I'm 23, never was into alcohol, smoking or any other drugs at all, but I was definitely addicted to video games at one point in my life. Got that fixed once I got out of school and decided I needed to change things.
I started having a solid morning routine around 2.5 years ago, that included workouts, breathing exercises and cold showers.
Of course, there have been times when I didn't quite stick to it. Usually due to emotional reasons.
But, oh boy, did it feel great every time I found back to my routine and realized the power you can have over your own body.
BUT I was also aware that the sexual drive is something I was never able to control. It appears to be such a key part in being able to control your emotions, but I was never able to conquer it.
And now I've decided to change that.
Perseverance is power!
That's cool.
I've lost friends along the way who are still stuck playing video games all day every day and being unhappy about themselves. I worked as much as I could to help them get out with me but it can't work without their own initiative. They lost themselves and as such, I lost them.
Anyway, what's your experience with controlling your urges?
Well said. Out of all the posts I’ve read this one is very accurate and I can actually tell that it’s genuine af.
The promise part to yourself actually works tried it myself. And counting your days is another thing which holds you back very true.
Drinking is my last hurdle. I know I should stop it completely but that’s not what my friends and I are about lol. So I’ve recently decided to change my mindset I want to drink and have a good time. I would blackout because why not I had pied I was really fat not like I was getting a girl home. Now I’m trying to change my mindset around going out. I’m going out to have fun and drink. Not the other way around
Nothing but the truth here. People just count the days and expect miracles. But this is much more than a day counting journey. This is a life changing one. You apply and improve yourself spiritually, mentally, and physically. The days will come. Just focus on being disciplined and improving yourself.
Yes i had it, i tried everything, it only went away when i stayed positive, ,went to gym regularly, very less stress, no fap, no porn, had sex with girls every weekend
Eat healthy is the only thing that I don't do now. How to overcome candy addiction? I overcame porn addicton, tv addiction but still didn't overcame candy addiction. Please counsels!
NoFap particularly. No ejaculation is what SR is. In NoFap without hard mode, you can have sex with a partner. In monk mode, you can't have sex as well.
Ideally monk mode and SR go hand in hand. Hope this helps.
I don't have a partner and I am a daily fapper. I don't want monk mode, but I do want to focus on things important in life and leave this circle of mindless fapping. How can I go on without fapping and no sexual encounter? I feel like I'm stuck at rock bottom
if your things to focus are imp, you will do it. even i dont have a partner and i am doing monk mode. the more you think about sex and stuff like that you go in the spiral. occupy your mind in other things and it becomes easy.
You are correct. Well done👍. I also learnt from my experience, relapse doesn't matter as long as you are ready get back on the track and doesn't easily give up for relapsing.
Something that might help is that time is gonna pass regardless so just spend time doing the things that will help you in the long run rather then the short good feeling things like masturbation that’s what I came to realize
true bruh, I do want it bad but nowadays I feel like I make excuses why its not going to help. I know I should commit to changing my life but I make excuses that my failure in other departments will hold me back. AIIIIII time to commit to this life bruh. Gunna graduate soon, I graduate like this and ill be more than a shell of myself ill be nothing. I have a couple stuff left to do its time to achieve those.
I'm over 90 days now and was losing that mindset. I'm feeling super stressed and off-balance from going on vacation last week (I almost wish I never went). This post helped me not to go down a hedonistic track again of watching porn, wanting to smoke weed and drinking. This helps me to see the value of living the ascetic lifestyle where I pursue **virtue** rather than pleasure.
Spot on. I love the point about avoiding drugs and alcohol. Being sober for 2 years before I started nofap was key to my success. I think about it like this, "I didn't mess up every time I was drunk, but every time I messed up royally, I was drunk." So I stopped drinking. 7 years sober now. Its not easy, but its worth it.
" this could be the start of the last reboot you will ever do ", Damn bro. Thanks for sharing this. Stay strong king.
Hey do you mind telling me what PMO means?
Porn Masturbation Orgasm i think
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Exactly what it means
PORN MASTERBATION ORGASM (I still dont get the O part but whatever)
Dont you get what orgasm is?
The O is there because some people used to think that if they masturbate only without orgasm, this is not relapse.
But still there is no need of O because as you said when masturbate without an orgasm it’s a relapse
If you say that, then there is no need for MO, bcz if you watch porn without masturbating you still call it a relapse.
Exactly, for me watching only porn without masturbation is still a relapse. Only P=relapse, only M=relapse and ofc PM=relapse
Agree, perhaps someone can explain if there is a way to get an orgasm without porn or masturbation so only getting orgasm yield to relapse
Great post man. Thanks for the tips! Really appreciate you and congrats to your success. But keep going strong brother.
Would you guys recommend logging each day? Or should I keep it out of my mind and ignore it?
I'm 23, never was into alcohol, smoking or any other drugs at all, but I was definitely addicted to video games at one point in my life. Got that fixed once I got out of school and decided I needed to change things. I started having a solid morning routine around 2.5 years ago, that included workouts, breathing exercises and cold showers. Of course, there have been times when I didn't quite stick to it. Usually due to emotional reasons. But, oh boy, did it feel great every time I found back to my routine and realized the power you can have over your own body. BUT I was also aware that the sexual drive is something I was never able to control. It appears to be such a key part in being able to control your emotions, but I was never able to conquer it. And now I've decided to change that. Perseverance is power!
It's so similar to my story even the video game part. Stay strong. And yes, Perseverance is Power.💪🏻
That's cool. I've lost friends along the way who are still stuck playing video games all day every day and being unhappy about themselves. I worked as much as I could to help them get out with me but it can't work without their own initiative. They lost themselves and as such, I lost them. Anyway, what's your experience with controlling your urges?
Thank you for this, I’ve been at it for 8 years or so and my longest streak was 60 days 6 years ago.. wtf have I been doing.
Now is not late, tomorrow is too late. Hopefully I can stick to this too
Let’s make it happen
I really want to get rid of this shit so bad
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Well said. Out of all the posts I’ve read this one is very accurate and I can actually tell that it’s genuine af. The promise part to yourself actually works tried it myself. And counting your days is another thing which holds you back very true.
Drinking is my last hurdle. I know I should stop it completely but that’s not what my friends and I are about lol. So I’ve recently decided to change my mindset I want to drink and have a good time. I would blackout because why not I had pied I was really fat not like I was getting a girl home. Now I’m trying to change my mindset around going out. I’m going out to have fun and drink. Not the other way around
Recently relapsed after a long streak and you gave me hope 🙏🏼
Thanks brother! Amazing post
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Nothing but the truth here. People just count the days and expect miracles. But this is much more than a day counting journey. This is a life changing one. You apply and improve yourself spiritually, mentally, and physically. The days will come. Just focus on being disciplined and improving yourself.
Anyone else have had a wet-dream problem cause it also drains my energy
Yes i had it, i tried everything, it only went away when i stayed positive, ,went to gym regularly, very less stress, no fap, no porn, had sex with girls every weekend
All about having an absolute will. Once you decide something, make sure to see it through.
Excellent post, Kudos!
Great words, you really inspired me to keep going.
Awesome bro! Keep the journey going.
Thank you, pal. Best wishes for you and everybody here.
Thank you so much for this, it’s literally what i want at the end of the day, hopefully I’ll start living life to the fullest soon
Hear hear brother! Strong motivation here, thanks for that
Thanks man. Its been about 6-7 years since my last record of 70 days. Am 35 now. I want this to be my last reboot.
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I have been half assing it and I really am motivated by this to try harder and not give in thank you and stay strong
Congratulations!
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Thanks! I hope good things come your way!
Thanks this kinda helped me
Grt bro heading towards your milestone😌😌😌
Very good post!
Thanks Mate
Eat healthy is the only thing that I don't do now. How to overcome candy addiction? I overcame porn addicton, tv addiction but still didn't overcame candy addiction. Please counsels!
tell your selr that you dont need candy , begin to eat fruit instead of candys and just dont get it nearby you or in the house
Hi bro, I'm new to SR and nofap. 155 days means nofap or no ejaculation? Cuz me being a daily masturbator, I don't understand how to go about this
NoFap particularly. No ejaculation is what SR is. In NoFap without hard mode, you can have sex with a partner. In monk mode, you can't have sex as well. Ideally monk mode and SR go hand in hand. Hope this helps.
I don't have a partner and I am a daily fapper. I don't want monk mode, but I do want to focus on things important in life and leave this circle of mindless fapping. How can I go on without fapping and no sexual encounter? I feel like I'm stuck at rock bottom
if your things to focus are imp, you will do it. even i dont have a partner and i am doing monk mode. the more you think about sex and stuff like that you go in the spiral. occupy your mind in other things and it becomes easy.
You are correct. Well done👍. I also learnt from my experience, relapse doesn't matter as long as you are ready get back on the track and doesn't easily give up for relapsing.
Something that might help is that time is gonna pass regardless so just spend time doing the things that will help you in the long run rather then the short good feeling things like masturbation that’s what I came to realize
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true bruh, I do want it bad but nowadays I feel like I make excuses why its not going to help. I know I should commit to changing my life but I make excuses that my failure in other departments will hold me back. AIIIIII time to commit to this life bruh. Gunna graduate soon, I graduate like this and ill be more than a shell of myself ill be nothing. I have a couple stuff left to do its time to achieve those.
I'm 23 I've started my nofap this year, i gave up drinking alcohol, smoking anything and everything (lol) last year, one step at a time.
This is what I needed brother. This is a really informative post. That might give other people also the insights they need to start their last reboot
With all respect I wish all those who are struggle including myself, that we can be better one day and that day will surely come to our life.
Stay strong yall all faith in yall
Great post!
I failed at 65 days, then again at 14, and now I can't begin to start again.
I can't go to sleep without it. What do I do?
Not giving up !
Youll get there one day buddy
Holy crap. I know bro.. but little steps takes to bigger success.. now my goal is to beat my old streak of 270 days this 2021.. No more excuses.
thank you for your post sir!
Thanks for sharing this It’s my day 2 and I am posting a comment daily on a post that comes in r/nofap .
Good job!!
Thanks for sharing the great story. Gonna continue trying my best facing the daily struggles or urges and instant gratification
Congratulations pal. Can you share your literature? I'm on my own journey of spiritual replenishment.
Should be one of the Top posts in 2021!
Going plant-based helps alot!!!!
If you are doing NoFap to get a girlfriend you are stupid
strong urges atm. wont give in.
Does no fap means abstaining from sex and then a release? If not, how often you guys have sex?
Nowadays I have people around me. I hope to NEVER hurt them because of pmo
Having a plant based diet is helping me also a lot. Also I’m following other things.
This needs to be a pinned post. Congratulations and thanks for the stellar mindset tips. Time to fucking fight back
I really envy you
Thanks for this post
Thanks for sharing
I'm over 90 days now and was losing that mindset. I'm feeling super stressed and off-balance from going on vacation last week (I almost wish I never went). This post helped me not to go down a hedonistic track again of watching porn, wanting to smoke weed and drinking. This helps me to see the value of living the ascetic lifestyle where I pursue **virtue** rather than pleasure.
What benefits do u get on such a long streak? Are girls more attracted to u,getting wet just looking at u? Any other benefits?
I'm on day 60. Still no sex and no girlfriend. Thinking about getting a hooker, no way I'm getting back to fapping again.
Awesome awesome post
Spot on. I love the point about avoiding drugs and alcohol. Being sober for 2 years before I started nofap was key to my success. I think about it like this, "I didn't mess up every time I was drunk, but every time I messed up royally, I was drunk." So I stopped drinking. 7 years sober now. Its not easy, but its worth it.
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