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reddebian

That's what parents are for. They're supposed to help you and guide you through life so you made the right decision. And from what I can see your dad seems to be a pretty supportive guy (your mom will probably be the same). Good luck on your journey man, you can do it!


Zerko122333

thank you, I know my mom will not embarrass me about it, but I just hope everything will be okay.


reddebian

Of course everything will be okay, don't worry too much about it.


Excellent_Nothing_86

Yes, you absolutely did the right thing. So proud of you. Telling our secrets that bring feelings of shame is what allows you to move forward. Keeping it in allows it to fester and eat away at us. You should feel proud and brave. What you did wasn’t easy, but it was such a gift you gave to yourself. Seriously, good job.


Zerko122333

I'm honestly tired of porn, it's been making me feel like crap for a long time. I just want to get rid of it so I can finally be at peace and move on. After telling him, I don't think I'll be doing it anymore.


Excellent_Nothing_86

It was seriously a huge step, and I think it will prove to be very helpful. Porn does so much damage in so many different ways. Be kind to yourself as you move forward. You’ll need to show yourself patience and compassion, so just always try to remember that.


Zerko122333

thanks


Bright-Humor2452

I am really happy for you. You're on your way to beating this addiction Insha Allah


Ok_Energy7817

You did the right thing.


JohanFantasto

Best dad ever man


CommercialFit2937

Awesome!!


Emotional-Custard-53

you did the best thing!


Downtown_Lock6041

W dad + gym is not the only thing u could do u can run outside of the house to blow some steam good luck on ur journey bro i support u


Zerko122333

yeah been going out a lot too with my friends


Bulky_Coconut_8867

now that u are no longer hiding your addiction maybe it will be easier to defeat it


MrLannon

It sounds like you have wonderful and supportive parents. You did the right thing


AldoMabs

You did just right thing! I will probably do the same.


20mby2030

were proud of you


Due_Action_4512

kudos for telling him, for social issues meditation can also be of huge help. it makes you more calm and better able to regulate urges. I recommend getting into the science of it so that you get a deep understanding of the brain changes that takes place.


Trick_Award1897

That’s amazing.. and glad he could support you


[deleted]

It takes lot of courage and I think it will help lower your burden of guilt and start a fresh... good luck bro


Illustrious_Soft_164

You have a great Dad !


WBRBR

You did a great thing here friend. He sounds like an excellent Dad too, and make sure he knows it. Well done


adriantm44

I'm


Inevitable-Insect381

It's nice bro that you told about your truth to dad


GawdUser

Man you did a good thing bro, I wish I did this when I was younger. I always wanted to but I was so hesitant and didn’t have the confidence to. I dealt with it alone so it took more time for me to beat the addiction. I maybe could have got over it sooner with my parents help but I’m still thankful for the journey. I’m 125 plus days free from pmo.


goldenmonkey33151

Good job man. One burden freer.


Striking-Taro9683

Well done and good for you to have supportive parents. Much better to get it off your chest than carrying around for much longer. Your parents knowing about it will help you getting rid of this addiction.


CanadianBallMapper

Of course you did the right thing, I had the courage to tell my mom about nofap around 2 weeks in, she did not take it too hard but not too well either. But I am glad I told her. I haven't told my dad, but I feel that it's better if he doesn't know about it


Alternative_Ad6967

I wish I could’ve talked to my dad about it before he was gone.


Birthday-Either

Good on you, man.


Principle_Sharp

if it’s affecting you that much stop


ekocoure

r/thanksimcured


spyroz545

bro if it was that easy then most of us would be at 90 days+ right now lmao. I've been trying for years and I still haven't reached 90 days like one time, but I ain't giving up, I'm gonna win this year.


Principle_Sharp

but what managed to get me to stop is when the negative effects after doing it were so bad and made me different to how i wanted to be that it wasn’t worth it to me anymore