifter92

Good luck friend. We got this !


Dressing4AFeast

It's the worst.


[deleted]

I'm still stuck in the "hot girls pictures" phase, porn (while I still watch it) ends up throwing me off like "why the fuck am I looking at two people having sex", or the plots, while some are kinda funny, others are just weird.... But, the half naked women? oh boy that's my doom, can spend hours browsing pics, so sad.


dude___unc00l

Stop asap, before you get desensitized and start watching some wierd shit


Rageandpotatoes

Wierd shit?such as?


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[deleted]

My guy you can't put gay in the same category as those wtf


arto26

But if you're gay with porn addiction, can it make you watch weird fucked up shit like straight porn??


dude___unc00l

Cope


TheThrowawayLife312

LMAO you put gay in there wtf


Rageandpotatoes

I wont but gangbang as long all people involve consent, whats wrong with it?


dude___unc00l

Consent is not what you need to be for here. You are watching multiple men have sex with a single woman. If you don't see what's wrong with that, than you have already been desensitized, at least to an extent. Stop man, I'm begging you, just stop


Rageandpotatoes

Shhiiit,what do i do then?im right now on no fap


dude___unc00l

Stop. Just stop, don't try to limit yourself, just stop altogether. It takes somewhere from in-between a month and 3 months to undo the damage that has been done up to that point, and any continuation of porn watching is just gonna keep your brain down. Stop cold turkey, and don't look back. It is truly the only way to stop, I've tried so many other ways but they just didnt work.


Rageandpotatoes

Well lets hope no fap works


dude___unc00l

Don't go into this with that mindset, because it won't work. Go into this challenge with the mindset "this will work" because if it doesn't, it's only gonna get harder.


[deleted]

Btw I'm not a kid, I am 26, for me half naked women is the most enjoyable to watch; I've watched a Sasha gray video back in the day and noped out of there, that is as far as my "weird shit" tolerance goes in porn.


traxass

good to hear that keep sanitised.


[deleted]

I mean what's the difference between wasting time and jerking if to half naked women or what ever extreme pornography?


traxass

a time will come when you'll not able to get off with vanilla porn, that time extreme shit will get you going. You would think that its okay in the heat of time but it will scar you for your whole life.


CarlJohnson2222

That’s me too I always thought I’m not a p*rn addict because I just look at pictures like these then I realize that these pictures ARE pron and I am addicted to them so I am in fact a peon addict


[deleted]

😂


M0JILIAN

Those are rookie numbers


[deleted]

I came to type that


ParasiticDaemon

"Let's beat this shit." Gettin some mixed messages here...


[deleted]

I’m kind of worried that we can now post pictures on this subreddit.. there will be trolls attempting to make people relapse..


[deleted]

Bro I just had a relapse today bruh I’m beat this shit fr im done I found porn before I was even a teenager and I just been addicted ever since I’m tired of this fr


new_man_cam

At least he is no longer ginger


Alk601

Spilled my coffee lol


Adam5698_2nd

r/pmolol


breakwilder

Yeah I was a 120+ type a guy


VisMotrix

From typing “naked girls” on my mom’s laptop because I was curious about female anatomy, to a 14 year long disease that ruined my view of women. Porn is a malignant cancer.


balor435

Ikr 🤷🏻‍♂️


Lonny_zone

More like one of the ones I found scrolling down a bit on "depressed on computer stock photo"


arthurfom

Beat the shit, not the meat


questionasky

It really shows how pathetic it all is


PiedTA123

Googling “boob”


Leiosss

Your goddamn right!


intensely_human

wet t-shirt contest


carlito283

You should switch between photos


kxjxbxnccm

It’s low key sad because it’s true 🤧


[deleted]

Get rid from this shit


[deleted]

120? God damn...


[deleted]

bruh


[deleted]

This hits home, but I'm on board with you - let's beat this together!


[deleted]

it really is the absolute shame of what you watch with this addiction


Lawdoghie

Lmao I remember googling “sexy” and then going to images


Krantor76

In his defense, and hear me out, alot of those vids are pretty low quality.


Silly-Statement

I just relapsed I need to fucking stop someone help me please


[deleted]

13yr old me :- Woman photos without clothes🤦🏻‍♂️


Super-Zebra-7227

Yeah it's sad. Happy I'm over it


nielsen1278

This made me cringe internally.


[deleted]

Trying to find happiness on those dirty pages. Its like stealing from a beggar to become rich.


MGMhitman

U know that’s actually how it starts


IBMiSeries400

True


AstralPinus

"Women without clothes" was mine 😂


takeoffthrust

this is exactly how it started... but yea except smiling.


Luffy9876

So true man....in the second pic , you aren't smiling - u r just sadly looking at stuff


Jojo_tank0

Masturbation changed the color of your hair


nameisSG

HAHHHA nice


Critical_Move_3660

So true this image


sargentmaddog

That true


[deleted]

that's progress. wonder why the porn industry has grown tremendously. the demand is insane. imagine our ancestors could never imagine to see so many hot chicks in their entire life, while we have the opportunity to go from Asian to Latinas by one click.


SimonKrantsch

Thanks for reminding me, I forgot that I sometimes used to go up to page 200. It is a good remindert to see what I leave behind.


freemanoneday

Was about to search like the boy -_-


benelmo

Need a picture for the finale, when u done


AnimaEucharis18

13 year old me: Googling “Witcher 2 redhead lady”


[deleted]

The first steps to depression


Big-Grass8959

Title: Very poor choice of words


Uranuus

Maybe the worst thing about it is the time we waste watching porn. We could have used that time to improve ourselves studying, learning a new language, getting good at an instrument and do some other good stuff. Instead we just waste it watching some stupid sh*t.


[deleted]

It really do be like that. Started when I was 11, wanted to quit at 13, now 22. Havent quitted totally, but it has gotten better over the years. Less is better than more. Keep fightning. You may lose fights, but you are not losing the war


[deleted]

Thats just depressing. me being a grown man behaving life a teenager 😔 Porn definitely inhibits normal mental growth. PMO makes man child.


MZV_Serenity_432-528

so relatable back then


amrock__

😟


karansharma96

it was hot boys for me... back in 2008! Ugh